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TV01:
If a society has a marriage culture that looks down on single ladies, it will equally look down on single men. Ladies don;t typically marry each other do they?

Ergo, men should be just as desperate, why is that no tthe case?


TV

"Being a woman is a terribly dificult task,since it consist principally in dealing with men"-Joseph Conrad
It's hard not to agree with this qoute.
Men came to change the world,women came becos of men.
If it isn't about being a good wife to their husband then it's about Feminism.

"A lady's imagination is very rapid,it jumps from admiration to love,from love to matrimony in a moment"---Jane Austen
So if you see your bestfriend eyeing your boyfriend from a distance,don't be surprised if she marries your boyfriend within 3 months under your nose...,that is women for you.Very interesting creatures that can perform wonders becos they would go at any length to get what they want.
There is this Qoute that says "Girls have an unfair advantage over men:If they can't get what they want by being smart,they can get it by being dumb".
It's hard not to believe this,women will play "dumb,mumu,mugu" to get what they want,but after they get it you will get to see their true colors.


Women,performing wonders since the days of Eve.

Misogynist2014: The just concluded Project Fame, shows how female obsessed we are in Nigeria, where rukky(who flopped when she sang a yoruba song 2 weeks before the grand finale and her song 1 week to the final was also not in the smallest bit inspiring) miraculously came from supposed 4th position to bit the more fancied Christian and Clement(though what she has won she has won, but the outdated attitude of helping women still persist). Women in Nigeria(everywhere) don't like one another and given the fact that there could not have been selective voting since there were five women.
Give us equality! Say no to women empowerment(no woman has ever been stopped from working for herself in Nigeria.e.g. Women computer education empowerment in order to meet the number of computer illiterate women as if cyber cafes say women should not come and learn)
Men should stop opening doors, sharing umbrellas and protecting women(neither in war or not). Women should stop asking for money from men and men should stop giving money since we are equal women should work and pay their bills.
Children should stop bearing their father's name, they either give them new names opr they share the children equally and women their husband's name. Booth licking house wifes should be frowned at and men should never help women lift heavy
objects. Men should swallow pride, cook and sweep at least till when children get to workable age. This is what I want, give me EQUALITY. . IF THIS IS IMPOSSIBLE TO EXECUTE, SO IS EQUALITY. Modified: 3 not 5 women

Yes.The number of women in the Military should increase.Atleast half of our armed force should be filled with Women,they should protect the country and go for peace keeping,they should face boko haram one on one.We need EQUALITY.Carefreewannbe should be the combat leader,we need Equality.

When cooking is a hobby to me,who gives a fvck about "She".?

Rastamann: Are you using this forum to discourage people from getting a good education?
Yes not all those that got education makes i in life, what proportion of those with education make it in life compared to the proportion that had no education.

Guys, get the education and wait for the opportunity....Abraham Lincoln

Did Abraham Lincoln go to School?But he was one of the greatest president america has ever had.
Why do you guys believe education is all about schooling?

ARES: for every rich uneducated there are a million poor uneducated..... ur logic doesnt hold

for every poor educated then the society is Failed

searay: Op you dey jealous abi? What do you mean by being succesful?
Having Money is not what I call being successful

Ok,having one paper called Phd is what is succesful?

Well,i think everyone should be free to believe what they believe/want to to believe.
As for me,my fulfilment,pleasure and success doesn't depend on marriage.
Service to humanity is what will bring the greatest fulfilment to me,i mean,knowing that what you do is impacting many peoples life positively and adding great value to their lifes;its priceless and a great privilege.
If my marriage would be a barrier to this,then i would be very ready to break that Kind of marriage in 1 second.
I want to die knowing that "Yes i'v done something".But if only what i have to offer in life is only marriage,then i should be ashamed of myself.To me that's a worthless life

OkikiOluwa1: Gbes!
Now, Fabregas is a sh it abi?
Soon, Costa ll be a flop.
Last Bullet
Arsenal ll kill Chelsea nextweek

Bla bla bla bla bla bla bla!

Gawwd!We missed alot of chances today.Maybe they are reserving the goals for arsenal.
As for fabregas a.k.a Fabrepass,that guy is the real sh*t.

christabeli: Why not go and adopt instead of planning to turn the life of another human like you to misery?

Tell that to your fellow women who marry up,basically for money

koyyes: Nah, don't make any innocent woman go through that. A lot of women these days are comfortable being baby mamas. Look for them and make your choice.

Haha,i just want the soceity to know i was married,atleast that would keep my heart at peace.Single with kids "NO',Married with kids but divorced sounds "Better".By the way i would pay her off better.If i'm worth 10b naira,then i can give away 1or 2b to her{only if she deserves it}i.e,she din't cheat,she was lovin,caring and respectful.She can then go ahead and marry the man of her choice that would give are all care and attention she deserves

optimumprimus: living in harmony with nature and loving your fellow human beings as you love yourself is civilized.

no more wars ,religion,diseases, starvation,malnourishment , crime ,homelessness,overpopulation,junk harmful food and products.
surplus free healthy food for everyone on earth, free clothing and shelter ,having fewer kids,volunteers who derive joy to make this all happen. that is civilized.

Kai,your head is very Sane.We have few people like you in this world.If Everybody knew his/her purpose in life,we would have fewer problems.
The so called society are busy forcing and brainwashing people to do what doesn't bring inner fulfilment to them

If to say na just me,i no for go school o{University to be precise}
It was by force because of my parent and the society expectations.
I knew right from secondary school that i always wanted to build a business and be my own boss,finding/getting a job was a "NO" for me.
The kind of knowledge i gather from the internet and books is by far more valuable than what any lecturer ever taught me.
Today i make my money and my so called degree has nothing to do with it,i havn't used my certificate for anything.So i would say time and money i used for school was a complete waste.Like seriously i should have invested 4 years in Something better.

Well as for me,the reason i might get married would be because of having children and pleasing the society.
If she has given me 1 or 2 kids,i would find a way to divorce her or i put on an attitude that will make her want to divorce me.And i would pay her off well.
After that,i no marry again.Atleast i was married

Tallesty1: True That.

I'm not married yet but I know deep down that I need a wife already.

The loneliness is just too much.

I close from shop mostly around 6pm but I don't go house until it is 9pm. I mean what am I gonna do at home? Shower, eat, read or watch movies??

Women are the best part of God's creation, believe me!

Taaaaaaah.
Sha,they say "one man's food is another man's poison".
Apart from business and work,most times i always want to be alone,i'm in love with Solitude.Mehn,i don't get it when guys say they feel lonely just becos there's no woman with them.As far as i'm concerned,women are too clingy for my liking.
They always want attention all the time,they always want to talk all the time,they want you to tell them everything,always want to do everything together,they believe your life should be about them alone.No space atall;mehn i no get that kind strength for them o.
I value my time alone

mrham03: dont mind him, for ghanaians respect and dignity is treasured than getting money at all cost through shady deals.

Excuse Excuse Excuse.
Dignity in Laziness.Ok

mrham03: u nigerians are great traders and hardworking as u claim then why do they a problem going back home to do business?

Why are Ghanaian traders losing out in their courtry to Nigerian Traders?

GHKWAME1: The Ghanaian in the eyes of a Nigerian is lazy because he will not indulge in shady deals (fraud) and go out to break rules and regulations, a walking insult like you cannot dent the image of Ghanaians.

You can only deceive people who havn't been to Ghana.Lazy People.Taaaaah

mrham03: OUR markets were constructed purposely for ghanaian citizens, u know our population is way way way lower than that of nigeria's ryt? So when nigerian traders come to do business in ghana and they become successful, their fellow nigerians also gets interested and also come join him to also do their business here but unfortunately our market cant accommodate all the nigerians and ghanaians so it becomes a competition for a place to do business and since the nigerians come prepared ( with money and persuasion) they get it. so as the numbers of nigerians doing business over here doubles, alot of ghanaians lose out. Thats why that should happen. (The regulation)

Why won't ghanaian traders lose out when they are very lazy and unserious.Competition is what they need and that's why Nigerian traders are waxing very strong.
Just imagine,you go to a ghanian trader's shop to get some goods,sometimes the ghanaian trader will tell you "i'm tired i can't sell",but his shop is open and what you want to buy is very present but at times they would tell you "i'm tired i can't sell".What is that suppose to mean?If you can't sell can't you stay in you house?Na by force to be trader?

Even If i gather billions in $,if i hear say i Spend pass 2M naira ontop wedding because of "one" woman,make i know why.
Like i no get waiting to use money do wey i go spend 2much money just becos i marry one stranger wey i go still divorce.
To my future wife,yea,we would do the wedding but i know i will still divorce you,at least i got married so that the society would know i was married even if it's for 2 years.

If all guys were like me,girls would have been living in frustration.
1 Advantage of not giving women attention:They won't talk to you anyhow,they would show some respect and fear

egopersonified: I just jumped to the last page to type this same thing. We should be asking why girls feel they do a guy a favour by having sex with them, maybe they arent being satisfied and might just be pretending with all the ohs and ahs.

I don't just understand them.
I had this girlfriend,after my long day at work and feeling very tired that i just needed rest,gbam,my girlfriend came to my house.
I don't know if she just came for sex that day,we talked and i told her i was really tired and need to sleep.She ignored those words and started flirting.I told her "i can't av sex tonight".She no gree.
She undressed,removed her bra and pant and was still flirting,she did all she could do,but i din't give in.
What next?She started crying,that was the first time i saw her cry and she told me i was very Wicked and heartless.Naso we end the relationship.
And now i dnt understand why the op thinks girls are doing guys a favour when having sex

Like seriously,is the op trying to say girls don't enjoy sex?.Do sex only benefit guys?
Pls i think there should be a survey for women on how many of them don't enjoy sex,we really need to be clear on this matter ones and forever.
You would hear the shouting "Bleep me baby",but yet dey behave as if they are doing guys a favour,when in real sense the guy does all the work from finance to sex.

Even Apc governors lik fashola,Oshomole and other apc figures are hyping praise on him.Who is he?
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AKPABIO

Dnt make it look like its only a male teacher thing.
Female corpers do it too,but their's is done more secretly.
Anytime i see my biology teacher with im husband i just dey laugh for my mind

Islam and terrorism,if this people have their way they would kill every single human in the world.They keep brainwashing people to take up arms,bombs to kill people for not just reason.
ISIS are busy brainwashing people to take up arms against the world.
Islam,terrorising the world since 622 CE.
I said it,this people should have been given a different planet.
"Religion of peace that would take up arms to attack innocent people for the betterment of their lives?"Like seriously,how would killing innocent people improve your life?
Kai,illiteracy is not just a disease,illiteracy is a global security threat.

9ja ladies are very predictable.If you can provide them with:
1.Big Phones/gadgets{The latest samsung,lumia,iphone,tablets and the rest}
2.A well furnished Apartment
3.A nice car
4.A boutique,where they can go everyday and do amebo with their freinds.
They are satisfied,career is rubbish to them

Kai,lampard you wicked o.Sha,you are still Our Legend For Life.
Waiting for Fabrigas to scores hat trick against Assnal.E go Sweet o

The biggest mistake man u did was to sell Howard webb and bring in over payed falcao.Like seriously,why would you terminate Howard Web's Contract for FalCOW?

Hahahahaha,5-3 "MAN U IS BACK".Lmao

Rubbish!