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richmond500:
Na wa.

If u haven't changed it before, u need to respect ur wife

I b pro

Jeweltz:
I introduced this guy to her in 2022. A year after he travelled to Canada 🇨🇦 on an express entry visa. I had interest in him before I introduced him to my friend tho I never told him the because he always talk about how he loves women with big ass, big this big that..so I knew I didn’t have a chance there. We were just cool and since he didn’t signify any interest in me, I play low.

So when he met my friend, she started doing too much around him, ask me if he can collect his number since I told her we were not dating, I said yes even when I didn’t like the idea.

Now they already broke up since he was in Canada and he stopped talking to her. She also told me how he’s very arrogant and all this all that.

So, now me and the guy were trying to rekindle our lost connection and I made it known to him that I actually have interest in him. He was okay with this. And it’s something I’ll be willing to explore if he came to Nigeria later this year.

My friend saw his message on my phone the other day when she was checking stuffs on my phone. He curiosity got the worst of her and she read through our iMessage chats. Since then she’s been refusing to talk to me. She talked to our other friends and no one listen to my side or the story.

You didn’t even know this guy, I do.

lol

Sure
I don't cheat
Cheating is bad
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lordm:
This animal go sweet sha, with enough oil. It will be good for banga soup

haaa

God abeg

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No
E remain 7

richmond500:
Pls this is not for those still living with parents.

As a single person living alone, paying your own bills, 100% independed, how much do you spend a month?
I wan compare something

spent 130k monthly
Just on feedings
I have a kid tho

Jesus.. The heart of man


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Christianoir:
I see people saying you shouldn’t care about what people say but I’ve been trying it not working because people might say bad thing about me and I will start thinking about it for days

How do I get that I don’t care attitude
I know inot possible not to care but at least I don’t want people opinions to weigh we down

How do you guys do it
Please suggest guys
It weighing me down

humm
Let me tell you something, u can't satisfy human either u do good or bad people will talk
Just do what's best for you..
Leav talks for human being, in few years u won't see dem again so why worry.. Go enjoy life Jor

Kobojunkie:
😁

A lot of Nigerians go on to become just like their parents before them, and these are some of the many who cry out, "Generational curse," when they find themselves repeating the same mistakes those before them made. I tend to believe that rather than become like our parents, we are instead to learn from their many mistakes and endeavor instead to become better, upgraded versions — nothing of the old — of them. Version 2.0 should, in all ramifications, be better than Version 1.0, even though it came from its existence.

Na why u write all this epistle.
Can u summarise it

Kobojunkie:
Your mother, by being the way she is, ended up with your dad. This implies that if you become like your mom, you might end up with a man like your dad.

lol, I don't want to be like my mom, she's too calm..
My siblings takes after her...im the only one in the house that don't take nonsense, I'm not troublesome tho but I don't tolerate nonsense...

ebubeson:
Parents are very important to us and good parents make it beautiful.

Now, with the way your Parents behave, will you marry a partner that behaves like any or both of your parent?

yes...my mom
I don't want a man like my dad.. He hardly talks and he blames people for his actions

Freshtruth:
One Fact About These People (photo)

Omogggggghhh

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Kobojunkie:
It is her phone, not family property. Your elder sister said it's okay to collect it every weekend yet your OP says otherwise?

2. Tell her not to disturb you with whining but still it is her phone to do with as she pleases.

someone should pls summerise everything

Rrchrd:
I know the country isn't for the fainted heart but...
1) I'll never kill
2) I'll never date a married woman
3) I'll never steal
4) I'll never smoke
5) I'll never bow for any god.

OK

Bukola94:
Believe me, it doesn't used to be like this, my mum was a graduate of 2006/7, it used to be a good facility and serene environment

graduated 9years ago it wasn't this bad...

Theunderman:
27k last, go market go buy for that price

lol.. That's harsh

Congratulations


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busariabeyx24:
If your ex fainted on the street, how will you move her

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floss:
Oya don’t cry, just go and play with your mates outside

all this small small children sef, once they have access to smartphones they misbehave online..

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fyneboi79:
Look let me tell you something about women, I was married for 10years before I opted for a divorce because I knew she would never change.I have dated several single mothers and one thing they all have in common is zero loyalty with unhindered expectations. Just have it in mind that she will never change,she will act good till she sees a bigger target.

just because you are unfortunate in marriage doesn't mean others will be.. Leave op let him follow his heart

vb0mb:
You can never ever win the biggest balloon.
No matter how you try

the one that sells at the front of my shop stopped selling for my son because he always wins the biggest balloon.. Lol

jordyspices:
Na wah dis would have been sold for 300k -400k 13years ago

80k 86k as at 2009 2010
Den a bag of foreign rice was 5k, 6k
Good old days

richiemcgold:

It is either a prayer fellowship

or they come to greet a new-born baby

or they are having LAPO meeting

or one of dem is doing birthday party

Sirchiboy:
I asked a lady I want to marry that if i give her 1m to start a business.
Hmmm she told me 1m cant start any business with a shop.
Someone that have not seen 1m in her life saying this.
Please guys if you have such lady in your life never make a mistake to wife her or she will put you in a chronic debt.
You will never achieve anything in life if you marry such girl

hummm

neolboy:
This is my life story
I am sharing my experience here about marriage life, some of you might call me a Simp or weakling but need to share it for those who asked me to share it when I write on a topic about what i regretted so far in 2025, was getting married last year December and ending it this Year January will pick one or two things from my story.

I met this girl 2023 through a mutual friend, we became an acquaintance and later start dating. She is from Delta state likewise myself, she comes from Ndokwa west specifically Kwale by tribe. In 2024 i proposed to her, by May I went to see her family while she came to meet mine also.

Early September i asked her family for the traditional list. We both agreed for traditional marriage and court wedding, After collecting the list we start planning towards the traditional marriage which was fixed on December 29 on a Sunday afternoon. That faithful day, i went with my people to pay the bride price and other things, and the court wedding was fixed on January 17.

January 7th, we were together discussing but something strange happened, her phone rang and i saw her going outside to answer some calls, after sometimes she came back inside not composed. I asked her what the problem was but she downplayed it and told me it was nothing, but i was not comfortable, after a while her phone rang again, it was her brother's wife calling her and asking her if she has told me about the pregnancy. I was shocked and asked her what pregnancy is she talking about.

Here comes the shock of my life, i discovered that she was some weeks pregnant, I asked her who got her pregnant, to my surprise, it was her ex boyfriend. I was enraged, mad and furious, something was whispering into my ear to go into the kitchen take a knife and stab her. Luckily for me, my younger sister called me at that moment, if not i don't know what i would have done to her. Because it was late i left the house for her.

In the morning, i came back, she was already in tears crying and asking me for forgiveness. I told her to leave my house, I picked up my phone call all her family members, called mine also.
Her family were trying to persuade me to forgive her but i told them it was unforgivable. My family asked for the refund of the bride price which was later refunded after they discovered that i did not bulge to their request of accepting her back.

It was a painful moment and a painful experience too, but i was able to pull through by the help of my family members some friends.

It was a long story i had to cut it short. It is my life story

Moral lesson: Do pregnancy test even on the day you are to tie the knot, do not trust to the extent of ignoring little things.

Extra: The guy who got her pregnant was aware and even told the girl's sister that his property with them he is coming in future to collect it. Na so I for dey look after another man's property

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oluwaseunamos33:
and here in Abuja, hit won kill us. Hmmm

the hit is after my life

Blackfire:
Poor people eeeh




Ordinary tiger generator and painted room for another person house o

do u know how much a gen cost now

youngrhosy:
Seranko seniyan
Koto Aye
Eran iya osogbo
Ori
Saworo ide
Agogo ewo
Taye taiwo
Onikoyi
Efunsetan
Ija omode abbl....

u no add abela pupa

floss:
Now we know who they got android phone for… don’t go and be useful to yourself and your parents Arugbo ojo

don't be stupid..
I didn't mention your parent in my Conversations..

silibaba:
Don't let any person deceive you outta ur marriage ooo

This is the time your husband needs you the most. He is addicted to bet9ja which I guess but is because he wants to win and use the money to impress you and all of the family.

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floss:
When I joined Nairaland, you were still in your mum’s womb, go and play with your mates outside

oya come collect award.. Arugbo ojo

floss:
Please do, run away from your husband and land in another man’s bed and have freedom to explore without restrictions, na your kuntus go hear ram

all this small small children sha.. If dem don buy small android phone give Una, na to dey run Una mouth anyhow