TV/Movies › Re: Thread For Anime Lovers (NO HENTAI PLEASE) by Dathypebruv(m): 6:39pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
Dathypebruv: Aswearr, I've never liked reading manga or manwha until I fell across solo leveling and.... God of high school !!! |
TV/Movies › Re: Thread For Anime Lovers (NO HENTAI PLEASE) by Dathypebruv(m): 3:52pm On Jul 07, 2022 |
lexrichy: Am reading solo leveling, so delicious  Aswearr, I've never liked reading manga or manwha until I fell across solo leveling and.... |
Education › Re: Visiting Day: Long List Of Demands A Boarding School Student Sent To His Family by Dathypebruv(m): 9:24am On Jul 07, 2022 |
Reinamaria: If I were his mum, I'd take him home after seeing that list. He misses home so much.
The please buy what you can buy... got me laughing. You're right, I can relate  |
Literature › Re: OBSESSION: Tammy’s Memoir Pt.6 (18+) by Dathypebruv(m): 8:35am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Haynnie: You want all of them on one thread ni. I know  1 Like |
Literature › Re: OBSESSION: Tammy’s Memoir Pt.6 (18+) by Dathypebruv(m): 12:05am On Jul 02, 2022 |
Nice update, another new thread  2 Likes |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Manchester United Fan Thread:''20 Times EPL Champion by Dathypebruv(m): 8:37pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Oasis007:

.... and the fuckin works begin. Mehnnn, shola shoretire has really bulked up... I'm seeing glimpses of greenwood in him, I miss Mason though |
Literature › Re: OBSSESSION: Tammy’s Memoir Pt.4 (18+) by Dathypebruv(m): 4:57pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Goan check how it's done in the literature section 2 Likes |
Literature › Re: OBSSESSION: Tammy’s Memoir Pt.4 (18+) by Dathypebruv(m): 4:56pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Haynnie: All update has been on this thread oh bruh Arrrgghh, you nor dey understand me op Don't worry lemme nor stress you again 2 Likes |
Literature › Re: OBSSESSION: Tammy’s Memoir Pt.4 (18+) by Dathypebruv(m): 9:27pm On Jun 26, 2022 |
Haynnie: Where did you read it last? This new update on this new thread 1 Like |
Literature › Re: OBSSESSION: Tammy’s Memoir Pt.4 (18+) by Dathypebruv(m): 9:52pm On Jun 25, 2022 |
Haynnie: Boss they are in one thread Nope you keep opening a new tread for a new update Everytime can't you just compile and post updates under one thread 2 Likes |
Literature › Re: OBSSESSION: Tammy’s Memoir Pt.4 (18+) by Dathypebruv(m): 12:48am On Jun 25, 2022 |
Haynnie: Btw, I've dropped a new episode. You can kindly go and check it out. Thanks! Nice update op... But why post different thread for one story, can't you just post all updates under one thread  2 Likes |
Business › Re: Become A Profitable Forex Trader With 8 To 4 Job. by Dathypebruv(m): 8:15pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
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Business › Re: Deriv Trading Alert 2022 by Dathypebruv(m): 8:01pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
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Business › Re: Synthetics Traders Thread. by Dathypebruv(m): 7:58pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
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@Kaesyrn |
TV/Movies › Re: Thread For Anime Lovers (NO HENTAI PLEASE) by Dathypebruv(m): 12:44pm On May 21, 2022 |
nani667: °°° Arya's memes are ridiculous  |
TV/Movies › Re: Thread For Anime Lovers (NO HENTAI PLEASE) by Dathypebruv(m): 1:27pm On May 20, 2022 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Thread For Anime Lovers (NO HENTAI PLEASE) by Dathypebruv(m): 4:43pm On Apr 15, 2022 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Thread For Anime Lovers (NO HENTAI PLEASE) by Dathypebruv(m): 9:11am On Apr 11, 2022 |
zyro: Also in warri also, I have over 30 anime on my hard disk including one piece from 1 to 1000 Any body in need can notify me N/B: It's free Oya naw pm me make we arrange |
TV/Movies › Re: Thread For Anime Lovers (NO HENTAI PLEASE) by Dathypebruv(m): 8:11am On Apr 07, 2022 |
jahson19: Anybody in warri with load of anime I could collect? I can pay if you want. I've got some we could swap, just pm me... |
Celebrities › Re: Olamide Celebrates His 33rd Birthday Today by Dathypebruv(m): 8:02am On Mar 15, 2022 |
Badoo sneh |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nairaland Fantasy Premier League 2021/22 by Dathypebruv(m): 3:37pm On Feb 19, 2022 |
timbros: TAA and Robertson not in the squad 
I have both.  Wahala for person wey kon use triple cap �
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Food › Re: Cook In Your Kitchen, Take Pictures And Post It Here. SIMPLE! by Dathypebruv(m): 12:49pm On Jan 20, 2022 |
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Romance › Re: Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(op): 9:59am On Dec 30, 2021*. Modified: 12:07pm On Dec 31, 2021 |
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Romance › Something Toxic Just Entered Me ! by Dathypebruv(op): 9:53am On Dec 30, 2021 |
Something happened in this December that shook my entire being.
We have this guy that has been barbing my son's hair for over a year now. He does home service for us. But this particular weekend, he could not come. He said he was extra busy and if the barbing was that expedient, I should bring Simon to his shop. I didn't have any other alternative, so we went. He was busy when I got there, two more people were on queue as well, so I had to drop my son with his aunt there.
When I got back there to pick them up, I could not recognise my son. He had given him a new look. He barbed off the whole hair. The whole effing hair. I was stunned, no angry...No I was mad. Is mad even the right word? I was on the loose. Both vocally and facially. This is the same guy that has been barbing my boy for years. How could he have forgotten his trademark cut. The punk style (I'm not sure I know what the name is though). But that style that they'll leave a lil bit in front with a parting slant in between. I was enraged. I told him he was stupid and blind. I called him idiot. He told me he has forgotten his hairdo or so. I didn't even bother to listen to his explanation. I threw the money on the floor and left.
All through my drive home, I was still bitter at him. I kept cussing him beneath my breadth. Simon, obviously unaware of the whole situation was playing and having so much fun. He couldn't care less. When I got home, my spirit was troubled. I knew I had over-reacted. Is it not hair? Ordinary hair that will grow back within days. So I'm gonna trade this relationship because of hair? I told myself I just have to call him. I have to apologize.
And so I did. He was surprised. He pleaded with me on the phone. That his mind was elsewhere. And I shouldn't be angry. I was still fuming but I just had to accept the apology. Even if I rain fire and brimstone, the hair wouldn't glue itself back. He promised coming to my house the next day, Sunday to shapen the front. I didn't allow him do all that at his shop cos madness wouldn't let me be. I told him I was deeply sorry too. For letting out too much unecessary steam. For the abusive words. We ended the convo with laughter and my spirit became lighter.
Sunday came and we waited for him at the time he was supposed to come. I called his number and it kept ringing. Hours passed and it was still the same. I was already thinking, 'this people have come again'. After a while, I decided to take my son to his shop. If Mohammed cannot go to mountain, at least let mountain go to Mohammed. We got there and it was locked. 'No wahala' I thought. His house is just a stone throw to his shop. We arrived the house and we saw people wailing. 'What could have happened', I wondered to myself as I alighted from my car.
On getting there, I got one of the most shocking news of my life. This guy has passed away. This same guy gangan. Our barber. The one I saw yesterday. The one that was seemingly hale and hearty. I was told he died on his way to the theatre. He had been battling kidney problems. He has been managing his health. He told no one except his siblings. It became severe on Saturday evening and he had to be rushed to the hospital. My tears became uncontrollable. I felt so much pity for his aged mum. I was mad at myself. So he was sick, that yesterday. He has been sick...Ohmaigod! Even though I had mended my wrong, I was still frigging mad at myself. I cried and cried. A young nice guy, cut at his prime.
I got a lot of lessons from this experience.
●Be slow to anger, even when you have every reasons to ●Give people the opportunity to express themselves, even if you are convinced they'll talk trash. There might just be a lil sense in their explanations. ●React less when you are hurting. You never can tell the deep shit the other party is going through. ●Be empathic. Be sympathetic ●Learn to let go of things that cannot be changed ●Say sorry even though you are at the receiving end. It doesn't make you less of what you are. It only shows you value the relationship more than your ego. ●Forgive that person even though you are deeply hurt. ●Forgive again. ●Las las, forgive.
Make that call today, apologize, say you are sorry, let go. I know you are still grieving about the hurt, the betrayals. If the altercation is beyond saying sorry, if the wound is deep and can't be in any way covered, if the friendship can't be in any way re-ignited, just let go of it in your heart.
It's very much possible!
DECLOGG YOUR HEART OF UNECESSARY TOXIC FEELINGS!
Bury it with 2021.
Wishing us all a triumphant and bitter-free entry into 2022.
I'm glad I made that call. |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Offical Bayern Munich Fan Thread: 6x Champions Of Europe by Dathypebruv(m): 11:43pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
 raumdeuter: The year is running to an end. In all this has been a good year for me
With its own challenges. Health, financial, personal, At the end it turned out to be a great year actually one of the best ones ever. I have had cause to be thankful and looking forward to a better 2022
I also reached a landmark age some months back
In the spirit of the season, I will be doing giveaway to 10 users who are active on the sports(European football) section. The first 10 users to send an email to wraumdeuter@gmail.com will get a small amount from me between now and end of the year
When sending the email, include your name, bank details, moniker and club you support. Your NL account must be older than 3months and actively posting (This is to prevent people creating sock accounts or using multiple backup accounts)
If you feel comfortable with recharge card or phone data load instead of Bank account(for privacy and security reasons) I no wan hear say na ramdeuter wey you give account number make your money miss, you can put your phone number
For fun factor, you must wish Bayern Munich wins the CL for the next 3 seasons while placing a powerful curse on your team to remain trophyless IN CAPITAL LETTERS. If you want your recharge quicker increase the intensity and hotness of your curse on your club and coach Best response gets priority 
I have multiple babalawos on standby courtesy of ebukacute and segedinho to sanction this 
Also to celebrate Chelsea's dropped point.
Note Its only for those based in Nigeria o. Cos na very small amount only for 3 bottles of beer, 1 Origin and 1 pack of Benson. Change fit remain for short time if you enter better rugged lungu |
Family › Re: Merry Christmas Nairalanders by Dathypebruv(m): 7:29am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Wishing you the best this Yuletide season to enjoy and cherish with friends and loved ones, MERRY CHRISTMAS � AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR �
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Official Chelsea Fan Thread: Club World Cup Champions 2025-2029 by Dathypebruv(m): 8:37pm On Dec 08, 2021 |
What a goal  You love to see it |
Literature › Re: Miss "Koi Koi" A Myth Or Legend?? by Dathypebruv(m): 11:19am On Dec 05, 2021 |
@leetylee tag mods 2 Likes |
Phones › Re: Airtel: What Kind Of Scam Is This? by Dathypebruv(m): 6:47pm On Dec 03, 2021 |
leetylee: Airtel is shit now  Many a times they scammed me... Night sub is an outrageous deal, 1gb for a night you can't exceed that limit, worse of all they don't roll over. Monthly and daily subscription is just a bone in the butt hole... I need my darling MTN back  You nor well, so na MTN better pass ? Ode go buy Glo SIM and enjoy data |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Nairaland Fantasy Premier League 2021/22 by Dathypebruv(m): 11:51am On Dec 03, 2021 |
raumdeuter: Can Ororo save my gameweek Well he has... |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Dathypebruv(m): 11:30am On Dec 01, 2021 |
leetylee: So last night I ran another test (different girl) as usual the pleasantries follows and small jokes, I was busy thinking of a made up story and boom! I came up with one. Mind you, we talked last week and I told her another made up story concerning a girl who gave me her number and wants me to call her so we can meet somewhere and that story has made her raised her guard a bit (she already told me she has feelings for me that I shouldn't play funny ), that aside back to last night I had to continue from there, I told her I saw that girl (the fictional character) on the road and pretended like I didn't see her she was the one who called me and I acted surprised. I told this girl (the one listening to my story) that she was mad at me for not calling her and I totally forgot about her and it wasn't fair. I was careful enough to shape the story to make it look like this fictional character was desperate for my attention, after I ended the story she was like "I have something to tell you" I let her go on, she started telling me bout one guy that has been stalking her bout 3years ago when she was under '18' and the guy finally had the chance to meet her this year and it was by chance based on the fact that she was in her mother's shop and the guy came to get something and he recognised her. Long story short they exchanged numbers chatted on WhatsApp and the guy sent her invitation to his birthday party which she declined politely, the guy met her again in her mother's shop and started chastising her for not attending his party and he feels hurt, he started raining abuse on her saying she's rude and all then he left. She hasn't deleted his number and I don't know what is going behind scene which isn't my problem. Now one thing I'm concerned about now is she isn't exposed to the world but I doubt she know somethings and trying to play dumb based on some convo we've shared in the past and as things go by, maybe she might start wanting to explore since she's in school and little by little she might get what she's looking for in the outer world, the way she talks with me on the phone at school is different from the way she talks with me at home and we all know the factor for this little changes. My observation is girls who aren't exposed her good case study on how female phase with their environment and natural instinct there's still more to unfold I'll keep y'all posted. Omooo this your story sha long Try to Dey give spacing make we for understand am wella |
Phones › Re: Best Games To Download For Your Android Device by Dathypebruv(m): 6:28pm On Nov 22, 2021 |
leetylee: Who has played frag 21' Lol memories... Me and ToNnex mount this game that yeat |