Obaaderemi2:
Who is this one again?

u have a phone

Obaaderemi2:
When you see a woman supporting verbal abuse, check her well.

smiles..I'll ignore you

Obaaderemi2:
Don't mind the idiots supporting her.

when you see a man supporting violence check him well

DWickedLandLord:



A woman will not lie about violence that never occurred. Embellish .....yes. But not outright lie just to paint you bad .

There's nothing more annoying on nairaland than when people with no account balance keep talking about IQ n Intelligence

lol.your last paragraph is too direct 😂

NonsenseRubbish:

It’s Moniker Lol and that’s my own piece of advice tho.
I remember when I used to tell those petty lies to my partner back then. (I would be somewhere and tell my partner I was somewhere else or on my way back when I hadn’t left my location yet, or say I hadn’t eaten when I had eaten out, etc) my spouse sat me down and told me there was no need for all that and it will only lead to telling bigger lies and break of trust. I felt embarrassed but felt more love and respect for my partner. You understand the nonsenserubbish better now ??

lol yes

NonsenseRubbish:

I don’t think he’s lost interest. The whole situation just has him perplexed. It was an unnecessary lie. My advice is to have a heart to heart with her reassuring her she doesn’t need to tell petty lies because they can lead to big lies and eventual break of trust.
But to be honest little lies lead to big lies. It is a red flag sha 🤔

your Monica? Should I say this is nonsenseRubbish? Lol

Ayomide11111:


Never! I am not someone like that.
I am not a stingy guy. Infact there was a day she took all the cash (#5000) inside my cross bag and left me with nothing, hunger almost killed me at the studio that day, because I didn't know she has taken everything. Yet I didn't complain or scold her. She said she's hungry and she has somethings to do at the church that's why she took all the money and I forget about it. And there's no way a lady can starve in my home even if there's no food stuff I must provide definitely. Because when a lady begins to starve she can compromise. What else she wants me to do.

. It's obvious you have Lost interest in the relationship let her go...do you run a studio?

MrBrownJay1:
was she pregnant? maybe thats the reason she was murdered as ritual killing would have some body part removed na...

check the picture well she was not pregnant

meobizy:
Adults in a relationship doing what they should. No problem here. Kayode is broadcasting this because people aren't following this season.

for 🍎

BeigJawnson:


Please don't be offended, do you really know him? I feel so sorry for him ooo

not in person

BeigJawnson:


He is late? How come?

yes

BeigJawnson:




YOUR LAST STATEMENT SOUNDS FUNNY, BUT ONE THING I WILL LET YOU KNOW IS THAT, HE WILL GO TO THE HEAVEN'S GATE WITH HIS BODY COMPLETED...

THE HEAD IS CUT OFF IN THE BODY FORM NOT IN THE SOUL AND SPIRIT FORM... HUMANS ARE TRIPARTITE IN NATURE. 1. BODY 2. SOUL 3. SPIRIT

the guy you quoted is late..

Esirin:
What about those who died today

where

Hummm


If

Villa12:
that's true. If you treat your wife well while you're young the children will reciprocate when you get old.

. Word

guobe:
@debbydams 2k sent

seen... thanks sir.. God blessings on you and your family

guobe:

Send account

2258963867 uba thanks sir

Aunty please calm down he will answer you ...

Dcass:
what have I done wrong to you please a

guobe:

Send account

2258963867 uba..
Thanks sir

Cc guobe remember me please
2258963867 uba.. thanks sir

Redoil:


why spaming my mention

lol I don't you are redoil..

guobe:
I initially intended gifting 10,000 naira to five people but I feel it will go round to more people if I gift 2,000 naira to 25 people.
If you were earlier successful in the earlier 20,000 naira gifted recently to guys please dont participate as I will ignore you.
Please if you really don't need it allow people that need it to get it.
The country is currently very tough but God got our back.
Thanks and may God bless us all as I will commence distribution of the 2,000 naira to 25 people soonest.

hi ... I'm interested

mariahAngel:
I saw this post, and I thought we should help this guy out, shall we?

okra 150
Cray fish. 100
Pepe. 100
Garri half mudu 400
Charcoal. 100
Seasoning. 50
Small redoil supposed dey house
Use the remaining 100 buy sachet water

Helo

guobe:
Transfer of 20k to Elizabeth Oluwasegun completed.
180k transferred so far.

thanks sir God will shower his blessings in you this will go a long for her

@guobe.. good evening sir, there's a widow who doesn't have where to sleep, she's sleeping inside a shop, i tried to help but the person I'm staying with refusedU this will go a long way..09153443998 thanks

adesegun121:
Only when you take away peace of mind from boys marriage. 😁

Source: https://gistmeloveblog.com/how-true-about-this-in-marriage-see-photo/

not true

FanRong:
I'm sorry, this post is going to be a long one. But you're saving a soul if you read through and advice candidly.


My story
We've dated for 6months and we've lived together for the 6months.

On our 3rd month, I found her interesting and told her I'll like to marry her. She accepted but no engagement ring or anything to show. We just accepted by word of mouth.

Since then, I've worked towards it. I've told her to call her mum and eldest brother(dad is late) to relate my idea and understand their feeling since it won't be that easy to marry. (same state, but my people and her people are highly selective in marriage)

After several persuasion, and threat that I'll throw her out if she doesn't relate the circumstances to her family, she called the mum. And again I had to force her to call the eldest brother. She claimed she did. And that's enough. I'm ok.

Meanwhile, there's this guy(her ex) she claims helped her when she came to Lagos. It was when I started accommodating her that I found out in her chats that she was living with this guy, but lied to me she was living with her Aunt and the aunt's husband was harassing her sexually and she wants to leave. She later told me the guy, though provides for him but has never had sex with her, even when she was living in his house. These stories doesn't move me since everyone, who is not a virgin has an ex. So I forgave all that and we moved on.

She wasn't everything I need in a women, but I told myself I could train her the way I want. We continued adjusting to each others likes and dislikes.

I feed her this 6 months, provide comfortable shelter, buy her things she needs,(not want). Told her I'll do more and open a shop for her, if we get married, but she still confronts me asking why should I wait till after marriage? . I didn't allow the words move me cos Its my decision and my money and also, I'm used to gold diggers.

A good number of times, I see her as being selfish. If things doesn't benefit her, she'll not get bothered even if I'm involved.

Just this week, It became obvious to me that she argues everything I request her to do. From 24th Dec, we've been on holiday, we're always at home.
1. I'll wake her up at 9 and ask her to prepare breakfast for the family, she'll prefer to roll on the bed than do it. I'll finally have to do it myself so I can get things done and get busy.

2. I detest girls on eye lashes. I've repeatedly told her how I dislike it, but when she went to fix herself for the Christmas, she fixed the eyelashes, Contrary to my demand.

3. I got her some sneakers to upgrade her fashion style and look smarter, instead of the usual slippers and sandals she wears.
When we prepared to go to the beach few days ago, I requested her to put on the sneakers to look more fashionable, but she refused buttressing that she must wear what she wants, sandals.

4. Few days ago, we had a heated argument and she said that if I'm not happy that she's living with me, that she can go, afterall, she has somewhere to stay. I asked her to go and she immediately called that her ex bf to come to my house. I immediately swung into action, took all her belongings out, before the ex will arrive, at the same time, retrieving the items I gifted her.
While she was struggling to have her gifted items back, our neighbours heard the struggle and had to come and settle for us. She apologized and I forgave her. we were back into the house.

5. Just yesterday , we left home together, and I locked the door and I took the keys with me. We walked down the street together to the Busstop, I have almost no friend and seldomly greet. But there's this my ex girlfriend by the roadside, she saw me and yelled my name, I went to greet her and my Fiancée picked offence, left me without waiting for me. After that I chased her and told her it's nothing because I've told her everything about this ex.
Before we could get to the Busstop, she demanded for the house keys and I gave her since she might come back earlier than me.
We couldn't say bye. The anger was clear on her face and we parted ways.

After about 15mins, I got to where I wanted to make payment for the items I picked only to notice I am not with my transaction phone. I was confused where could I have kept it, the seller insisted I may not have come to his shop with the phone, and the phone rang as I called with my second phone. so I had to call my Fiancée for assistance since she's with the keys.
At first, she said she was still around the Busstop but when I told her I needed her to go home and confirm my phones whereabout, she said she can't go back that she has gone far, shouted on me and hung the phone.

I called and called and called, but she didn't pick. Many thoughts ran into me. Who took this phone? My money? , my phone? , my sim card? . I had to find my way and trekked back about 4km to the house since I had no cash with me. And finally saw the phone ringing in my house. I was relieved.

The way she shouted to me on the phone got me unbalanced, I felt she would be fire if I get this girl as a wife.

We finally traveled to our home state today and I paid the bills for the traveling. My major plan of traveling was to see her people and do the needful before I mistakenly get her pregnant. But I'm seriously contemplating of canceling this plan and throw her out come January. I need peace.

Dear nairalanders, I'm really in the middle of the deep blue sea and the devil.

I need mature and candid advice please.
Should I continue with the marriage plans or the redflags are obvious?

let her go

Halcyon123:

You will need
Rice(for tuwo)
Groundnut
Peel the Groundnut and wash. Then blend or grind
Add water to the paste and seive out the milk
Put on fire and add your washed rice and allow to cook on low heat till very soft. You can blend just little of the rice and add to make it thick.

thanks sis

Halcyon123:
Akara and kunun gyeda
Chinchin

hi... pls how did make this kunu geida

ceejay80s:
Nairaland is back!!!!!!

lol

finallybusy:
Fine girl no dey Nairaland.

u think so