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FamilyRe: Is It Wise For A Woman To Give Her Husband Part Of Her Monthly Salary? by dearestaramide: 10:52am On Oct 27, 2015
Demigods:
And you are a fool.
love you too!!! wink
EducationRe: Lesbianism Scandal Rocks Kogi University by dearestaramide: 8:48am On Oct 27, 2015
Tallesty1:
These girls do not know the power of d1ck walahi.



Sha, the girls are supposed to be behind bars by now, I tried to inform one man when I read the news but he was in shower.

Reliable sources said he was preparing for a trip to Bermuda Triangle.
your point is ..................................
FamilyRe: How My Late Aunt Maturely Dealt With Her Cheating Husband.........ladies LEARN! by dearestaramide(op): 8:43am On Oct 27, 2015
daretodiffer:
I pity the woman that puts up with you. Too many dumbass thinking that they are smart because they are men.


You aren't smart darling. Don't ever forget that.
grin grin grin grin spoken from someone who uses such language ? wow thats a compliment.
PoliticsRe: Rivers Re-run Polls Split Senators Over Amaechi - Vanguard by dearestaramide: 8:41am On Oct 27, 2015
Demmocrats:
Amaechi the special one


Amaechi the chosen one



Amaechi the anointed one



Amaechi the Esther of our days



Amaechi the one favoured by my sai Buhari



Amaechi the lion of Rivers



I only see the hand of God in this man, who God has blessed no man can curse.
ARe amaechi's hands, clean ?
PoliticsRe: Kwakwanso’s Insult On Yoruba Elders Will Not Go Unanswered: femi Fani-kayode by dearestaramide: 8:39am On Oct 27, 2015
badman007:
Misyarn seems to be the only way he stays in the news. He can't even manage his family. If I was Yoruba. I'd be ashamed of him
as a nigerian, you should be ashamed of him because once you step out of this country no one care what tribe they only know your country and thanks to our leaders, our reputation is .................................God save us
FamilyRe: How My Late Aunt Maturely Dealt With Her Cheating Husband.........ladies LEARN! by dearestaramide(op): 8:37am On Oct 27, 2015
daretodiffer:
Bwahahahacheesy

You wish! I am not like your aunt that has a lie self esteem.cheesy
grin ;DThank you ,you just proved my assertion to the whole world.A lady who clearly insults a dead woman ?my dear..........................i pity the man that will have anything to do with you.

have a good life and remember is not too late to change
PoliticsRe: Buhari And Women: Is He Shy, Coy Or Con? - Vanguard Reporter by dearestaramide: 8:36am On Oct 27, 2015
buzquet:
.Buhari is not a womanizer
is there any man on earth that does not like women?Man is polygamous by nature.I believe he clearly doesnt wish to be distracted and has avoided them all these years which has worked perfectly well for him .however this is not a secular Nation he must work with us
PoliticsRe: Yoruba Farmers Accuse Traditional Rulers Of Receiving Bribe From Fulani Herdsmen by dearestaramide: 8:33am On Oct 27, 2015
fistonati:
Let's go back to d memory lane, ds Fulani heardsmen crisis started wen awolowo's influence was believed to be getting out of hand. He was consigned to prison and d impression dt time was dt of dey can cut his financial strong base which is agriculture, he will be put to check as long as he can't spend and influence people.

This is why ds fulani heardsmen were sent down here to destroyed his farm and southwest at large. That's why u don't have ds crisis in other parts of d country. Yorubas didn't foresee ds coming now they are battling to control it.
your last paragraph is exactly what those behind all this are plannig on achieving. make no mistake this is a political strategy.
PoliticsRe: Yoruba Farmers Accuse Traditional Rulers Of Receiving Bribe From Fulani Herdsmen by dearestaramide: 8:32am On Oct 27, 2015
He expressed the willingness of the traditional rulers to continue living peacefully with the Fulani saying, ”We are not driving them away but they should stop threatening, raping our women or harassing us with security agents on our own land.


This is clearly an instigation and the root was the fake kidnapping of falae in which both his story as well as ig were not uniform.I see this as a plan to cause issue between the north and yorubas so as to divide apc.

What security is this quote reffering to but from government of course so in other words government is doing this by way of buhari.what is the evidence that the fulanis are nigerians? are you aware of chadians.nigerians etc?

All this propaganda will go to waste.
PoliticsRe: Kwakwanso’s Insult On Yoruba Elders Will Not Go Unanswered: femi Fani-kayode by dearestaramide: 8:26am On Oct 27, 2015
Ephemmm:
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god forbid the day we will have an igbo president.that regions is sooo greedy, divided, corrupt, high rate of crime and its clearly manifesting in the leaders they give out to nigeria as their representatives
PoliticsRe: Kwakwanso’s Insult On Yoruba Elders Will Not Go Unanswered: femi Fani-kayode by dearestaramide: 8:25am On Oct 27, 2015
warrior01:
That's Olu-Kayode, the only fearless Yoruba man after Fayose
no way! Fayose lacks manners and is very disrespectful .i doubt if he even respects his parents.kayode on the other hand is well guided though he can misyarn at times like now
FamilyRe: Is It Wise For A Woman To Give Her Husband Part Of Her Monthly Salary? by dearestaramide: 8:22am On Oct 27, 2015
[quote author=Demigods post=39401215]Point of correction, women don't generally earn more than men, it is just that 'hard working women' who studied well in school and graduated with good result have the opportunity to work in very good companies paying their staffs very well. You cant compare them to the men who were too lazy to study well in school to earn a good result like first class or second class upper and still are too lazy to strive hard to get a good job or do something lucrative with their lives! someone like me who believes in his self! can never! I repeat never ever have a woman earing more than I


Mba! good result has nothing to do with one earning higher.all a person needs is hardwork,opportunity,dedication and faith. i know of many 3rd class that are doing extremely well.thank you

you a low minded thinker.
FamilyRe: Is It Wise For A Woman To Give Her Husband Part Of Her Monthly Salary? by dearestaramide: 8:19am On Oct 27, 2015
erico2k2:
Well I wish most women reason like this.
shut up there ! if you are expecting women to give men money then women might as well marry women,nonsense
FamilyRe: Is It Wise For A Woman To Give Her Husband Part Of Her Monthly Salary? by dearestaramide: 8:18am On Oct 27, 2015
TooNoisy:
So what is he giving her husband money for?

If it is to pay part of the bills, then there is nothing wrong. If the husband can give the wife money, why can't the wife give her husband money?
Are you serious?you are in trouble.
FamilyRe: Is It Wise For A Woman To Give Her Husband Part Of Her Monthly Salary? by dearestaramide: 8:16am On Oct 27, 2015
Miami11:
If she is crazy znd deranged she gives out part of her cheque.
Gbam.Is he not a man? doesnt he know how to do business or struggle to meet up to financial demands?
FamilyRe: How My Late Aunt Maturely Dealt With Her Cheating Husband.........ladies LEARN! by dearestaramide(op): 8:14am On Oct 27, 2015
daretodiffer:
I find the title and your post really insulting to women. You used the words 'mature and learn'. Do you assume that we are stupid or what? I do not understand what you are trying to achieve?

Did you try asking your aunty if she had any toasters and admirers after marriage? Ask her what stopped her? She is going to tell that she did and it was respect for her husband and their marriage that stopped her. But her husband does not the same respect for her and their marriage yet you will come tomorrow and insult a woman who cheats on her husbandundecided. Some men think that it is their birthright to cheat and he does not need to have respect for women. He goes ahead to do so and the world expects the woman to maturely deal with him. Yet you won't stop calling us petty or gold-diggers or less intelligent beings, How can you expect a specie with all that characteristics to be wiser and more mature than you are?


Why should women be wiser and more matured than man? I thought you were supposed to be the leader and the smarter one undecided. Don't you think that the lack of those qualities make it unfit to be in a relationship not to mention lead a family?

The happy ending your uncle told you about rarely happen. You need to be mature to be able to learn that it is just a case out of many.


Moral of my rant:
Don't dish what you can take.
Respect is reciprocal
Every action has its unforeseen consequences

This applies to males and females. Treat your people, most especially your partner the way you want to be treated. If they don't mind you treating them like garbage then good for you.
clearly you are an angry frustrated woman .By your tone,you have or are experiencing your man cheating on you or not taking you seriously and best of all by your attitude or tone of the message you are passing, you are the cause,check your self

MY dear get the moral of the story and not what you chose to assume .For you to take your time to write such number of lines on a post that isnt yours.............................you are definitely in pains.

enuff said.i believe i have dignified your self pity of a self and will chose to ignore further comments fro you.
FamilyRe: How My Late Aunt Maturely Dealt With Her Cheating Husband.........ladies LEARN! by dearestaramide(op): 8:40pm On Oct 26, 2015
bigtt76:
God bless her soul.
cry Amen .thank you
FamilyRe: How My Late Aunt Maturely Dealt With Her Cheating Husband.........ladies LEARN! by dearestaramide(op): 8:38pm On Oct 26, 2015
grayht:
***spreads mat***
some federal mugus will tell me nonsense that this is a script.Rubbish.
hope you learnt one thing or two wink
FamilyHow My Late Aunt Maturely Dealt With Her Cheating Husband.........ladies LEARN! by dearestaramide(op): 8:35pm On Oct 26, 2015
MY uncle and I love to have conversations on life, relationships, politics etc. Any way, we got into discussion on the high rate of divorce in Nigeria and he went on to express what he felt were cause of it. He emphasized on patience and forgiveness and went on to tell me of an experience that cured him of his player life style

Years ago, my uncle was like the average Nigerian man, that is of course womanizer but like the average man, he was smart not to flaunt it, though as women, we always can tell. His wife had always known and was always told by her over sabi friends but since she never caught him red handed, she couldn't do anything about it.

The constant late night calls, meetings, sudden travels increased her belief of what she already knew. what could she do? yes, as any average wife, she was in pains but still showed him love and made sure she was there for him any time he needed a friend to talk to. She never complained or cried to her family or friends but kept in all inside her. He respected her for this even though as he said, he was too addicted to women to stop, though he tried.

My uncle was called off for a conference which was to last for one week and as usual with out delay, he jetted off. A cousin of my aunt whom she had not seen for over two years then came to visit and but was staying in a hotel which was by all means high standard and very expensive. My aunt decided to visit her on a Saturday so as to stay longer and catch up on old times. My aunt as you suspected caught sight of her husband really romancing a woman in the pool area and as you know, the man was supposed to be in Port Harcourt and had presumably jetted off three days before. She calmly finished what took her to the hotel and went back home.


My aunt never showed her husband any difference and still treated him normal as usual but one day whilst he was in a very good mood and they were watching an interesting movie in their room, she calmly told him what she had seen THREE MONTHS EARLIER and asked him not to do it again as he had hurt her deeply.

That night, shame, shock, fear all kinds of thoughts but best of all respect clouded my uncle's thought. He did eventually stop but not immediately oooo. He said it was gradual but he eventually stopped.

MY aunt fell ill and died years later and my uncle was sooo heart broken. He is still single by the way.

WHAT I LEARNT

all men are the same only thing that differentiates them is fear of God and self control.
Women need to be wiser and more matured than men.
Never act immediately this enables you time to think and strategise
shouting doesn't change men but pushes them away
RomanceRe: Saudi Prince Forces Staff To Strip Unclad For His Viewing Pleasure by dearestaramide: 8:14pm On Oct 26, 2015
gocac:
He has started having a share of his 75 virgins already on earth without Dying. Hmmmm. Holy land ma asssssss!
what has holy land got to do with an individual's sins? Have you taken your medication today at all?
RomanceRe: Breaking: Drake Is Getting Married!!!! by dearestaramide: 8:12pm On Oct 26, 2015
osedvgirl:
serena williams ke shocked
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yyeeeeeesssshuhhuh any issue with that ? please serena deserves to be happy.so mind your business and face your life
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Single? Lets Mingle by dearestaramide: 8:05pm On Oct 26, 2015
missKiffy:
Hi guys, this thread is created for singles who are ready to mingle, I wouldn't want to put a age restriction because even if you do, people who are younger might still come in but please let's be matured on this thread, no insults, respect others opinion and feel free to drop your bio or contact in the thread or to anyone you are interested in. I believe there are matured singles here on nairaland. Legggooo
y not just create a group on face book then invite all single ladies that way group grows bigger and more discussions etc
FamilyRe: How Many Ladies Can Act Like This Lady If They Catch Their Husbands Cheating? by dearestaramide: 7:57pm On Oct 26, 2015
AfroKnight:
It is very painful to smile even when you're hurting. I think the husband's head should be correct now after reading it. If na another woman, she go just poison the man.
amtelling you very pain ful!Women dey suffer i swear.yet if we don marry dem go talk ,we marry dem go take talk out
FashionRe: See What This Lady Said About Bleaching. by dearestaramide: 7:54pm On Oct 26, 2015
AdaMeme:
My profile and see how I toned


I'm happy I toned skin

Its my life
Its our life



Take it or live it


Quote me anywhere
You fine ooo, i no go lie but quote me i swear to God you will one day look back and regret the day the idea of toning dawned on you.
FashionRe: See What This Lady Said About Bleaching. by dearestaramide: 7:53pm On Oct 26, 2015
XavierBlue:
more
help me add that shameless kenyan socialite known as vera sidika
EducationRe: Photo: A Public Primary School In Bauchi State by dearestaramide: 10:09pm On Oct 23, 2015
canalily:
Am off to Borno thats where am posted!
Jokes apart, is nysc still posting our brothers and sisters to volatile states? are they stupid or what ?
EducationRe: Photo: A Public Primary School In Bauchi State by dearestaramide: 10:08pm On Oct 23, 2015
SeverusSnape:
Is this Nigeria or Somaliahuh

Pathetic!
One chauvinistic state like that in the northern part of Nigeria.you need to see or hear how they treat women.they believe women should be in the kitchen maybe thats y.

If women were respected in that state am sure they would listen to them and progress, bastards!
TravelRe: All Airports In Nigeria Will Be Shut Sunday Midnight - Aviation Unions by dearestaramide: 10:05pm On Oct 23, 2015
Badgers14:
Just like they do it in France grin grin

Air France employees actually broke into company's executive meeting and beat up the big bosses... grin

Here in France, we don't entertain bullshìt cool
grin shocked are u kidding me !? lol Really dont remeber reading or watching the news.

good for them!
FashionRe: Top 10 Foreign Female Celebs Who Are Ugly And Overrated by dearestaramide: 5:27pm On Oct 23, 2015
daretodiffer:
You wish

Why don't you upload a pic of your of gf?
go jo
CelebritiesRe: MTN Presents Cars To Project Fame Season 8 Winners (photos) by dearestaramide: 5:20pm On Oct 23, 2015
templegate:
Congrats to all the Winners.

Next is to come settle for.......GOSHEN VILLA ESTATE, ABUJA
have never heard of thisarea in abuja.what district and how much?

give landmarks
CelebritiesRe: MTN Presents Cars To Project Fame Season 8 Winners (photos) by dearestaramide: 5:18pm On Oct 23, 2015
francoray:
As PDP senator's kept quiet when Chibuike
Amaechi was in their midst.... So shall your
enemies keep quiet when it's your turn to
shine.....
Boss no dey wish people that kin quietness oooo

you mean you actually believe pdp can keep shut? Me sha,i know say somedeals or money passed hands thats all.
PoliticsRe: Boko Haram Seizes Town On Cameroon-Nigeria Border by dearestaramide: 5:15pm On Oct 23, 2015
lagmostkuit:
Hmmmm
This one na just hmmmmm and keep shut.what more can one say....I strongly believe presidency knows something about this bh but is not revealing it,Not just this presidency but also past one.

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