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Iamjobless:
Pls pardon all errors.

I will try and keep this short, I have an aunty who works with one of the FG parastatals but she is contemplating on resigning. Reasons being:
1) the transport fare takes more than 50% of her monthly earnings as the distance between her house and workplace is far (ikorodu to CMS)
2) due to the distance she does not have the time to take care of her children as she has to leave very early and return late at night.

Ever since she told me, I tried to convince her to just hold on as i strongly believe that the minimum payment will be reviewed soon which will address the issue of salary but she stated that my solution does not address the other challenge of negligence of children.

Please i need advice on what she can do to get to work faster amd return home faster

Also, the husband is a business man that owns a business in the CMS area, I will be in the comments.

Ahmed0336:
Some people would never learn.

Always hide anything snatch able you love dearly from evil eyes

Greatmind653:
Pls, if you don't really understand this post, don't comment please. If you're gender bias, pls, read and ignore.

Good morning kind hearted people in the house. Pls, I need honest and matured advice from experience and knowledgeable people in the house.

How can I train my sons especially my 11yrs old boy into a good, respectful, well behaved young man in a situation where he constantly see his father in gambling addiction, and the house is not always peaceful because of this?

How can I make them believe that the fact that their father does not provide anything for them nor anything in the house, does not mean they're not good enough?
My son has learnt the habit of not asking his Dad for anything no matter how little because he knows the answer already. He would rather starve than ask him for anything. Every of his needs, he will patiently wait for me.

I practically provide everything in the house and he knows. Infact my husband and my two sons can be in the house hungry for the whole day if I'm not around.
Any money he has is strictly for betting. He wouldn't even use it to feed himself not to talk of his children.
He eat anything I provide in the house without him providing. Most times it's very annoying.
Most times, we don't talk to each other in this house, yet anything I cook, he must eat.
I'm trying my best, because I can't watch my kids go hungry or stay without light, water, TV subscriptions and the rest. But once he's holding TV remote, no one dare change the channel.

How can I train well behaved young boys in a home like this? I'm so lonely and worried for my children too.

I'm no longer traumatized by his gambling addiction, because I have tried everything, and it didn't work if this is the life he wants, then fine.

I'm traveling with my two boys for the Christmas and I intend to stay in my family house for a very long time. Maybe not to return back here.
This house, I shoulder the house rent, all the bills all for the sake of my children. I don't want a broken home. I don't want my children growing up lonely without the presence of their both parents. But, am I doing the right thing here?
My husband has refused to change for years. all efforts, complain, family intervention all failed.
He's been in gambling even before we got married. I have endure for so long and I'm scared if what I'm enduring really worth it.

I've given up either.

Am I making my children better by staying together here or they could be better when we're apart?
Anyone experience this before?

What's the right thing to do here?

raskymonojendor:
Great to know.

There is so much misinformation all over the internet with regards to COP28.
The number below 👇 should be revised.

Countries:
1 🇧🇷Brazil: 3,081
2 🇨🇳China: 1,411
3 🇳🇬Nigeria: 1,411 - FAKE NEWS
4 🇮🇩Indonesia: 1,229
5 🇯🇵Japan: 1,067
6 🇹🇷Türkiye: 1,045
7 🇮🇳India: 948
8 🇲🇦Morocco: 823
9 🇫🇷France: 800
10 🇺🇸United States: 770
11 🇰🇪Kenya: 765
12 🇹🇿Tanzania: 763
13 🇨🇦Canada: 742
14 🇮🇱Israel: 718
15 🇲🇾Malaysia: 700
16 🇬🇧United Kingdom: 697
17 🇰🇷South Korea: 689
18 🇬🇭Ghana: 618
19 🇺🇬Uganda: 606
20 🇨🇩Congo DR: 590
21 🇷🇺Russia: 590
22 🇪🇬Egypt: 565
23 🇸🇳Senegal: 560
24 🇹🇩Chad: 554
25 🇮🇹Italy: 533
.
🇳🇬 Nigeria: 422

SergeantTitus:
I have 800k, what profitable biz can I do

IyaTola:
Who knows you the most
A. Dad
B. Mom
C. Sister
D. Brother
E. Partner
F. Friends

Jeon:
A woman like their mother, period!.

Foodqueen:


He passed last night, my heart is so heavy.

Wish I had done more.

What will become of his children after now.... Life is indeed very hard.

Ola9ja23:
Sope oti lo 🤣🤣😀😀🤣🤣😀

Dino go cry blood or he should provide another money to INEC to run another election 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

TruthsFM:
This news is not true at all. The moderators should take note

Image123:
This looks more like anti APC work, likely Dino people work.
When you feel you won't win, you try stuff like this to make people doubt the eventual process.

Coolsat:
Nothing like prefilled results sheet, if you understand what's going on politically in kogi state you'll know Ododo of APC is favoured to win this election.

Ododo has no single rival from his region(Kogi central) while others have two to three rivals slugging it out in their region.

AbuTwins:
And at the end what if APC still wins?

They still rigged right?

Dodada:
We will teach Dino politics on Saturday. Sheybi he wants to be unfortunate soul ni?

Juju70:
How many constituency projects did he make in old lokoja

OluwaJohn77:
The Politics of Bitterness and Selfishness Dino played in 2015 against James Faleke will kicked Him out. (Karma is Real)
DINO also step on toes of JAGABAN by talking anyhow to the First lady.
I will advise Him to step down for Leke Abejide for the sake of Okun (Yoruba Speaking part of Kogi State) but his stubborn and ego attitude won't allow Him.

But to be realistic Dino is very Popular in Nigeria

kestolove95:
Man-United is more serious than Dino

M0H247:
If Dino isn't dull, this is his time, but Dino plays too much

Afamed:
You can place a bet, the best for Dino is 3rd .

No dey list to social media.

The contest is Between APC and SDP

Coolsat:
Ododo of APC is winning hands down, all odds already in his favour from what's currently going on in kogi state

Afamed:
Remove Dino from the list.

He will not come 2nd

You can place a bet $500

pradoyeep:
ILEBAYE--- FROM KOGI ---- WON
MELAYE----FROM KOGI-----?

Confirmedzombie:
See as igbos carry kogi state matter for head like Gala.

This election is between APC and SDP. Dino has no chances at all.

Instead of the igbos to focus on Imo state election, it is Kogi and Bayelsa they carry for head like Gala.

Busy body too worry igbos.


Tufiakwa

meum:
Instead of PDP to join forces with major candidates so they can be sure of victory over Bello & his anointed candidate, they want to make the same mistake they made at the presidential elections. Continue. It’s just that victory isn’t so sure however, it might still happen.

uche87:
Written by Osahon George Osayimwen