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The one thing would make me relocate from Nigeria is Insecurity.
We no dey try at all.
Thank God for your life Op.

Why am I not surprised?
And poverty no dey SE oh.
Monarchs, 300k! Haba!!
It's a shame.

Scammer.
A man without honor.

What the youths want is a great thing. Political revolution!
We are just going about it the wrong way. Labour Party won't solve our problems. Neither will Obi.
The youths need a champion, a leader, and it's definitely not Obi.

Imagine people stealing rally money!

Only a handful of Governors deserve any praise. Most are thieves. Wicked, corrupt thieves.
The money in these people's hands will solve Nigeria's problem and still leave enough savings. But the fools would prefer to buy properties all over the world. It's a pity.

God abeg, do something about this country's leadership and citizenry. E don tire me.
And Millions will vote for these old men.

Life is ephemeral.
It still doesn't mean you have to trade it for things money can buy.
Why wait till it's too late!

There's something about Buhari's government I don't understand. In one aspect you feel they have failed extremely. In some, you discover they've done extremely well.
I wish we don't miss Buhari in the near future.
I hope the next government will do much better.
God bless Nigeria.
We have nowhere else to call home.

Emergingnation3:
Las las Biafra will come and Nigeria will go into Oblivion..

Wow. Why are you people so evil minded.
It's one thing to wish for Biafra, another thing to wish evil for Nigeria. You and 45 other people who like this should go and flush your minds off evil inclinations.
It will be well with Nigeria with or without the South East (Biafra).

See how this one is boasting of illegality, crime as if it's an achievement.
Why would pipelines even need protecting if we are normal in these parts!

It's a query and not punishment per see, so reply the query with your explanation to what happened and your lack of knowledge about the code of conduct.
Though ignorance is no excuse in law. Good luck.

Please I need your attention on this. https://www.nairaland.com/7273115/just-advice-need-it-please

Really sad.
I hope her family surfaces.


This thread need your attention please. https://www.nairaland.com/7273115/just-advice-need-it-please

Wow. I'm impressed.
Na man im be.

Vision101:
@Davies25

Your requests are complicated. I'll help you with one. Regarding your debt discuss with your creditors to do bullet payment.

Thank you. The complications brought me here.
About the loan, I don't have a lump sum to pay. The entire loan amount will be due by next month. Or can you explain the bullet payment further?
Thank you.

OlawaleBammie:
U said ur kid spoiled ur laptop, na u stil say should u marry and make kids....my confusion is confused jare

I've edited it. She's adopted.

Freelane33:
Your baby damaged one ?
And can you marry and have kids ?
Which of them should I believe now ?
Pls come out clean and be straight forward so that I can be able to give you my one cent
Work on how to leave the country that’s the best thing you can do at the moment since you have someone there that can help you with papers .
You can start your life afresh when you get there , go to school , marry , have kids and other . USA is a country where systems work so left to me traveling out is the best option .
Gather the money and stay true and glued to the plans .
The problem you’re having at the moment is as a result of your different projections ( directionless ) .
You can’t chase two rats together
And the end of desire is the end of suffering
Stay glued to a plan and work on how to make it work

Lol, I have a girl i adopted. She stays with me for now.
Thank you.

I can't make a head or a tail out of this story.
I just hope i can be coherent enough.

Okay, I'm 30. I've been through some serious shit like I'll health, several near death experiences, severe poverty, betrayal in every form n shade, dysfunctional family, loneliness and addiction. I hope you don't judge me if i come out as unserious and confused. Seriously, it's the effects of the things I've been through.

So, I need to make a life defining decision and i need to make it urgently. But i don't know how to or what to do.

I took a loan from a commercial bank ( the loan went bad and i couldn't pay. My business was almost dead. I had to take initiative and kickstart it again, diverting from the original plan. It worked. I started making a few hundreds a month. I started repayment of my loan but, unfortunately, the loan has already carried too much interest. Everything I'm paying goes to interest. Loan amount not really reducing.

I need to pick up other skills or just have another stream of income since I'm free most of the day..
So, I'm thinking of getting a laptop ( my baby damaged my previous one).
And learning forex trading, cryptocurrency.
Or learn a few programming language ( i don't like programming from onset).
Or learn any other skill you suggest.
My other option is to go back to school. School of nursing or msc. But money would be a bit of a challenge here.

Or travel to the US using illegal means ( i hate this option).

I have a sister in the USA who entered through F1 dependent visa. She's been there for about 4 years now. Is there a way she could help me move?
She has been on my neck for relocation but she's not giving me money for the things i need to put in place to make relocation possible. My funds are too tight to fund travelling.

My last option is to face my business squarely and try to grow it ( but Nigeria scares me. I've seen people struggle for decades. I don't want to make that mistake).

I don't know what to do. Sincerely.

Note: I'm a sickle cell. I had congestive heart failure earlier this year. I don't even know if i will survive the next few years.

Leading me to the next question; SHOULD I MARRY N HAVE KIDS? knowing my health status. Is it wise?
Note: my baby is a 3 n half old. She's adopted.
Her own case is another story entirely.

proff010 HRHQueenPhil
Candidlady mariahAngel
hsapien Richy4
emmanuelbrown26
Beremx. Channah1
Lastbornbuns
NoToPile
RoyalRoy I need as many people on this as possible. Please.

EmahBoss:
One word, you are selfish!
Two words: confused and in serious.
How on earth would you think a 22 ambitious girl with 4 marketable skills who aims to travel out wants to be with you resolute knowing you have a live in single mother lover? Guy you are cruise to her. She has better options. The fact that you think you can make a woman run your business well by sleeping with her means you are shallow

You took the words outta my head.

But don't think that's all the story. I believe you are deep minded enough to know a less than 500 words story doesn't tell you my total story. Or even the entire events.
Dating her was necessary at the time. Yea, it was a wrong call but, it was the only viable solution I could think of as of then.

As for my 22 year old, people make choices, people make decisions, As long as they are not coerced into it. 5% of the story isn't even here.

Sorry, i don't know how to tag everybody or reply everyone. I appreciate you all, including the trolls.
I have a correction regime for her ( I lock her up in her room for hours, and for more serious offences, i lock her in the visitors toilet for a few minutes. And i tell you, she dreads it. Even way more than beating. I've beaten her with USB cord a couple of times too. She hates it too. But we always end each quarrel with a hug and soothing words/correction words.
I think those things are working. But i think she picks a lot of things from school and play mates that i can't control ( na wetin i see i go fit control).

I've seen kids spiral out of control with too heavy handling. That scares me.

About the Kissing stuff, i didn't see anything tooo bad in it. I just talked to her and let her know she's not old enough. I don't think she understands me though .

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Candidlady:

HRHQueenPhil:

hsapien post=115337057:

We don't even have a TV though she has a tab and i control the contents she sees.

emmanuelbrown26:

Lol

ZIMDRILL post=115353497:
In your situation your daughter copied from somewhere most likely within your home

We don't make out in her presence. Highest has been a hug.
Thank you

Beremx:

Thank you.

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I can say we've never made out in her presence. I've been very cautious of that. That's why she sleeps alone.
Thanks

The food make sense, na the packaging no good.

That's my take. But people no dey ever understand. Marriage is overated ai swear. Just don't be broke.
You will always have people around you.
Na poverty dey make person marry cos say e wan see someone to talk to, àbí help mate, àbí kini.

debbydams:
u opened a thread on how u having issues with single mother, gf and sales Gurl yesterday, today u have daughter of 3 years old again giving u problem.. Wait, which one should we believe

If you read very well you will see where I said :
1) I will be creating many threads
2) that i adopted my single mom's child.
It's still the same child ma

mariahAngel:
Have you and her mom been doing certain things in her presence?

No ma.
I'm 100% sure of that.

Babaken:
exactly my thought that story is not real.

Read my previous story.

Hello familylanders,
I have a 3 year old girl who's my life. She's cute, good and almost perfect.
But recently, I've discovered she's intentionally being disobedient. Like, you literally have to threaten her sometimes to do somethings. People say she's spoilt but i don't see that element in her. I just see a growing girl. She doesn't overdo things.

The reason for this thread be say...
Uhm, my girl likes to cuddle, she likes to be touched, more like a cat �. I didn't see anything sexual in it until my baby was Caught Kissing a 4 year old male. My heart has been paining me since then. Have i failed as a father?
The mom wanted me to scold her or even beat her but I've been confused. Does she know it's a sexual act or she just saw someone doing it?
Can my baby understand sex education at 3?
What should be my reaction?
I'm lost really.

emmeyen:
Na now you land. Na that fine dey freak you abi?

I was just catching cruise with that comment, you should read the tone.

emmeyen:
Na now you land. Na that fine dey freak you abi? What tells you she wants to end up with a sickle cell man who is probably in his late thirties or early forties. Its not your fault, its because your business has revived. When she runs you down well, your eye go clear. Sha loose the sales girl and let her go and please unadopt the poor child. The adoption was just a way of getting into the mother's pants.

Lol, first, I'm 30. She's 22.
Second, i adopted the girl cos i love her. She's always going to be a part of my life wherever she is.
Thirdly, I'm not even particular about the new girl, yes, i like her, even love her but it's not a do or die thing.
Fourthly, I've been in several contractual relationships and they've all ended well cos most of the girls are matured and knows what they want. So, i didn't think hers would be different.
Fifthly, my business wasn't dying, i wasn't just available. She took care of the gap and i appreciated that by giving her a stake in the business. So sir/ma, you got it all wrong.
And lastly, being a sickle cell doesn't stop me from living a good life. I go for whatever i want.
I've got matured women willing to do anything to end up with me. So yes, i believe she will want to be with me if it's what she wants

AndroidAI:
This one is an idiiot.

In fact i hope she poison you

Ah, bros why now.
Our relationship was contractual.
It is well Sha

Nicepoker:
"Fast forward I met a girl, she is everything I ever wanted. I am like a Nigerian girl having everything you ever wanted. No wonder you feel like dying.

Like i tell you
Make girl have like 4 marketable skills, connects with you well, ambitious and she com fine like maaad join.
Wetin ah wan want again?