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helinues:
Understanding each other properly is the first step

Proper communication even when there is a disagreement

Being considerate in judging others are we are all hypocrites.

If two people with those qualities date each others, the soul to soul bond should be easy to achieve

I feel like giving you a hug from here. You wrote all I have in mind. Narcissists will dread this comment. There is nothing as powerful as communication in a relationship or Marriage. Whatever you cannot speak out in the place of dialogue is no issue at all.

CatANDratTHEORY:
The Op is right. Communication is the key that unlocks every barrier in a relationship.
Communicate your fears and worries with your partner.

Whatever that cannot be settled in the place of dialogue is no issues at all.

Please don't discard the document. He or someone that knows him may come across this post and then wants to retrieve it. Thank you.

This thing called marriage is for the bravest and meekest. You must let go of somethings to accommodate what the other wants and for peace to reign. It breaks me when I see women breaking each others marriages and then I wonder who then are behind this "women supporting women agenda". Odiegwu

The situation is really overwhelming I must say. Someone like me can't stand the tension,shock and cold out there. These people are really trying and I pray God leads and directs them aright.

Let him that is without sin cast the first stone... Some people be talking as though they're saints. I was in market this evening and this elderly woman I was buying stuffs from was lamenting bitterly on the state of things in the government down to finances and prices of goods. She went on to say that whoever succeeds Buhari as president has alot of work to do. What these people know if to come into power,scatter everything and come out to blab... Please you guys should go and sit down, both you and the EFCC are bride of a feather.

Should you be having sex in the first place before getting married? Okay and even if your answer is yes, should it be unprotected. What do you guys refer to as sin? To me sin is something one does and afterwards feels guilty, condemned and inferior.

PS: I'm not judging anyone just that the rate of immorality and moral decadence is one the increase in this our generation and it baffles me what will be retained for our future generations to copy from. It's well God will help us.

Some of them are trouble themselves walahi. I'm currently leaving in the compound of one and she's a Muslim. This woman is too greedy and troublesome. If I no see road commot here make I no wetin cause am. Leave those people there's more than meet the eyes.

Between the dog and the bone who should leave each other I don't know the meaning of what I wrote but I hope you understand Sha... These agencies have where they're benefitting from and so you don't expect to fully take actions where necessary. This country sometimes dey look like something wey dey irredeemable.

If dem no kukuma spoil this world they won't rest... Abegi

Personally I grew up in a home where my parents provides everything I need,and so since my dad retired and mom took over the responsibilities it's been overwhelming I must say,but right from time I've always been a hustler. I teach,I cook,I run errands for people etc. Basically I do these to help myself and siblings and I must tell you it hasn't been easy for me. I have many financial burdens on me that needs to be lifted but it's better I respect myself than getting myself into trouble. This is my belief system; whatever I cannot get or have now and I'm tempted to go about it anyhow can land me in trouble so I stay out of it. I'm very contented with what I have.

Let me not sound too religious but whatever we see people do in churches that are sometimes not doctrines from the Bible also have spiritual dimensions to it. You hear of pastors pray over water,fruits, letters and all of that. The meaning of what they're doing is left for the pastor and the members.

Sammy101111:
Low self esteem

That's just the right word for this.

A beautiful woman who is contented with her body is really beautiful compared to these artificial people.

Rip to him. I think I'm the only one that hasn't watched this movie or just don't like movies. It's well ooooooooooooooo

Ejehkob:
Your husband will be lucky to have you

If you know where he is/hiding tell him to be coming..I don too wait

God if this is a dream I refuse to let it materialize.

You guys should stop this. Learn to help someone without pushing them to limits they can take. Which one is remove pants again and the girl Kwanu removed. It's well.

Fairmedia:
I don't trust you, I think you are Ipobian

I'm not.... just that I don't know who to believe again. They are all the same to me and in my context.

There's a difference between a man with vision and a deadbeat man. Let me use myself as an example,I'm very intentional with whom I'm gonna out with and what makes me happy in the relationship. You may not necessarily have all but the little you have with your vision and value driven goals is sure to pave better ways for you. I hate daydreamers,if you must win my heart or be with me you and I have to work things out. I'm very passionate and considerate about helping my guy out that's if he doesn't serve me breakfast...

We are beautiful in our own way.

Mtchewww yen yen yen.... We have women who made their husbands or rather supported their husbands without making noise. Women this women that you guys should rest and stop looking for cheap attention.

Righteousness2:
Dem don Deceive and Confuse this one with all those their toy charms and gods.

By the authority In the Name of JESUS, I Send Destructive Thunder and Lightning to wherever she is held captive and by the Mercies of GOD, I Decree her release and that of Everyone held in there in JESUS Name.

Amen. More reasons parents should try to provide for their children. Well even after the provisions the gullible ones will still fall victims
Godliness with contentment is great gain. I pray she's found and rescued. Amen

Fairmedia:
Choose one...or may I rephrase, if you are in trouble, who would you call?

Nigeria army, police or bokoharam, ipob/ESN terrorist?

Like seriously... Guy my mind don cut believe me. I can't trust any of these.

My issue with you guys is that when ladies starts to generalize things you guys do majority of you will rain down curses and all of that. For crying out loud we still have the ones among us. No dey use one person dey generalize things Biko. Odi very bad and unfair..

Its well.... I pray we all find peace and happiness in whatever overwhelming situations we've found ourselves.

Fairmedia:
As a legitimate citizen of the federal republic, which one will you prefer to meet on the highway, I need an answer?

None Biko...

Fairmedia:
We are talking of terrorists here, am sure you will prefer to meet a Nigerian soldier on the highways than ipob and bokoharam terrorists right?

Are not the same thing. All kill, steal and destroy so what makes one different from the other �

Who can predict God's way? And who can search His thoughts thereof. Thank God for this and we pray for more.

And who told you they can't invade Nigeria or any west African countries? We have more resistance to them than we can ever imagine. They already are trying to just that some forces are somehow against them,who knows Benin juju could be one of them

fnep2smooth:
nothing to invade here apart from poverty and hardship, they no after the invading, half of the population will follow them back to the US so no need to waste their time.

Comrade this one loud ooooooooooooooo ... You fit help me off your mic biko

The one I don't understand is the recent killings and unrest in Imo and Anambra. Going down to East is like bidding your loved ones farewell. I read this morning somewhere on Facebook on how a military officer shot a young tricycle driver dead. What was his offense? That the said guy couldn't give him money for bribe. So because of #250 or even something smaller than this you wasted your fellow human. It is well ooooooooooooooo