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Life no balance, for this side she is considered pretty, but for that side na regular woman with little appeal hence the reason why she had to go to this length as if this convict is the only man in her vicinity, people no really send her there as pretty as she looks, na why when they find a Nigerian man there who approached them it feels like they hit jackpot.

In a state where 80% of the population are struggling to feed, people will say they were stinkingly rich before becoming governor's sons, shey na them rich abi na thier family rich? Which company these guys own and whats thier source of income to be able to afford the cars, its only nigeria you'll see the oppressed fighting you for fighting the oppressors so they can love thier chains and enjoy the oppression, I'd rather not speak up for them, they're thier own enemy.

Yea, i have met your type so many times, they'll starve themselves of every good thing in life mo matter how rich they get, na your type dey hoard money sotey you kpai leave am, why do you make money in the first place? Is it not to finance your life and make it easy to live? Then whats the point if you don't use that money to make your life easier, you hoard it, you age every day and that money sitting in the account isn't doing any good, hoarding it hasn't made you dangote either, I can't live like a sleazy weasel while there's money in my account, i hustle to be able to afford a descent life, and life is for the living, not deprive myself until i die leaving it to someone who didn't work for it to enjoy simply because I'm super stingy.

ManLikeL:
There is no discrimination anywhere brother. I just wanted to maintain balance so people would understand where I'm coming from.
I have an aunt who remained unmarried till today because the one serious relationship she was in for long ended because the man was AS while she's AS too. They were so in love that they left what should have been discussed at first for later. The relationship crashed and she didn't recover from it till today.
Growing up hearing her story even as a kid has kind of implanted that consciousness in our respective minds.
You can't blame me for being conscious.

So much pity and condescension in your post, She's human too you know? Immediately you realized her genotype your tune became something else as if people who suffer from this condition aren't humans too, she has no control over it as you're well aware, she lied about it because she's used to people disregarding all her other qualities because of her genotype, imagine being handsome or beautiful, intelligent, kind, social etc but you have this condition, the moment people discover it, everything you're about, all your qualities, your identity get reduced to just one thing, your genotype, and thats the only thing they think about when they see you and everything else that makes up a person is disregarded, you'd do the same in her shoes, and have you stopped to think that she's afraid of loosing you thats why she lied? Don't waste her time, they don't handle stress and emotional trauma well, tell her you have doubts because of one irrelevant stuff and let her go, no come use the fact that she doesn't have alot of options due to her status to take advantage of her and leave, secondly don't go into it because of pity, you'll leave when it gets tough because everything you're yapping about rn is superficial, real talk, if excluding her genotype which many people with SS are insecure about is such a big deal you had to come online because of it, when the crisis they suffer hits it'll be a bigger deal, plus your obsession with this her virginity, you give off the impression that you wan chop clean mouth, considering what is up with her the virginity might be one of the good things going on for her, don't take that from her, leave her intact as you met her, because people with her condition will give anything to have someone stay, and i know you won't stay for it because all this your talk na initial BS, so let her go and don't add to her problems.

Sometimes i see things like this and i can't help but wonder what went wrong, some family are there for you some aren't, don't expect to be entitled to anything they own, as for the man he's wrapped around a woman's finger as well, both of them na women, they have always had simple men on a chokehold, she should find someone she can wrap around to be taken abroad too, someone's brother as well, same way your simple brother took the manipulative beach instead of you as you said.

WorldRichest:
. If Wike decides, he can pull down that Church that same day if he is embarrassed there. Maybe you think Heaven will fall

Ehn because he's God naw, thats why that small soldier defiled him and the whole country erupted, no be everybody dey arselick nonsense, some of us can just say no and heaven won't fall too, and no be everybody be coward.

Baba just dey crave embarrassment, nothing decieve person like delusions of grandeur.

Women tend to expect special treatment because they're women, its not like that with men, you can hold a man accountable anytime, but with women they expect you to be flexible and if you're the type that fraternize with employees, amorous relationships start that way too, men are way easier to deal with, no complications just straightup business.

This guy petty sha, from your other thread i was very shocked reading how meticulously everything is documented, you then crowned it with not letting things go, even though its been more than a year, baba sabi carry grudge, compare how much you've spent chasing this yeye case with just buying another phone you'll see its not worth it, but troublesome people like dragging even the littlest thing, make nobody enter your wahala sha, he go sweat.

Its her word against his, I'm not discrediting her claims just saying most times when they make such claims its often an exaggerated lie, she should also cover up, if na Afghanistan now she for dress like ninja and nobody will look at her to the point of trying to touch her for any reason, alot of deranged people out there who can't control thier impulses, look at the way she's dressed online and you'll understand she does more than that in person.

Lannister247:
Good morning, everyone. Please, I need honest advice from Nigerians who have experienced life in the UK, especially Nigerians who have returned home after relocating abroad.

Please as a Nigerian if you have not visited the UK or lived in the west before then stay away, you'll never understand the challenges abroad thus youll start making silly comments like:

"Na villiage people de call you"
or "anywhere is better than nigeria"
or start throwing insult on something you know nothing about.

Continuing..

I knew abroad was hard, i watched people's story on youtube but i never expected it to be this terrible.

I am a Nigerian currently in the UK studying for a master's degree. Honestly, I am struggling badly with life here, and I have been regretting since i came here.
Before coming to the UK, I had my own challenges in Nigeria, but I was far happier, i had peace i took for granted.

Since arriving here, I have been feeling stressed, worried and trapped. I don't enjoy anything about this place, and I find myself regretting my decision almost every day. Sometimes people even notice the worry on my face and ask me if I am okay, THE STRESS IS OVERWHELMING.

One of the things weighing heavily on me is the routine I have ahead of me for the next year. I either have to go to school or be working. I don't have even one day of rest in a week not even Sunday. This is what my life is going to look like for the next year, and honestly, I don't know how I will cope with it. The thought of living like this is overwhelming, should i even call that living?

Another thing that worries me is the future. I see people talking about five year and ten year plans to gather enough funds and return back home, but I don't even know how I can stay here for another month. I have met Nigerians who have lived here for many years, some 5, 10 years and they have nothing, even the ones who manage to build one small house in Nigeria built it with their life(not money) working like a sl@ve 7 days a week toiling and jeopadising your health just to build a house, is it worth it?

Seeing this has made me question what exactly I am walking into and wether its better to exit early when i still have my youth, i mean the kind energy people put here if they put it back in Nigeria they must succeed.
People are not happy here they are simply enduring everything because they have already invested so much in coming and is ashamed to go back.

If I return to Nigeria now, I will have to start figuring things out again.
My biggest fear is not just the financial side of returning. It is also what people will say. Some Nigerians may laugh at me for returning after such a short time, especially when so many people are desperate to relocate abroad.

I don't want to make a decision based on people's opinions, but I would be lying if I said their judgment does not bother me.
At the same time, I don't want to spend the next 5-10 years being miserable, missing out on life, toiling, waking up by 4am and getting home by 8pm simply because I am afraid of what people will say. If i ever get the courage to go back to Nigeria ill never leave that place, you'll never value that Country until you've left. I am just confuse at the moment.

The worst thing you can do to yourself is this what will people say nonsense, the people whose opinion mean so much to you won't live your life or face your problems for you, do whats best for you and make sure it's something that makes you happy and fulfilled, otherwise you'll end up depressed, lonely and just existing, i wouldn't come back if i were you sha, the wages you get paid there fits the stress, in Nigeria you work like a farm animal and still make peanuts, what you call hell rn na most people dream, even me, make new friends, live life, enjoy yourself sometimes and take days off, achieve what you went there to achieve, shey its just one year, then come back, it doesn't matter what they'll say.

He's in thier pocket, he can't say no because he loves loans like no tomorrow, he has borrowed everything using the country as leverage, they just dangle a carrot and he jumps high like a rabbit, he's not subsidizing anything, he has increased taxes considerably and people are struggling to survive, what is he using all this money for?

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You sure they didn't pay him to take the fall? Some people have no problem doing time as long as you pay them handsomely, they're called fall guys, they just took his word for it, everyone tupac had beef with including diddy has nothing to do with his death only this guy? And who brags continuously about murdering someone like Tupac when they haven't convicted anyone for being responsible? It doesn't add up.

Alot of people feel relieved after they die, I can't speak for everyone but with the whole hardship we go through in life we don't rest until we're actually gone, I'd say he's in a better place, and he's feeling great relief, no more worrying how everyday will go Everytime you wake up.

happney65:
Years ago,she said in public she doesnt and thats why her being in public doing this is news ..

You get it?

Oh right, since everything people say in thier songs applies to thier real life.

Regular people do it everyday but no praises, its her home, its normal to clean it, na me go clean am before?

Why is everything swollen like she was beaten na una just dey promote nonsense

You get power, and you're petty i must say, you document everything to the littlest detail over a long period of time, even despite the repairs and replacement you still didn't get satisfaction, now after all the back and forth was it worth the stress? No, I'd rather count my losses and move on, all this money spent chasing the wind could easily get you a new device but thats just me, like i said you take petty to a whole new level.

They just love constituting nuisance with this thier religion anywhere they are wether its acceptable or not, how can you deliberately inconvenience others with your so called prayer and expect such things not to happen, of all the plethora of places she can practice her terrorism its the middle of the road.

Greattom:
My brother there are men that are ever ready to pick up the bill you can even see one jumping up and down on this thread , that said His purpose in life is to make women comfortable

Yea, unfortunately simps exist, and they're the reason why the audacity reach this level, cuz if they no indulge this madness why would it increase tempo, very ludicrous situation.

Samantha125:
It's the duty of men to feed us, we can't starve while you guys are around... Even if you see us seated alone in a restaurant without having ordered anything, you must come to us and make enquiries with regard as to whether we've eaten something... If our response is "no", then your next move should be that you buy us something to keep body and soul together... You don't have to ask us for our names, just buy us something to eat and God will continue to bless you in abundance...😌😌😌

Is this rage baiting or you're actually this brilliant, as an adult you deliberately and consciously went to a restaurant to sit and not order anything despite the fact that you are hungry, you kept your table empty and without intent simply because you're a woman and you're entitled to free food from a man? Does that make any sense to you, no be you carry yourself waka come with your two legs? And if you feed yourself like a normal adult would something terrible happen to you? This delusion has a name, its called "broke, hungry yet entitled" and its unfortunate this is happening in this generation.

The fatherland they're going to serve should pay the damn money, only one thief in power can pay it, they should scrap this pointless thing they no gree, what happened to empowering graduates with a skill they learn in thier respective states and money after graduating or a car, or even substantial grant, i just tire, they can utilize billions for frivolous lifestyle but they can't do anything about securing a future for people who manage to graduate from the torture called naija uni.

Lol this is a joke compared to life in Nigeria, in such settings I'd even get very close to you so you'd hold you breath more and longer until you pass out, when i know I'm not stinking and racism wan finish you, you can decide not to breathe forever abeg.

Jayhome24:
I don't care about your valetta crap all I'm telling you obi supporters and obi himself na for grave obi go rule Nigeria and not alive. thanks..

Who is an obi supporter? This isn't about supporting anyone, its the kind of zeal you put into this, look at another statement, na grave he go rule, na you wan kill am? Easy to talk tough behind a keyboard, you fit be one squirrel somewhere living in the hollow of a tree, making such statements like you're the king of the world, of course behind an anonymous sobriquet online, oh please.

Olmautos:
Na Only Hunger Be their Problem
Dem no see Other Better thing wey the Baba don do

The things he did are so numerous and joyous that we need microscope to see it, if evidence dey e go show and it'll be easy to see, abi you want people to sing empty praises like you and your kind, be realistic, where the things the baba do?

Watianoengineer:
What is bad in what he said? Has peter Obi and his followers not said worse things like calling the president a drug lord?

How is Calling him a drug lord same with brazenly threatening to shoot anyone who doesn't join your bandwagon in a democratic country, alleging is very different from brazen threats in a country that isn't running a dictatorship, and if na someone else you for don talk fire and brimstone, una just dey support rubbish.

Jayhome24:
There is no way for grigory anywhere, He is out of it take it or leave it.

1 million obi can never unseat Tinubu, obi himself know this fact he just want to use his foolish followers to catch some cruise.

Obi win what? How? Which miracle or juju he wan use?

Whats amazing is the amount of zeal you put into this your tinubu vendetta, and what drives it, is it passion for suffering or money, i just don't get it.

This one just dey spread falsehood all over like a scorned woman, a bitter ex who refused to move on, because he dropped you he's now all manner of things, someone whose beliefs never stay constant, they're fickle and they sway based on stomach infrastructure, they don dey settle am so na to besmirch obi remain.

Gboss247:
At your age, you should know the difference between working for money and putting money to work

At your age you should also know that such a sum would yield more profit with other investments than keeping it in mmf, if you are able to think.

Why would i wait that long for such chicken change, they're making more profit holding your money for 90days then give you the crumbs, i rather trade futures with it.

Glad to see nepotism for the first time, atleast he hired Nigerians even if they're his children, there's one south African sha, instead of going beck and fixing his kantry he has stolen a position a nigerian should be occupying, e dey pain me and i no know why.