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Kobojunkie:
1. She is not a lovepeddler, but your father's desire. The reason she is with your father is because your father desires and maybe even loves her. Your animosity towards her is misdirected because you are too afraid to confront your father for his choice in women.

You are probably one of those kids who placed their fathers on some sort of pedestal, and are having a fit because you finally see he is just a human being with a preek at the end of the day.

2. She is not controlling your family. Your father brought her in and allowed her do to you what she is doing, and if you have a problem with it, you need to grow a backbone and confront your father for this.

3. She is supposedly your father's voice because your father gave her permission — by your father's authority— to be his voice. If you don't like that, and you are truly serious about nipping this in the bud, then go confront your father. He, again, is the reason why that woman is in your life. There is no other reason.

All in a bid to sound wise, you did the contrary, first off its obvious you haven't experienced life and seen what people do to each other, especially women who go around wrecking homes, they don't stop at anything, and I for one have seen first hand what such women who're morally loose do to silent men and put them in a coma so much they control their lives and bank accounts making them loose their freewill and neglect their families, if you don't know this by now it means you might still be a child or a teenager, second, what sort of person are you to be insensitive to his plight? Do you know the pain you experience when someone spirals from nowhere and religate you to the background depriving you of your rights in your own home? And encouraging him to attack his father is what? So the man can turn up the heat and cut them off? I pray you experience this too so you can advise yourself to fight your dad.

As for op, your dad has been doing this way before your mum died, he is bringing her to the light now because he has no reason to hid her anymore, a person is what he is and you can't change it, draw your siblings closer, and take care of yourselves and forget he exists, this concubine will also have a taste of her medicine eventually, because promiscuous men are never satisfied, he will also seek another after this one and the circle will continue, so remove yourself from that situation and move on with your life, even orphans survive, you will survive.

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Lol confused set of people, is it one or the other and do they ever stop to listen to the thrash they churn out before they do?

Wow, reminds me of movies I've watched, next thing you know they'll make one for this daring one too.

Sccarrr:
you seem to lack comprehension.....

And you don't, lol, Mr comprehensive.

@Sccarrr was valiantly defending them yesterday like his life depends on it, I told you they only understand violence, it's their lifeline and their entire existence is warped around it, and people will defend them like they're the victims.

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Most people are quick to celebrate other people's misfortune, na why this thing seems like a big deal, cuz couples fight, and the reason she married him money is still there, eventually ned will start seeing her as old and find a replacement, the circle will continue until Ned is tired of young things, she's being dramatic cuz she's aware she's going to be replaced soon by someone younger, and Regina being Regina will act up, nothing new here.

Lucky for her Nigeria is a lawless country, which right does she have to do this.

Sccarrr:
you justified everything they did which includes bombing children hospitals,using a 13years old as human shield and more.

Ok I justified it, I guess isreal is the only one doing whatever I'm justifying, Hamas just stay there peacefully and took it, right.

Sccarrr:
please go back to everything I said and point out where exactly I said Hamas did all good....

Go back and also point where I said Israel are angels.

Sccarrr:
ok na Israel is angel.. happy now?

Who said they're angels? They're not, and Hamas isn't, but they shouldn't act like they're the victims, people misconstrue stuff and take sides, and crime is crime irregardless, you can't say one crime is better than the other, or there's big sin and small sin, if you can turn a blind eye to what one side did, you should also be able to reciprocate it for the other side as well, you no see anything Hamas did but you saw everything isreal did.

Sccarrr:
It’s not about who started first when it comes to war, international law, or even basic humanity. For instance, when Hitler unleashed unimaginable evil during World War II, the Allied nations did not respond by using German civilians as human shields or by bombing hospitals full of children. They fought his army, not innocent people.

Nobody is denying that Hamas attacked first, but even that event didn’t happen or started yesterday,the conflict between Israel and Palestine stretches back decades. When we look at it with an open mind, it becomes difficult to say one side is purely right or purely wrong, though many people like you refuse to see that complexity.

The point is simple , Hamas acted inhumanely, and Israel has also responded in ways that are inhumane. There’s no moral high ground in targeting innocent lives no “angel versus evil” here. Both have committed acts that violate the very principles of humanity and the laws that govern war.

At the end you end up saying nothing, if you admit that both sides did inhumane things and are both guilty of war crimes why is it that people like you only seem to be horrified by the one isreal did, you admitted they're both complicit but na only isreal own you dey wail about, secondly you also agreed that Hamas started it, so its okay to start a fire but it's not okay to feel the heat? If heat makes you cry why did you start a fire bro, you weren't expecting it to get heated? Humans and hypocrisy sef, at this point I'm tired of proving this point, it's war, every party involved will use all within their power to win when threatened, and in this case Hamas threw the first punch, then started crying foul when the other party unleashed the evil they're capable of? Why Una no tell Hamas to stay quiet and peaceful? And where were you when they were doing what they did to bring this upon themselves, you were blind then, and when Israel retaliates you suddenly regain your vision.

Sccarrr:
Arresting civilians who are not combatants to be used as human shields, or tying a 13-year-old to a vehicle as a human shield, does not constitute standing up for oneself. Attacking hospitals occupied by children is unequivocally evil. It closely resembles the abuses Nigerian soldiers have been accused of committing against innocent people in the eastern region during operations targeting IPOB, actions that many of us condemn.

Okay let's assume all you alluded are true, they even kidnap babies and tied them to rockets, let's assume it's true they committed all those atrocities, did they stand up one day and started? Mind you isreal also suffered casualties, including the lives of children and civilians, If they did all this without provocation I'm sure they're countries who'd stand up to them, the last time a country tried to persecute an entire race the world was at war, ask Adolf Hitler, in essence evil begets evil like I said, and all is fair in war and love, all is fair, they are merely reciprocating the energy, if two elephants fight there must be casualties, so maybe this people you're defending should have thought of their own children and all the horror before inciting other people to react and become violent, abi they should clap for Hamas for being terrorists, they should have thought of their own people before starting that their thing they always start, haba which kind one sided assessment be this, you can dish it but you can't take it, na you throw the first punch na you dey wail say they return the favor.

Sccarrr:
stop supporting evil ......evil is evil wether done by Israel or Hamas..

you won't find anyone defending horrible things done by Palestinians but on the other hand,you lots will defend same type and worst of evil done by Israel and try to paint it as been alright, war casualties blabla...what kind of hypocrisy be that😹

Bro evil begets evil and sometimes there's something called a necessary evil and lastly, you can't make evil depart from you by smiling, you return equal energy, and use force, nobody has the monopoly of violence and how many times do they have to push you to the wall before you stand up for yourself? Until you're vanquished? In the history of this terrorists have you ever heard them backing down after unleashing Thier terror? No, infact the more you stay quiet and wimpy the more they unleash the terror until they chase you out of your own land, a typical example is what Fulani is doing in Benue, so yea it's evil but a necessary one, you don't address this with gloves and no need pretending, you can achieve peace with war too, if we had like 10 more Isreal this world would be so hot for terrorists, so it is what it is, aura for aura.

I wonder why y'all don't also glamorise the unsavoury things these terrorists have done, because they've done worse, Thier religion is a plague on mankind, war is an unpleasant affair and of course they'd be casualties and this wouldn't have happened if the terrorists stayed put.

Bobodee09:
Read the article.......you have to build yourself to that level were they also favour you.

This man was once an akara seller in Jos.....am sure your own case isn't that worst ATM.

And you believe him, once I become rich I'll claim I was once a barrow pusher too, everyone with their insane stories.

Kobojunkie:
All those married men wey dey cheat, in some cases, with married women, all over the place, no be dem be these good persons you dey regale us with? How many of them are raising the many seeds they have sown through their many escapades? Una go just dey talk like say Nigeria is not literally an open book at this point in time. Abegi!

Look, if mandatory DNA testing were instituted today on all children up to college age, as well as all adults out there in Nigeria, you will be shocked to find that even your GOs would almost not escape being implicated with infidelity.

k, I no get time to school any slow person.

Kobojunkie:
Stop spouting nonsense!🙄🙄🙄

No be many of those same good guys dey get babymama's all over the place even with their own wives and children at home? Abeg, make we hear word, o'jare!

Abeg name one, just open mouth wah, a good person wouldn't abandon someone who gave birth to a child for him, if he did he's definitely irresponsible and not good, you don't need to be wise to know this, even children do.

Na she know who she go born for, they overlook good guys and choose irresponsible people then come with Thier pity party if it doesn't work out, abeg carry your cross.

Mrexcell:
You are very correct same experience with me too I never thought it's going to be this difficult for me i didn't take the good ladies i met years ago serious i thought they will always be around anytime am ready for marriage to select from i never knew the life it's going to turn upside down as we grow older. Now what's really available out there these days are possessed damaged ladies and those that have been used by yahoo boys am really praying seriously now for God's grace to see someone with the fear of God cause I know how dangerous it is to fall into the hands of wrong partner.

Very dangerous, one mistake you can't afford to make twice, there's nothing left, if you get lucky again please do everything to make it work.

Tayorshd87:
I am telling you my brother ..
Presently am thinking of divorcing my wife just because of some provoking things she always do but when I think about the women outside I will be like 🤔

If I try it then until I will 70 I can't see another again 😂
Make I kuku dey carry my cross 😆

Stick with the devil you know bro, there's no fun out here.

pretydiva:
Don’t worry you will be fine. The right one will come, just have faith

thanks I appreciate.

Robnectar:
nah jonzin dey worry am

you and jonzin in one sentence, match made in heaven, lmao

BeardedMeat:
I'm just seeing your siggy sef. You would driven a nail into her skull if you were in that village.

Ahh person wey I go pay for everything she stole and do more if I have more, you don't know me so assume what you want, I don't pretend online, my earlier comment is exactly my thoughts and what I'd do if I am around her when it happened, she's pregnant and she's alone, have human sympathy, a little, your wrath should be directed at politicians they're the real thieves.

pretydiva:
This your comment literally cracked me up😁

I'm going through a lot for girls hand, it's not meant to be funny sha I meant it.

The car will increase the number of students and hopefuls who think they will get lucky, this girl na real hustler.

Na when you enter street you'll realize there's nothing out there, all the good ones are gone and we're left with what I dunno, I just regret breaking up with people in the past thinking I'll get something better, from frying pan to fire.

I remember this man saying he can't die at a crusade, nobody is above death, no matter how powerful you think you are.