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Don't laugh at me.
The last time I wanted to have a sex with my new girlfriend my erection was wavy, It will come and go untill the girl wasn't in the mood.

I was able to lie that it was Tinubu that made me lose erection. That the economy is affecting me and I can't think straight that had lost millions because of naira devaluation.
Now she's coming this Friday for a rematch. I have promised her heaven on earth orgasm. What can I use to make my d*,CK stand strong like rock. I want to be able to go 15 minutes.

PS we're both adults she's 25. I'm 25. We've been dating for 4 months and I want to keep her. I don't want her to think otherwise about me

Trump go knack this one.

Very good.

Why Dem dey dive.? Us wey won marry hookup girls nko?

This woman go get fat ass

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Prettycute90:
Since we got married, everything about the upkeep, rents, bills, feeding, general upkeep. I mean everything is on me and he has refused to provide for us as he always claimed he doesn't have. I have always be an understanding person who believe, I should be doing while I can, pending when things gets better for him.
I never knew he was getting little little, but was gambling away with it.

We really do not date for a long time before we got married. Because I knew him back then in school from a far distance. And we liked each other but didn't date. So, meeting again after graduation and in a different environment, made me believe I already knew and the fact that we already liked each other.

He was struggling with a little job when we got married. My foresight then was to grow with him. I supported him in all ways. Infact, during our wedding, most support came from friends and relatives.
Because I'm not the type of a wife that pressurized, It took me a very long time to know the nature of habit he had that has kept him low even before I married him.

He is a chronic gambler.
No money stays with him. He wouldn't even care about himself so long as he can afford little money to gamble.
Now, I don't have a job and too much burden has crippled my business.

To be honest, I'm losing myself. Sometimes I feel I need a therapy myself.
My husband has refused to change or make effort to make this marriage work.
Before I had my second child, he was pretending as if he has changed. But immediately I took in, he continues this lifestyle. I almost died due to emotional breakdown and responsibilities shouldered by myself.

I have done everything, (both family members have adviced him severally, I have prayed, fasted, cried, shouted, talked with a calm voice, all my efforts. but non is working.


Presently, since two weeks ago now, I don't cook for him. I source for food for just myself and my children. We barely have decent conversation in this house. I can't even remember the last time we had intimacy.
I always avoid him, each time he tries to get close. Because of the situation of things in this house.
We had two children and I don't intend having any other.
The cost of taking care of myself and the children all by myself is emotional hurting me so much.
School has resume and I can't even afford all the expenses of taking my first son to start a new school and I know, he would watch our son stay back at home. He wouldn't care.

We're in the house, but he's only concern is how to get little money to gambles.

Are these not enough reasons to divorce him?
During one qurrel we had recently, I told him I want us to separate for now, so we can work on ourselves, and he said he will be with our children not me.
I see that as way to make my children suffers.

What can you advise please?

I just want peace of mind.

I don't want to waste my youthful life in a loveless marriage. Where myself and my husband can not support each other to grow in Love. Rather, stressing me.

Firstly, on behalf of the men in Nairaland I apologize for you going through all this.
But how did you marry this rubbish to the extent of having children for him?
He might be jobless but he's not making effort to get a job and still gamble with the little money he has!!!, he deserves to be flogged.
So he doesn't even send money to his mother at home. Tueh !!!
My advice:

Report to everyone around him, shame him, report to him to his brother, his mother and his father, his pastor so that when you leave him they won't see you as a bad woman.
if he doesn't show remorse or he's not Ready to change Japa !!! Because you have a bright future.

Such men shouldn't be called men.
As a man it's your job to provide even if you don't have the means to do so, you should have the intention through your actions by looking for the means. Having the intention itself will show you're not lazy.

if he doesn't change Japa before he put another child into you.

Do you want to hear the Truth?
To earn 100Million Abroad depends on the kind of skills and Industry you are.
Medical Practitioners, Tech and few other industry will certainly be earning a lot of $ so it'll be easy for them to make that in few years.
Some Resident doctors for example make $5000 per month, Nurses around $4000.
But all these is after years of hardwork. Also, Keep in mind they're heavily taxed plus Bills too. Removing tax and bills 40% of their income is already gone.

Bottom line is if you're a king in Nigeria there's no need to migrate to become a slave. I for example earn almost $700 per month from Upwork and Fiverr, I also play 4 odds on sporty bed. my gross income is almost $1500 per month. if I convert my $ to Naira, that's a lot. If I were living in the US I will be a poor man. To make 100 Million will take me 2 -3 years.

Also here in Nigeria I'm not choked with taxes, I've never paid water bill before, I didn't pay tax when I bought my car I didn't pay vat or tax for my house, everything here is like cash and carry.

The only thing Nigeria doesn't have in human Security and Dignity of labour

But Still, I'd rather be a Rich man in Nigeria than be a struggling man in Abroad.

Most of my guys wished they never left but they'll rather die there doing manual jobs than come back because of shame.

This is not PR for Anti - Japa. I'm just telling you the reality, Abroad is not bed of roses. if you're making a lot of money here, I see no reason why you should Japa to another country to suffer.

If you're girl and you're freaky Dm

I urge the DSS to look into this R.I.P to the dead. God will punish every evil doers in this country.

meanwhile DM if you dey do hookup

How do I get to NYSC Iseyin Oyo state. someone who knows the direction should please reply this

Tinubu Government will be the worse government in Nigeria. I have seen this. why did he refuse to put the Ibos? he must be a very tribalistic human being true true. as a Yoruba boy I don't support this!!!

meanwhile DM if you dey do hookup

Arsenal will bottle the league today. If Arsenal wins this league I will run naked from Iyana apaja to VI 😂😂

This will be greatly appreciated. Malaria is the leading cause of Death in Africa.

Meanwhile DM me for hookup

he deserves it. Natural selection is taking place

I'm I the only one that doesn't know this nigga

Tinubu be like person wey go soon Peme !! how will this werey represent us for United Nations like this.

very foolish country maybe they will learn their lesson that way

Antimandatethie:
May 29 transition: Concerns as Buhari govt pass on N46trn debts to Tinubu




https://dailypost.ng/2023/04/25/may-29-transition-concerns-as-buhari-govt-pass-on-n46trn-debts-to-tinubu/

make Dem sell the country make we share the money

treesun:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2023/04/tinubu-already-serving-igbo-bread-soaked-in-water-nwodo/

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