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HealthRe: How Much Is Orchiopexy Operation In Nigeria? by dbestuncle: 5:41pm On May 30
They do other things in zenith medical and kidney centre. They are a full hospital with other units and departments.
Caseless:
Kidney hospital for something a urologist should look at?
HealthRe: How Much Is Orchiopexy Operation In Nigeria? by dbestuncle: 7:42am On May 29
Come to Abuja. Let suggest Zenith Medicals and Kidney Centre, Gudu, Abuja
PoliticsRe: Dangote, Femi Otedola Discuss Econonic Reforms With President Tinubu by dbestuncle: 2:27pm On Apr 07
Rabiu was there, no mind the writer who used a popular picture. In the real picture the Dangote wore white with cap
AntiChristian:
Private sector driven economy!

Rabiu BUA and others should join too o!
CelebritiesRe: Wale Adenuga Speaks On Papa Ajasco Controversy by dbestuncle: 12:55am On Mar 18
Is there any amount they will call now that will be enough?
Whe he was earning did he complain? Or even now that he is complainingdid he tell us of the opportunityand benefits the job has afforded him even the car matter.
Na GOFUND me baba want abeg
wunmi590:
huh

This people are funny, how much is his gratuity as a retired civil servant?

Majority of all the names they mentioned have jakpa out of the country..

The question is what did you gave him when he was under you, was it worth it?
PoliticsRe: Natasha: A Senator At War With Everyone? - Babajide Fapohunda by dbestuncle: 8:30pm On Feb 22
What right are you taliking of, her right to disobey seating arrangements instruction from the Senate President?

Her decision to change the subject of discussion fro. Senate Seating to Sexual harassment case without prove?

Her decision to insist on continuing to questioning the Minister despite the Chairman of the senate committee telling her the DG and others are here? Note she has asked him alot of questions already o.

Her insistence that the committee couldn't have met with the NorthCentre Dev. Commission without been a member of the committee?
If I am to do the above, wouldn't you blame me



bikefab:
When a child insists on his rights, the elders will say he is insulting.

Senator Natasha has done nothing wrong all along but stand on her rights, the rights of her constituents and the rights of Nigerians. Attempts have been made to bully and cow her by several senators and top politicians, because she resisted those attempts, they have started to sponsor media attacks on her person.

You guys should let that woman be..!
PoliticsRe: Appeal Court Upholds Senator Natasha Akpoti-Uduaghan's Suspension by dbestuncle: 8:27pm On Feb 09
3 out of 3 aligns with the simple truth, I don't know where all this lawyers come from and why they hate telling the truth do much.
Her lawyer ought to have told her she was wrong in this case even a law student can rule this case.

No American Senator will try this and still go to court to insult the sensibility of the legal system.

But we want to do as we like always and in the same way expect a better nation. For where
CelebritiesRe: Baba Fela Set To Receive Grammys Life Time Achievement by dbestuncle: 7:36pm On Dec 20, 2025
FamilyRe: The Chrismas Decoration I Did In My House In Anticipation Of Chrismas (Photo) by dbestuncle: 1:38pm On Dec 19, 2025
Same to you better person. More prosperous year ahead

christejames:
That should not be your problem assistant god 😏



The funny thing with extremists like you is that you are so ignorant to even know that your everyday lifestyle is surrounded with things that were once practiced by the so called pagans undecided...


Is it the names of the weeks that are eponyms of ancients gods or even the name of the months.

The research on time, medicines and a whole lot you happily use today stems from the so called pagans.



If you don't want to enjoy this beautiful life, allow those who want to to savour it to the fullest.




Merry Christmas in advance to the lovelies here 😘
FamilyRe: The Quiet Crisis Of Aging Men: What We Don’t Prepare Fathers For by dbestuncle: 2:52pm On Dec 14, 2025
Hmmm... I have been reading comments to see if someone actually notice the role women play in this.
Thank God you a single guy observed a part of it. Which is the wife of the man turning their backs to him intentionally and some are done unintentionally and all very subtle.
I have seen women tell children to say I love my mum because those children were saying I love my dad eventually it began to look wrong to say I love my dad and I love my mum was easier, more correct and simple.
Another side to this coin of point is the wife of the sons also fights to pitch the their husbands to forget their fathers.
Manipulation from mothers and Manipulation from wives are a factor that affects male children. While a mother can fight her way into her son's life through omugo visit and even fight the wife if need be but a father can't.
Finally don't assume this cannot happen to you. Prepare a plan for your future that ensures nothing like this ever happens to you .
Plan it now and pray about it too. Prayer does wonders you know

Trymeee:
Well said, I'm single and from most marriages I see, only 2percent of married men really enjoy that happiness, all they do Is lie to theirselves and the camera.


A woman can easily manipulate and dissuade the love of the kids from their father. This is supported by nature as an average man spend more time working than living. Reminded me a lady I met who had this bitter hatred for her dad. I asked if the man paid her fees, she said yes. I asked if he provides, she said yes.


Her excuse was mum said this mum said that. The man unbeknown is working his ass out for the so-called family not knowing the wife already poisoned the kids mind and he's only still tolerated because he's the provider. When he's weak and can't work again, they will ostracize him like the plague and epidemy they see him as.
FamilyRe: After Fighting With Your Husband, How Will You Call Him When Food Is Ready ? by dbestuncle: 7:18am On Dec 04, 2025
Nairaland ladies don't like to share opinions on topics like this, most times it is us the men asking and same we answering even some female monikers are actual males too.
So where are the women, ladies and girls who we look onto to take over
PoliticsRe: Southeast Agitation Will Not End, Even If Nnamdi Kanu Is Executed - Senator by dbestuncle: 10:03pm On Nov 26, 2025
shortgun:
NNAMDI KANU: THE IMPERATIVE OF A POLITICAL SOLUTION


https://x.com/iamHSDickson/status/1993418021361402261?t=wSqDa41-KqHkkpKLYIEFWg&s=19[/quote]The truth is no example example from the past in honesty will stand in defence against this. If you check very well, you will see remorse in the cases that you want to sight.

So why is Simon Ekpa sentenced and none of you guys are fighting and standing by him.

Mazi don know law now
PoliticsRe: Nnamdi Kanu's Trial Violated Criminal Law Principles - Constitutional Lawyer by dbestuncle: 7:03pm On Nov 24, 2025
The matter tire me o, oga constitutional lawyer go rest, even you can't defend him.
What he fails to admit is, if he had been tried in the UK or Even US, the Finland judgement would have subsist so what is really wrong in this case OGA lawyer.

What shocked me most with his case is how he kept calling the judge my Lord, I didn't know a man like Kanu will also use the term My Lord.

He defended himself o, less I forget, is he truly a lawyer?
PoliticsRe: Are You Insane? You Cannot Convict Me. I Am Nnamdi Kanu - IPOB Leader (Video) by dbestuncle: 3:16am On Nov 08, 2025
Does Federal Government intend to prosecute this man, if not they should release him.
U can't be keeping him and not doing his case turning him into a celebrity .
PoliticsRe: Police Statements About Free Nnamdi Kanu Protest In Abuja by dbestuncle: 9:11pm On Oct 20, 2025
You maybe right about this but what about finishing this case or how long should it tarry.


rickyrex:
pls post when court granted nnamdi kalu bail. Dont be one sided. Get small conscience for the first time nah
PoliticsRe: Police Statements About Free Nnamdi Kanu Protest In Abuja by dbestuncle: 9:08pm On Oct 20, 2025
Today, Nigerian Police rough handled us Civil Servants and all well meaning Nigerians just going to work around the central business district. I and a lot of people were teargas on our way to work and yes the road was blocked completely and people who made it to around Secretariat were forced out of the arena.
Even someone collapse and police didn't care until people around helped him out of the place.
I wish I had taken pictures to show a clear case of road block and harassment with the teargas.
You this liar will now stand and say you did nothing.
You made us wastes our money to come to work when you could have announced and holiday since you didn't want us to come to work today.
Someone even tried to gain passage by the use of his ID card but was shouted on to go back home.
Only God can help and lastly sowore was somewhere far from us fa and they know it too
PoliticsRe: Charly Boy Shares Bigoted Statement Flasely Credited To TY Danjuma by dbestuncle: 6:13am On Oct 19, 2025
God bless you, pls what exactly have they challenged? What cooperation and concession have they ever had.
They give praising themselves and I continue to wonder why.
It's better to give this people their Biafra because honestly I don dey dey pissed up. Let them go and see how that country moves forward like the way they have turned other people's land to heaven through their sole effort as they like to think
Amotolongbo:
The same people who couldn’t challenge Ojukwu’s power, Nnamdi Kanu’s order and Simon Ekpa’s Monday sit at home command from far away Finland 😂😂
EducationRe: Admissions: Mathematics No Longer Compulsory For Arts Students, Says FG by dbestuncle: 8:49pm On Oct 14, 2025
They didn't do their research well, you know they are always lowering the bar to favour a few.
A country tried it but returned back to it. Maths should remain compulsory
malali:
Mathematics Is a Lifeline, Not a Luxury

Dropping Mathematics as a requirement for arts and humanities students may look like inclusion, but in reality, it’s intellectual disarmament.

Math isn’t just about numbers. It’s the language of logic, structure, and critical thinking, the very foundation of coherent thought, debate, and disciplined reasoning that the humanities thrive on.


Every field, from economics, law, and linguistics to philosophy and music, is quietly underpinned by mathematical reasoning: pattern, proportion, structure, rhythm, and evidence-based argument.

To remove Math is to unplug an entire generation from analytical literacy. You may raise enrollment figures, yes, but you lower the nation’s cognitive baseline.

If Nigeria truly wants to compete globally, we should be strengthening Mathematics education, not treating it as optional for those “not gifted with numbers.” That mindset fuels mediocrity.


Great civilizations didn’t grow by lowering the bar, they rose by raising competence and investing in skill mastery.
PoliticsRe: Jonathan : I Will Die With The Scar Of Chibok Girls Tragedy by dbestuncle: 7:15pm On Oct 03, 2025
As someone who experience a bit of the prebokoharam issues and the first strike and afterwards.
I actually would like to ask oga Jonathan a man I revered and voted for and will be willing to vote for again and again what actually happened or bettter put why did the Government show so much unseriousness about the Bokoharam.
There was a lot of information or intelligence but still they weren't prepared to counter.
The president wasn't interested in the bokoharam matter until it became a big problem,
Biodun556:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Rda-6rHI3H0?si=bW24Jol4KUoXV8gt



https://www.channelstv.com/2025/10/03/ill-die-with-scar-of-the-chibok-girls-tragedy-jonathan/
CelebritiesRe: Natasha Calls 2Baba’s Mum ‘The Best Mother-In-Law' by dbestuncle: 9:48am On Sep 30, 2025
You know na them put their marital matters on social media. The mother of Tuface earlier allegedly declare that she didn't support him leaving Annie and that she is routing for her and not this new babe Natasha. That's y I said what I said. No worry my own marriage is not on the media na for my house so I no need to monitor am.
ABI you want help me monitor am ni
Adesina18111:
And you want to monitor someone's marriage for 15 years?...u no get ur own marriage to monitor? grin grin
CelebritiesRe: Natasha Calls 2Baba’s Mum ‘The Best Mother-In-Law' by dbestuncle: 10:18pm On Sep 29, 2025
boysco:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yu1x-93P2M8?si=rY3iMNpZTuikW_yT

During a heartfelt toast, Natasha, wife of music legend 2Baba, celebrates her mother-in-law, calling her "the best mother-in-law in the world" at her 70th birthday party.
That's it, who says this woman no go accept am. We dey watch sha o
Christianity EtcRe: Rev. Sister Kinse Dismissed For Exposing Church Abuse by dbestuncle: 2:33pm On Sep 28, 2025
See Naija people with brains. Well constructed and positioned lies. I can tell you places where you find convents and no orphanages.

writetopoka:
All this one she is complaining has been well-known to the public and some of us that that is what exactly is going on behind the scene in the name of reverence sisters and Reverend fathers.

And that is why anywhere you find Reverend fathers and Reverend sisters you will always find motherless baby home you can cross check my facts
RomanceRe: 33 Days Target by dbestuncle: 8:48pm On Sep 21, 2025
It's doable and very possible. It will help, keep it up
RomanceRe: I Am Inlove With A Guy I Am Far Richer Than by dbestuncle: 6:07pm On Sep 19, 2025
3 things I have to say.
If you love him enough to settle for him, pray about it. Pray and search your heart if you have peace in your heart pls go for it.
2. Ask him stylishly his idea about men who marries a woman who has more money than they. Don't reveal your status as per the income so you can get to know the truth about him. If he feels a woman who earns more can not be submissive, irrespective of the point on prayer above pls run o.
3. Do a research of the likely issues around the impending challenge or issues you maybe finding yourself if you choose him and ask yourself you can cope with that.
4. Lastly how much faith do you have in his ideas and possible rise from that state. If you do believe in his vision. Pls marry him.

How to get him to propose is the simplest.
Do this research first and I really think you both are made for each other.
Nancee4love:
I AM INLOVE WITH A GUY I AM FAR RICHER THAN.
I need a candid, serious and matured advice. I am a lady of 28yrs I stay in Abuja and work here. I am from south south in Nigeria. I recently moved to an area in Abuja and was thinking of a church to go so I went to a church closer to my house and I enjoy the service and I met this cute dark handsome guy in the church. Althrough the service my attention was on him, his personality and dress sense attracted me to him. I like slim guyz and tall guys because I am tall. So after service I went home, thinking about him and looking forward to Sunday morning to go to church to see my crush. I love the fact that this guy true loves God. One thing led to another we had to start talking and I fell even deeper inlove with him, he is a graduate and works in an IT Media firm. It's been 18 months now we have been talking and we are so fond of ourselves and absolutely we are catching feelings for each other but he has not said anything about relationship yet. I am super convinced that he has no relationship, I asked our pastor stylishly and he told me the guy is not in any relationship. This guy is a keeper, has character, treats me with uttermost respect and value. The way he looks into my eyes makes me know he has a thing in his heart for me. Note I have been to his house severally, he stays in a single studio apartment while I stay in a flat and still he is not intemidated at all. He has never asked me for money at all and never pushed for sex, and we have not had sex. We buy things for each other occasionally, like he reciprocates and appreciates my efforts.
Recently we were discussing and he Opened up to me that his salary is 80,000 and he is seriously thinking of how he can settle down with that and that's his major source of Income apart from other stuff he does. He has a registered company that he is working on already. I can see him pushing and making all efforts to improve himself. Me on the other side I make 250,000 monthly though I have not told him. I truly love this guy and I want to settle with him but on 80,000 naira income monthly. I was thinking could it be the reason why he has not asked me out yet after 18 months.
I told my girlfriends about it not relating or referring to him, my girlfriends, they said I should not settle for less I should look for a man who earns higher.
Please people here are my concerns.
1. I love this guy but he has not said anything about relationship yet, how do I make him ask me out
2. Am I settling for less with 80,000 as his salary, will he abandon family responsibility to me in the future.
3. Should I tell him how much I earn , will he not take advantage of me
4. Should I move on its been 18months but truly my heart is peaceful with him, we laugh we smile we encourage each other and we build each other.
5. Should I follow my girlfriends advice to look for someone who earns higher.
6. There is a guy who has been on my neck for 9 months now he works in NNPC, DPR has a car and comfort but I see a toxic red flag in him that's making me scared of him, yet he won't give up he is from south south as well
7. I spoke with my aunt and she said to me if she has her way she will make sure I never have contact with my girlfriends who don't understand life and who are not ready for marriage. My aunt told me that she feels the guy in my church is my God ordained husband. My mom also said the same thing that the guy is ok but she would have preferred someone from south south. My church guy is from middle belt
8. Many things are running through my mind I know I love him.
THIS ARE THE QUALITIES I LIKE IN HIM
1. He loves God and genuinely Born again Christian
2. He is sincerely and honest person
3. He is sacrificial and gives me listening ears.
4. He is very mature he seniors me with 6-7 yrs
5. He just a calm person and very organized and visionary
Please help me make the right decision by airing out your opinion.
Right now he is the only not too rich guy in my life who I expect him to ask me out and he has not. Other toaster's are super rich and they are on my neck trust me I am pretty beautiful light skin girl.
FamilyRe: Insufficient Sex From My Wife by dbestuncle: 11:10pm On Sep 18, 2025
Report her to someone who talk sense into her and also lure her to join some great women groups like 'when women prays international'.
She will change.

SuperPanther:
I am just tired and heartbroken. For me to have access to my wife for sex is so difficult. I work hard to ensure the family is fine and even try to do some chores in the house as I am able to.

Right now I am trying to configure my mind to forget about sex, just continue to serve God and remain a decent man. I am good looking so it's not a case of my being unattractive. There are many beautiful women I relate with that are willing to be in bed with me but I am a Christian. I am so frustrated now.

It's either my wife is pressing phone till forever, or she has one night prayer, or she is tired and wants to sleep.

Married men, how do you handle this situation?
PoliticsRe: You Owe Your Husband The Explanations Not Me - Ekwunife Replies Mrs. Soludo by dbestuncle: 9:16pm On Sep 13, 2025
Mrs. Soludo should relax, this woman is not her level. It was correct to answer her though but going forward just totally ignore her.
Just like the bible, you must know when not to answer and when to do
Prov. 26:4-5.

4 Don’t answer the foolish arguments of fools,
or you will become as foolish as they are.

5 Be sure to answer the foolish arguments of fools,
or they will become wise in their own estimation.

Otutubuike:
https://www.facebook.com/share/p/14SJT38Hotc/ cccc
FamilyRe: My Wife Secured A US Visa For Herself And Kids Without Me Knowing: Man Cries Out by dbestuncle: 8:59am On Sep 11, 2025
I am surprise that most people will believe the man is bad so she ran away, while this is angle to it, what if
1. The woman was the cheating one and had all this planned out with her cheating partner.
2. The woman could have found new hobbies and which the man may not support and wi seek her freedom since marriage to her is a bondage and may have gone there to be single for life after all she has gotten kids she wanted through the man.
3. The woman maybe a lesbian and since Naija is hostile to this, may have just gone to be with her lover or find her.
4. The man may not be interested in leaving naija and she wants to jappa by all means. So she does it without the man.
5. The marriage has become boring, even maybe affecting her health and tired she doesn't want to go through the rigours of divorce and this may not be because the man is inhuman. Their relationship may just not be working.
6. The man is evil, wife beater and the woman needs to run for her life.

Despite all the reasons above whichever one you align with or even more that I didn't write, are you aware that she has committed an offence and the man does not deserve to be treated in this manner.
Let's put ourselves in the shoes of the man. If you are a woman, imagine a man does this to you or if it was done to the brother of yours that you love.
Thanks fir reading
Chilipepper:
Wife secretly planned and secured a US visa for herself and the kids without her husband’s knowledge. He only found out two days before their departure. After arriving in the US, she blocked him everywhere.
BusinessRe: Paid Survey by dbestuncle: 8:03am On Aug 18, 2025
I like your topic and I have filed the form but you shouldnt be telling lies or promisingbstuff you wouldn't do.
Ire o
HealthRe: Am Not Getting Erection For My Wife. by dbestuncle: 6:56pm On Aug 08, 2025
These things happen.
From discovery and studies, I can say that op you were trying to keep your mind away from her because you felt hurt about her decision to stay away.
Now the brain has noted it, and interpreted it to mean you don't wanna be with her and till now the new normal in your body is that you don't want to be with her.
If you never cheated during the period then your body wouldn't rise even for another woman. But if you did then you can be getting erection for others but not for her.
Another reason this is happening is that the anxiety level her return brought was too high and usually organ shut down on this too.
Solution
You need to figure out a way to rediscover her, no rushing work on your mind don't do anything with her.
Another thing is that the woman or lady must be willing to work this out for you in patience trying out stuff and not giving up. From kissing your nipples to role playing. It's doable with love.
Get drugs and other remmdies and fantasize about her until your body begins to come back to her and finally it will come back normal
Jobs/VacanciesRe: Monthly Net Salary Of Federal Government Ministries,departaments, Agencies And P by dbestuncle: 12:09pm On Aug 01, 2025
Malikey:
If i were you i would use the energy and resources to push for nmdpra
Advice me too. Pls send me the mail
Jobs/VacanciesRe: I'm Confused About The Grade Level I Was Given For A Federal Government Job by dbestuncle: 9:09pm On Jul 30, 2025
rumaabk:
[quoWte author=LordofNaija post=99328203]
CONRAISS 3 is the equivalent of level 10
CONRAISS1 - LEVEL8
2- level 9
3- level 10[/quot
CONRAISS started with 07 which is equivalent to GL 08.
Pls what of compass in comparison with salary grade level of the federal Ministry?
PoliticsRe: Senator Natasha To Resume At Senate On Tuesday After Court Lifts Suspension by dbestuncle: 6:20pm On Jul 06, 2025
I agree with you about Akpabio but our well loved Senator Natasha was also in the wrong.
Truth be told.
Xscape1993:
Congratulations to her! That Akpabio remains the worst Senate President in the history of Nigeria legislative system.

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