₦airaland Forum

angelbaby22: Your sister Inlaw hasn't done anything to you. You don't sound like you've made an effort to be accommodating at all you should try and be nicer remember you married into their family you have to give them reasons to love you.

But. Pp, you should have made such things clear from the beginning that you don't intend on living with in laws. I've told my fiancé this already before marriage has even begun just so he doesn't try it.

Plus remember marriage isn't a small thing if your fed up of the marriage because of this little thing then you shouldn't have married to begin with because you don't sound mature enough for such responsibility.

I hope you or your husband never stayed with anyone while growing up, and I hope your children would never stay with anyone too in their whole life

Whats all this Yeye privacy you are talking about sef. Is she joining you on the bed while phucking?
Why cant people just be a little tolerant?

While in school I was staying with over 10 boys in a small room not bigger than a kitchen, even at almost every point in my life I had to stay with people either family or friends.

Thats what makes us Africans our ability to tolerate people thats why we dont ship our families and elderly ones to a Old peoples Homes

Didnt you also live with people I also hope your children would never need to live with people cos thats the same way they would tell him they needed their privacy

Nonsense

OP is even phoney

Eziachi: I am Igbo and there are no people anywhere in Africa called Ibo, and not in Biafra that I knew.

Well I guess Achebe who described his people as Ibo in his own books must have been wrong

Azikwe also described the people of eastern Nigeria as Ibos

So why the denial

Eziachi: In that case, you need to go back to your book and re-educate yourself, because Bianca Onoh was already many years into her crown as miss Nigeria before she got married to Ikemba, unless Nigeria was guilty too of crowing an underage person a beauty queen.

And where I comes from you don't call someone close to 30 years of age an underage girl. This what desperation causes, you start to reason like......

Ojuku was already sleeping with Bianca when she was under aged he only waited to formally marry her.

Eziachi: Who is my people? And where did you get the idea that I had a people online?

Your people in this context means the Ibo people Biafrans

Eziachi: Is that what they call marriage between a man and a woman where you comes from-molestation? I am a product of that molestation club and I now knew that you are not one of us in that noble molestation club. Shame!

Molestation is when you sleep with an under aged girl that happens to be your own GodDAUGHTER even without her fathers consent

Ojuku was a cowardly animal in human clothing but thats another topic for another thread this is about Ashebe who died a bitter man

One_Naira: see this 1diot. in Igbo culture, you need your father's permission before you marry someone. Achebe family is even more tight-knit on all igbo culture to the core. you didn't have to show your bloody famous stupid1ty once again. Even nollywood teaches you this sh1t.

So Chief Onoh didnt know about Ibo culture or he wasnt Ibo thats why Ojuku was able to molest his daughter without his consent?. Nollywood is your reference? never knew I was talking to a rettard Soon Catoon network and Sesame street would be your reference morron

9ja_i_hail2: Dayolodo, the more i expect you to own up to the fact that your lord (awo) is a murderer and a tribalism inventor, the more you prove to the world that your brain cell is faulty and irredeemable , i will leave you so you continue living in denial while the strong heart ones who are man enough to own up continue progressing like Pa Achebe.

After 2 hours and like 10 posts you still cant provide evidence of Awolowos tribalism?

Are you not a disgrace to your people?

^^ Im sure it was your people who first brought Mandelas name into this thread

And it was your people who brought the names of other politicians like Awolowo to this thread

Troll

macjive01: yes, pilot scheme started in the 50s , at that point it was lackluster at best. it wasnt until he had amassed igbo wealth that he was able to roll out the program on the scale he did.

And what year was this? that he was able to amass Ibo wealth to start free education

One_Naira: and the only people in the entire world that thinks he's a bigot are YORUBA. says alot about you lot. now use your celebral and explain how a man whose tribalistic to your people as una claim gave his daughter to one of your people. also explain why the same man is bestfriend to soyinka till the point they both see eachother as brother if he hates una that much.

we know your intention of this thread, it's the same intention most of your people have been doing for awhile now. lmfao @ the amount of strength some people are using to try and destroy a mans reputation while at the same time, no matter how loud they get, the man's reputation still stays intact. like many are mentioning the entire WORLD are in tears about his death. the entire AFRICA are in tears about his death. the entir NIGERIAN, excluding Yoruba and that one fulani monkey that rear his head once in a while making no sense, are in tears about his death. now tell us why anyone should care if some irrelevant populace see nothinh good from the man. he's work speak for itself, noone in your entire region are commending the kind of respect chinua achebe is commending from the world right now and if not for una tribalism and desperate need to cry foul because the man spoke the truth about demigod did then una wont be the childis adult trying desperately to ruin his reputation and failing woefully might i add. Try another route cause noone i buying what you people are selling.

What could he do about whom his daughter wanted to marry? WHat could Chief CC Onoh do to stop his friend Ojuku from molesting Biancar?

He was friends with Soyinka but tried his best to denigrate the Nobel that Soyinka got

Ashebe was a bitter man his bitterness ended his life. Maybe the senile cripple would have lived a more peaceful life if he rid himself of tribalism

macjive01: the

where on earth did you think Awol got the money to embark on free education ? dont you realise it was the money Stolen, confisticated and robbered from Igbo.

He ravaged and pillaged Igbo business, Igbo banks, Igbo private saving ( including those against the war) to fund a "village bush Free education" .
Free education to block-head retards (please im not insulting the yoruba people, im refering to those awol loyalist)

This is the rabid illiteracy thats troubling the Ibos

Free education started in the 1950 So when did Awolowo pillage, ravage Ibo banks, business?

Duru1: Thanks goodness I spent few years in Yoruba land. The above post is a typical stream of thought seen among ara oko peeps. Were you not the same person who dutifully called for the ban of Dede1?

After the law was made, We have to stick to it regardless of whether we like it or not

9ja_i_hail2: Dayolodo, even kids born yesterday knows that awo is a regional hero, a man who sees himself as an ijebu man before yoruba,a yoruba before Nigeria. What more do you need to knw about the murderer call awolowo?

So you still cant bring any evidence that Awolowo was a tribalist?

You really need education desperately dropping out of JS2 to go and sell markate isnt education

Bobandgreat: @dayokanu, when it comes to grassroot struggle for the masses in this country, i will hand it to wole Soyinka. The man seems to not do anything wrong.
But, when it comes to wide acclaim, Mandela type of recognition, promotion of African culture and dignity, u can not take that away from Achebe. These two men u mentioned are indeed heros in Africa but one must not be compared with the other, they both represent thesame ideals though one more of local scenery and the other more of international scenery. This does not also mean that both are not recognised in their own rights internationally and localy.

Mandela stayed back in South Africa to effect the change he desired, He traded his freedom for it, He could have fled to London and be urging people to fight from there?

Soyinka stayed back to fight, As a youth he went into the western radio station to challenge the govt at risk to his life, He went behind war lines to Biafra at great risk to his life and actually lost his freedom, He challenged Abacha govt and he became a fugitive he identified with the Niger delta in their struggle for resource control.

He was one of those who rallied against the cabal when they didnt want Jonathan to rule

What was Ashebe doing? Sitting in the comfort of America and urging people to go to war. During Biafra he sat in the comfort of his official car, never lacking food or fuel how many of his family starved to death, how many of his family got shot Yet he want another generation to go through another ordeal

Would he put his own children in the warfront? Maybe all his family are American citizens sef. Useless Elder

I have always been a fan of creative names until Afam decided to stifle creativity

I long for a return to the status quo of no holds barred

People have various conditions in life that bring them to live with people no one prayed as an adult to inconvenient people but things happen

Have you asked the role the uncle played in your husband being an adult?

When I first came to America I had to stay with some people, Ideally my father should have paid for me to stay in a hotel or somewhere but the family and friends I stayed with helped me until I was able to stand on my own

Several people have that similar story of having stayed with people.

many of our parents came from villages and stayed with some distant relations until they could stand on their own If those ones had kicked them out back to village where would they be today

9ja_i_hail2: But he

@the first bolded, if truly Sir,Prof,Dr, and Pa Achebe is indeed a tribalist,i must say he might have learned that from Awolowo himself who was the chief inventor of tribalism in Nigeria system, now i am sure you would agree with me that Sir. Achebe is not just a teacher but a great learner and good listener to his elders such as Awo the master of tribalism.

Can you explain to us how Awo was the inventor of tribalism

While the review is pending can you also add the following to our vocabulary

The Igbo people (archaically Ibo; alternatively or historically also Iboe, Ebo(e), Eboans, Heebo, etc.;

The etc part can include others even the one with the "Y"

My sources include

http://books.google.com/books?id=FYFxE8-uSa4C&pg=PA207#v=onepage&q=heebo&f=false

http://books.google.com/books?id=yEHVCsSFRUcC&pg=PA58#v=onepage&q&f=false

http://books.google.com/books?id=T8p8OyMHWTYC&pg=PA51#v=onepage&q&f=false

Chaircover Please enlighten those young women

You dont like your grandmother too or your own daughters?

Whats all this Yeye privacy you are talking about sef. Is he joining you on the bed while phucking?
Why cant people just be a little tolerant?

While in school I was staying with over 10 boys in a small room not bigger than a kitchen, even at almost every point in my life I had to stay with people either family or friends.

Thats what makes us Africans our ability to tolerate people thats why we dont ship our families and elderly ones to a Old peoples Homes

Didnt you also live with people I also hope your children would never need to live with people cos thats the same way they would tell him they needed their privacy

Nonsense

How we take win nations cup sef

Freewilly: Even though Afam has banned me a couple of times and hidden so many of my posts, I and majority of Nairaland still thinks he deserve the Mod job

so it's either you [size=18pt]dill[/size] with if or hit the road I'm pretty sure you will not be missed.

You would have benefited from Awos free education

The only thing Ashebe promoted in Nigeria was tribalism.

He died a bitter man. He was bitter against everything in life. Bitter against Yoruba, against Awolowo, Against Nobel committee, against Nigeria

His bitterness obviously killed him.

It would have been better if Ashebe died a year ago than now when all his legacy are now tainted with trialism

He would be remembered for being a Bigot

Thats why Soyinka excelled over him anyday

Soyinka, A Yoruba man supported and was jailed for Biafra

Soyinka a Yoruba man supported and was the spokesman for the niger Delta

Soyinka was way ahead of Ashebe in all walks of life

The Ibos desperate attempt to twist facts

Roland17: I still remember this goal of the year..Dayo do u?

emm.. u still remember the Brazilian Grafite during his time with Wolfsburg?

I still remember the game the dark days of Klinsman with Lell, Ottl, Breno, Rensing manning our defence line

USA vs Costa Rica game

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