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oke2018:
Fake or no fake , things dey occur , even now things dey occur well well .

Don't know that. Or they chose not to. Things dey really occur.

Ademoore07:
Honestly, i once experience this.

Some people right here will still call u a liar.

EZENDIZUOGU:
Just ask God for forgiveness and move on. Men are generally jealous , kill the idea of confessing to your husband, unless you are tied of that marriage because your husband will always use it against you anytime there is misunderstanding between you both. my 10k advice

True

SisterAnn:
The last time I saw the guy I gave my virginity, I gave him a wide berth.

You just earn my follow. You are one of the few sincere person right here.

otosa:
The most significant thing about the cemetery is that it full of untold stories.

God bless you.

sammhi:
Ur moniker shows you are Male so who is the husband or U be gay ?

You are so daft to even believe it was my story. You had time to check monika, but you could not read where the story was taken from? Olodo!

No offence, u sounds like a kid.

obaaderemi:
Fake ass busted.

Daughterboard:
This is one of the approaches to adopt. Before Op confesses to her husband, she should first secure an accommodation. Move her belongings to her new accommodation and from there makes a call to her husband to confess and ask for his forgiveness. She should not attempt to return to her husband until he personally persuaded her to return. It's a form of reversed psychology on the husband and the entire family.

Hhmmmmm!

perezeghi:
While your husband has written his path, you later joined in to write yours......
Well good that both of you are on NL. Go on and make a comment on his and maybe he'll make on yours.
For a married woman you are catching cruise and no iota of shame.


https://www.nairaland.com/7284714/wifes-ex-boyfriend-ruin-marriage

Waooh. I didn't know about this. As you can see, shit happens in life. So many marriages are in trouble. This story is legit.

I am so tired replying all these brainless human who can not read carefully. Go to the bottom of what you regards as BS and see for your self. Olodo!

anonimi:
Did you change to a woman to type this BS

Elsueno:


This story na pure lie
Even d sister sef no go allow u to sleep in same room with her brother, she go invite u to stay with her. Muslims are very sensitive to these kind of stuff...Even as a joke she no go allow u to fuvck 4 d house. Now even if dat ur ex no get sense him go sleep for parlor & ask u to take d room Incase his sister did not ask u to share d room with her.

iN CONCLUSION, THIS IS MADE UP BULLSHYT

Hhhmmmm, This is another twist to the story. May God bless u with wisdom.

AlanSugar:
Fake arse op.
You slept with your ex and you suspect your husband now knows, question is, are you gay cus I'm seeing your genre as male here?

I wonder how u were able to excel in English language in your WAEC or NECO. And you can't see that the story is attributed to Relationship matters. Olodo!

bonnyhope:
This does not sound like a real life story

Women cannot be this useless

I disagree

Okay

forerunner022:
I put it to you that, you already wished to have sex with your ex on your official assignment journey, that's why of all places it is your ex sister's place you choose to lodge. I thought when someone is married, he or she should cut ties with his or her ex by all means necessary to avoid such temptations. Now the deed is done and your conscience has been eating you up for the past ten years. But wait o, e get wetin you never tell us; where did you tell your husband you lodge that night you had sex with your ex?

He knows the truth about where I slept but didnt opened up about ....

Blackman101:
if the story is true oh, cos i have my reservations, My God forgive you, Some secretes are taken to the grave.

It is true.

Then he is entitled to his and you to urs.

addexx:
He made a valid point. How do you sleep with someone in another person's living room in a house full of people without flinching.
I smell lies

Hmmmmm!

OBTOREPA:
Proverb 28:13 Says, " He that covereth his sin shall not prosper,but he that confesseth and forsakes his sin shall obtain mercy.
You have been weighed in the balance and are found wanting. Confess to your husband to free yourself from that sin and bandage of hell fire as a matter of restitution.
Mark my word, you will fill the joy after this. Remain blessed!

mmyfarmsltd:
Story or not my brother these things happen in real life.

Because it never happened to them. FYI, this story is legit. Just that some people's brain has turned to stones of foolishness.

casualobserver:
No man ever trusts a woman who is unfaithful again. Even when he is unfaithful with you he won’t trust you, I.e even the ex you had an affair with can never trust you again though he won’t say so. Trust me he is thinking to himself I dodged a bullet!!!

These are your options. Neither is good but that is your cross to bear.

1) kept quiet make sure it never happens again SEvere links with your exes family and friends and hope and pray he never finds out.

2) tell him but know your marriage is over even if he says he forgives you and doesn’t leave you. You will destroy him and he will never truly forgive you. We men don’t forget!!


Always severe like last with exes. If you must maintain a relationship with their sisters etc, make sure it is at a distance, precisely for situations like this.

In relationships, sometimes the truth does more damage than concealment!!

Thank you

zeenaman:
This is not only a sin to your husband, but a sin to God. I'll advise you seek forgiveness from God. Telling your husband is the same as saying good bye to your marriage, or at least a good bye to a happy home

Hhhmmmm. You are right.

The lame aspect is your opinion though. And thanks for the advice.

kelspinall:
after reading this lame story and the op's replies and comment i understand that someone is just catching cruise and pulling ur attention..

lastly, never make a #oe a housewife....post malone's voice..


peace

We still have faithful ones bros.

Savedday:
I fear person wey no fear 9ja girls! Collecting d!ck and forming guilty as if when u see ur ex again , u won't collect more d!ck.

9ja girls are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

obaaderemi:
Fake story and you people are responding to him.

See him here:

Is that all you can do? So, that is the only way to prove the story is fake? Or that you dont know how to read. Now I know why Buhari is your president.smh!

So, what is the way out?

Ayomidejoseph:
The truth is, its you feeling guity and unable to forgive yourself. Your husband certainlly knows nothing, so its you who's changed.

GOFRONT:
Hmmm.....Okafors law is strong abeg....

Okafor's law of Congoelasticity at play.

Oga, come teach us this law Pls, explain.

airminem:
You need to tell your husband. Admitting to Nairaland is not the same as telling your spouse.

I am sure she is seeing this. This was my point all along.

Apparently, you can't comprehend a simple comprehension. You are among the people that doesn't read the instructions on an exam paper before answering the questions.
Olodo!

poshestmina:
A male moniker on Nairaland cheated on "her dear husband with her ex".
.

You all just sit and write false stories , just to discredit women and bring the Alfamails with only soaked garri and salt in their stomach, crawling all over the thread.

Toor!
Mr OP , cheating on your husband was bad , hope your scrotum isn't pregnant with a bastaaaard yet.

uboma:
I remember this cog light alright.


it happened to me about two years ago. my car will drag and won't go uphill.


I replaced th gear oil on two separate occasions as advised by my "Kazeem" at the time, to no avail.


I finally met a rewire who doubles as a BMW user too. He sorted this issue for me and I haven't had it since then.


It is an electrical problem. I wish you are around the FCT....


Go ahead with the scan and post the codes that come up.

You are right. I noticed some stuff as well o the car. I will see a rewire today

That's what I m experiencing right now. I changed my screen clock and the cog light came up. I couldn't see it before in the previous screen clock. So, I'm still looking for a way out.

Very Educating! Kudos!

marryjamess:
It doesn't matter if there are just a few drops or a substantial puddle; this raises some sort of concern in the mind. You can afford to ignore the oil leak, but you should never try to put it off completely while keeping in mind the repercussions.

However, finding an oil leak for a professional is not difficult as it can be done with just a quick inspection. However, once there is an oil spot, it is up to you how you respond.

Your car uses gaskets to close up a number of points, including the timing belt cover, camshaft, and the oil pan, etc. However, they frequently serve as the primary cause of leaks of any kind.

In the meantime, it is preferable to have a few ideas about what could be causes and where your car might be leaking oil.

Worn Oil Pan Gasket

The oil pan is a common spot for oil leakage. The oil pan is located somewhere near the bottom under the hood. Therefore, there is a huge probability for damage from a hit when travelling over an uneven bump.

However, if used for a prolonged period of time, oil pan gaskets are vulnerable to wear and tear. A worn oil pan gasket will not be able to seal the oil pan with the engine block.

Oil pan gaskets can be changed, but you must be sure of the exact amount of engine oil because leakage could cause it to reduce. Simply schedule a car oil change at Service My Car if it is below the recommended level.

Cam Shaft and Crankshaft Seals

As an engine’s internal component, the crankshaft is fixed at the bottom while sticking out a bit from two sides of an engine.

However, it is protected by the seals at both ends to prevent the engine oil from leaking. But, if these seals start to worn out, there are a whole lot of chances of leakage.

Similarly, the camshaft too has seals at both ends, and they might get worn over time, resulting in leakage.

However, it cannot be identified until you make an inspection under the hood. A leak needs to be taken care of on-time.

Cover Gasket or Seal

In an engine, a timing belt works with the crankshaft and camshaft. Modern automobiles use a timing chain rather than a timing belt, though both are concealed by a cover.

A timing chain is lubricated by the engine oil, so there are seals to protect any kind of leakage. But, there is always a probability of leakage. This leakage does not appear too hazardous until it results in a lack of lubrication and, consequently, some sort of internal damage.

A common risk due to timing cover seal leakage is damage to the timing chain and even the camshaft and crankshaft. Therefore, you have to check for the seal and replace it as well as look for the timing chain and go for car timing chain replacement if needed.

Leaking Cylinder Head Gasket

A head gasket protects the engine from the infiltration of coolant. However, if it gets worn, there are a lot of chances of coolant infiltration, but in some types of engines (especially boxer engines); the head gasket may cause external leakage of engine oil.

Therefore, a worn head gasket is not a matter of ignorance as it might affect engine operations and force you to go for expensive car engine repair.

Loose Oil Filter and Drain Plug

Every time you arrange a car service for your vehicle, the oil filter is always changed and the oil drain plug is exchanged. However, there are enough chances of human error that your car’s air filter might get loose and the oil drain plug is not installed properly.

In such a scenario, you may often spot some oil dripping under your car.

Loose-Filler Cap

Engine oil is reserved inside an oil tank and it is safeguarded with a filler cap. However, a loose cap might be the reason for the leakage.

However, it is simple to spot because there might be a sizable oil puddle under your car because oil may leak out of the tank's mouth in large quantities.

Excess Engine Oil

It is expected that a damaged seal or a loose filler cap will cause an engine oil leak. If there is too much engine oil under the hood, it could also leak.

You can recognize this if there is a puddle of oil under your car but there is no check engine light on the dashboard.

The overflow is caused by too much oil. The extra oil can easily be identified from the vehicle using a dipstick, so this is not a serious problem. When filling the oil tank, there may occasionally be some extra oil that spills out of the tank. However, this might only produce a puddle of oil once or twice.

Your vehicle consists of a number of fluids, such as transmission fluid, brake fluid, and coolant, etc. They all hold a risk of leakage. However, engine oil is more prone to leakage. The leakage from the engine often appears to be light brown or black in colour under your vehicle.

However, a leakage happens due to the worn and damaged parts, while you can easily avoid such events by opting for scheduled car maintenance at a reliable service centre such as Service My Car. Here, you also get all your needs fulfilled with your car service without any hassle. Just book a service online or request a quote at our website. You can also call our service representative.

If you need any type of Car service or repair, Service My Car provides you free pickup and delivery plus full car servicing at the nearest Car service center.

BlackPantherxXx:
Fake stories everywhere. Easy to detect. Empty of logic

Thats your opinion! Doubting Thomas

Russi:
Service

Trying to believe this fake story where strangers sleep together in the living room of a house full of kids and a smart sister who runs the house.

This smart ex-bf sister asks you to sleep in same room with your ex?

You must've had no plans to do anything else but fx.

That is your opinion. Thomas generation!