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I'm guilty of the third one nice one op..

Guys often accuse women of talking in code, but the truth is that they are just as guilty of nuanced sayings as women are. Whether we like it or not, most people have moments where they may need a translator to understand communication with the opposite sex. It’s totally okay.
We all have these moments where we wish we understood what someone really means.


1. “I’m going through some issues right now...”
Any time that you hear this, you can expect it to be a cop-out for something. This is what guys say when they unghost, what they say when they don’t want to commit, and what they say when they’re trying to explain cheating. If you hear this, don’t believe it for a second. He’s just an ass.


2. “I don’t want a relationship right now.”
When a guy says this, it’s his way of letting you down gently or just straight up telling you that he’s only viewing you as a “quick lay” type. When he says this, he’s saying, “I don’t want a relationship with you.”


3. “I wasn’t serious about asking you out! You need to lose weight.”
Guys who say this are often wounded by rejection and want to take their anger out. A good translation of this would be, “I’m grossly insecure and womenfolk said no to me, and now I feel entitled to hurt you because I feel hurt. If I were to get into a relationship, I would probably be abusive no matter who I dated. You are totally right to reject me, and I should probably seek psychological help before I even consider getting a girlfriend.”


4. “I’m the man.”
When a guy has to say that he’s “the man,” he’s basically trying to boost up his self-esteem or status. This is especially true if he’s dealing with a woman who intimidates him in one way or another. At times, this may also be used as his explanation for terrible behavior but only if he hates women or has weird double standards.


5. “Friendzoned again!”
This is a line that’s said by guys who are just really unaware of how women think, and this may be a ploy to guilt you into a date. Don’t fall for it.


6. “We don’t have to have sex. Let’s just watch some Movies.” Yeah, no. Men who are saying this are hoping you’re going to still come over and that they’ll figure out a way to talk you into taking your clothes off. There’s a reason why “Movies and chill” became synonymous with f*cking.


7. “You’re going to make someone very happy someday.”
This is the male equivalent of a girl saying, “Let’s just be friends.” In fact, they may actually say that they’d rather be friends before they tell you this. Sadly, it’s probably the nicest rejection you could have from a guy.


8. “I’m really unhappily married.”
Though there are rare instances where this isn’t the case, men who regularly bring up how unhappy their marriages typically do so because they want a side piece. More often than not, they’re not unhappy with their wives nor are they even just “staying for the kids.” They just want to have cake and eat it, too. Don’t fall for the pity ploy.


9. “Not all men are the same. I don’t do that awful stuff.”
The big difference between guys and girls is that guys will take a girl’s complaints about bad dates and bad experiences as a personal affront to them. Meanwhile, girls understand there’s an implicit “not all people” label there. What a guy means when he says this is, “I feel villainized because I don’t understand that it’s not about men as a whole, and I don’t want to feel punished for some other guy’s wrongdoings.”

10. “I miss you.”
What this means all depends on where you are in your relationship with him. If you’re just starting to go out or are drill happily in love, it means that he legit just misses your company. If you broke up with him, it most likely means that he only misses the perks of what your relationship brought to him.

Source:- http://www.jennifercollinsblog.com/2017/04/want-to-decode-your-man-checkout-tips.html?m=1

Watch out for the young boy in the nearest future. In his words,

"Just met dis young man and he told me he's a street Boxer training at national stadium. I was so moved by his disciplined act in determination. Guys meet Ayo Baptist, a 14 year old two time gold champion in his sport act. Was emotionally moved to support this kid. You might wanna be on a look out for him someday. P.S He goes to school and speaks English fluently".

Sweating is a natural process and it eliminates toxins from your body. However, if sweating is more than normal or deviant, it is embarrassing. Over sweating is known as hyperhidrosis, where the sweat glands are hyperactive.
This condition is not harmful in any way for your body, but you may feel uncomfortable and embarrassed. You don't have to worry much because there are many natural remedies that can control sweating.
Excessive sweating occurs due to many factors like heredity, hormonal issues, infection, stress, anxiety and some medical issues, including heart problems, obesity and diabetes. Along with an uncomfortable situation, excessive sweating may leave an unpleasant odour. There are natural remedies for sweating and also to get rid of the bad smell due to excessive sweating.
The symptoms like visible sweating that even drenches your dress, foot odour, discolouration of the area, cracking and scaling of the skin tells you it's high time to go for some natural remedies for sweating.
Checkout some of the natural remedies for sweating are, which are as listed below:-
1) Lemon works wonders in those suffering from excessive sweating. It is a natural deodorant that kills bacteria as well as gives a pleasant odour. Apply lemon or lemon juice on the prone areas to prevent excessive sweating.

2)Coconut Oil:
With high content of lauric acid, coconut oil helps in preventing excessive sweating and its odour. Lauric acid eliminates bacteria that cause a foul smell and it also keeps you fresh.

3)Potato:
Besides being an excellent food, potatoes also act as an antiperspirant and a blocking agent. With its moisturizing content, it helps to stop excessive sweating. Cut a potato into half and rub it on the prone areas.

4)Baking Soda:
Yes, baking soda is a well-known alkaline source that counteracts with the acids. While sweating, body produces some acid that allows bacteria to thrive on. Baking soda is the best solution to kill those bacteria.

5)Apple Cider Vinegar:
ACV, with its astringent property, aids in controlling the sweat glands. It balances the pH level of the body that allows to get rid of the bacteria produced by sweating. For an effective result, you can add ACV to your bathing soda.

6)Tomato Juice:
Diet also plays an important role in excessive sweating in some. By including tomato juice in your diet, you can control excessive sweat. Also, stick more to vegetables and fruits than meat.

7)Black Tea:
If you want to get rid of excessive sweating, one of the natural remedies is to use black tea bags. Black tea contains natural astringent and antiperspirant properties that control the production of sweat. Dip tea bags in water and dab them on the prone areas.


Salt
Common salt is one of the most effective natural remedies for sweating. All you have to do is to mix salt in some lemon juice and apply it on the armpits, feet and other areas that you sweat more.


Say NO to medications to prevent sweating and use natural methods! Any opinion? Please drop your comments

Have you thought about living your passion today? A few days ago, a friend of mine asked, "What's the difference between Passion and Purpose?"
Passion is your compelling emotions behind your dreams. Your feelings drive your passion. Your Purpose is the why behind it all. Your Purpose is the deep reason for your existence. Following your passion while living out your purpose is the ultimate life goal. Also, when one does not know his purpose one might oppose oneself unknowingly, thereby becoming ones own enemy.
Passion + Purpose= Happy life!
Discover your passion today and your purpose will be achieved. What is your passion? Please drop your comments
Culled from http://www.jennifercollinsblog.com/2017/04/tips-for-happy-life-fusion-of-passion.html?m=1

Many people if not everyone desires to know what the other person is thinking, some people can actually predict whats going through another person's mind if they are engaging in a conversation but not like knowing the exact words or things going through the person's mind.
So guys, would you give up your left "ball" in order to be able to know the exact thing on a person's mind, particularly your girlfriend?

Betrayal isn't a new thing and most people have had their fair share of it. People have learnt to forgive and let go while others forgive and completely erase such negative people around them. When betrayal is mentioned, people tend to see it as a "normal thing" especially between friends colleagues and associates. But what happens if its between family, siblings and relatives?
The world is changing and what was an abomination years back is accepted in the present. Mother sleeping with son-in-law, father sleeping with daughter-in-law and many more. The latest trend is sister loosing their partner to another sister. I use to know of a lady who betrayed her elder sister by having an affair with her husband for material gains. The evil continued for about a year until the elder sister found out and disown her. Her husband also denied her and at the end she lost everything and therefore went about asking people to beg her sister for forgiveness.
If you are in her shoes, will you forgive your sister? Please drop your comments.

Dextology:
Thank you sir but I will decline the offer

But you deserve it.

Never trust or love someone too much.

Godwin Ugar, an environmental scientist has warned that people should desist from eating goat meat roasted with tyres because the carcinogenic components it contains is capable of causing cancer.
Ugar who also doubles as the Programme Manager, Natural Resource Management and Policy, CUSO International gave the warning at the weekend in Calabar during a workshop for stakeholders on youth empowerment.
The Workshop with the theme: “The role of Local Governments in Mitigating Business Environmental Hazards in the Natural Resources Sectors of Cross River” was aimed at sensitizing entrepreneurs on best practises in their businesses especially as it concern environmental protection and sustainability.
He said that the aim of the workshop was to promote youth employment by increasing capacity of young people with a view to creating 2000 jobs by 2019 with emphasis on environmental sustainability.
“ We need to create jobs with our environment in mind, their ability to improvise and use alternative methods in disposal of dung, poultry waste is essential ,the ability to turn these hazards into wealth is very important “
“The more we eat those goats roasted with tyres, the more we are prone to cancer, there are alternative and healthy ways of De-skinning it. They can pump it and use razor blade to de- skin it rather than using tyres which not only contaminates the meat but degrades the environment and pollutes the atmosphere” he stated.
Speaking further he said that the trend was growing and a lot of people were still ignorant of the ugly development adding that Nigerian entrepreneurs must adopt modern technology as well as improvise to succeed.

Growing up, I got lots of advice from family, friends and even strangers but my the best that still sound clear in my mind and has never been forgotten is......
"There is a lot of people in this world prepared to bring you down, don't let one of them be yourself"
This has stuck with me and made me rethink my decisions and make sure I made the right choices in life. What is the best advice you have gotten before?

obiorathesubtle:
Tell women..

Na them use TOOLS pass..

abi ooo Wetin concerns men

youngG10:
I'm virgin

loll

If you are someone who is sexually active and want to spice up your s*x life,then you would have used s*x toys or you would have at least considered using them, right?

Well, s*x is an extremely important part of a person's life, as it is one of the basic instincts, just like hunger and thirst.
So, once a person is sexually active, it is very important to keep things spiced up in the bedroom, so that you or your partner does not experience boredom!

Gone are the days when s*x was considered to be an act which was done in the dark and kept a secret. These days people are more open about expressing their sexual needs.

So, things like s*x toys have come into the markets and many people use s*x toys in order to make their s*x lives more fun!

Dildos, vibrators, butt plugs, handcuffs, role play costumes, whips, etc., are some of the most popular intimacy gadgets used. Checkout the harzards below...

••Many a times, if the s*x toys, especially dildos and butt plugs are not made professionally, they could be rough and sharp, causing cuts, burns and even organ damage!

••If you do not clean the s*x toys (toys used for genital insertion) on a regular basis, then the bodily fluids can still remain on them from the previous time and cause infection.

••Sharing s*x toys with an infected partner can definitely increase the risk of developing serious sexually transmitted diseases like HIV, herpes, etc.

••Certain materials like PVC, used to manufacture many s*x toys could cause allergic reactions in some people, leading to rashes, burns and inflammation.

••A few research studies have found that certain synthetic materials used to manufacture s*x toys contain carcinogens that can put the users at the risk of developing cancer.

••There are many cases reported when certain s*x toys like butt plugs and dildos were stuck inside of the people using them and they had to be removed with the help of doctors!

••Using s*x toys like vibrators can sometimes cause numbness of the area and permanent sensitivity, especially in a woman's clitoris, thus minimising sexual pleasure.



So my "brothers and sisters", think before you leap. Please drop your comments about your experience or if you agree/disagree with these hazards.

Though understanding women is sometimes very difficult, you don't need much effort to understand men. But still, men get misunderstood in some areas.
Surprised? Well, women think men can't commit. False. Men can commit. Women think men run after only physical beauty. False. Men value homely women more.
This way, there are so many areas in which men get misunderstood.
Men always respond when a woman shows interest. Women might ignore men's signals but when a woman shows interest, no man would ever ignore her advances!
So, if you have a crush on him, but still hesitating, my sister brush off those fears and approach him (not a married man biko)
Men get attracted to two types of women. Whether you like it or not, men categorise all women into two types: irresistible women and homely women and they eventually settle down with type 2. Though men run after irresistible women, they finally settle down with homely women who can care, love and run the house.
Though men crave for physical pleasures, they seldom consider it as the deciding factor while choosing a life partner.
Yes, men can commit! Believe it or not; men value commitment. They settle down when time comes. Yes, there are some hormones and physiological conditions that make men loyal and committed.
Do you know what a woman can do to a man? Well, men like it when a woman stands by a man no matter what. That is one quality a man values in a woman tremendously with all his heart.
What do you think?
http://www.jennifercollinsblog.com/2017/04/truths-about-men.html?m=1

Though understanding women is sometimes very difficult, you don't need much effort to understand men. But still, men get misunderstood in some areas.
Surprised? Well, women think men can't commit. False. Men can commit. Women think men run after only physical beauty. False. Men value homely women more.
This way, there are so many areas in which men get misunderstood.
Men always respond when a woman shows interest. Women might ignore men's signals but when a woman shows interest, no man would ever ignore her advances!
So, if you have a crush on him, but still hesitating, my sister brush off those fears and approach him (not a married man biko)
Men get attracted to two types of women. Whether you like it or not, men categorise all women into two types: irresistible women and homely women and they eventually settle down with type 2. Though men run after irresistible women, they finally settle down with homely women who can care, love and run the house.
Though men crave for physical pleasures, they seldom consider it as the deciding factor while choosing a life partner.
Yes, men can commit! Believe it or not; men value commitment. They settle down when time comes. Yes, there are some hormones and physiological conditions that make men loyal and committed.
Do you know what a woman can do to a man? Well, men like it when a woman stands by a man no matter what. That is one quality a man values in a woman tremendously with all his heart.
What do you think?
http://www.jennifercollinsblog.com/2017/04/truths-about-men.html?m=1

Getting married also means letting your spouse family into your life. But every family is different and not everyone is going to get along all of the time. So what is the ideal relationship you should have with your in-laws?

Communication Is Key

The first step is to determine what you and your in-laws expect from each other by communicating these issues. In-laws can provide great support in the extended family unit however, good communication needs to be established between you and your in-laws so that both parties have appropriate expectations from each other.”


Don't Make Your Spouse Choose

The biggest mistake married partners make in this area is make their spouse choose between them and their parents. This is definitely a no-go. Unless the relationship is abusive, and you believe you or your husband are at serious risk of harm, it's not ok to make your partner choose between you and his family therefore you have to find a way to get along as best you can. It can be helpful to try and put yourself in their shoes and empathise with their position on an issue.


If arguments are common with your in-laws then it may be wise to limit your contact for a while to cool down, but do not restrict your partner. When you are more calm, seek the opportunity to talk about the issues with them - being specific about the issue, talking about how you feel and what you need in positive terms.”


Don't Talk About Your Partner in a Negative Way

Discussing your husband with his family in a negative manner isn't always a good idea. “It really depends on how close you are and the purpose of sharing the negative aspects of your husband or marriage, If you feel close to your in-laws and trust that they care about the two of you and are positive about your future together, then talking out a problem or asking for their advice or point of view may be helpful.

You must be sensitive to crossing the line though; if your in-laws feel your are being very critical and judgmental of their child, they are likely to shut down and your words will backfire on you.


Family Values

For a healthy relationship, it's important to understand where both of you are coming from. “The key foundation which is healthy for a marriage is to understand that each spouse was brought up under a different set of family values and belief systems,” Willy elaborates.

“So in the marriage, the couple has to learn to form a new set of family values to which they agree based on the positive values that they wish to adopt. With these values, the couple then can decide when and how they need to intervene appropriately when dealing with each other’s families.”

Add your opinion and what else....

She is from Benue State-and not just a firefighter but a sexy one and goes by the name Dooshima on Instagram.
You might want to rate her over 10.
http://www.jennifercollinsblog.com/?m=1#

Dextology:
No matter how independent we try to be and guard our heart from desiring love and companionship, there's a craving that will stir up with time to point how necessary we need to have a companion.


Irrespective of the challenges encountered in relationships, there's need to have someone to love and cherish

Please give this person a bottle of cold stout...

He just killed her! she might never post a picture of herself again

Tonto Dikeh exclusively had an interview with Mediaroom Hub where she revealed photos of the injury she claimed was inflicted on her by her entranged husband Churchhill. See more photos of the interview after the cut...

Do you think this is appropriate??

Tomorrow is International Women's day and publisher of Genevieve Magazine, Betty Irabor took to her Instagram to recount her experience with a vicious nurse who couldn't care after she lost her unborn baby and believes that women are sometimes deliberately unkind to one another . Read after the cut....
"Is this your first pregnancy?"The nurse in green uniform asked me as she looked at the screen of the scan machine.
"No, I smiled at her. I was ecstatic because I was going to be a mum a third time... Then the bombshell!!! "If this isn't your first pregnancy, then how come you didn't know there has been no heartbeat?"! "What was she saying?"
I sat up straight and stared at her. Shocked! I was still processing what I thought she meant when she hit me again with; "Get up and dress up, go back to your Gynaecologist for an evacuation before you get an infection". I began to cry, I was dazed, I was traumatized by the news and the viciousness of the nurse. I took one long hateful look at her and cried all the way home. Evacuation over, I decided I wasn't going to let this matter rest. I wasn't going to allow this nurse in a so called prestigious Lagos hospital unleash her bitterness, her bile and hate on any other woman. I was afterall a journalist, so I put pen to paper and told my story to Quality mag, Classic mag and other media where I was a guest columnist. My articles generated public outrage over the nurse's conduct and the hospital had no choice but to invite me for a meeting. I was asked to describe the nurse, I did. She was summoned and we came face to face once more. Surprisingly, she did not deny any of my accusations, she simply said she was sorry. Sorry?
The authorities apologized and promised to take appropriate disciplinary
measures against the nurse.....
It's the International Women's Day tomorrow, beyond the theme # Beboldforchange which addresses the issue of women transcending gender barriers, women must understand that they are nurturers first and foremost.. We are sometimes deliberately unkind to one another. We sometimes can't deal with the success or happiness of other women. As we join the conversations and narratives tomorrow in the pursuit of gender equality and fight against cultural biases that inhibit our growth and potential, let us remember that that change begins with how we as women see , treat and fight for other women.. change truly begins when we do!

Bishop David Oyedepo, the general overseer of Living Faith Church worldwide also known as Winners Chapel, wasn’t impressed with the swags of Nigeria music star, Dapo Oyebanji popularly known as D’banj when they came in contact.
D’banj was recently contacted to perform at a Youth Programme in Covenant University where the Bishop was also a special guest of honour.
When D’banj was introduced by the MC to mount the stage for his performance, D’banj appeared covered in his normal bling-bling mode of dressing and when he was introducing his song, the highly respected Bishop Oyedepo stopped him.
According to an eye witness account, the Bishop’s gesture took everyone by surprise when he ordered the ‘Fall in Love’ crooner to stop his performance.
It was learnt that the Bishop while trying to maintain the good standard of Christianity, told D’banj to remove the entire bling on his neck and to be cautious of what he’d say on stage.
Although Bishop Oyedepo uttered the warning to D’banj jokingly, many maintained that he meant every word he said concerning the music star.

jonaifame22:
God knows I love tonto dikeh frm the onset, I wish it was I who marrried her we won't have broken up.

Its not too late to chase your dream!!

Ehyaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

lefulefu:
second pix..i like those fresh yellow laps .anyway na sin to lust after married woman so make i comot my eye frm dere

Comot am ooo... before u commit Sin.

thornapple:
Some of us think the right way. why the generalization.
You guys are quick to argue all men aren't same but you want to force it down our throats that all ladies are the same?.
In almost all relationships, it's you men that lay the foundations for cheating and dishonesty.
I'll consider making that my next topic.

I look forward to read the next topic

BlackDBagba:
None...

$huuu.. why??

The actress and mother of one rocked one lovely outfit in two different ways. Which one did she rock best?
From http://www.jennifercollinsblog.com/?m=1#

Keneking:
Great

Yes oooo