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Celebrities › Re: His Mother Tore My Mom’s Cloth – Emeka Ike’s Ex-wife Addresses Claim Of Assault by dbestuncle: 6:30am On Dec 25, 2023

Was this not the same wife Emeka said was so gentle, easy going and friendly to all. Who will never suspect anything between him and Muma Gee.
That year when he was doing his nonsense on Tv with Numa Gee I said he was cracking the wall of his home, people said he has a very understanding wife.
Where is that understanding now

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Family › Re: As I'm Enduring This, Am I Really Making My Children Better? by dbestuncle: 3:29pm On Dec 23, 2023

i celebrate you honestly you are a good woman and life sometimes is not fair.
on what you should i will advice that you turn to Jesus, yes give your life to christ if you havent done so already then turn your children to christ. start a family praying time together, dont say you dont know the bible, start where you are.
ask yopur kids sometimes to read and explain.
get a devotional, turn all this worries to christ and sincerely do this things even if the guy didnt change God will give your strenght andyou can refocus both your energy and the childrens attention to God.
from all the above they will begin to get the idea of an ideal father that God is.
lastly dont be using their father as example but continue to pray for him and everyone else.
your children will turn out just fine, trust God.

He never let sincere women suffer twice, you aint enjoying your husband besure to get the best of joy from those kids.

Greatmind653:
Pls, if you don't really understand this post, don't comment please. If you're gender bias, pls, read and ignore.

Good morning kind hearted people in the house. Pls, I need honest and matured advice from experience and knowledgeable people in the house.

How can I train my sons especially my 11yrs old boy into a good, respectful, well behaved young man in a situation where he constantly see his father in gambling addiction, and the house is not always peaceful because of this?

How can I make them believe that the fact that their father does not provide anything for them nor anything in the house, does not mean they're not good enough?
My son has learnt the habit of not asking his Dad for anything no matter how little because he knows the answer already. He would rather starve than ask him for anything. Every of his needs, he will patiently wait for me.

I practically provide everything in the house and he knows. Infact my husband and my two sons can be in the house hungry for the whole day if I'm not around.
Any money he has is strictly for betting. He wouldn't even use it to feed himself not to talk of his children.
He eat anything I provide in the house without him providing. Most times it's very annoying.
Most times, we don't talk to each other in this house, yet anything I cook, he must eat.
I'm trying my best, because I can't watch my kids go hungry or stay without light, water, TV subscriptions and the rest. But once he's holding TV remote, no one dare change the channel.

How can I train well behaved young boys in a home like this? I'm so lonely and worried for my children too.

I'm no longer traumatized by his gambling addiction, because I have tried everything, and it didn't work if this is the life he wants, then fine.

I'm traveling with my two boys for the Christmas and I intend to stay in my family house for a very long time. Maybe not to return back here.
This house, I shoulder the house rent, all the bills all for the sake of my children. I don't want a broken home. I don't want my children growing up lonely without the presence of their both parents. But, am I doing the right thing here?
My husband has refused to change for years. all efforts, complain, family intervention all failed.
He's been in gambling even before we got married. I have endure for so long and I'm scared if what I'm enduring really worth it.

I've given up either.

Am I making my children better by staying together here or they could be better when we're apart?
Anyone experience this before?

What's the right thing to do here?

Politics › Re: FG Funded 422 Persons: Presidency Lists Takeaways From COP28 by dbestuncle: 9:43pm On Dec 04, 2023

The minister said clearly in the writeup above that the once sponsored by FG is 422.
This does not mean that the total people from Nigeria is 422. Infact he told us there were state government sponsored, private sector and volunteers who also self sponsored themselves.
OGA fake news

raskymonojendor:
Great to know.

There is so much misinformation all over the internet with regards to COP28.
The number below 👇 should be revised.

Countries:
1 🇧🇷Brazil: 3,081
2 🇨🇳China: 1,411
3 🇳🇬Nigeria: ~~1,411~~ - FAKE NEWS
4 🇮🇩Indonesia: 1,229
5 🇯🇵Japan: 1,067
6 🇹🇷Türkiye: 1,045
7 🇮🇳India: 948
8 🇲🇦Morocco: 823
9 🇫🇷France: 800
10 🇺🇸United States: 770
11 🇰🇪Kenya: 765
12 🇹🇿Tanzania: 763
13 🇨🇦Canada: 742
14 🇮🇱Israel: 718
15 🇲🇾Malaysia: 700
16 🇬🇧United Kingdom: 697
17 🇰🇷South Korea: 689
18 🇬🇭Ghana: 618
19 🇺🇬Uganda: 606
20 🇨🇩Congo DR: 590
21 🇷🇺Russia: 590
22 🇪🇬Egypt: 565
23 🇸🇳Senegal: 560
24 🇹🇩Chad: 554
25 🇮🇹Italy: 533
.
🇳🇬 Nigeria: 422

Politics › Re: Dangote Refinery To Reach 650,000 Bpd Production Capacity By End Of 2024 by dbestuncle: 7:18pm On Nov 26, 2023

Be shifting it every year towards the end of another, haba na

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Romance › Re: I Have 800k, What Profitable Business Can I Venture Into by dbestuncle: 6:53pm On Nov 26, 2023

SergeantTitus:
I have 800k, what profitable biz can I do

So what did you eventually invested in and how has been the business

Family › Re: Who Knows You The Most? by dbestuncle: 4:26pm On Nov 26, 2023

IyaTola:
Who knows you the most
A. Dad
B. Mom
C. Sister
D. Brother
E. Partner
F. Friends

Why is wife or husband not there

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Romance › Re: Men!!! What's Your Definition Of A Submissive Woman? by dbestuncle: 10:15am On Nov 13, 2023

What of those with bad mothers ?

Jeon:
A woman like their mother, period!.

Family › Re: Your Opinion Is Needed Here... by dbestuncle: 5:43pm On Nov 12, 2023

Foodqueen:

He passed last night, my heart is so heavy.

Wish I had done more.

What will become of his children after now.... Life is indeed very hard.

Oh God!
Pls how did he die?

Politics › Re: INEC Must Cancel Elections In The 5 LGAs Of Kogi Central - Dino Melaye by dbestuncle: 9:00pm On Nov 11, 2023

Ola9ja23:
Sope oti lo 🤣🤣😀😀🤣🤣😀

Dino go cry blood or he should provide another money to INEC to run another election 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

Politics › Re: INEC Must Cancel Elections In The 5 LGAs Of Kogi Central - Dino Melaye by dbestuncle: 8:57pm On Nov 11, 2023

INDEPENDENT NATIONAL ELECTORAL COMMISSION

PRESS RELEASE

SUSPENSION OF ELECTION IN SOME LOCATIONS IN KOGI STATE

The Commission has received reports from our officials in Kogi State on incidences of electoral malpractices, particularly the incident of result sheets completed before voting.

Reports indicate that the incidents occurred in Adavi, Ajaokuta, Ogori/Magongo, Okehi and Okene Local Government Areas. The most serious incidents occurred in Ogori/Magongo, affecting nine of 10 Registration Areas.

This is entirely unacceptable. Any result not emanating from the Commission's process in the Polling Units will not be accepted.

The Commission is determined not to reward bad behaviour. Consequently, the election in the nine Wards in Ogori/Magongo LGA (Eni, Okibo, Okesi, Ileteju, Aiyeromi, Ugugu, Obinoyin, Obatgben and Oturu) is at this moment suspended. The incidences in the other Local Government Areas are being thoroughly investigated, and the outcome, including the way forward, will be announced in the next 24 hours.

Meanwhile, as the processes continue, we follow the audit trail of personnel and materials to ascertain those who may have been complicit in undermining the process. We have a record of all officials deployed at various levels as supervisors, monitors, technical staff or polling unit officials and all election materials issued to them. Appropriate sanctions will be applied where necessary.

The Commission assures voters in Kogi State that their votes are protected, and their wishes will be respected.

Mohammed Kudu Haruna
National Commissioner & Member
Information and Voter Education Committee
Saturday 11th November 2023

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Politics › Re: Kogidecides: APC Supporter, Umar Hassan Allegedly Gunned Down By SDP Thugs by dbestuncle: 4:56pm On Nov 11, 2023

TruthsFM:
This news is not true at all. The moderators should take note

What is the truth?pls

Politics › Re: Kogi: YIAGA Tasks INEC To Investigate Reports Of Pre-filled Results Sheet by dbestuncle: 12:54pm On Nov 11, 2023

Image123:
This looks more like anti APC work, likely Dino people work.
When you feel you won't win, you try stuff like this to make people doubt the eventual process.

But Ogori na PDP zone na

Politics › Re: INEC Investigates Pre-filled Result Sheets In Kogi by dbestuncle: 12:40pm On Nov 11, 2023

Coolsat:
Nothing like prefilled results sheet, if you understand what's going on politically in kogi state you'll know Ododo of APC is favoured to win this election.

Ododo has no single rival from his region(Kogi central) while others have two to three rivals slugging it out in their region.

your analysis is the fact but not the true situation of kogi state.
Fact because Ododo is the only ebira on the ballot but not true because we have people who are willing to vote other tribe even from that region.
If they are sure he has no rival why attempt to prewrite result.
Plenty Ebiras no even want him

Politics › Re: Kogi 2023 Governorship Election Live Monitoring, Updates, and Results by dbestuncle: 7:11am On Nov 11, 2023

Dino is coming! Igalas will join this great idea whose time has come

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Politics › Re: Military Arrests Nicholas Uchendu Akalezi, 10 Navy Personnel In Kogi by dbestuncle: 6:04pm On Nov 10, 2023

AbuTwins:
And at the end what if APC still wins?

They still rigged right?

Winning is by different strategy.
Check reports of 2019 election, Lokoja had less than 30,000 votes counted the rest cancel due violence.
Then he had 112,000 votes from Okene!

Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Promises Emergence Of ‘new Lokoja’ If Elected Kogi Governor by dbestuncle: 5:58pm On Nov 10, 2023

Dodada:
We will teach Dino politics on Saturday. Sheybi he wants to be unfortunate soul ni?

Dino wey go win 😃😃😃😃

Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Promises Emergence Of ‘new Lokoja’ If Elected Kogi Governor by dbestuncle: 5:57pm On Nov 10, 2023

Juju70:
How many constituency projects did he make in old lokoja

Renovation of primary schools in lokoja

Nairaland General › Re: Kogi Election In Focus! by dbestuncle(op): 10:39am On Nov 10, 2023

You see even if Dino steps down for Abejide, Abejide will remain a regional candidate who cant win any local govt in Kogi east and kogi central. So how will he win.

See democracy is a game of nos. And Leke Abejide is yet to be so popular to get such nos.

When Yahaya Bello was not paying salaries who fought for Kogi people.
Where was Abejide when Yahaya went to collect the money given for the overhead bridge.
And Abejide should get into the popular party or take time to groom his popularity to other tribes in Kogi

OluwaJohn77:
The Politics of Bitterness and Selfishness Dino played in 2015 against James Faleke will kicked Him out. (Karma is Real)
DINO also step on toes of JAGABAN by talking anyhow to the First lady.
I will advise Him to step down for Leke Abejide for the sake of Okun (Yoruba Speaking part of Kogi State) but his stubborn and ego attitude won't allow Him.

But to be realistic Dino is very Popular in Nigeria

Nairaland General › Re: Kogi Election In Focus! by dbestuncle(op): 11:06am On Nov 09, 2023

kestolove95:
Man-United is more serious than Dino

Nairaland General › Re: Kogi Election In Focus! by dbestuncle(op): 11:03am On Nov 09, 2023

M0H247:
If Dino isn't dull, this is his time, but Dino plays too much

You never can tell playful Dino maybe reading this so drop your winning tip or advice on what can show seriousness.

Nairaland General › Kogi Election In Focus! by dbestuncle(op): 9:14am On Nov 09, 2023

Who do you think will win this election.
Let me begin with my analysis.
1. APC has 3 candidates in this election.
a. ODODO is APC Official candidate.
b. LEKE ABEJIDE is Tinubu's man and has the support of some APC big en from the area and Faleke group!
c. MURI AJAKA is the ex-NWC of APC with strong support base in APC. He is the I no go gree for Bello candidate.

While
2. PDP candidate DINO is the candidate that's been know in the whole Local Govt in Kogi State.

3. PDP will 3 LGAs at least from the eastern part of Kogi. SDP will win 3 while APC will win 3 LGAs too.

Given the above I think Dino has the best chance to win this election. Kogi people don't waste your votes. Give it to PDP

Politics › Re: Diri, Uzodinma, Dino Favourites To Win November 11 Election – Falcon Alliance by dbestuncle: 8:12am On Nov 09, 2023

Afamed:
You can place a bet, the best for Dino is 3rd .

No dey list to social media.

The contest is Between APC and SDP

Abeg who do you think will win

Politics › Re: Dino Melaye Campaigns At Night In Bassa LG, Kogi East (Pictures) by dbestuncle: 10:14pm On Nov 08, 2023

Coolsat:
Ododo of APC is winning hands down, all odds already in his favour from what's currently going on in kogi state

Outside the power of incumbency. What's happening in the state in his favour.

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Politics › Re: Diri, Uzodinma, Dino Favourites To Win November 11 Election – Falcon Alliance by dbestuncle: 10:11pm On Nov 08, 2023

Afamed:
Remove Dino from the list.

He will not come 2nd

You can place a bet $500

Pls who do you think will win. I am sure if Dino didn't win then he will come 2nd.
I go remind you

Celebrities › Re: Davido Launches Drink (Martell XO Davido) With Cubana Chief Priest, Ilebaye by dbestuncle: 9:44pm On Nov 08, 2023

pradoyeep:
ILEBAYE--- FROM KOGI ---- WON
MELAYE----FROM KOGI-----?

ILEBAYE--- FROM KOGI ---- WON
MELAYE----FROM KOGI-----WON

Politics › Re: Locking Lokoja Stadium Will Not Stop PDP’s Victory - Melaye Mocks Yahaya Bello by dbestuncle: 10:13pm On Nov 07, 2023

The stadium was built by PDP and the ex- Governor is part of those been disallowed usageof the place now.

Politics › Re: Locking Lokoja Stadium Will Not Stop PDP’s Victory - Melaye Mocks Yahaya Bello by dbestuncle: 6:55pm On Nov 07, 2023

Confirmedzombie:
See as igbos carry kogi state matter for head like Gala.

This election is between APC and SDP. Dino has no chances at all.

Instead of the igbos to focus on Imo state election, it is Kogi and Bayelsa they carry for head like Gala.

Busy body too worry igbos.

Tufiakwa

SDP u say? Ajaka who is a regional candidate can't win this election.
It has always been between APC and PDP and that's the way it will be.
The only difference now is that SDP and ADC will spoil the chances of the both.
SDP will spoil APC chances in Igala land and ADC will spoil PDP chance in the West

Politics › Re: Locking Lokoja Stadium Will Not Stop PDP’s Victory - Melaye Mocks Yahaya Bello by dbestuncle: 6:45pm On Nov 07, 2023

meum:
Instead of PDP to join forces with major candidates so they can be sure of victory over Bello & his anointed candidate, they want to make the same mistake they made at the presidential elections. Continue. It’s just that victory isn’t so sure however, it might still happen.

How can this happen when the so-called others feel they are the winners of the election awaiting swearing in even before the election.
He (Dino) tried by gathering them.

Travel › Re: JAPA: 10 Groups Of People Who Should Leave Nigeria Immediately by dbestuncle: 4:49pm On Nov 02, 2023

uche87:
Written by Osahon George Osayimwen

OP u wan empty naija ni?

Politics › Re: 368 Ekiti Workers Get ₦‎136 Million Car Loan by dbestuncle: 11:40pm On Oct 29, 2023

Pls who has a chart of present payment of salary in Ekiti State Civil Service.
I mean how much is a level 8 step 2 paid as monthly salary

adenigga:
Source: https://punchng.com/368-Ekiti-workers-get-N136m-car-loan

Politics › Re: Predictions For Bayelsa,imo And Kogi Guber Polls by dbestuncle: 5:54pm On Oct 29, 2023

Do your research very well. Even if Muri wins the 9 Igala LGA, he will still not win the election.
Vote Dino of the PDP or you just gave APC the opportunity to continue

BALLOSKI:
constitution allows every tribe to win as long as it's winning. Of the 21 LGs of the state, he only needs to win in 13, if he wins in 9, based on how Okun land might tilt towards their sons(though he has one as a running-matel, Muri can take Ajaokuta and Koton Karfe and make it 11 or the 9 would be enough.

Romance › Re: Your First Time Of Visiting A Guy, And This Happens. What Would You Do? by dbestuncle: 1:22pm On Oct 28, 2023

Do as you have been trained to do, ABI you know get home training ni undecided

englishmart:
Mature mind only

As a lady your boyfriend took u to his family house for the first time and u met her mother cooking, are you suppose to join her in the kitchen or u seat as a visitor and allow her to finish the cooking and serve u ?
Remember it's the first time meeting the family

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