₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
Op wrote of a friend dying in his sleep. You can in suggesting something similar happened to your friend only that your friend didn't die in the end. So, my line of questions is to ascertain exactly what it is that in fact happened to your friend since OP and gang did not perform an autopsy on dead friend.

□ Apart from the delusion your friend said he experienced , what did the doctors actually say happened to your friend to cause him to collapse in his sleep?
□ you said your friend was revived but did doctors confirm that he indeed died and was revived or did you probably confuse fainting from lack of oxygen or pain with death in your narrative?

Basically , what did the doctors say was wrong with your friend?

are you even serious, I quite understand you I just want you to rephrase...well I don't have an answer to what you wrote.. do well and stop bugging my mention please

Kobojunkie:
You rushed him to the hospital and didn't even bother to ask the doctor what was really wrong with him? The psychotic images his mind conjured up does not explain what really happened to him, you know that, right?

By the way, did doctors confirm that your friend died or you simply assumed that he did when it could have been that he was merely unconscious?

I don't understand your writeup

olasaad:
This is the kind of death I like and always pray for. I don't want to disturb anyone.

don't wish for that because no death is easy, it happened to someone closer to me last year, his naming ceremony was in the morning, but around 3am after observing his normal prayer,he slept off on the couch I heard his scream I thought it's not something serious we held him we started praying calling out his name, God revive him we rushed him to the hospital, when he regain his strength he said he saw women pressing his neck

Distress sale
Haier thermocool
Volume 319l
In good condition
Location Abuja
120k

Charisma01:
Ehhn!!! People still dey buy bag of pure water for150? For my area for Abuja, it's 250

life is easy in kuje. Lol

ahnie:
No #50 naira biscuits in my hood
#100 upwards.

life is easy in Abuja oo. I tot we still have 50# in all parts of the country, infact they just increased sachet water to 150# per bag here..

ahnie:
Location varies Sha!
And I was thinking I got mine for a cheapie!

it's because you buy from super market.. biscuits is fix price everywhere, we sell 50# that's 200# gain on a carton

ahnie:
Kobojunkie...see me and hookup this morning.the name funny sha!

Zoer got the carton for #3,075 naira, quite a cheapie!

u mean the carton is 3,075? It's expensive tho , it's 2200 here

Skyview01:
While thinking and reminiscing, I am thinking of my childhood and growing up, as kids, whenever our fatger would come back from work, we would allwys all run out of the house through the backdoor at the sound of his car horn.

The biggest reason is immediately he is stepping in, he would start complaining about things not being in their right places.
Chores not being done or improperly done, house not clean enough and he would always have something to complain about in an angry tone of voice.

I came to believe it was his own way of dealing with a stressful day at work and over time, it kinda created some tensions between us.

I told myself, no matter what, if I had my own family, no matter the stress I pass through during the day, i would never take it out on the kids or wife.

So whenever i come back from work and i see chores not done properly, my father's reaction would flash in my mind and i would take a deep breath and go the opposite directio , ask the kids and wife how their day went.
and generaly chit chat about them without making them uncomfortable around me.

At the end, I might ask my son, "sweetheart, when are you going to wash the dishes? Even at the peak of a very stressful day, I would find a way to smile and go to my room in solitude.

Secondly, shouting at the children while correcting the. My dad as a true Nigerian man would yell at a high octave while correcting us and it frequently drives me crazy as a teenager.

With my kids and family, I practice a low even tone of voice while i am angry or making neccessary corrections. I find this to be very effective as it made the kids receptive and willing to change.

The results, kids are free with me and can discuss virtually everything in their lives with me.

So, what did you see your father do while growing up you were unhappy with and wanted to change in your own family.

anger . Finding it hard to forgive

CandidAdmin:
As the question goes, how many people have you said I love you to?

For me it's zero.

Question for the day - How many of them did you mean?

zero

extol1:
Longest time

abi oo

I dedicate this space to all married women seeing shege in dia husband house.. God dey

TheDarkporeShow:
A few weeks ago, there was a post where a banker quit his 70K job to go start a car wash and then began starving because the carwash paid him N500 daily (N15K monthly).

Ever since, we've been pondering what he could have done differently. So we put pen to paper to write down people who started businesses about a decade ago. Only one person out of 25 is still running his business. everyone has either packed up and run back to a job or japaed. Even several of the motivational speakers in the past like a popular pastor and fela durotoye have left the space.

In this conversation below about that banker's story, everyday folks, bankers, architects and veteran businessmen debunk several ideas about following your passion. They explain what you need to put in place before quitting your job to start that business, , how you should manage the expectations of family members about your success, why you need to have support systems in place and how to start out.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-z8Z4dvgE80

It's definitely worth watching.

So, have you ever regretted following your passion? Let's hear

no, because I didn't follow my passion

longview007:
If men will only avoid all this, and ilso include prayer for God assistance, their will be 90% success in families.

u nail it..im still married to my husband because my kid is small, once she's mature enough I'm definitely walking out of the marriage

Eyi

As a married woman do not tell your spouse about your family because if there's misunderstanding he will use it to insult you

peretei2024:
Hello my fellow Nairalanders,

The frustration about life is getting too much , how can I be married with 2 kids and a wife Andi will be without even 1 Kobo on me.

I have practically lost everything that give me joy. Iost my job since April 2023, then I decided to use my car to do Uber things, now the car has broken and I don't have 1kobo on me to fix it up. How can I be looking at the faces of my beautiful children and I can't even feed them?

I woke up since around 2am, I couldn't sleep, and something tells me to take my life because the shame and frustration is getting too much as I didn't get any help from any of my friends and relatives.

If you care to give me any advice before the incident happens I can be reached on 08062493145 because am too done about this world.

Egbeda Lagos

op, don't commit suicide we are all going tru alot in Nigeria now and nobody will help you, my shop got burgled this year, it was extremely hard for me I have two kids, mom and siblings who are yet to secure a job, i sold my phone I used the little money to start, it was very hard during this period, I embrace the situation.. so whatever the situation is suicide is not the solution. Sell the car and allow your wife start petty business u can also get Keke at hire purchase..we are all going tru hard time oo nobi only you

ahnie:
Loan app is a big NO....their interest rate is damn high.

His best bet right now is to go look for job and provide for his family.

See e nor get as e bi....say person nor go dash you money....maybe na only me carry that grace for this whole Nigeria lolz.

The wife has to start selling lil stuffs at home even if na red grinded pepper.
There's no shame in that...

but it's money she will use to start

This trend is becoming tiring oo...

It is well

LUAN:
Can I pick a wife there?

they said there's a soup one have to eat before birthing twins

Babe1994:
he has been like this right from the beginning. I’m not perfect too but I know I’m not too bad

babe I'm going tru something similar...I'll share my experience when I'm free

Milo malt And milk

Iseoluwani:
Closed a long time ago.

Infact I was just surfing the web when I saw it and applied for fun

thanks

Iseoluwani:
Hello. How did you pay your?

I credited my acct and they are yet to debit it

hi... please I want to apply for the loan is it still on?

Chironks:
If marriage certificates were to expire like driver's licenses, would you renew yours?

Also, what would be your reason to renew or not renew?

I won't

labake1:
I have fear of height (Acrophobia), I always run away from storey buildings. In fact I always avoid a situation where someone will carry or lift me. On my wedding day, I will tell the MC to skip that part. I don't know how to overcome the fear.

What are you afraid of?
And have you conquered your fears?

bike accident

LegitWebsites:
What Stops The Poor From Working Online And Engaging In Agriculture ?

is it everybody that has a browsing phone or land they can farm on?

Jostoman:
people have collected their salary already.

which salary

Lol.. there was a day I took my brother' ear piece my son saw me and started shouting 'she took your ear piece'I tried using my eyes to talk to him he said' momi shen oju simi' ..my brother was just laughing ..

Lol