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oloyede252:
you keep saying what her family did to her.is it the dead father,the sick mother or her siblings.you all keep assuming the family did her bad.what if that not the case.once again have a positive mindset,not every family is wicked.
You also said dont judge but you pointed out that family are wicked,that they did something to her.nd you're telling me nt to judge

And mind you I never said d family were wicked please read wat I wrote again.

oloyede252:
you keep saying what her family did to her.is it the dead father,the sick mother or her siblings.you all keep assuming the family did her bad.what if that not the case.once again have a positive mindset,not every family is wicked.
You also said dont judge but you pointed out that family are wicked,that they did something to her.nd you're telling me nt to judge

You're saying positive mindset, what if the family were harsh to her? People will always paint their own story to garner sympathy that's why they say there are always 2sides to a story. I'm talking from experience my family dat did terrible things to me yet I decided to take care of them after trying to let them see d bad tinz dey did to me, little did I know I even worsened d situation. After dishing out up to 300k I decided to pause for a while and save somethings for myself too...they went ahead and told my relatives abroad I had abandoned them and was giving silly excuses for not helping them, during that time I got into trouble at work and became broke and decided to ask family abroad to even lend not dash me money they started telling me how I abandoned my siblings and didn't send ANYTHING home. Since den I've sworn never to send ANYTHING home cos I was at the point of starvation and my family members abroad told me I should learn the hard way over something I was innocent about. Tell me if I should give a fvck about such siblings. And my other brother working rarely sends money home yet they love him and speak good about him. What you need to know is there are usually favorites in d family setting and ds sister obviously wasn't d favorite hence d reason she's prolly behaving d way she is. Once again never judge people until you've walked in dr shoes. From my experience I will NEVER blame ds sister until I've heard ner side of the story. Someone like me is in a better position to listen to these 2sisters cos family can actually be more terrible dan outsiders.

oloyede252:
so in the case of the od.where the mother is sick,father is dead,two siblings are in uni.one is working to help the family while the other is not.oya what is wicked in this.the only wickedness is you people given excuse for abandoning her family.one even wrote maybe she was raped.like seriously.is it the mother or her siblings in uni that raped her or her dead father.if your family is wicked that doestn't mean everyother family is.

Has she told you what her family did to her...you may my family is wicked but my experience has thought me not to judge people in ds type of situation. If you came from a good, loving and understanding family doesn't mean everyone else did so learn not to judge people until you've walked in their shoes.

Brugge:
I hope this coming generation will learn from the mistake of the past. I have traveled around (Thanks to God for His blessings) I have come to understand that in the West parents work hard to guarantee their future and that of their kids. Unlike in our country where people stop short of guaranteeing their future by starting a family hoping and believing that their kids will be under obligation to handle their (parents) financial situations in the future.

Do not see your children as an investment, rather parents should treat their children as human that should leave and freely work to take care of themselves in the future without the parents placing unnecessary expectations on them.

I have seen people whose career are barely off the ground, rushing into starting family, because they want to please society and at the same time they believe they will channel all their energy ( income which is barely enough) into their kids as an investment. There are a lot of issues that comes with seeing your kids as an investment- with the hope that the elder one will raise the younger ones and eventual take care of the parents.

To the young generation and to -be parents please stop putting your children through such psychological torture, moreover you did not consult any of the kids before embarking on such 'ventures' neither did any of those kids signed an agreement with you.

Please parents shoulder your responsibilities and stop mortgaging your children future, just because you don't want to be left out of the 'I am married' crew or the ' I got married early' crew.


As a side note, I used to laugh when I see people ranting on how much they love their parents because of the sacrifice their parents made to raise them. Yes it is true that your parents could choose not to raise you but at the same time it is their responsibility- a responsibility they willing took upon, most times even when it is obvious that they are not up for it financially or emotionally, to raise you. So I see nothing special in it, just parents taking care of their 'mess'.

Lols @"mess" nice one there.

kodded:
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This happened 4years ago so it is your fault, Change agent just came to the rescue.

Which kain head you carry come ds life sef? you sure sey nah goodluck so?

baby124:
Don't mind them, it's their expectation of her that is a curse to them. You get a job and suddenly the whole family demands that you feed them. Even the senior ones that should know better, and should be out hustling. They waste their youth and start claiming right. While some people go through hell to see themselves out of poverty.

You can imagine even someone wey never get enough money go marry and born pikin. he was even telling me I should borrow him money cos he needs to buy land and didn't even care wen I told him me sef never buy land. if people know how selfish most siblings are we won't be here criticizing ds lady. seek out for yourself first cos if you ruin yourself finish deyll wash dr hands off your case. talking from experience I just can't start counting. Most outsiders are actually better dan family members.

david22uu:
Where is you source from

abokifx.com

Alfred234:
I heard Alicia Keys A.K.A Sky Summer is a transgender on Empire so no UN-GAYING Jamal

Funny tin is I thought of this b4 I even saw what you wrote here cos she kinda looks transsexual to me. She has ds masculine facial beauty in my opinion.

Mickyboiz:
hmm Gud point, mk I chill till it rise to 270

Dollar fell today to 237 for aboki to buy from you and 239 for aboki to sell to you .

drnoel:
falls out of sit and cries for Nigeria

Sai chanters gradually becoming d wailers.

Ginaz:
Something is eating her deeply, may be something that happened to her, a bad memory or experience. Except she makes it known to everybody, she won't change.

people will offend you and instead of feeling penitence & apologizing they will behave as if they did nothing wrong and stick to it till it gets too late. then they start begging for help. dat sister may never help dat family honestly cos I'm also in d same situation right now, , I've decided not to help anyone in d house till they apologise WHEN they don't need my help not WHEN they need it as dat to me is a sign of true penitence.

Burger01:
I don't fly Arik... I loathe that airline. Their service na shiit. They are NEVER prompt in anything

So which airline do you fly?

Mickyboiz:
bro ar u using it to do business, is it lucrative?? abegi cn u gist me more Hw to go abt it I av $300 wit me

lol @ business. personal reasons bro.

I dunno how to help you oh except you enter kano.

kaycodes:
Abeg where that one dey.... Am getting an offer for 234 and you're asking if its a good deal?

In Kano state. I just sold my dollar to my aboo.ki a total of 4350dollars at d rate of 238 to a dollar.

Patiently waiting for dollar to fall now so I can buy back.

lanre2009:
Its 239 today. Just confirmed from abokifx.com

I just sold my dollar to my aboo.ki a total of 4350dollars at rate of 238 to a dollar.

Patiently waiting for dollar to fall now so I can buy back.

DTOBS:
maybe,but she is not correct all the same because NYSC has said it categorically that next year is gonna have 3batches and batch A tentatively will be between Feb/mar...

I thought what I heard was dat there'll be 3batches next year tentatively with d first batch starting by feb/march if d 3batches comes through

DTOBS:
Yea there is pre orientation on NYSC website but it always come after the orientation program of a certain batch and before the orientation of the next batch. So in summary,the lady can not be correct because batch B'15 hasn't finish their orientation course as the stream II just enter camp yesterday for inec to release such statement.
cc:greatestman

she may have heard about d pre-orientation during d begining of d timetable for dr batch dats around july 2015.

lanre2009:
As at yesterday it was 234 naira to 1 dollar......Alade market Ikeja

My Aboki wants to buy my dollar for 238 naira...is it a good deal?

Infinitikoncept:
Your mallam one scam you be that. Is it in 50S or 100S?

How much hin suppose change am b4?

greatestman:
One Lady from Facebook said, their will be only 2 batches next year that she heard from NYSC officials from NYSC pre- orientation.
I keep wondering if this lady is existing in another Nigeria or maybe she is suffering from Malaria. It is possible to have two batches next year but that pre- orientation she mentioned make me not to believe her at all.

Lol @ malaria, there is actually pre-orientation in d nysc timetable so she may be right afterall.

Armynu:
Who are these guest(s) that are never tired of ghost mode.... Its Golden City not Guest City....
Day don break make una wake. *Ringing Timaya's Bell*
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And every other moniker not mentioned.
Wake up. #Gbagan

Please don't wake me till d timetable comes out.

Infinitikoncept:
Just keep your dollar till December middle because it will keep skyrocketing

Will it come down after mid-December? I doubt it will come down again ds year cos festive season is around d corner and most people will wanna purchase lots of things both locally and abroad hence driving up d value of the dollar.

Don't you think it's better I change it now back to naira and den rechange back wen it falls back like 1st quarter of next year. I really don't need d money for anything right now.

Rossikk:
You need therapy.

You need to shut up.

I have a feeling timetable for batch A 2016 will be released ds December as it's like ds present batch was released 4months prior to November i.e July. I may be wrong sha.

kaycodes:
Yes oh

I heared the street value is now 241 to a dollar.

Anyone who wants to buy $ 600 can holla me here. GTB only, please I prefer people in PH.

Thanks.

so how much are you willing to sell?

johndanny:
then i suggest you go for NYSC and get your certificate so that you can give full attention to your business perhaps a mouth watering job may come along the line.. Get ur papers first cos its paramount.. Cheers!

one needs d money to start d business and d jobs even d nysc certificate is currently offering is nothing compared to what I'm getting now in my 3 different jobs. I also won't have d time to continue such jobs during nysc hence I need to chill and make enough money b4 going for nysc during which I'll start a business dat will be overseen by people hence keeping d money flowing. winks

free2ryhme:
sometimes I wonder if the whites are more patriotic to the African cause than Africans themselves

Sometimes I'm tempted to believe God created d black man to be ruled over and colonized....I won't be wrong if only black men evolved from Apes.

johndanny:
gather your cash first you will need it after service but am afraid there may be a possibility/vacancy that requires your certificate.. You gat to consider that too

All d job offers I'm getting now requires d certificate but dr salary can't stand wat I'm making in my current jobs. I just need d certificate to move forward in my career but I won't lie I'm making cool cash working 3jobs presently. I wanna start up a drinking bar business when I go for NYSC cos d money comes first to me. The money helps me get more money. You dig?

So what do you think?

johndanny:
Still waiting patiently for the Time Table to show face

Contemplating on following this next batch or waiting till July or even November cos I'm making some cool cash where I am oh.

I make quarter a million per month in my business. Advise me man.

dabriggs:
AMMEEEEEEEEEEEEEEENNNNNNNNNNNN!

Please if this oil glut and drop on dollar value per barrel of crude will make us sit up and find the use for crude then let is crash to 50 kobo. Not cents sef. Kobo.

If this drop will make us sit up, dictating the value to be created from a barrel of crude and seeing the opportunity of competing, using location advantage, to supply Africa (especially West Africa), then let is be so.

If this crash will make us focus on other areas of the economy as income/revenue earners. Then let oil become useless.

If this crash and glut will make politics less interesting because of free crude oil money to be stolen and embezzled, then God please crash it further. Let there be no more money to steal and let only those who are interested in true service get into leadership and politics.

I am in France and to me these guys only produce Nuclear Power and some fresh farm stuff, however, these guys have developed so far that, it pains me when I remember that I am coming back to a country where nothing works. You see these guys toil day and night to keep their city clean and functioning. And we go there and pose for selfies. I sit in their parks and wonder about Nigeria and why the black race is cursed. Why we cannot achieve anything if the white man does not get involved or if we do not get help from the white man. Why we can hardly think about collective good, but greedily steal and steal and steal and embezzle. Then we cry that we have cancer and we want to see T.B. Joshua.

If this fall in demand, and glut in crude stock will make state governors focus on minerals within their states and promote the local utilization of these natural resources for the common good of their citizens, then let the price of crude crash forever. Because I am tired of States only using TAXES and FEDERAL ALLOCATIONS, being lazy to even think of how to generate revenue which will not cause distress for the common man. All they know are taxes, charges, fees and allocations.

Na just mouth you get, if shittt hits d fan now na you go first run.

CyberWolf:
As long as we keep practicing this system of government, we will continue to move in the negative direction. True federalism is the answer but we know the parasitic region that is always against it..

Please what is Federalism?