Are u for real?

Skyview01:


Yea, if you are the ex!

There is nothing wrong in it.

na cold cause am

so, this story still get part 2!

U see this gender eh. She painted the picture as if the man was bad (toxic). She never said how he paid for her luxurious lifestyle. Haba! Obirin!

Can't believed I wasted my time to read this fiction. Anyway, nice story line!

ebubeson:
She was a devoted lady in church and always prayed out loud. She was an example to young ladies and always talked about by parents. She always posted religious things on social media, but a bad guy was secretly sleeping with her. This guy was an Indian hemp smoker that loved taking sex enhancing drugs. She walks decently to his room like someone coming to preach, while he disrespectfully pull her cloths and twists her for voracious sex.

So Pastor Bidemi had an eye on her. He had found a "virtuous" women. He had told his mum of her, and his mum was excited, saying "such a lovely lady". Pastor Bidemi summoned courage and met her, they became friends, and later he proposed marriage to her following the church way..

Her open slogan was "no sex before marriage". She had told pastor Bidemi that, and that was not an issue to him because he was a very good Christian. Even the day she told him that, she had sex with the hemp smoker the next day....
Pastor Bidemi was so happy and everything was going well. When pastor Bidemi asked her about her virginity, she lied to him that a neighbor took advantage of her when she was young, and she has been living in trauma. She said she hates men alot and has not had sex for over 20 years after the incident. Pastor Bidemi encouraged her and told her to forgive anyone who did her wrong...

The going went well and everything was in place, with their church assisting and supporting the marriage process. While the marriage processes were going on, this same hemp smoker was busy sleeping with her roughly and abandoning her on the bed after ejaculating. Sometimes she feels weak and depressed after the sex, but gets deep consolation from the comfort of Pastor Bidemi who knows nothing about it.

All processes were done, and it was now just a day to the wedding. She screamed, "oh I forgot to give someone my wedding card". Actually she had not given the hemp smoker her wedding card, though he was fully aware of the wedding process. So she left to give him the wedding card, and they had sex romp to the point that some secretions touched the wedding card. It was without protection and it was the dirtiest, as she didn't want to come back after the wedding...

The next day, the wedding was done, and she cried tears of joy as Pastor Bidemi said "yes I do" with tears flowing from his eyes too. To him, he had gotten a "virtuous" woman.

The marriage was sealed and the journey began. Indeed the Marriage was a beautiful one, filled with fun, laughter, games, picnic, love, happiness. So some days later, she was confirmed to be pregnant. They joy and ecstasy was so much to the point that Pastor Bidemi got a special doctor to check her till she gave birth.

On the Nineth month, she gave birth to a bouncing baby boy, and the boy was later named Bidemi too; that is Bidemi jnr.

Things were going so well and doors were opening until they got visa to live abroad. It was indeed a big one as the testimony made the church shout for joy..

On the visa process, there was need to do DNA test for the child. That never bothered pastor Bidemi nor her, as they felt all was alright.

When the DNA test came out, it was negative, showing that Pastor Bidemi was not the child. He fought the doctors around and talked of baby swapping issue, but it dawned on him that his wife gave birth in his presence, and he followed the process diligently. So they went to four different hospitals to do DNA testing, all proved negative and that it wasn't his child. He thought it was witchcraft manipulation. But he finally asked his wife if anything was wrong "she said nothing". Then it dawned on her that a night to their wedding, she had raw sex.

Things unfolded and she confessed. She was thrown out by Pastor Bidemi and his family, and became a single mother. The hemp guy had gone out of the country and was no where to be found...

The traps of evil pleasure.

#fiction

You better run for your life. Or u stay there and die. The choice is yours

oyinsbank:
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5m? or 500, 000

This do happen all the time. May God protect our girl child. No security at all in this country.

Michael547:

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Okay. I will even refer u

kinzey1:


Pls go for the BMW if that is your choice.
I have not own a BMW. Get a very good 1 so you avoid repairs too often.

Thanks

kinzey1:


Hahahah the comparism is funny. Compare Toyota and Honda. The Benz and BmW.

If you need a car, your budget of cost and maintenance will determine what you will get

hhmmmmm. That's right. But which one will you go for personally?
Actually, I love BMWs. I have used the e36 and e46 too, but a friend was telling me about getting a Toyota due to fuel efficiency and also because the spares are easy to get. Now, I want to buy another BMW: e90 but another friend of mine is telling me to get a big daddy.

Between the the toyota big daddy and bmw e90. Which is better ?

Sniper101:
OP

I personally may not take back a cheating wife. But then, you're not me.

if you plan to continue in that marriage, I'll suggest you at least humiliate that wife of yours a bit before taking her back.
Go back to your house and send her packing to her father's house. Let everyone (who cares to know) know why you've sent her packing.

Bring her back after 3 to 4months and continue with your marriage. But in the course of these 3 to 4months, if she had visited that other man AGAIN, then "do not" take her back. Ever.

That's risky.

skj1377:
Do you think public figures like Peter obi , Tinubu or even sanwo olu have not cheated on their wife? Even to their knowledge? If they had divorced their husband or stop being good and loving partners today they will not be First lady. Cheating in marriage is very expensive so if your husband is managing his monthly salary cheating may not be affordable. Once a man is wealthy a woman has to go the extra mile to keep her man , marriage and family. Even you making so much noise about walking out is because your man or boyfriend has not spoilt you with luxury . If he has even at the boyfriend level you will fight tooth and nail to keep him.

Waooh. I rememebered Fatoyinbo and Joshua's case. hhmmm. This is another twist.

skj1377:
My dear your not realistic. Marriage is not relationship. If your lucky to even get a husband in the first place better keep him. If you walkaway from your marriage because of cheating your fooling yourself. Eventually, your new man if he is successful will cheat or you yourself will end up as a side chick of a successful married man( man cheating on his wife with you). Besides, the husband you left if comfortable or wealthy will get your replacement in a week or two but on the other hand even if your wealthy you may not find a new husband at all but just an ATM to a broke dude or sugar mummy to a Younger man cheating on his girlfriend. My dear if your married better think of your children and stay married. Serious married women fight to keep their man but only divorce the husband if he wants to officially marry a second wife or bring her home with him unofficially.

hmmmmm. There is truth in this as well. Like the case of Yul!

Ethanol per liter is more expensive to petrol. SO I don't understand the blending o.

lordnkem000:

Deep down u know I'm right, though I agree with some of your assertions. I am not saying we couldn't or shouldn't be better, all I'm saying is man was created with a lot of identical flaws due to the work load or responsibility or expectations that comes win being a man. Atleast that's how I've come to think and see it. A woman's sole responsibility is to be wife, which means a helper & home keeper. Therefore a promiscuous or cheating woman should never be kept, the society, the bible, everything mocks and abhor such man.
Myself I am not cheating, don't tolerate it, am not even in any relationship now and that's because breaking up gave me back my peace & helped me to want to become better. Honestly u re not worse, for starters, u re so intelligent, just see how u are holding a long conversation with me & etc, that's something 90% of today's women can't do. I've followed 80% of ur comments here & u really are awesome with ur ideas and input. Try allow me win u na, u too wise

See lines.

Deicide:
I overheard a woman in the market telling her male child that "Is it not your mate that are doing yahoo yahoo to feed their family?" When i heard it i was shocked, I first look around to make sure say Na 9ja i day, where morality is the number one thing. Na so e don bad for this country reach?

Come to Ikorodu, Sagamu and Ijebu ode. Dem yapa!

GOFRONT:
My Boss wife be saying."she will never check oga's phone". Now me and oga travelled recently. After checking In my hotel room, Oga picked another different location of hotel.

Before I know, my oga wife don dey blast my phone wit calls. She say oga number number switch off. Madam give me wahala that night no be small.........but sha, I know say oga don control one for the night.

Madam, try be checking oga's phone once in a while. E get why.

This is hilarious.

Persephone1:
Lol 😂 😂 😂 Nkem, kindly go back to your previous posts and read again this time with an open mind then you will realize who has been "absorbing" the other. You even went as far as painting men as mindless creatures
Where did you agree? C'mon! I'm yet to see that both online or offline. The only time a man will agree to his shortcomings he will drag woman enter with "No one is perfect" quote You will hear " Erm... Nne, no one is perfect, even you have your flaws, just forgive and forget ehn" obim, omalicha..." Forget bikonu, you know I love you" . That's cajoling not even apology let alone agree to weakness or shortcomings. Lol. My dear don't patronize me!
You need good women to marry but you don't want to be good men yourselves. That's the problem, you want women to keep managing you while you remain unrefined and spoilt. When these women don't manage you but demand accountability, you call them Satan. Interesting!

Don't put me in 3% biko.... I worse pass those women self . While those women are nice enough to get to know you , I jump and pass.

hhmmmmm. Just passing by.

Justkatty:
Oya Pele o.
My pleasure too.

I don dey follow u

Akposkiz:
Pls can Rh positive (+) get married to Rh negative (-).?

The possibility to get pregnant for a Rh+ man is high.

Once she gets pregnant for a positive man and rushes to have a quick abortion, she might have as well jeopardized her life.

Apart from this, a woman with a negative rhesus factor has no problem.

it can however be controlled with Rh Immunoglobulin injection.

Yes but the woman should get the Rh Immunoglobulin Injection after the first child birth but if she has had a miscarriage or abortion, she could get the injection within a month after the incident to prevent future forced abortion or miscarriage

ahnie:
A lady close to me suffered this thingy,she lost multiple pregnancies.

She n her husband later parted ways,and she remarried she's a mum of 1 kid now.

That is usually the case. hhhmmm. But the trauma and heartbreaks could be avoided on time if one is in the know.

Justkatty:
Haha
You want to be a bone on my neck?

I just dey return am as u dey give me hot hot.
. Its nice meeting on this platform

Hmmmmmm. Thats right.

lordnkem000:

That's exactly what am saying, many men think with their dicks instead of their heads, we recognize that flaws and I must tell u it's not right. This is why it's important we have a wife who's loyal and helps us to fight this temptations. Once a woman understands this, she will know how to make her marriage work. It's not easy. Remember, marriage favors the woman and men has no benefits in it. We pay the dowry, pay the bride price, protect the woman, pay rents, pay school fees, stretch hands to the woman's family too. Take care of the bills at home, etc. All these favors the woman. Am yet to see what favors the man. So the least we expect is a loyal woman who's submissive and know her role, not a rival who bleeps around. Am not saying men should cheat, am saying the woman should understand the life of a man is so hard and complicated

lordnkem000:

All u do is absob women of blames and that make it partial, u re just not being fair.
Men we agree on our faults and weaknesses, but why can't you women do same. We need good women to marry, unfortunately, today's women are worse than Satan. Just 3% are actually better. I actually put u in that 3% because u have made a good impression of urself to me

Little21:

It's very simple. Just be a faithful husband and a loyal one. It's not that hard.
After going around and trying something new, and your wife sees that, she definitely also will try something new.
You aren't the only one who can try "something new" keep that in mind.

@bolded. Divorce is gonna be much, cuz you can't be trying to do your best, and the other party is going around trying "something new", It can't work out.
So it's better for both parties to go different ways, and everyone is gonna be free and happy with each other's "something new".
It's TIRING to be the only one putting in effort, and the other party isn't helping. [b] Is that the kind of marriage you dreamed of having? [/b]If no, then it's best too put an end to it.

At the end of the day, who is at the receiving end? How many times is it considered to be "tiring" before a woman cheat? You can not justify cheating that way.
Then to your question, putting an end to it means that the man has cheated before and now advised to stop in other to keep his home. Good! Then, why should the woman after the husband repented also cheat back?
A man that cheat will never be impregnated unlike a woman. So the risk is high on the woman than to the man.
So, who again is at the receiving end?

Chelsea is a disgrace

Little21:

The problem is men can't control themselves.
They wanna have s*x with any lady with a big booty, with a big breast.
An underage girl walking around in shorts, you wanna have a taste. Does that even sounds like an excuse?
Living in a white man land, they dress freely with any part of their body out. Cuz they don't cover their body the way you want, you wanna have a taste?
You gotta focus on what you wanna do, not be influenced by whatever you see. Even tho you know it's wrong, you still wanna have a taste,cuz you like what you see?
Until when are you gonna keep wanting to have a taste? Until there is no one you haven't have a taste of.
Men's talk like women don't have a feeling. Who said only men are influenced by what they see? Women are also influenced. But a woman won't wanna lose her face, she don't wanna bring shame to her children, by them being called " wayward kids".
A woman thinks all that, and try too keep her family dignity. But men, you don't even think like that. You go on like" I still love her, I just wanna have a taste of something new". Does that sounds realistic? After being married, you wanna try something new? That's a good way too put it.

You can't compare the western live to here. Over there, sex in cheap and alot of children dont even know their fathers. Infact, that is the problem. Because we compare ourselves with the western world. Thats the reason why divorce is rampant today.

It is not usual for a woman to want to try something new while in a marriage. Once she start thinking of that, it means she has lost her love for her husband and the marriage. But this wasnot so in the olden days.

Sheistoopretty:
N!geri@n M£N are Uselezz..... All of Them

You are sure you will get married.

Persephone1:
By they i will like to assume you meant women because literally women make the whole efforts in keeping marriage together, some men do too but it's not common. The reason most marriages fail and break up is because women aren't putting that extra effort anymore which i won't blame them for because it's TIRING. Fighting for who doesn't want to be won, enduring emotional abuse, doing all to create and maintain a home with someone who doesn't see anything wrong in bringing third party, building while the other party is destroying. And the in-laws, society, people.... Lol nahhhhhh marriage takes a toll on a woman who is in it alone. I don't blame women for not investing in marriages anymore after all they are not their husbands' blood according to most men.

Everyone has a deal breaker, for me it is cheating and to be honest I'm not sure if I can forgive it or let it go and pretend like nothing happened. It's not INTENTIONAL it's NATURAL for me. The image of the man's lips kissing another and his member in another's deepsea will always flash through my mind whenever we are together. I love my man pure and chaste same way I am, whatever he had done in the past remains there when with me . And cheating to me also mean "You weren't enough, you are not worth growing with so I find another" . That is betrayal . I really doubt if I can forgive a cheating partner. It cuts too deep for me.

So if any other woman/ man feels same, I'd be hypocritical to think or encourage him or her to stay. If you want a lasting marriage, don't do what you don't want others to do to you.

This is a perfect opinion for me and a lot of people. You are truly intelligent and u just earn a follower.

God bless you more with wisdom

Persephone1:
The truth is no woman forgives cheating. Just like the vivid presentation the husband gave of his wife's cheating, women feel the same too the only difference is women tend to distract themselves and focus on the kids why still in the relationship,yes they are that emotionally intelligent and of course society normalizes and downplay men's infidelity.
But trust me, if you want to kill the love, peace, friendship and normality in your marriage, cheat on your wife. No matter how much you try to patch your marriage will never be the same. You become a public property to her and there will be limit to how far she can go for you in life.

As for payback cheating, lol it's just opportunity to cheat and be half right. Complete waste of time, risk and emotions in my perspective. You are just doing yourself In the long run it won't heal you but darken you. This applies to both men and women.
If you can't forgive, walk out! Don't deceive yourself.

God bless you