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Africa!Harsh Society that produces frustrated and corrupt people.
Flog ko Flog ni.
Mehn my children can never grow up in this deluded society.Mtchwww

Busybody2:
Something's got to give and in most cases its the children that loses out on "quality" time.

No matter my ambition or career,i'm ready to give quality time to my children but in that case the wife will lose out.
If you dnt give quality time to your children,who will?

CoolHunk:
What happened again? SMH
And what's with the "men are weak" jargon? I'm not weak; your man is. Utter tosh!

Maybe she meant "Most" men are weak.And She's Right
Most men are weak to the core especially when a lady is around them,their minds become weak.

Man u should better find players that will mark hazard becos the man u defenders will sure be breathing through the anus.

Funniez:
If only Di Maria was in Chelsea..... Kai.... Those deadly crosses are d type that Costa and Hazard never allows to waste.

Chai,you see am.
Only if Di maria was in chelsea,mehn we for badt ghan.Fabregas,osca,hazard,dimaria,costa.Who can stop this kinda team?

Sophyrocks:
Really? But guess what? its the same thing women say about you men too. So lets just say all humans are unpredictable. Dnt you think?

that makes it 1-1
I av like a lot of problems to deal with,and a relationship with a woman isn't one for what ever reason it might be,i don't just feel it.I think there are a lot of things i would rather commit to than a relationship with a woman that is more worth the time.That might just be it.

Sophyrocks:
But i get this feeling that you have issues with women. am i right or wrong?

Maybe becos they are very unpredictable.

Sophyrocks:
Therefore, you would have to let a lady know your intentions just so that her expectations from you would be less. You would have to marry a woman who also see things the same way you do, who also wants kids but does not neccessarily need a man.

If i see that kind woman i for happy o.But all the ones i encounter are desperados.They dnt av a life,they believe you should give them attention 24/7
Like seriously,where are all the independent ladies when you need them?
I only see them shouting on internet,but i'v not met any physically.

Sophyrocks:
You see. With this mindset of yours, you shouldnt get married. Honestly. The truth about marriage is that SOMETIMES you have to displease yourself to please your spouse. But It would be veeeeeerrrrry wrong to do that at ALL TIMES because it would appear you do way much more than your partner does to make it work.

Well, every mallam with his kettle.

Good!Not everybody will take the same sh!.t

Becalm:
@Sophyrocks

Don't take me serious, I was only trying to scare him. You can see that he is already very scared.

Yimu!Scare me say she be God?Nawa

Sophyrocks:
Not necessarily. It depends on the reason why you dnt want to get married. Are the reasons selfish or genuine? If you can show kindness and compassion towards others, what stops you from doing the same towards your wife and children?

The reason i MIGHT get married would be becos of having Children.
And yes,i can give tha same compasion to my children.
As a matter of fact,i love spending so much time with kids than with a woman.That's me
I could spend everything i have on my children and take them anywhere they wana go,but i can't say same for my woman partner.

Becalm:
@DCMG

You can not be in marriage and satisfy yourself alone. Marriage is two people coming together to become one. By being one, they share almost everything joy, sadness, grow together etc. But because it is not a perfect system, crises can arise like in the case of the poster. There is no smoke without fire, there is certainly a trigger to the wife's behaviour. As meaningless or serious the trigger may be, if it can be found out, the solution to the problem is not far-fetched. But if the individual in question is being impossible as in OP's case, you can ignore her completely (withdraw attention etc) for a while as a temporary solution only.
For your own good, leave Sophyrocks alone cos if she prepares for you? ........................

You guys tend to believe everybody has the same capacity as yours.
One of the things i hate most in my life is unnecessary stress in relationship,that idea of always working to make things work in the relationship,in the words of some women "spicing up a relationship"just to please your partner even if you are displeasing yourself.Even in pains or hard times,most women dnt even care to know what you are going through,all they want is for you to satisfy their every needs and if you can't give to them what they want,that's a problem.Who get that kind strenght?
Mehn,some men dey try o,I swear.
As for me,i can never displease my self just to pls my partner.Na divorce sure pass

Sophyrocks:
I think you should answer those questions yourself. You already know the answers. Marriage isnt compulsory. I never said so.

From your definition,it means i'm selfish.
Isokay o!

Sophyrocks:
You are not selfish? but you said you are concerned about satisfying yourself alone. Is that not a statement of a selfish person? hmm. Na you sabi o.

ok,if satisfying my self alone is about helping the less priviledge and despising marriage,is that selfishness?
If i love helping alot of people in cash or in kind which is satisfying to me, and yet i despise marriage,is that selfishness?
Tell me Something!

Shoutout to my Aba tailor,he never dissappionts me.Not yet
As far has its a contract,he gives me the very best in record time.
80% of my clothing is made by my tailor.
Sha that guy don chop me,but that isn't a problem as long as he gives me what i want and how i want it,who cares?

When i tell my mother and aunts say me i no one marry,they take it as a taboo.
Omo,me i no just get strength for women/marriage o.They believe everything about the marriage should be about them them them!Me i no get that kind strength to dey give woman unnecessary attention o.Those people can give you unnecessary headache.
With women,small problems are always big problems

Nice one.I knew all these since I was 20.
I know my purpose hear on earth and i know where am going to.
When i knew what really matters to me and the cause i'm to commit to,i can now differentiate CLEARY what is neccesary to me and what not is.And i enjoy that life
I rarely have/make friends,becos most of them don't think or reason the same way i do.People try to force their friendship on me but their thinking/attitude Just doesn't click with mine becos they alway think waywardly and that's the reason i have few friends.All what most of them do/think about is women,sex,partying,bigboy,drinking,whatsapp,facebook,twitter e.t.c
And i dnt do all these,and they think i'm crazy or an introvert living a boring life.But i know i'm not crazy or an introvert,the fact is they dnt reason the way i do,they think i'm living a boring life but i know i'm being my best self.
When you tell a lady you dnt want a relationship,the more they want to force themselves on you thinking they can convince you.If you dnt give in to them,they think you are gay,impotent or just crazy.
Mehn,it's not easy,you are always the topic of discussion just becos you decide not to party,make friends with cowards or get a girlfriend.
The world is a mess,where the real crazy people are seeing the upright people as the crazy ones.
If you have money but you decide not to drink,smoke,womanise,party or make friends with cowards,they call you names.Smh

Smh!I so much pity this country if it falls into the hands of Buhari.
If buhari wants to rule,he should rule his arewa people.
Buhari kwa?Odikwa very risky mehn.

The Security is Poor.
Abeg Mikel i hope you are safe o.Even if na bench,we chelsea fans value you

Most dress for competition.Competing with other ladies for Nothing.

Na Osofia Sure pass for Comedy.He does It like he has a PhD in Comedy.
But i tend to just crack more when watching saka.Saka doesn't need to say a word,his expression alone can send me to Sambisa without my knowledge.Baddest Clown

According to the project's consultant architect "Mr Ime Ekpo",It is believed that the State is in custody of an IAAF certification to host any world track and field event.

ROSSIKE:
It's definitely NOT the best stadium in Nigeria. That would be the National Stadium, Abuja (below).

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Shuuu!
Capacity aside,have you been to the Uyo Stadium?Infrastructure/equipment wise,Abuja is a Learner.
This is a WORLDCLASS stadium.The dressing room alone na die,na just the capacity Kill am

Hehehe,that one be say Enyeama go turn wizard for post.
Enyeama alone will bring out the crowd in Uyo.
They fuvking Love this Guy.
Inem,welcome back.

eleojo23:
Just some weeks ago, it was the opposite. In life, no condition is permanent, whether good or bad.
That's why no one should look down on those experiencing bad times because you never know when it will be your turn.
Ebola has now become a global problem but I believe this too shall pass.

WORD!

Well,i can't forgive a cheating partner and i dnt expect my partner to forgive me if i cheated on her.Cheating is the greatest disrespect there is on your partner.
I would rather end the marriage than cheat on my partner,and that's what i expect from her too.Infact cheating should be a crime,cheaters should spend the rest of their life in prison with hard labour.
There is no excuse for cheating,end the relationship if you aren't happy than cheat.

YEP.When i Got Admitted into uni.On screening day,i no chop komot for house o.
Hungry don wire me eh.
By 4pm them never still Call my name since 7 a.m wey i komot for huz.
This girl i was sitting next to in the hall asked me if i was hungry,She was older than me tho{I was 18 while she was 21},I told her "No".She asked again if i would eat snacks,i answered "No".She said Ok and went out of the hall.
This girl came back with a bag filled with plastic soft drinks and snacks.
The girl was eating what she bought and i come dey get longer throat.
She told me "You are doing big boy,you better eat".Mehn,no time to dey form big boy,i chop the thing o.
Na there we start to dey talk,we exchanged numbers.That was my first and only girlfriend in Uni.She would pay my department and faculty fees and other minor things,Food and Cloths inclusive.But after 2 yrs,the relationship ended.
The disadvantage is she was too clingy and manipulative,he come be like say i dey for prison.
@Op,yes they exist but in the minority

Mugu is that wealthy man who din't sign a prenup before marrying a western woman in Court.
I weep for mugus.

natureblack:
welcome to wonder-land



I believe Ozil shares his weekly-wage with Wenger

Wenger is a silly coach.He is misusing Ozil.Using ozil on the wing is like using fabregas on the wing,they will flop.

Wenger said he has ozil,rosicky,ramsey,wilshere and cazorlar so he doesn't need Fabregas.
Fabregas=1 assist
Ozil+rozisky+wilshere+ramsey+Sanchez+Cazorla+Chamberlian=0 shot on target

Walahi!Fabregas is a player.Dem use "Pass" swear for this guy.

Both are worse.
If i av a cheating wife i divorce her the next second,same with a nagging wife.
Mehn,i can never die or live a miserable life because of a woman.Who has that strength?
Sumtin as little as my wife using swear words/insulting words on me,na divorce or seperation sure pass cause if i'm to beat her,i'm almost going to kill her and that will cause more harm to me.