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Romance / Re: No Matter How Deep You Love A Lady, Never Do These Five Things For Her by daytona008: 12:05pm On Feb 27
Una go just Dey justify rubbish without context.

So if I am making millions and a lady is committed to me and her school fees is just a 100k or 200k or even 500k, which comes once in like 3 or 4 months I shouldn’t support her?

You all need to eradicate this “smart” relationship mindset.

If you love a woman/man and you are in a position to support them, do it with your whole heart! That is what love and partnership is, sacrifice. If it ends up not working out, good and fine, but make the best memory and enjoy the moment.

I can’t imagine a woman in my life and she is struggling and I would justify not supporting her with “What if she leaves”.

Not to brokeshame anybody, but most people with that kind of mentality are people who would take forever to make that kind of lean money again. How much is school fees in Nigeria? Abeg make una Dey try put context to these things. You are ruining other people’s beautiful relationships.

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Nairaland / General / Re: What Negative Act Are You Stopping This 2023? by daytona008: 11:54am On Jan 01
Beating my meat.
Family / Re: My Sister Completed Her House Without Telling Any Of Us Including My Mum by daytona008: 7:59pm On Dec 23, 2023
havenz:
More than one person knew about the property. Baba is low key pained it’s not him.

It’s just that sense of entitlement. Your sister owe you absolutely NOTHING! to disclose if she is building a house or not. She might truly be broke when she asked you for money because she had spent all her money on the building project.

I don’t blame her for not telling you guys! The reason you are pained is the reason she didn’t tell you.

The moment she tell you she is building a house is when your family might need money for this and that. And when she say she doesn’t have, you will still tag her wicked.

Go and celebrate with her or go build your own and announce it to the whole family! Simple!
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Family / Re: As I'm Enduring This, Am I Really Making My Children Better? by daytona008: 7:49pm On Dec 23, 2023
Unfortunately you are not making their lives any better by staying. Society would tell you about “A broken home”. But sometimes, it’s more beneficial. Growing up I watched my elder brother ruin a hard working young lady all because she has a son for him and didn’t want the boy to grow without a father.
My brother too is addicted to gambling and I can only pray to God about him now because we have tried everything. Every single kobo he gets goes into gambling. He even stole from the lady’s business money to gamble until he crippled her business.

Apparently, you can take care of the kids on your own. Take some time apart, see how things turn out. I bet it’s for better. Don’t let your sons pick up after their father by staying with him.

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Family / Re: My Brother Is Not Helping Me. He Prefers To Starve Me. by daytona008: 2:47pm On Sep 23, 2023
Omo! Life really no balance! Truly, OP, you may not like to hear it but your older brother is NOT responsible for you! All things being equal, in an average home in Nigeria, an older brother is 2 years older. If he is your immediate, he would be just 2 years ahead of you. You came out of the same womb, have the same parent. What makes you think he had/has better opportunities/advantage over you? If he does, it is because he was intentional about it. This idea of “Older brother/sister or first born” has made so many people LAZY (I am not saying you are). Waiting for the older sibling to do all the hustling and make life easy for others, pushing them into stress, high BP and depression. Why can’t all of you share the burden?

On the flip side, we are Africans and family means a lot to us. We try so much to make our family better. Your older bro helping you shouldn’t be an entitlement. Reading your story breaks my heart because I am currently trying to support my younger brother and he is not taking his life seriously. Spending money on gambling, alcohol and women. Recently stopped sending him funds. But then, as his older bro, I still have fears of him doing something illegal, because I know deep down, there is no way I will watch him rot in prison.

So OP, just talk to your bro respectfully until you are stable. I wish you guys the best. Also ask your brother what he is going through. He may be starving low key too.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Office Refused To Remit Pension by daytona008: 1:25pm On Jul 02, 2023
kernniejay:
Thanks Jay!. I am 100% sure that they did not remit. The COO keeps pushing the CEO to remit. He keeps making promises of clearing

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Office Refused To Remit Pension by daytona008: 1:24pm On Jul 02, 2023
Hamachi:

Thank you Hamachi! Yes, my former colleagues are currently going through it and keep reaching out to me that it’s just endless promises of “Next month”.

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Office Refused To Remit Pension by daytona008: 1:21pm On Jul 02, 2023
Rubyjade:


Thank you so much Jade. This is really helpful. Although, the company is in Abuja. I believe method 1 is applicable. God bless you!

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: My Office Refused To Remit Pension by daytona008: 1:19pm On Jul 02, 2023
Rubyjade:
There two methods

Method 1

1. Get a statement of account from your PFA
2. Write a letter to your employer asking them to remit all your pension deducted from your monthly salary.
2(a). Attach a copy of the statement of account as evidence that your employer is not up to date in it's remittance of your pension.
2(b). If possible attach all your pay slip as evidence that your pension are constantly deducted.
2(c). Quote a section of the Pension Reform Act where there is penalty for non remittance of deducted pension from employee salary.
2(d) CC the following in your letter:
PENCOM
YOUR PFA
EFCC.
3. Ensure you send a copy of the letter to your PFA and PENCOM.
4. Ensure you have a copy of your letter duly stamped " RECEIVED "
5. Do all above also by E-mail to your HR, Finance Dept, and MD, especially if you are not getting positive feedback from the hardcopy of your letter.


Method 2
Write a letter to the Head, Surveillance Department, the address in Lagos is 88A oduduwa crescent Ikeja GRA, Lagos
Watch the magic that would unfolds.

Method 2 works faster than the speed of light


As regards taxes if it's LIRS
Kindly send a mail with the name of the company and address to etaxinfo@lirs.net
Cc Haolat.Agbetoba@lirs.net
Best of luck. wink

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Jobs/Vacancies / My Office Refused To Remit Pension by daytona008: 12:59pm On Jul 02, 2023
Hi everyone,

I worked with this company for over 3 years. The company kept deducting pension and taxes every month without remitting. I have left the company for close to a year now and still no remittance.

Please is there any body I can report this to directly? Or I have to approach a court?

It’s annoying because mine ran into a million and this company is doing this to all the staff.

Please I need advice on how to approach the matter.

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