Business › Re: From A Roadside Herb Seller To Owning A Beautiful Mini Plaza In Ibadan by debbydams(f): 10:07pm On Nov 26, 2025 |
favour32: Believe all in social media to your peril.
I know of a young girl(given birth some few months ago) around.
Her chemist shop is filled up with drugs and toiletries but she's not from a rich home.
Guess the money laundering source?
Yahoo boyfriend.
If you know you know.
Later in the future,she will tell you on social media that she started from a humble beginning.
Do not trust most people on social media.
To lie and to package one's storyline is not unusual. I'm not trying to justify her o, but not all are fake sha |
Business › Re: From A Roadside Herb Seller To Owning A Beautiful Mini Plaza In Ibadan by debbydams(f): 10:06pm On Nov 26, 2025 |
tragergeorge: congratulations to her ... go tap make you begin sell agbo Na
both Okada agbero go use you run test for your goods ... no wonder Yahoo boys and ashawo carry body Pass who de work for bank... you de see truth you de beef truth.... ... best that can happen Na say she met a very good guy that invested in whatever she's selling... who get better supportive Man go feel say he do business pass others... it is well |
Business › Re: From A Roadside Herb Seller To Owning A Beautiful Mini Plaza In Ibadan by debbydams(f): 10:04pm On Nov 26, 2025 |
PapaNnamdi: Toto miracle
Somebody shout power not all herbs seller sells their body tho.. |
Health › Re: TTC & Failed IVF: After ₦3.5M, No Baby, No Refund by debbydams(f): 2:48pm On Nov 26, 2025 |
ConfidentialDoc: Surrogacy is a matter of renting a womb from a younger woman. The egg may or may not belong to the intending mother.
Surrogacy is recommended in cases where the woman has a damaged womb. Absent womb (Hysterectomy)
Or the woman is extremely advanced in age
or suffering from a chronic illness which precludes pregnancy. it doesn't matter.. Atleast it's better than adoption.. All way na way |
Family › Re: House Clearance Sales, Abuja Only. by debbydams(f): 6:42am On Nov 26, 2025 |
FictionWriting: For sell:
Chair is 50k
Plastic water storage drum: 25k
Location is Lugbe, Abuja how many liter is the drum |
Health › Re: TTC & Failed IVF: After ₦3.5M, No Baby, No Refund by debbydams(f): 10:07pm On Nov 25, 2025 |
ConfidentialDoc: My neighbor's younger brother and wife just lost 3.5 million naira to a round of failed IVF. They are devastated.
They've been trying to conceive naturally 7 years now until a family friend out of good intentions directed them to a IVF specialist with a good track record.
After several investigations, physical examinations, scans, injections, pills, supplements. The resulting embryos did not do well in-utero.
And that was 3.5 million naira gone with the ocean breeze....
No free repeat cycle,no refund. Quite an unpleasant development. let them get surrogate mother na |
Romance › Re: Advice! My Fiancé Wants Me To Lend His Sister My Wig And Dress by debbydams(f): 10:47pm On Nov 21, 2025 |
justyhere: Please I need your advice. I am getting married, my fiance asked me to borrow his sister my bone straight and a dress and I refused, is this not a red flag? His sister wanted to wear it for a wedding. He didn’t buy it for me. He’s now really upset and has refused to talk to me for 3 days now. Our wedding is in 4 months and I am contemplating getting out of such a relationship. Please advice no give her sister oo.. Bikini don't even try lending her your wig and wears.. Btw that's a huge red flag.. This flag na 1000 yards sef.. Why is he angry? Abi dem wan use am tie your glory? Abeg oo |
Romance › Re: Man Storms Ex-Girlfriend’s House With Friends To Reclaim Every Item He Bought by debbydams(f): 10:17pm On Nov 19, 2025 |
lightwind: $
Smiles... You can't cuff out 900k to buy an iphone for yourself from your normal salary or from your day2day business money. Never you can't!! Man's money must be involved 60% or more... That is women's nature to depend on men for something big or small in most cases ( especially Nigerian women)
You can't use own hard-earned money to buy an Iphone of 1.3million or more for yourself. Never you can't.
Ordinary android phone of 150k, my girl can not buy with her own money, and she is working and earning money. She still put am for my body to support her.
My neighbor can't even buy a smart phone for herself, she is waiting for her boyfriend to pick money first before she will get a smart phone. She is working and earning salary o. She only bought the small torchlight phone for now....
Your well-being and day2day activities is being sponsored by one or two men out there... just accept the truth.
Except you are from a wealthy family, that's the only difference.
There's nothing else for me to THINK OUT OF THE BOX!
$ I don't know about others oo, but one thing abou me is I anything I can't get for myself I won't bill somebody son and I won't expect somebody son to get it..na only my papa I fit bill anyhow or my husband when I'm married.. If e no dey I no go apply pressure.. I'm not from a wealthy family but my parents made life easy for me while growing up. I have neva in my entire life ask a man to buy this buy me that.. The only I asked is I'm sick can I get money for drugs or can I get a loan from you...and that it. No pressure And there re some ladies like that too |
Romance › Re: Man Storms Ex-Girlfriend’s House With Friends To Reclaim Every Item He Bought by debbydams(f): 10:20am On Nov 19, 2025 |
lightwind: $
Everything in your room is 60% man's money...
$ smiles.. You think all ladies are jobless and can't foot their bills? Think out of the box guy.. |
Romance › Re: Man Storms Ex-Girlfriend’s House With Friends To Reclaim Every Item He Bought by debbydams(f): 10:59pm On Nov 17, 2025 |
Diamond098454: What can of nonsense is going on here? Why collecting them back? He has been sleeping with this girl, he has been knacking this lady
This is bad Na gurl Bleep up, how you allow man do literally everything for you.. I'm sure he paid the house rent too..this one of the reason why I do my things myself.. I no want see finish Remember when I got a new apartment, a friend offered to do the painting for me, i declined Yes, I'm not bouyant.. I go buy paint buy brush I paint and even do nice wallpaper sef.. I no want situation where someone somewhere will now say 'after everything I did for her'.. Or situation like dx.. Some men are pure monster.. Everything in my room is my hard earned money..i no want whala |
Family › Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by debbydams(f): 11:45pm On Oct 29, 2025 |
dbabs500: Plenty of una wey dey chat this never marry or have never had close siblings married going through something similar that has children and are in western world, when i say its not that easy to decide is because children are involved and also am a dependent under her. Am at great risk here na why i dey count my eggs b4 them hatch. all you need is prayer.. God will see you thru |
Family › Re: Marriage On The Brink Of Collapse by debbydams(f): 11:29pm On Oct 29, 2025 |
dbabs500: Hello Nlanders
I will tel you guys something for sure, marriage is sweet, but the bitter part of it can affect a mans life even more than a woman. Episodes upon episodes have surfaced online regarding SOME men bringing in their wife to the western world and gradually seeing the demon crawl out of them. I have read many and heard of some within my community here in the UK. I always thought these episodes only happen to some people that it could never happen to me, bros and sis, he dey sup oo.
I don't want to delve into too many details, but I just want to share with you guys the most recent thing happening in my own, this is just to let u guys know that he unthinkable can happen to anyone whether or not you deserve it or not
So one day i decided to change the kitchen lights from the white one to the warmer bulbs, I had kept them right atop the kitchen cabinet which is a bit high. I climbed my chair and lo and behold I saw a paper neatly wrapped in a square shape, I took and opened it, lo and behold the attached is what I saw, I obviously don't know exactly what it is, so I called my mum, and the only thing she could tell me was to destroy it and up my spiritual game.
Overtime, I sort of react on situations with my wife, but I have changed ways. I politely and diplomatically approached her and asked if she knew anything about what I found, and she said, where is it, told her I have destroyed it but showed her a picture that I took. She sobbed and said she knows nothing about it, and I silently ended the convo.
A week later, I was assisting her to monitor the facebook ad that I have helped her with, a notification popped up on her computer saying ' finalize your hotel booking', which apparently popped out from bookings.com, I checked and saw that she pre-booked a hotel booking for 24th of Oct to 25th of Oct, I saw this 2 days prior to the 24th. I have had it in mind that I will not question her, set a trap and catch her red-handed, I know alot of you would say you should not have told her, she will now be smarter, I have my reasons and that's that. I left for work that day (24th), she was suppose to go for a house viewing as we are planning to move, I knew if for whatever reason, she might use that outing to go run things, that's if an actually plan was underway. On her wayback, we were talking while she was driving, then towards the end of the conversation, I asked her why she nor tell me sey she book hotel for me and her for Basildon, 24th to 25th two adults, she paused for like 6 seconds, and said which booking,then i gave her the lowdown, at first she was defensive, saying she does not want to further be asked questions, but that the pre-booking might have been done in error bla bla. I just ended it with no p, I thought I'd ask you.
Since 7 days now, she dey try seduce me, i nor gree Bleep, im just telling myself, what kind of fake life person wan dey live so, i am with a woman that at least i know she's effing someone, because she has not been caught red-handed its all 'lets continue our normal life' but me nor sabi pretend and the fear of contracting disease and also spiritual misfortune is now on the high for my mind. Winter dun come, who i wan dey nack, the depression just start now again.
Nlanders what would u do it is well, Everybody with his own problem |
Crime › Re: Have You Been A Victim Of Jungle Justice Before? Share your experiences by debbydams(f): 7:21am On Oct 23, 2025 |
Victim keh Let's see what others have to say |
Romance › Re: Does Hard-to-get Still Exist? by debbydams(f): 7:51pm On Oct 22, 2025 |
cutecommend: As a lady, have you ever done successful hard-to-get in this recent times? As a guy, have you persistently chased any lady doing hard-to-get? I still dey do am, especially now wey I Don hang boots.. |
Romance › Re: Ladies, How Do You Feel When Your Man Kneels Down To Apologize To You??! by debbydams(f): 7:45pm On Oct 22, 2025 |
pussyphilia: You had serious misunderstanding with your husband or boyfriend and later he finds out he was at fault. And you're very angry and pissed off with him. Then having realised his mistake, he comes to you and kneels to apologize profusely to you. Is this something you'll love and readily forgive him or is it a turn off that would piss you off the more? Guys, can you kneel to apologize to your woman or do you consider it "unAfrican" and makes you less a man? Remember it is a very serious misunderstanding! Perhaps she caught you cheating or something like that. Na scam.. My ex does this alomst everytime we have issues, after few mins another whala I packed my things without looking back |
Romance › Re: Some Ladies Sleep With Their Exes Before Wedding Or In Marriage by debbydams(f): 10:41pm On Oct 03, 2025 |
cutecommend: How can you sleep with your Exes multiple times during dating and expect to be automatically a faithful and loving wife in marriage? Some weddings you may have seen with couples dancing, celebrating e.t.c, may just be that the lady doing the wedding just had sex with her EX few days to the wedding day. She may even cry tears of joy on the wedding day, while her EX may be a wedding guest mocking the husband that is probably dancing so well in the wedding.
Again, some caring husbands who may have pampered their wives during pregnancy, stood by her during labour, probably cried tears of joy after child birth, may just be doing so for another man's child.
As a lady, you may need to prayerfully cut-off ties with your EX or past sexual partners, and you may need to prayerful undo the impact your past sexual escapades may do to your marriage. things I'll neva ever do.. What's this generation turning into.. To cheat on my bf sef I no fit.. It is well |
Romance › Re: What Can Put A Lady In This Position? by debbydams(f): 10:36pm On Oct 03, 2025 |
Karemarealty288: What can put a lady in this position?🤔
Zzzzzzsssssss missed period.. Heart break.. Lost money |
Nairaland General › Re: Mention That One Thing People Don't Understand Until They Experience It by debbydams(f): 9:20pm On Sep 28, 2025 |
Onegai: Pregnancy and Giving birth.
It is insane to feel something move inside you, kicking and then slip out of your body, crying and breathing. And that something turns into a whole human being. this is it.. |
Health › Re: Why The Umbilical Cord Wraps Around A Baby's Neck (Photo) by debbydams(f): 8:27pm On Sep 21, 2025 |
BodyCount: Ọmọ!
New borns are usually weird to see in the first minutes they're out...
Very ugly and weird Body shapes... yes o |
Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by debbydams(f): 11:21am On Sep 19, 2025 |
Smartworkfx2: More pictures
Nairaland is hanging
Scroll up for previous pictures
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0703-0000-416 location |
Education › Re: Did You Use This In Your Secondary School Days? Which Hymn Is Your Favorite? Pic by debbydams(f): 7:37pm On Aug 30, 2025 |
Esthered: SOP Hymn 444 All things bright and beautiful good old days |
Education › Re: Final-year Kogi Polytechnic Student Dies During Abortion Procedure In Lokoja by debbydams(f): 10:18pm On Aug 27, 2025 |
Omorr,, why will she abort a 6month old pregnancy That's a great risk na |
Family › Re: House Clearance Sales, Abuja Only. by debbydams(f): 7:48am On Aug 26, 2025 |
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Technology Market › Re: House Clearance Sales.. Come In Here!!!! by debbydams(f): 7:43am On Aug 26, 2025 |
Devicehive: Makeup box 25k Hair dryer and curler 10k each Sewing machine 120k These products are all new never been used location |
Health › Re: Why Does Sperm Smell Like Hypo Bleach? (Photos) by debbydams(f): 10:57pm On Aug 18, 2025 |
Betgold84: More like yam
Not really bleach
Many girls like it
They pretend
But they enjoy it everywhere on their body. oh chim  |
Celebrities › Re: Chike Says He Has No Plans For Marriage, Calls It A “Stupid Step” by debbydams(f): 11:18pm On Aug 16, 2025 |
brain54: It's clearly stated there were he said "for him"...
Meaning he wasn't generalizing!
He also added "Marriage is not for me. "My happiness depends on my financial stability”
Make una dey take am easy! don't be surprised if you hear him getting married next month |
Health › Re: Types Of Fart By Frequency And Sound by debbydams(f): 10:57pm On Aug 12, 2025 |
Wetin b this  Thirty more characters needed pls |
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Fashion › Re: What Can You Say About Men Who Wear These Shoes? (Photo) by debbydams(f): 3:39pm On Aug 06, 2025 |
Rapmoney: What can you say about those men who wear these shoes? For me, dem dey sabi chase women too much, and they have sugar-coated tongues.  lol, if I see this shoe for door step I gat start to dey reminisce lie wey u go lie for my father, reason why he first me reach house.. Lol |
Family › Re: 30 Nights Movie Watch With Hubby by debbydams(f): 4:11pm On Aug 03, 2025 |
RevenuesBoost: With failed marriages everywhere, I know I'm lucky. Also, marriage works if the couple involved, work together. Movie nights also create a bond between couples. So we do this often. This time, we decided to make it 30 nights. it's cool tho |
Family › Re: Which Of These Words Is The Hardest For You To Say? by debbydams(f): 11:12pm On Aug 02, 2025 |
Prophetkelly: Which of these words is the hardest for you to say? I need help is the hardest Nineteen more characters needed |
Family › Re: 30 Nights Movie Watch With Hubby by debbydams(f): 11:09pm On Aug 02, 2025 |
RevenuesBoost: 30 Days Movie Watch With Hubby 🎬❤️
We’re doing something special—30 days of movie nights with my favorite person in the world, my husband. 🍿 From romantic comedies to thrillers, from old-school classics to feel-good animations, we’re diving into a new film every night—just the two of us, cuddled up and making memories.
It’s more than just watching movies—it’s about slowing down, laughing together, crying together, and reconnecting in the midst of busy schedules. Each film brings a new conversation, a new inside joke, and a chance to fall in love all over again.
Here’s to popcorn fights, cozy blankets, unexpected tears, shared snacks, and 30 nights of pure togetherness. 💑✨ Let the binge begin! where Una dey see good men sef? |