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Una go just Dey justify rubbish without context. So if I am making millions and a lady is committed to me and her school fees is just a 100k or 200k or even 500k, which comes once in like 3 or 4 months I shouldn’t support her? You all need to eradicate this “smart” relationship mindset. If you love a woman/man and you are in a position to support them, do it with your whole heart! That is what love and partnership is, sacrifice. If it ends up not working out, good and fine, but make the best memory and enjoy the moment. I can’t imagine a woman in my life and she is struggling and I would justify not supporting her with “What if she leaves”. Not to brokeshame anybody, but most people with that kind of mentality are people who would take forever to make that kind of lean money again. How much is school fees in Nigeria? Abeg make una Dey try put context to these things. You are ruining other people’s beautiful relationships. 1 Like |
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Unfortunately you are not making their lives any better by staying. Society would tell you about “A broken home”. But sometimes, it’s more beneficial. Growing up I watched my elder brother ruin a hard working young lady all because she has a son for him and didn’t want the boy to grow without a father. My brother too is addicted to gambling and I can only pray to God about him now because we have tried everything. Every single kobo he gets goes into gambling. He even stole from the lady’s business money to gamble until he crippled her business. Apparently, you can take care of the kids on your own. Take some time apart, see how things turn out. I bet it’s for better. Don’t let your sons pick up after their father by staying with him. 1 Like |
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Omo! Life really no balance! Truly, OP, you may not like to hear it but your older brother is NOT responsible for you! All things being equal, in an average home in Nigeria, an older brother is 2 years older. If he is your immediate, he would be just 2 years ahead of you. You came out of the same womb, have the same parent. What makes you think he had/has better opportunities/advantage over you? If he does, it is because he was intentional about it. This idea of “Older brother/sister or first born” has made so many people LAZY (I am not saying you are). Waiting for the older sibling to do all the hustling and make life easy for others, pushing them into stress, high BP and depression. Why can’t all of you share the burden? On the flip side, we are Africans and family means a lot to us. We try so much to make our family better. Your older bro helping you shouldn’t be an entitlement. Reading your story breaks my heart because I am currently trying to support my younger brother and he is not taking his life seriously. Spending money on gambling, alcohol and women. Recently stopped sending him funds. But then, as his older bro, I still have fears of him doing something illegal, because I know deep down, there is no way I will watch him rot in prison. So OP, just talk to your bro respectfully until you are stable. I wish you guys the best. Also ask your brother what he is going through. He may be starving low key too. 1 Like 2 Shares |
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Hi everyone, I worked with this company for over 3 years. The company kept deducting pension and taxes every month without remitting. I have left the company for close to a year now and still no remittance. Please is there any body I can report this to directly? Or I have to approach a court? It’s annoying because mine ran into a million and this company is doing this to all the staff. Please I need advice on how to approach the matter. 14 Likes 2 Shares |
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