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illicit:
😂

I am Ekiti, born and raised in Akure...

Do you live in Akure?

hop to visit soon

illicit:
😂

I am Ekiti, born and raised in Akure...

Do you live in Akure?

left, In abj now

illicit:
Karee, Omo Owa Omo Ekun...

Ekiti ni mi sugbon Akure ni won bi mi si.

Ekiti and ondo is almost dsm, heard Ekiti was created from ondo, reasons they have lot of things in common

illicit:
Karee, Omo Owa Omo Ekun...

Ekiti ni mi sugbon Akure ni won bi mi si.

lol e b lik say u go reach me this language I literally don't understand

illicit:
Ilu wo?

🤗

akure

Is this a ten year old post or did you rob the sellers?

it's not.. I actually bought a bucket of tomatoes 2500 yesterday

illicit:
Hi

omo ilu mi

Bobodee09:
You are mostly appreciated when you provide.....the moment you are unable to provide hmmmmm.

Everything that happens is your fault, you be blamed for almost everything.

Marriage is really tough but for the sake of my beautiful kids I keep going.


No regret actually but alot of lessons, my kids and I come first before her.

hmmm

illicit:
When I was in final year, writing my final exams. One day I received a call from a boy, Bankole, who I registered for WAEC the previous year.

I knew him from my base in Akure, he was my mentee. He called me that he was on his way to Ilorin to spend some couple of days with me. I said fine even though he never told me he was coming...


When he arrived, I tried my best to make him comfortable in my one room apartment.
But he was far from comfortable. He would always complain that he wants money. He gambles, if I give him money he gambles with it. I think I stopped giving him money but there was food in the house.

He would tell me to my face that I was living below standard that he would occupy a flat and have a nice ride at 100 level.

I told him it's fine but I am fine and contented in my little self con and I use the bus or taxi to school.

He was trying to do yahoo and he would always meet my Landlord and I saw them severally cahooting, whispering and conspiring...

My Landlord was an Alfa and I have never asked him for paracetamol.
He started going about with one guy called Principal, a ne'erdowell and dubious fast talking element.

At a point I had to inform my closest pal, neighbor and coursemate. We both tried to instil sense into Bankole but Bankole was adamant.

At some point I started seeing him with strange items and fetishes...

Like he would wake up midnight to boil water, take sand from outside, bath with black soap and always looking for Hausa sponge...

I stopped eating in my house.

I later stopped sleeping in my room. We share my bed.

I had a red short that he likes to wear.

After about a month, he left for Akure, I also left for Akure after my papers.

I wore that short that he often wears, Omoh I started scratching my body like I was infected. It was really serious.


I went to a clinic. They said it's bacteria infection. I have to disinfect my body and clothes infact the man said I must get rid of all the clothes I had worn since the itching started. I did that.

I bought new clothes. I spent money unnecessarily.

To cut the long story short.
I was inside FUTA one morning, trying to get cash from the ATM when one of Bankoles friends called me and said Bankole is dead.

DEAD!!!?

HOW?

They said that morning he just complained of stomach pain and he was dead in seconds😳

Who does that?
Bankole.

Infact they had to bury him ASAP in a shalow grave as he still have parents and was like the last child.

It was pathetic....


😐

After some months I went back to Ilorin for Clearance and some fornication.

I still stayed on my old street at Lords and Queen's hotel. Then I saw my Landlord and I told him of Bankoles demise.

The man said Haaa, he must have got more than what he bargained for... Can you imagine?

It means he knows something right?

Anyway Bankole is dead and I know he must have shook hand inside dark magic to get money...

Bankole may your soul never rest in peace because you f up and you no take advise...

🥴

What if he had died in my house?


Bankole was a very jovial guy he was about 17. He was very funny amd friendly.
I miss him sometimes but he f up big time. He for still dey alive like this like this...

hmm.

BlindAngel:
Good afternoon Nairalanders,

Please read to the end, It'd be quite an episode.

My marriage of 6 months has almost finally come to an end.

On my previous thread I have posted a lot about trouble we've been having during and after the marriage.

- How she manipulated me with her tears into marrying her despite the fact that I wasn't in anyway ready.

- How she manipulated me with her tears, and refused my pastor to conduct our baby's naming ceremony, therfore giving way for her pastor to conduct our baby's naming ceremony. And called me all sorts of names while crying when I refused and insisted that my pastor will be the one to do it.

Plus other's that I cannot even remember.




Now back to the topic, I will be extremely sincere to you all, I won't add anything and will not remove any. Everything started two day's ago, I was lying on the bed and she came to me crying and begging for me to love her that she's tired of begging for my love all the time, that I should give her just 1% of the love that I've for our son. Just 1% is all that she asked for, I didn't answer her, but later told her that I've tried in the past and still trying but the love isn't there naturally that maybe it's because she forced me into marriage when I'm not in anyway ready that in my wildest dream I never believed that I'd be a married man this year. Then she started crying heavily, went to look for rope and started strangling her neck that she will kill herself that there's no life for her to live, I rescued her. Then, I went to bath and before I came back she has locked the room door, I was hearing endless cough outside the door and pleaded with her to open the door but no response. Thank God the door key is somewhat faulty, I managed to open the door and saw that her eyes are already extremely red and spit drooping out of her mouth, the rope was so very extremely tight to her neck. "I'm still wondering until date how she managed to hold on tight and not let go despite the great pain she was in" next she went tho get knife that she'd stab herself. I was late for work and with the anger inside of me, I walked out of the house, she called me on video call immediately and showed me that this is the end that I should take care of out baby, I immediately ended the call, put my two phones on flight mode until I few hours later.

Immediately I on my phone my mom called me, she has reported a lot to my mom, my mom talked to me and when the heat was too much I walked out of her.

After that day, which is a day before yesterday, she totally changed, she no longer respect me, she talks to me anyhow, she insult me and talk back at me. These are things she does when I newly met her until she totally changed, now she has turned to something else, she bought a school form without even informing me. Two weeks ago she brought one of her friend to stay with us without informing me, when I confronted her she said she forgot.

Today she told me that I'm treating her bad and expect her not to revolt and continue keeping quiet, that this is the end road for me. I guessing that she got this advice from a friend, because she told her friend that she met at antinental everything that has been going on and she gave her some advice.


Today a huge quarrel broke out today which I'm clearly the cause, we were watching a Nigerian movie and I saw a chubby girl and complimented her that she's sweet that this is the kind of body I like that I'm going to search for her on Instagram just to see more of her. I said all this because I've been singing in her ears that I love dark skinned or chocolate women that are extremely chubby or fat. She also don't always fail to tell me that she's on weight reduction therapy "I'm always pained whenever I hear this words from her because she's not in anyway fat, she's fair too and rubbing cream to make her fair more, all these is paining me, she knew what I want but always doing the opposite. I can't resist a chubby girl, but coming home to see her how slim she's always makes me so heartbroken and weak.

The quarrel led to insult, we started insulting each other. She told me to shut up, that I'm an idiot bastard, a fool at 30, mumu, Goat etc.

And I insulted her as well, I'm pained by her insult because as she's supposed to give me some respect.


During the heat of the quarrel while we were still dating, I reminded her how she cheated on me by going to sleep with a stranger In a hotel until dawn, and denied that nothing happened, that the man didn't touch her.

I got to know all this when I she was sleeping and I used her finger print to open her phone and saw her chat between her and her room mate In school, she was still a student then.

"her friend asked her not to go, but she refused and went, on the chat she made mentioned that she didn't shaved that she'd be ashamed if the guy want to have sex with her.

When I saw her chat she blamed me, that I didn't gave her attention on that particular day. This is a woman whom I'm always chatting with all the time, except that particular day that I was extremely busy and told her that I'd be busy but when I'm less busy we'll chat. She said I told her that I was busy but I was online on whatsapp that she sent me messages but I never opened them, that her emotions got the best part of her.

I also reminded her of how she chatted a guy that was always disturbing her. She told the guy that she's ready to date him that he should go and rent house so that she would be coming to sleep there. What made her to write the guy? We had a quarrel, her friend that our last born was far older than, insulted me and instead of her to scold her friend she joined her friend and starter insulting me that I was the one at fault. Note : we were still dating back then when all this happened, today's argument made me to remind her.

I also reminded her of her chat with her friend when she told her friend that I'm a broke guy she's just managing.

But she said she was naive then that things have changed now which I can't deny. I then told her that I will call a family meeting and state all these that sha did during the past, I won't have done it but all her 4 sisters excluding her mom and one of her sister, think I met her a virgin, the remaining 4 of her sisters think I met her a virgin, so I want them to know that I didn't met her a virgin that she has already dis virgined when I met her.


Now back to the deal breaker, she said everything on my body is small including my penis, that whenever she's holding my penis when not erect, God forbid that it looks like a baby's penis. That God forbid our son having such a small penis.

Then I told her that her vagina is very wild that I don't feel anything when having sex with her, that all the prostitutes and my ex that I've slept with are far tighter and sweeter than her that she's has the worst and bitter vagina I've ever tasted in all my life and day to day existence.

Then she kept on hitting about my small penis that my penis is small and that's why I haven't felt anything. Then I told her how many girl's that have cummed during sex, even prostitutes. "Note, I'm not lying, this is 100% true" Then she said I'm lying, that my penis only long but it's small bla bla bla.

Few minutes later, I dressed up and went to church, while going she again called me a Goat, a fool and a Dog.


The decision I intend taking, I intend doing out child's dedication next week Sunday, so in order for anything not to connect us ever again after I've gotten back my bride price.

I have blocked her both numbers on whatsapp and Facebook, and on calls although she doesn't know yet. "note : this is the very first time that I'm blocking her, ever since when we started dating, no matter the quarrel and provocation, I haven't ever done this ever before.

Nothing and absolutely nothing will make this marriage work ever again, I intend calling a family meeting immediately after the dedication to state my mind that the marriage has ended and she should leave.

To me, this marriage ended a long time ago right from the very first day she manipulated me with her suicide attempt and endless tears and calling me wicked, heartless. In which I couldn't bear and I agreed to marry her despite the fact that I wasn't ready, the love wasn't there and above all I wasn't sexually attracted to her. I wasted 4 million plus in getting married to her February this year, and I have accepted my fate. I will do the dedication and call the family meeting to make my stance known.

Thank you all for reading, although I've already made a decision but I'd appreciate your contributions and what you think about all that happened.

humm

FRANCISTOWN:
Wishful thinking

yeye

FRANCISTOWN:
A man who does not doubt a woman is a weak and a finished man

coming from a man abi na boy who is begging a gurl to date him...

Chisilasweb:
Nobody wants to be lonely.
No matter how rich or famous you are, you still need someone special to love you and care for you.

All this so called slay Queen and Feminist are secretly dieing of loneliness and conji.

To all the ladies reading this, find that special man and shoot your shot. You deserve love and happiness. Don't let anyone tell you otherwise

chop knuckle

Hummmm it is well

koldrun:
Sew previous thread
https://www.nairaland.com/8241384/just-severe-scald-boiling-water

So I went to a hospital this morning for proper treatment. The burns were cleaned thoroughly, dead skins removed, dermazin cream applied, and then gauze used to cover the burns. I also received tetanus injection and two other vaccines. Just like some people said, the application of GV was totally condemned by the doctor. It was cleaned off before treatment commenced. I'm to be going daily for 2-3 weeks for cleaning and dressing. Thanks everyone for your words of advice and encouragement.

Pictures (During cleaning and after)

sorry dear.stop applying iodine it will expand the wound...this happened to my brother last month, ko easy o

Omorr

OlawaleBammie:
Na so marriage dey be??

I replied your mail ..

ifko:
Did u try to meet that debbydams...i think she s a good gal.
If that's not working try to sharpen your tentacle in church, that's if u attend one.....nah meidweek u fit see correct gal ooo not sunday sunday babe

hi..have we met before?

OlawaleBammie:
Good day.. Happy Sunday.

Yes I did days/weeks ago.



But wait, where did u dig this funny experience of mine from?

Good old days sha,

your page

OlawaleBammie:
One fateful day like that, i called on bro chukwudi to enquire if nigga fit see joinman do,

Me: bro chukwudi abeg work dey ground?? I need money o, hunger sef don ask me now say oboy howfa na

Him: Wale a no fit lie u o, work no dey o but make we go gather do this small one wey dey, make we gather go manage am.

Na so all of us gather, mysef, seun, chukwudi, Nnamdi anf kehinde, we packed oursef into danfo and headed away to gbogbo/bayeku in ikorodu, we got there and we measured the aggregates, added the required cement content and voom, we added water, as i was mixing it (manually with shovel) the labours were transferring the blocks to the needed area.

After one hour na heys I heard, eeh!! Olokpa weytin we do na Omo onile no disturb us na olokpa come dey disturb us. Before i knew what was happening all our tools had been carted into the hilux, i wanted to jakpa into the bush cus i neard the bush but wen i saw that the policemen are with rifles and even scolding us with the riffles mo ya melo. My mama no knkw where i go make dem no con go send my deadbody give her.

hi, u sent me a mail, hope no prob

Obaaderemi2:
Who is this one again?

u have a phone

Obaaderemi2:
When you see a woman supporting verbal abuse, check her well.

smiles..I'll ignore you

Obaaderemi2:
Don't mind the idiots supporting her.

when you see a man supporting violence check him well

DWickedLandLord:
A woman will not lie about violence that never occurred. Embellish .....yes. But not outright lie just to paint you bad .

There's nothing more annoying on nairaland than when people with no account balance keep talking about IQ n Intelligence

lol.your last paragraph is too direct 😂

NonsenseRubbish:
It’s Moniker Lol and that’s my own piece of advice tho.
I remember when I used to tell those petty lies to my partner back then. (I would be somewhere and tell my partner I was somewhere else or on my way back when I hadn’t left my location yet, or say I hadn’t eaten when I had eaten out, etc) my spouse sat me down and told me there was no need for all that and it will only lead to telling bigger lies and break of trust. I felt embarrassed but felt more love and respect for my partner. You understand the nonsenserubbish better now ??

lol yes

NonsenseRubbish:
I don’t think he’s lost interest. The whole situation just has him perplexed. It was an unnecessary lie. My advice is to have a heart to heart with her reassuring her she doesn’t need to tell petty lies because they can lead to big lies and eventual break of trust.
But to be honest little lies lead to big lies. It is a red flag sha 🤔

your Monica? Should I say this is nonsenseRubbish? Lol

Ayomide11111:
Never! I am not someone like that.
I am not a stingy guy. Infact there was a day she took all the cash (#5000) inside my cross bag and left me with nothing, hunger almost killed me at the studio that day, because I didn't know she has taken everything. Yet I didn't complain or scold her. She said she's hungry and she has somethings to do at the church that's why she took all the money and I forget about it. And there's no way a lady can starve in my home even if there's no food stuff I must provide definitely. Because when a lady begins to starve she can compromise. What else she wants me to do.

. It's obvious you have Lost interest in the relationship let her go...do you run a studio?

MrBrownJay1:
was she pregnant? maybe thats the reason she was murdered as ritual killing would have some body part removed na...

check the picture well she was not pregnant

meobizy:
Adults in a relationship doing what they should. No problem here. Kayode is broadcasting this because people aren't following this season.

for 🍎

BeigJawnson:
Please don't be offended, do you really know him? I feel so sorry for him ooo

not in person

BeigJawnson:
He is late? How come?

yes

BeigJawnson:


YOUR LAST STATEMENT SOUNDS FUNNY, BUT ONE THING I WILL LET YOU KNOW IS THAT, HE WILL GO TO THE HEAVEN'S GATE WITH HIS BODY COMPLETED...

THE HEAD IS CUT OFF IN THE BODY FORM NOT IN THE SOUL AND SPIRIT FORM... HUMANS ARE TRIPARTITE IN NATURE. 1. BODY 2. SOUL 3. SPIRIT

the guy you quoted is late..