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PoliticsRe: Buhari Is Not Shy Around Women, Presidency Says by dearestaramide: 5:11pm On Oct 23, 2015
Presoidency tells more lies that jonathan's time haba!!!! they claimed .Simply have a strong image and public managemet team than to be lying all the time.
FashionRe: Top 10 Foreign Female Celebs Who Are Ugly And Overrated by dearestaramide: 5:08pm On Oct 23, 2015
daretodiffer:
Actually she is pretty
Na lie! Nowadays shes even looking older and worried ....
TravelRe: Visa To Mexico Is Not As Difficult As You Think ! by dearestaramide: 5:07pm On Oct 23, 2015
Lucasbalo:
Thank you for that. Been to Mexico many times driving from San Diego to Tijuana. Nothing in Mexico for Mexicans talk less of Nigerians. You have to see the way Mexicans are jumping electronically monitored fence and swimming through Rio Grande to cross to US. It's a pity our people will want to go and live in hell rather than hold their leaders feet to fire.
Oh boy,you hard ooooo.you drove ............................hmmmmmm.God forbid rate of violence andcorruption in Nigeria ever get to that level.How far with those students missing? theres unconfirmed news that they were executed shebi? cry
FashionRe: Mac,zaron,black-up Powder..which Is Preferable?? by dearestaramide: 1:50pm On Oct 23, 2015
chillingbabe:
Tnxx tnxxx
people are all shouting mac coz thats what most females us and others decide to follow the trend so as to belong.Did they also tell you mac is oilY?

See, try Black up.its sooo good infact i only use their liquid foundation with out powder most times.products are fantastic and oil free.
FashionRe: Where Can I Get These Products In Nigeria? by dearestaramide: 1:42pm On Oct 23, 2015
4X4:
these things look expensive can u afford them ?
simple productsare highly affordable and mild on skin.
FashionRe: May Thunder Fire The Person Who Did This Make Up by dearestaramide: 1:30pm On Oct 23, 2015
this is even small....e be like say you dont know what make up can do. grin grin
FashionRe: Top 10 Foreign Female Celebs Who Are Ugly And Overrated by dearestaramide: 1:18pm On Oct 23, 2015
elijah2u:
I thought queen bey should be in the list. Wetin do Rihanna face like that?
My thots exactly!!!!! queen bey isnt that good looking camera light photoshopping and make up assist her.She also does have a great body as seen on tv
BusinessRe: Opening An Account On 1688.com And Taobao.com Made Easy by dearestaramide: 10:18am On Oct 23, 2015
slimhandsome101:
It is not new that serious importers buy there goods from chinese site that sells cheaper and of good quality which give them good profit, so they decided to buy from 1688.com, taobao.com, etc. Note that this sites are chinese written sites and are specifically made for chinese people, people that are not chinese would have to translate the page to english with the help of google chrome. You will not be able to have full access to the sites without logging in.I found out that so many importers outsource this to people which is not bad but makes you pay more and this made me to bring this solution to importers who want to gain full access to these sites and also be able to find out comprehensive information about products and the sellers.

I can create an account for you and you will have the full access to these two sites. Also if you need to pay your seller i can do that for you. If interested you can drop your email and i will contact you.

Have a nice weekend.



But how do you browse on the sites to decide what products you wish to purchse as its all in chinco language?
BusinessRe: Top 10 Richest Banks In Nigeria by dearestaramide: 10:16am On Oct 23, 2015
This list is fabricated>

first bank is number 1

forget the rub and shine you see in zenith when it comes to capital as well as real banking ,its FIRST BANK.All those banks knoe the truth, i dare them to come on care and state what is fabricated here, dem go hear am from CBN.

Marketing strategy to attract customers,oloshi
TravelRe: Visa To Mexico Is Not As Difficult As You Think ! by dearestaramide: 10:04am On Oct 23, 2015
for goodness sake, who isdaring to go to that country huh mexicansare rushing out and you are going in ? DO YOU KNOW WHAT IS GOING ON IN MEXICO??
PoliticsRe: David Mark's Look When Amaechi Said He's Never Taken Bribe Before. (Photo) by dearestaramide: 10:03am On Oct 23, 2015
MichaelSokoto:
grin
thatsa lie.... i watched this and thelook was when there was uproar between akpabio and all.nonsense
PoliticsRe: "Buhari Is Shy Around The Opposite Sex" - Gideon Samani by dearestaramide: 9:58am On Oct 23, 2015
ibroauthen:
Must u always display ur stupidity on d social network?
What's has Islam gotta do with this?
Moreover I know u don't know or read your bible hence you won't type shit
grin grin grin grin grin grin lol
PoliticsRe: "Buhari Is Shy Around The Opposite Sex" - Gideon Samani by dearestaramide: 9:57am On Oct 23, 2015
YES>>>TOTALLY TRUE>I OBSERVED THAT LONG AGO.before any of you term this as fabrication, please observe buhari.It took him time to even accustom to shaking them though he tries so much to avoid it
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 9:53am On Oct 23, 2015
In4matic:
but you know it is . my guess this explanation is an after thought. besides, how come you know so much about d storyline? oh I forgot, your colleague told you. yet u failed to mention until someone pointed out d fact . anyway, for d story's purpose. I think a man who can dedicate four years pursuing a girl deserves serious consideration because he is focussed, he's serious minded, he's loyal, faithful to a cause he believes in, he's patient, he is not one swayed by popular opinion and above all. he loves her. if these are not husband material qualities, I don't know what is.

when God has already answered some ladies prayers, they still keep disturbing themselves for life partner that they turned down themselves. why hasn't d ideal man she has her eyes on not shown up in four loong years?
smh........enjoy your weekned
IslamHaving Trouble Waking Up For Fajr? by dearestaramide(op): 8:54am On Oct 23, 2015
Salam Alaykum DEAr Brothers and Sisters<

Alot of us have trouble waking up for fajr (May Allah forgive us).However I thought to share this with you


http://productivemuslim.com/how-to-wake-up-for-fajr/





How to Wake up for Fajr
How do you wake up for fajr? And I don’t mean wake up for a day or two, but how do you keep waking up for fajr, constantly, everyday, without fail.
There’s loads & loads of websites online giving you tips and advice on how to wake up early. But our focus is not on worldly tips (which should be taken by all means, part of tying the camel wink), our focus is on the spiritual means.
My dear brothers/sisters, every day when you read Surat Al-Fatiha, at least 17 times a day, you recite the verse “You Alone we Worship, and You Alone we Seek Help from”: You want to worship Allah? “Yes!” You need His help then. You want to wake up for Fajr? “Yes please!” Guess what, you need Allah. You cannot, I repeat, cannot, wake up for fajr without Allah’s help. Now ask yourself the question, what can I do to show Allah that I truly and utterly want to wake up for fajr?!
Have you ever had days when you’re about to go to sleep, and you have this deep feeling that you’ll definitely wake up for fajr? And have you ever had days when you know for certain that you’ll oversleep? Imagine the two scenarios, which I’m sure some of us have gone through:
Scenario 1:
You feel high with Eman, you’ve prayed your witr, read some Quran, and even though you’ve got 2 hours to sleep till fajr, you’re certain you’ll wake up because you’ve set your mind, heart and body to make sure you wake up. In fact, sometimes you keep on waking in the middle of the night thinking it’s fajr time out of fear that you’re going to miss it. If you haven’t experienced this, think of a time when you had to catch an early flight or a bus/train, and think of how your mind, heart and body were switched on, and it doesn’t matter what time you slept, you’ll wake up.
Scenario 2:
There are days when deep down you really don’t want to wake up, you hope that you “oversleep” so you feel less guilty about it, and Allah may have mercy upon you and still wake you up, and that’s when the battle with the snooze alarm starts and the classic shaytaan trick “just 5 more minutes…” begins.
How do we maintain scenario 1 everyday?
With these 2 scenarios, one details a feeling deep down inside that you’re definitely waking up, and another where you know you won’t wake up because deep down inside you don’t want to and you’re not ready to take the fight against shaytaan of waking up in the morning.
Below I detail some practical and spiritual tools, that will help you in achieving scenario 1 all the time inshaAllah:
Spiritual Tools
• Know who Allah is: This is the key and number one tool to waking up for Fajr. If you know Who you’re worshipping, and you know that He requests that you get up in the morning and pray to Him, you’ll wake up. It’s our lack of understanding of who Allah is that makes us slump into scenario 2 all the time. Know your Lord, that’s key.
• Sincerity: Be sincere about waking up for fajr, don’t just say to yourself: “InshaAllah, it’ll be nice if I wake up for fajr” be sincere about it, and say: “I will wake up for fajr” I find it useful sometimes to talk to myself about it before going to sleep and say: “I will wake up for fajr, i don’t care how, but I’ll definitely will!”
• Wudu before sleep: Ibn Abbas reported that Allah’s Messenger said: “Purify these bodies and Allah will purify you, for there is no slave who goes to sleep in a state of purity but an Angel spends the night with him, and every time he turns over, [the Angel] says, ‘O Allah! Forgive Your slave, for he went to bed in a state of purity.” Do you think that such a person would be left to oversleep and miss fajr?
• Witr Prayer + Dua: Make sure you don’t sleep before performing your witr prayer, and supplicate to Allah during your Witr prayer to help you wake up for Fajr, remember, “You Alone we Worship, and You Alone we Seek help from”
• Read some Quran: Ending the day with verses of the Noble Quran will sure put your focus straight on waking up for salaat. Prophet Muhammad used to recommend that we recite Surat Al-Sajdah, and Surat Al-Mulk (Chapters 32 and 67) before going to sleep.
• Remember Allah before you go to Sleep: This is part of the first point I made, and you can find all the supplications you need to recite before going to sleep here. You might need to print them off and read them off paper at first, but within a week or two you should be able to memorize them fully and just recite them before dozing off.
• Remember the rewards attached to Fajr Salaat: from being safe from being a hypocrite, to having light on the day of judgement, to being under Allah’s protection the whole day, to having laziness removed from us that day and being productive. Remember these rewards and you’ll sure wake up.
Other tools I use that help me a lot:
Ask a friend/family member to wake you up: This is the number one rule for me to wake up. Get a family, friend, spouse to wake up, and help each other, if you get up before them, don’t be selfish and make sure they are awake too.
• 1.5 hours sleep rule: Aaaah.. here’s a secret trick, there’s a theory in the Sleep science that says that every human being completes an entire sleep cycle in 1.5 hours, therefore, if you can wake up at the end of a multiple of 1.5 hours (e.g. 1.5 hours, or 3 hours, or 4.5 hours..etc) you’ll wake up fresh and rejuvenated. Otherwise, you’ll wake up lazy. So if fajr is at 5am, and you sleep at 12am, make sure you set your alarm at 4.30am, because that gives you 4.5 hours to sleep. (Of course, if you take 1/2 an hour to fall to sleep, you might need to add that into your calculation).
• Nap in the afternoon: Another lifehack, taken from the Sunnah and recommended by many, make sure you nap in the afternoon, for just 20 minutes! yup, just 20 minutes. Trust me, for the past 3 years, I’ve mastered the 20 min nap, and everytime it never fails to rejuvenate me. If you need to train yourself to nap for that long, I highly recommend www.pzizz.com, a wonderful software that trains you for these short naps, it’s what I used to train myself.
• Promise yourself a grand breakfast if you wake up for Fajr: I’m a breakfast guy, so if I wake up early, I sure like to have a big breakfast. Sometimes i look forward to my breakfast from the afternoon before, and just like a small reward, treat yourself to a massive breakfast in the morning. It’ll definitely set your day straight as well inshaAllah.
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 7:59am On Oct 23, 2015
sonofananimal:
anybody who believe that story is a dead man.

she knows his family members, educational status , age and so on. and the FOOLISH OP went that far to write that police is not an option just to make the story look more sweet undecided

I keep on saying this. we don't have intelligent people on NAIRALAND.


A GUY CAN NEVER CHASE A WOMAN FOR UP TO 4 YRS WITHOUT GETTING WANT HE WANT.


IS SHE A GOLD!!




You are right about one thing though,WE HAVE A HIGH RATE OF UNINTELLIGENT PPLE ON NAIRALAND

YOU PEOPLE SHOULD MAKE USE OF YOUR BRAIN. JUST DONT COMMENT ANYHOW JUST TO MAKE THE STORY OR.........
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 7:55am On Oct 23, 2015
[quote author=don4real18 post=39254318]This is a fabricated story... If she has met him just once, how does she know that his family members have spoken to him. Girls can lie
But for the sake that op just want us to comment on her post... I say, "she should report to the police authorities before the issue gets worse or hire like 7 soldiers to treat the boy fuckup (sebi, she talk say she and her family get bar... 40k go do) [/quote


Now let me correct your assertion:i said s
he met him just once right? The day she met him ,he actually was around someone she knew in her neighbourhood.When THe retarded young man decided to make her his mission, she traced the guy they knew in common hence the involvment of his family and frineds, okay!!!huh

This sort of things do happen and even worse .Am therefore surprised that any individual will term this as fabricated.
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 5:34pm On Oct 22, 2015
don87:
She should use her educated brain to give him a chance then if he is genuine marry him n stop looking doing on him
REally? and feed his family abi? Who asked him not to help himself? Howmany people are self made and put them selves through school ?

I consider such men as pure lazy and Golddiggers
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 5:32pm On Oct 22, 2015
petkoffDrake:
if police is out of option..... what about Army or Boko haram?
I will go for BH .please do you have the Public Relations officer's contact ?....................................No be serious response you want ? angry
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 5:31pm On Oct 22, 2015
SwissGeneva:
We had a case of this nature in Minna 2013, how the case was solved? The lady wen to court and itbwas ruled that the man should not come closer than 10 metres anywhere close to the lady or risk being arrested. It worked magic!!!

The lady was a student at FUT Minna while the lazy guy was an indigene.
.

k,will advise her to do same.Thank you
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 5:29pm On Oct 22, 2015
bigapple7:
wht if d guy was well educated,rich and good looking would u have fall for him and dat is how anty sucy remain singe at 50 huh
Which woman wansuffer? oloshi
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 5:28pm On Oct 22, 2015
Mayorjr:
Make she just dry run o..... Na f*ck d guy dey find
for 4 years? Boss,abeg!
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 5:23pm On Oct 22, 2015
sonofananimal:
I know this PEICE of SHIIT was written by a woman of low IQ angry

She even know everything about the man down to his age, and even saying she I richer than the manundecided


NONSENSE
Do you really feel you deserve a response ?No one is behind your frustration and failures in life ,please pray over it and stop transfer of aggression
CrimeRe: Update on the armed robbery attack on Eko Bridge this morning by dearestaramide: 5:21pm On Oct 22, 2015
I DON TALK AM,STATE OF EMERGENCY WILL SOON BE DECLARED ON THAT STATE.Haba, armed robbery every day and the robberswalk free even in broad day light ? women and children raped,shot and killed, money gone.

losses,losses and losses.What the hell is the change abouthuh what is Ambode doing for goodness sake?
PoliticsRe: "I Have Never Collected Bribe In My Life" - Rotimi Amaechi by dearestaramide: 2:41pm On Oct 22, 2015
........................On corruption, he further said: "I have never collected bribe in my life.If they send a girl to you to do something for her and you sleep with the girl, you are corrupt.Corruption is difficult to define. If we keep to the rule of law, allow a Governor to function as a Governor, that will be it."


THIS GUY DEY INDIRECTLY PASS MESSAGE grin
PoliticsRe: "I Have Never Collected Bribe In My Life" - Rotimi Amaechi by dearestaramide: 2:41pm On Oct 22, 2015
donholy28:
which kind lie be dix?
you get facts to disprove as well as documented evidencehuh?
PoliticsRe: Aisha Eniola Is An Elected Councillor In London by dearestaramide: 2:38pm On Oct 22, 2015
cry cry cry cry Her mama must be sooo overwhelmed with joy on her baby's success.I sure know i would be
PoliticsRe: Why Is Senator David Mark Always Silent In The 8th Senate? by dearestaramide: 2:36pm On Oct 22, 2015
MDslex:
that's what happens when u refused to do d honourable tin. Knw wen to check out.
he cant check out as he needs to be in the government to protect his businesses
PoliticsRe: Why Is Senator David Mark Always Silent In The 8th Senate? by dearestaramide: 2:35pm On Oct 22, 2015
why and how would he speak? his mates no dey there. He was immediate past presido and if he does it might be assumed he is challenging the sitting president.

Listen ,wealth wen dave gather no be for here just allow him to scheme on how to mass more wealth in this seemingly difficult govt.
bobo get golf course and refinery overseas
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 2:26pm On Oct 22, 2015
Tawny17:
She should get a fiance and give him her wedding iv cheesy
Yeah1 I actually told her that .This is actually the best to do, but should she start rushing to settle down coz of a psycho?
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 2:24pm On Oct 22, 2015
Slimzjoe:
Op Dafuk do you mean by your Last Statement undecided
If she can't Report to the Police, she should shove her Problems in her A$s undecided angry
so you feel good with this your response, abi? angry leave this place before i.............
RomanceRe: He Has Been After Her For 4 Years.......She's More Educated, Older And Richer by dearestaramide(op): 2:23pm On Oct 22, 2015
PunkyVeer:
She needs to be ready to go rat-tat-tat on him. I prescribe..
grin grin grin ok, will tell her just that

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