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bolzyboy:
Really!?
Good thing is, you have google to bail you out sir.

Bail me out of what? I'm just explaining what you're doing, nothing more.

And her group is packed to the brim with girls who bought her book this generation is cooked, plus na anyhow guys e fit work on, e no take genius to figure out her stories as stories.

Careful when you buy stuff on AliExpress especially electronics, I ordered something on AliExpress and I was sent a defective one, I recorded all my evidence and submitted then asked for a refund, after waiting for days I got their response today, and they're giving me till November 10th to send it to them or forfeit my refund, problem is I tried to get a quote from our regular shipping companies like DHL and FedEx and I'm seeing 299€ shipping fees, the only way it can get there fast before their deadline is to use express shipping, they gave me barely two weeks, and if they don't get it before then I should forget my refund, it's as if the thing is rigged against me because how is this my fault, with this now they can deliberately send defective stuff and get away with it because AliExpress is clearly on their side, I went to our local post office and I was told it'll take 30k, I then asked the guy what's the latest it will take to get there and he just kept deflecting and wouldn't be straightforward about estimated shipping time, it could take or month or more, and he even called that one express shipping, at this point I've decided to let this count as another loss unless there's something that can get it back to them before the deadline.

Guys is it possible to return an item to china, ordered online from AliExpress and it came damaged now they're refusing to refund me saying I should return the item before first week of November elapse

foodlum:
Bruh! aint dat the truth!
I've always wanted to marry as many wives as I can fully provide for and take care of. Women are creatures made to be loved and cared for by men. In turn, the woman yields and submit herself to that provider and caring man. I love women. I care about them just as I love children and care about them. Even though I was raised in a monogamous strict Apostolic tradition household and spent most of my life in the West (mostly the US), I fully intend to marry many wives BUT not have many children. 1 wife 1 child. Each wife gets 1 separate house, 1 car and 1 thriving business. I will love them and fully provide for them equitably. No favoritism. And I will be the King of my mini kingdom.
This template is fully permitted by God. Check and confirm your scriptures.

Easier said than done, na till then you go find out.

heniford2:
are suggestion one should not buy it

He's tryna justify pricing it low by badmouthing the brand and low balling, it's a common pricing tactic, tell the seller what he's selling is worthless and problematic then give a low ball offer that makes it seem like that's what it's worth.

fadre5:
This your village no get name??
I want check something cos e dey similar to the Alekwu deity in Otukpo, Benue state.

I've seen people, so full of life gone just because of one silly deity which is only concerned about sexuality. Why not deploy this same prowess to make better the lives of those people within its environs. Besides, the part you mentioned 247 power is indeed a fat lie for the whole of your village

Na this Benue own I know and have seen in action, just that it doesn't involve the licking private parts stuff, but murder, with craft, infidelity etc it'll punish you with an incurable disease that won't let you go until you confess, very archaic but still exists.

The thought of being mosquito free sounds like heaven to me, oh what I'd give to live there.

santos123:
If you have a phone under or slightly above 100k, kindly drop the specs of the phone in the comment section.

check this one out.
https://www.nairaland.com/8506936/open-box-redmi-a5-sale

Yes as long as simps exist hard to get will exist, some men no get level at all no matter how much redpill indoctrination you give them.

AngelSlay:
Yes I am a therapist.

Thought as much, you're good at it.

We4all:
Lol..For someone who can't even use punctuations correctly, you must be suffering from delusional superiority to think you are more intelligent.

And punctuating with all seriousness on an anonymous online forum translates to intelligence, lmao, you're even slower than the other one , this would be my last response to you sha.

grandstar:
The situation is very complex. Your dad is madly in love with this woman and she is ready to do what it takes to hold on to him. Worse, she knows what to do

It might be best you turn to the Bible for advice. It is where you get the best advice (Read Psalms 19:11, Isaiah 55:8,9)

Make peace with the woman.

Let the woman know that she and her child would enjoy themselves in your dad's house but with a caveat: your needs and those of your siblings are not neglected. She's an ass because she feels that's the only way she can hold on to your dad. Let her know that she and her child would have no problem. Perhaps, talk to her son as well. Mothers always want their child protected. You can even add the caveat that one day you and your siblings will leave the house to them.

Just go all the way to make peace with her (Read Matthew 5:38-42)

Talk to your dad. Tell him you know he is lonely after the death of your mum (just say some bullshit). Tell him he has the right to move on. Tell him you want a peaceful house. A house filled with endless quarrels can lead to HBP or a stroke. It is an outcome she too wouldn't like.

The woman unbeknownst to you needs legitimacy, and she can only get it with your endorsement. Acceptance matters to her. It establishes her in the house and she is no longer just seen as an unwelcome usurper. If you promise her no drama and no interference with her and your dad, she might begin to come around. Tell her to also fight for your interests as well with your dad because men under the lovebug can become neglectful. Your siblings can even be calling her mummy.

Don't be bothered if your dad treats her and her child as first class citizens and you second class. It is not a contest. Just focus on your needs and that of your siblings being met. Don't demand too much. If the barest minimum is enough, such as feeding and school fees, then stick to that.

Seek win-win. You be nice to her child. Get him some nice treats. Love your enemies. It works. Read Matthew 5:43-48, Isaiah 55:8-9. His thoughts and His ways are far superior to ours.

There's nothing like peace of mind.

Weaklings always think a certain way, this is your advice? Op should welcome the parasite and make her feel at home? Do you even hear yourself, instead of seizing what's rightfully his right he should cower before the love peddler like a weak man, and give her more leverage and audacity to unleash more of what she's doing, small opportunity she got is already intoxicating her, imagine what she will do if OP rolls out the welcome mat like a weak man.

dmangodwin:
Nice one . A junkie always thinks weirdly.

Do you know What a junkie mean at all? Una dey muzz me for this space, make it make sense.

We4all:
The butterfly thinks himself a bird! What makes you think you are more intelligent that the person you mentioned? Because you said so? Anyways, talk is cheap and you just proved it.

Same thing I said, it's easy to discern what's worth your time and not, and you can tell if someone's intelligence matches yours or if it even close, like I just discerned yours right now, and I decide if it's worth my time or not after I discern how intelligent you are, it's not rocket science nor did I insinuate anything, just pointing out There's a level of intelligence you need to have before I agree to interact with you and if it's not it, it's not it, what's hard to understand there bro.

AngelSlay:
This moment in your life — as ugly, unfair, and heartbreaking as it is — won’t define the rest of your story. Families break, people fail us, and love can feel hijacked, but your identity is not wrapped up in your father's failures or this woman's presence.

Your role now is to:

Protect your own heart.

Stay emotionally available to your siblings.

Choose peace over revenge — not because she deserves peace, but because YOU do.


You are showing more maturity, emotional intelligence, and strength than most adults would in this situation. And that says something powerful about who you're becoming — not in spite of this, but because of it.

If you ever want help planning how to talk to your dad (if that’s a road you want to take), or help navigating boundaries after you move out, I’ve got you.

You're not alone in this.

Wow, I'm not the op but I've been glued to this thread because I also saw something similar happen in the past, and of all the comments in this thread yours is something else, I felt peace reading it, are you a therapist or something.

Every voice of freedom must be suppressed in Nigeria, that's the country we live in, there's no right to peaceful protest, we're in a gilded cage and you can't even shout, it's also pointless fighting for a lost cause, this country is one, can't risk my life for anything.

Kobojunkie:
This one don delulu finish! 🥱🥱🥱

A woman is morally loose because she is dating your father and has children of her own? Nonsense!

2. Telling @OP to embrace the facts of his reality rather than continue chasing shadows that will lead him nowhere means I am insensitive to his plight? Nonsense! 🥱🥱🥱

whatever man, there's a level of intelligence I interact with, just know this so you won't expect more replies.

Kobojunkie:
1. She is not a lovepeddler, but your father's desire. The reason she is with your father is because your father desires and maybe even loves her. Your animosity towards her is misdirected because you are too afraid to confront your father for his choice in women.

You are probably one of those kids who placed their fathers on some sort of pedestal, and are having a fit because you finally see he is just a human being with a preek at the end of the day.

2. She is not controlling your family. Your father brought her in and allowed her do to you what she is doing, and if you have a problem with it, you need to grow a backbone and confront your father for this.

3. She is supposedly your father's voice because your father gave her permission — by your father's authority— to be his voice. If you don't like that, and you are truly serious about nipping this in the bud, then go confront your father. He, again, is the reason why that woman is in your life. There is no other reason.

All in a bid to sound wise, you did the contrary, first off its obvious you haven't experienced life and seen what people do to each other, especially women who go around wrecking homes, they don't stop at anything, and I for one have seen first hand what such women who're morally loose do to silent men and put them in a coma so much they control their lives and bank accounts making them loose their freewill and neglect their families, if you don't know this by now it means you might still be a child or a teenager, second, what sort of person are you to be insensitive to his plight? Do you know the pain you experience when someone spirals from nowhere and religate you to the background depriving you of your rights in your own home? And encouraging him to attack his father is what? So the man can turn up the heat and cut them off? I pray you experience this too so you can advise yourself to fight your dad.

As for op, your dad has been doing this way before your mum died, he is bringing her to the light now because he has no reason to hid her anymore, a person is what he is and you can't change it, draw your siblings closer, and take care of yourselves and forget he exists, this concubine will also have a taste of her medicine eventually, because promiscuous men are never satisfied, he will also seek another after this one and the circle will continue, so remove yourself from that situation and move on with your life, even orphans survive, you will survive.

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Lol confused set of people, is it one or the other and do they ever stop to listen to the thrash they churn out before they do?

Wow, reminds me of movies I've watched, next thing you know they'll make one for this daring one too.

Sccarrr:
you seem to lack comprehension.....

And you don't, lol, Mr comprehensive.

@Sccarrr was valiantly defending them yesterday like his life depends on it, I told you they only understand violence, it's their lifeline and their entire existence is warped around it, and people will defend them like they're the victims.

Oshin56:
pls can we talk better on this?

sure send a pm

Oshin56:
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Most people are quick to celebrate other people's misfortune, na why this thing seems like a big deal, cuz couples fight, and the reason she married him money is still there, eventually ned will start seeing her as old and find a replacement, the circle will continue until Ned is tired of young things, she's being dramatic cuz she's aware she's going to be replaced soon by someone younger, and Regina being Regina will act up, nothing new here.

Lucky for her Nigeria is a lawless country, which right does she have to do this.

Sccarrr:
you justified everything they did which includes bombing children hospitals,using a 13years old as human shield and more.

Ok I justified it, I guess isreal is the only one doing whatever I'm justifying, Hamas just stay there peacefully and took it, right.

Sccarrr:
please go back to everything I said and point out where exactly I said Hamas did all good....

Go back and also point where I said Israel are angels.