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Cashio:
Sorry about your experience bro. Some humans do not deserve so much. It's good you changed your circle of friends or you abandoned them completely.
In my experience, I will say, I was opportuned to meet and have wonderful friends, though just about 4 and we've been solid on good friends turn brothers for 10 years and counting.
From our very first year in school to six years after we finished school. We've always been there for one another and through collective efforts, we've all grown from just mere young undergraduates to fully grown men already planning marriage and whatever next phase life throws.
We've been that close to the point that despite coming from different states, we now live in the same estate, each in his own apartment.
The trust is so strong that I can give any of these guys 10m for a business and if he comes back to tell me that the deal failed and the money was lost, I won't even doubt him.

You're lucky honestly, in such cases there's an exception, strangers sometimes become your family or even more than your family sef, it happens, the difference is you didn't choose it nor were you intentionally and desperately looking for friends, in such cases you keep them close, don't go seeking for more, and in your case it's even more than necessary already, don't seek new relationships as there's no benefit to it, rather you nurture the ones you already have and form a lifelong bond, in my own case e go hard for this life make I give anyone access to my life in the name of friends, because unlike you I wasn't so lucky when I tried mine.

KingAzubuike:
He nor strong. Ordinary beating nahi him kpai like house rat. What was all the man o' war trainings you did in NYSC camp for?

Come make I flog you, if you no kpai I go cut my preeq, yen yen yen with big mouth.

1phone:
Background: I was employed 2-month ago and the job was a full time job. It's more of inventory in a luxury firm. It's a one- man business operated by husband and wife.

I was given a responsibility of handling the inventory aspect which I will submit on an Excel format(which must include all pictures of the stock keeping unit of above 1000) I took my time to study the process and counted every stock and submitted. The company/shop did not have any primary data before now.

Towards mid January, while still on the excel, the wife brought one software which she said she want to use for sale and that I should continue uploading the items. I suspended the Excel and continued with the software. Her culture before now which I got from old staff was to use inventory officer to count her stock and sack them at the end of 3--month and she always get away with that since no appointments letter until end of 3month.

The wife now insist on not paying me January salary with flimsy excuses of not getting my report on time . Is that a valid reason? What should be the next line of action for me now that I don't have a letter of appointment?

You partook in evil against others then cry when same evil comes back to bite you in the arse, you're her accomplice and snake no get friends.

zero8zero:
Tell that to your father

No worry just die. We won't miss you I promise.

zero8zero:
The thousands that exists in your father's compound. If you're not satisfied with the news, go and enter the North and carry out your own large scale arrests.

Heart attack please die.

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

You dey burst my head bro

Things like this na it dey excite me, no time for lose guarding, in todays world wey be say snake full everywhere man Gaz dey on Google when interacting with anybody.

Lol he go use his eyes see na, and with the way he's going they'll see how desperate he is to not be alone and take advantage of it to exploit him.

Streetmovement:
Wotoporiously speaking

Bro you no lie, so many snakes out here man

Things and things don wound me for this life and I don learn, I no dey force anything o, just dey move jejely

If you're lucky to have a few people in your life outside family wey get your back you don't know what God has done for you.

These days I dey move like a Ghost, as long as the money enter nothing dey bother me, I no dey expect anything from anybody and make nobody expect from me.

All in all enjoy life to fullest, friends or no friends.

People no know na, person like me wey little pleasures of life dey excite me, cold beer and grilled fish excites me, video games excite me, good food excites me, new clothes and Nikes excite me, going away for the weekend, the list is endless, I can create endless happiness around me and I won't even interact with other humans for weeks, even family dey alienate each other wetin come be friends, aside my kid sis and bro, and sometimes my dad who I call from time to time oga everyone else can rest, my extended family don't even know what I look like cuz since I grew up I became a ghost, maybe I might take a girl seriously later in life and make a family with her, but till then I enjoy my life this way, I Neva even clock 30, I'll get worse when I do, that time na shadow I go evolve into, because humans are extremely wicked.

Cashio:
Sorry about the death of your mum. But sorry to ask. While you reflected on those people who never turned up or sincerely sympathized on your mum's demise, did you also take out time to ask yourself if you were helpful also to them in their own times of need.
If you have friends you turn up for, then it feels like betrayal when they fail to turn up for you in your own time.
But it will be selfish to not extend care to people and expect people to extend care to you when it is your turn.
While we clamour for good friends, we should also create time to be the good friend first.

Don't even go there, I turned up in every way I could, bro do you have this today, I'm broke, I'll send, can you help with this, I'll send, this is why I mentioned common 2k, I can't expect to get what I didn't give because I'm not unreasonable, the reason why I turned my back on friendship is I always give more and get nothing in return, experience is the best teacher, I won't say more than this, you go use your eyes see am and body go tell you.

Bluntemperor:
Foolish talk!
All these catche the Army have been reporting every week and everymonth,so who was bankrolling them?
Bitter man,are you outside Nigeria?

Sweet man, did I mention anything about bankrolling? Very gullible half brained scallywag of a fish, abi na pig you be, cuz your brain na oily tissue without a single nerve of reasoning abeg gettat.

backbone503:
This one that they caught means alot. Imagine the fate of those armos if they had been successfully delivered to the terrorists

Lol, one of thousands, it doesn't mean a lot to me.

They will do all this media publicity because they caught one rat, imagine the thousands of arms deal going on in this bandit infested country everyday, the ones they didn't catch, imagine how many arms deal go on everyday, if you stop to bark at the moon every few mins you'll never reach where you're going.

This guy can lie, which vegetable you buy 6k, lion's mane mushroom? Abi caviar laced ugu leaves.

Bobby2020:
Lagos deal

HP Envy 15 with NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2060 Max-Q graphics card (has a slight discolouration on the right part of the screen) available for sale @ just 750k

specs:
Processor: 10th generation Intel Core i7

Graphics: NVIDIA GeForce RTX 2060 with Max-Q design

- 6GB dedicated graphics

Memory: 16 GB DDR4-2933 SDRAM

Storage: 512 GB solid-state drive (SSD)

Display: 15.6 in diagonal, 4K UHD (3840 x 2160) OLED touchscreen display

Operating system: Windows 11 64-bit

Wireless: Intel Wi-Fi 6 AX 201 (2x2) and Bluetooth 5 combo

- Finger Print sensor

Camera: HP Wide Vision HD camera with camera shutter and integrated dual array digital microphone

Comes with its original 200W charger

Cosmetic condition of the item is 10/10, there’s not a single scratch on it, it’s in perfect working condition


Only defect is a slight discolouration on the right side of the screen, doesn’t affect usage in any way and the part of the touchscreen touches just fine.

Interested buyers should call/WhatsApp us on 09032427643!

this slight discoloration does it affect functionality, does it flicker? Asin there's high likelihood it'll spread, and can it be repaired.

RealNiggaDee:
As a sigma male , this is my life .

I carefully select the people I want around me both women and men. No time for bullshit.

Honestly, people are after what benefits them and no one is selfless, so that saying no man is an island is a lie, they're thousands of selfish islands everyone looking for what will benefit only them, and the overzealous ones among them won't hesitate to remove you if you get in the way of what they want, I no do friendship, I came to this world alone and I'm leaving alone, and when I want something money can buy it for me, and the things money can't buy friends can't give me that either, make everyone dey him dey, I even value my weed dealer pass the so called friends.

Tsarbomba:
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While you are right bro, I'm reminded of Epicurus, ass he said, "Of all the things which wisdom acquires to produce the blessedness of the whole life, there is none more important than friendship." I've found this to be true in my own life. When I'm going through tough times, having supportive friends and family makes all the difference. And it's not just about relying on others for happiness it's about sharing experiences, learning from each other, and growing together. Epicurus knew that true happiness and fulfillment come from living a balanced life, and that includes nurturing relationships with others.

Not everyone is lucky in friendship, the fact that you have supportive friends doesn't mean it's all same with everyone, friends or no friends he shouldn't make it a do or die in his life, making friends is like tossing a coin, how it lands determines the kind of friends you make, and making his survival all about that will only make him desperate and vulnerable hope you get. He should focus on what's important, he's scared of loneliness, and I'm telling him looking desperately for friends won't solve his loneliness it'll only expose him to things that might even end his life. You can be with multitudes of people and still feel alone, he should focus on living his best life, friendship should come naturally and he shouldn't even prioritize it.

Sirchiboy:
Sourceof your money online

it's online, that's all you need to know, see question yet, are you a cop?

Na lag you dey blame? No be everybody wan live there by force? They're other cool places you can live, it mustn't be lag, me I made my money online so I can afford to stay anywhere, demure places like Abuja dey, cool cities like enugu dey but everyone wan live for lag by force.

You're wrong, your quality of life can't be tied to having people you interact with, I'd rather be alone than know a thousand people I don't benefit anything from, I am very popular to some extent, but something happened in my life that made me realize your popularity is useless, I lost my mum and the number of people that really sympathized were very few, infact it was a very small fraction of the people I know and out of that small fraction how many of them sent me common 2k, none, so what's the point of knowing so many people then, I buried my mum quietly then came back and leisurely opened my phone book, I started deleting numbers, cuz na numbers I get not contacts, I delete sotey my contacts no reach 30 again, and that 30 are my family and close friends, I've been on my own ever since, I do what I like, celebrate and reward myself when I want to, earn my money, look nice, just live for yourself, no one would die with you infact two weeks everyone has moved on, have few people you care about and value detachment, it's the Sweetest feeling in the world, being lonely is a state of mind, I can be by myself and still feel like I'm surrounded by a crowd, how? By making sure I do what I love all the days of my life, surround yourself with enjoyment and money and you don't need nobody, there's more to life than having useless friends who don't contribute jack sh!t to your life, what's having so many friends gonna do for you anyway? And why do you need many friends, so you can have people to talk to endlessly? Me wey talking dey even hard me, if you talk too much I cut you off, stop placing importance on the wrong things, enjoy the one life you have and bullsh!t every other things.

HenryWilliams:
I never voted for Tinubu
I knew he wasn't any good..
Obi wọn the 2023 Presidential election but the powers that be decided otherwise..
If Adesina runs for political office..
I will campaign and vote for him

Honestly it's quite unfortunate, the day they announced he won everywhere was just quiet like someone died, the people never chose him, he was forced on us, so much misery since this man came into power.

HenryWilliams:
You must be idiotic comparing Tinubu with Adesina.
This guy can actually lead this country if allowed to and voted in.
Pure technocrat and professional to the core.
I can't imagine his economic team ..gosh..
If only he's allowed to run without hindrance

Naso una talk for tinubu yet here we are today.

Zooboy:
But the jazz dey work Sha
Cos I've seen it live tho I'm thinking it works for borris gun only and all those small piston
If you carry better bazooka 206 quadriple mouth , even irumole must run .

Nothing dey work oga. People like you are the reason such superstition is still a thing, make he come wether I no go light his arse.

Zooboy:
He never jamm my quadriple barrel
4RM
That shit make lucifar beg me

Make they bring am gimme Beretta, brains go scatter, yeye talk, all the charms Africans are known to do they no still progress, most backwards black nation on earth, who do us this thing, na belief in stuff like this make them believe say money ritual works too, they go just dey commit atrocity upandan.

Philogeny4:
Na u never jam. U still be small pikin

Right, i be toddler na yesterday they born me sef, small pikin wey Sabi wetin horse sh!t look like and this right here is one, nonsense stuff.

Never seen so much horse sh!t in one place, so if I knack you shot now you wan tell me say e no go enter, oga dey play, u Neva jam.

Kai this woman worwor, Choi wetin be this

I'll tell my girlfriend so we can make a plan to fleece him of the money together, she should pretend she's done with me and in love with the maga, after the 10milli he will still spend lavishly on her, after we have sucked him dry we elope, in the wind, never to be seen again.

Reminds me of this girl I use to have a weird relationship with, we're dating, we have great sex but we're allowed to see other people, so she used to buy me lots and lots of gifts and when I ask her how she's getting them she will say she got them from men she's seeing, that means not only is she double dating, she kept ripping them off and spending on me, I knew it's wrong but I lock up cuz I was seeing other people too, later on she started getting jealous and asked that we would be exclusive and stop seeing others, by then I was already in a serious relationship with a girl I really liked and I couldn't break up with this new girl, and when I told her that it's her idea that we see other people in the first place, how come you're now asking me to be exclusive when I already have someone serious I am seeing, she got angry and did so much to sabotage my new relationship, when she's brazenly open about seeing other people and the whole thing was her idea. point of this story is a woman's mind is built differently, she could leave you for less than the 10million and still come back for sex even though she's now married to the 10million guy, so chop and clean mouth while you can, same lady won't hesitate to pick the money over you, no carry woman matter for head.

To win Grammy oil is involved, oil Must dey your head, then ample oil on your yansh, you go win one hand if you like no release any song sef, lots and lots of oil.

FreeSpirited:
Sarcasm u say? Sarcasm? Saka wetin? Haaa
Do you know how and when to use sarcasm at all?
Do you know when sarcasm makes u look outright stupid and display a lack of emotional intelligence? ...even more stvpider to finger sarcasm as a defense after using it in a wrong time and context... especially in a serious matter of life and death....That's Nigerians for u.....sarcasm don suffer for una hand ..

Get a job donkey, since morning you're on NL, proves nothing is going on in your life and you expect me to indulge a jobless bonobo monkey, nah, this is my last reply, revel in your incredibly bountiful idiocy till thy kingdom come, wise people don't roll in the mud with pigs and it's not my duty to make you know the meaning of sarcasm or become less gullible, pea sized oily fat for brains, fry am chop abeg that way it'll be a little useful, like I said, my last reply to you.

FreeSpirited:
If I pray u die same way..Shay u go say amen

Imagine arguing online with a retard who can't even differentiate between sarcasm and straight talk. I'd suggest you go back to school but you'd be too dumb to even survive preschool, no go waste anybody time. Get stupider if there's ever a word like that and choke on how outstanding your stupidity is, bye.

FreeSpirited:
If I pray u die same way..Shay u go say amen

pray for yourself to die fess mumu, say amen too.