Your problem is spiritual. Perhaps I can help. You can reach me through my olawalealiu92@gmail.com but kindly vividly explain the dream. God help us all.

Nice debate. But it is a pity there are no two ways to heaven. If you like do millions of good deeds daily,you will receive the blessing here on earth if Allah is pleased to reward you but hereafter,forget you ain't going to get any benefit. If you die without believing in Allah you are a recipe for hell.
Sugar and salt are sweeteners,you can't put sugar in soup and salt in a tea and expected well done.
How do you expect the God you didn't recognise whose rules you flout to reward you? Who told you what you did was done according to his ways? Unto you your deeds.
Leave your atheism,its just a castle in the air.

Life itself is universal. Whatever one propounds there will always be supporters. Jabata or what he is is just an attention seeker. He's looking for followers and sad,he's seen many of them. Why don't he trek from Lagos to Ilorin,why is he sleeping on well plastered home,why is he walking on tarred roads,why isn't he perform his pilgrimage on foot.
He will soon fade away with his useless interpretation of religious issues.

As-Salamu alaykum wa rahmotullah wa barakatuh.

In The Name Of Allah,The Most Gracious,The Most Merciful.

Surely the Qur'an is a complete Book. Lots have been said by great scholars by the eminence of the Book. We read it everyday in prayers. Few of us read it apart from prayer purpose. It is important we read The Qur'an everyday due to the benefits we will get. Mere reading it with pure intention and calmness without asking Allah (SWT) anything afterwards, you get benefits.
Here I,in my learning mind, list seven benefits you get once you read The Qur'an. These are the benefits,may Allah (SWT) reward us abundantly.

1) ILLUMINATION: You get answers to all that is bothering you. Getting answers from your Creator Who understands you most is invaluable Allah (SWT) says
AL-QASAS:2, Q 28:2: These are the verses of The Perfect Book which explains everything vividly.
And AL-SHU'ARA: Q 26: 2: These are the verses of The Perfect Book which tells right from wrong.
So,you get your paths illuminated.

2) COMPLETE FAITH: By reading The Qur'an often you renewed your faith and you perfect your faith. Qur'an says:
O ye who believe! Maintain faith in Allah and His messenger and in His perfect Book which He has revealed to His perfect messenger and in the scripture He revealed before. And who denies Allah and His angels and His Books and His messengers and the last day,he has indeed strayed far away(from the truth).

3) GUIDANCE: You are guided in your affairs once you read Qur'an regularly. How pleased would you be if somebody holds light on you. Allah (SWT) says ' This Qur'an, assuredly, guides to that which is most upright and gives to the believers, who do righteous deeds,the glad tidings that there awaits them a great rewards.' AL-ISRA: 9.

4) EQUITABILITY. Allah (SWT) revealed the Qur'an to meet the requirements of every individual. So,the Qur'an knows your everyday needs and you meet them by reading the Qur'an often. Allah says in AL-SHURA verse 17 that ' Allah is He Who has sent down The Perfect Book,suiting your requirements, with the lasting truth and equitable law. How should you know the hour may be near at hand.'
5) BLESSINGS: You also get innumerable blessings. All blessings you can think of. You get more of comforts and peace,and many more. This is stated in Suratul SÃD verse 29
'(Behold! This Qur'an is) a great Book which we have revealed to you, full of excellencies,so that these (people) may ponder over its verses and so that those gifted with pure understanding may take heed.'
6) HEART COVERED IN ALLAH'S LIGHT: You also have your heart and soul cleansed. You are delivered from all forms of darkness and you're brought to the ultimate light.
' (In the form of) An eminent messenger who recites to you the clear revelation of Allah,which tells the right from wrong and thus bring those who believe and (accordingly) do good deeds,out of all darkness into light. And he who believes in Allah and does good deeds, He will admit him to the garden serves with running streams to abode therein for ever, Allah has indeed made a (very) handsome provision for him.' AL-TALAQ: 11. And finally,

7) HEALING AND MERCY. By making The Qur'an your companion all the time you also get healing from all bodily and spiritual afflictions and so many others,thereby,you get shrouded in Allah's mercy. Al-Qur'an 17: 82 attests to that:
'And We are gradually revealing the Qur'an which is (the cause of ) healing and mercy for the believers. But this revelation leads the unjust from loss to loss'.

May Allah make it easier for us.

Wa salamu alaykum.

As-salamu alaykum wa rahmotu Llah wa barakatuhu.

Al-Quran is no doubt Allah's book. It is a guide,a healer and blessing to all of us. Verses confirming its purity and sanctity are numerous. We read it daily,on obligatory prayers,on our private prayers,on delivering sermons. We also read it as a form dhikr,Allah's remembrance. However,reading it helps us in the following ways:
1) It illuminate our souls. It takes us away from darkness into light.
2)It raises our awareness of what Allah enjoins on us. We know dos and donts required of us.
3) We judge whatever we are passing through from the stories of the prophets illustrated therein. This helps us to know whatever happened to us actually happened to people of yore.
4) It entrenches our taqwa. It raises us on fear of Allah and direct our actions to Allah alone.
5) It tells us the temporal benefit of our lives and the ever consequence of whatever good or bad deeds we do here.
6) It tells us to submit totally to Allah and it gives us precedents of those who disobey Him as to what happened to them.
So,my brothers and sisters,how do we read Qur'an?
Mere reading the Qur'an has rewards but it may not reinforce your faith as expected. Thus,it is good for u to have the knowledge to read and understand it. How do we go about it? What are the tools we need?
TOOLS.
1) Our pure intention
2) Piety
3) A Qur'an for those who are well versed in Arabic language or Arabic and English Qur'an for those of us who don't understand Arabic language.
4) A clean and noise free environment.,and
5) The thought that it is a rewardable work.

( To be continued.
Looking Forward: Next,we will be talking of how to read Qur'an to gain maximum benefits,how to adapt it to our private prayers.)
Wa salamu alaykum

Jazzakum llahu khairan. Despite whatever world turns itself into out of hypocrisy and senseless politics and competition,ISLAM IS AND REMAINS BEST OF ALL WORLD RELIGION. ALHAMDULILLAH!

Jazzakum llahu khairan. Despite whatever world turn itself into out of hypocrisy and senseless politics and competition,ISLAM IS AND REMAINS BEST OF ALL WORLD RELIGION.

Your courtesy to others also helps

Show some understanding

Befriend them always

Appreciate their little efforts

Believe in your child

Everyone has his/her talent

Let them make mistakes

Respect their wishes

How to correct the wrong

To encourage or advise

We all love to raise our children in a lovely ways. That's true. Sometimes we our reactions to their action are ways overboard,sometimes they are inadequate.
So these pictures may be helpful.

1) Danger of over reacting

MOTHER'S DAY ON 'WHO WANTS TO BE A MILLIONAIRE'

Emma Nwogu had barely sit on the hot seat when Frank Edoho started at him.
Frank: Emma,welcome to the seat.
Emma: Thank you Frank.
Frank: Were your parents aware you are on seat now?
Emma: ( Smiled) Yeah. Both of them.
Frank: That's fine. I love that. Wonderful parents. They will be looking forward to a million naira cheque tonight.
Emma: Exactly. Nothing less.
Frank: (Smiled) No problem. They must have prayed for you to win this fabulous prize.
Emma: Yes,they did. Especially mum. She nearly over prayed even. She loves me and I do love her too. She's ma life.
Frank: You are mummy idol. That is great. You know what?
Emma: Tell me something,Frank.
Frank: You know today is Mothers Day. You are going to make call to mum now and let's feel mama's love for you.
Emma: (Stirred on seat) Okkk...OK.
( Mama's number was dialled, then mama picked the call)
Frank: Hello,this Frank Edoho from Who Wants To Be A Millionaire,is that Mama Emma.
Mama Emma: Yes,Mama Emma. What happened?
Frank: No problem mama. Emma is on the seat now,and because today is world's Mothers Day,we want Emma to celebrate you for few minutes. Emma will speak to you now.
Emma: (Perspiring) Hello Mama
Mama Emma: Who are you?
Emma: Ha ha,na me Emma your son.
Mama Emma: That's good. I wanted to be sure its your voice. Emma...Emma,you are a useless boy. Since two years ago you're calling now. I told you to return my gold necklace that you stole you refused,you stole your father's wallet,took the ATM cards and withdrew all the money,you left us to suffer...
Frank: Mama,are you aware you're on air?
Mama Emma: Frank or who are you,can you be happy with such?! Imagine,Emma went to Mama Chinedu my customer lied about me and collected #200,000,he impregnated four girls before he ran away. While on the run he visited my cousin,he lied to him I was sick,he collected #155,000 from him. The last I heard about him was when he sent a lady with two months old baby to me,she told the girl that I said I wanted to see my granddaughter....
Emma: Mr Frank can't you drop this call?
Frank: I am sorry Emma. Its programmed ten minutes.
Mama Emma: Me I no vex but Emma..Emma,you no go enjoy beta for life,since morning we neva chop,we never finish the debt,now una want celebrate hungry mother ,na so una pikins dem go dey celebrate you...
Frank: Mama,we want you to make a wish. We will certainly do it. Even if you want the million for him without answering questions. Make you wish Mama.
Mama Emma: Thank you,thank you. Kindly deport him here with immediate effect. Don't give him one naira o. Let him come and taste the sufferness and shame he put us here. Pikin wey bury him parents happiness go die sad.
( The line went dead)
Frank: Well,emem Emma,we don't have right to deport you as Mama Emma requested but can you please leave the hotseat and you can no longer play the game,now and even again.

(I believe some people are worse than Emma but are posting their mums pictures on social media,I pray one day,you meet your Mama Emma if you refuse to change)

Personally I prefer Sheik Abdulbasit AbdulSamad. Its just its recitation is becoming extinct.

Yet,more...

More....

I know some ladies will like this. Pick your choice

Would you have loved to read this book. It is short cut to sudden wealth.

The older ladies become the lower their ages. Age Reader sha?

THE WORDS OF LOVE.
Follow me,don't mind. Though it is a bit long buy you 'll enjoy it. Just a factual musing.

Love sha! That unrelenting intoxicant. The thing ehn,pass drug. So,how do you say you have love for a person? You say 'I am in Love', or 'I fall in Love'?. As I fall in love now with this 96 Set. I am still falling. So,ladies,somebody fell in your love,and you guys,somebody is in love with you. Issokay!
Me the word 'fall' dey worry me. How do I fall?. Nobody wants to fall. Fall ke? No be 'fall' we call am? Fall as in how World Trade Centre went away. Sebi fall,going vertically down noni. Who easily fall oooo. Hian,the goal keeper. Yet he manage soft landing,otherwise there is a fracture.
Oooookay! I get it now. Some people now say there is no love. Why? Because nobody wants to injure him/herself in love. Some say love is wicked,because if you fall you pick your bones. That word 'fall' is unpleasant. Why won't people 'go down in love'? You know,kind of you willingly turning in yourself to love at a known speed,unlike 'fall',sudden crash. 'Go down', that is mild. While one is going down,he may laugh at it,some fun but heart rendering noise like 'aaaaaaah' tells people one has fallen.
Where are you? Okay,follow me o. Now we say 'fall in love' do we say the person is defeated by love,as in 'fall in war? Which fall,again! And if it means defeat, is that why some people say they are jilted. Another way of saying his/her tactics of love(you know war tactics) defeat me. Na wah o! Is that why people say,love is bigger than war.
Assuming someone falls(as in crash) 'in' love. Not 'on' or 'onto' but 'in' or 'into',then another palaver. If he falls on love,he's not immersed,if onto,he's not immersed also. But a fall 'in',one is being enveloped. Total coverage. Is that why people don't reason when they fall in love?Hian?! Is that why? Because he's in a pleasant darkness. He's seeing nothing. Haba,love dey wicked,abi?
What if one falls in an unpleasant love nko? Love that smell like incinerators! That Terry G 'kony kony' love. And my girl or guy falls in. Is that why his/her ex- runs away from him/her. Does unpleasant love smell? Answer na,no be Q I dey ask you? As rectitude,one who fell on unpleasant love (double wahala) needs to clean up. Bath. Ehen. Use creams. Ehen. Wear cologne. Is that why such people always overshine? Their teeth smiling but their head and heart hardened. Some who fell into unpleasant love when people are watching are 'smelly',the dirts hanging on them like dirty rags on the hooks,smile like sheep that enters trap. Those ones they become shy. They fear should people say ' there you go again,abi'.
Another way. You say 'I am in love', that's cool,heen. That is continuous. You are still there. Not done yet. If you're married,you're in love. For better for worse you're in. Sorts of 'I am in here enjoying' or 'I am in here. Don't know what to do. I sign to fate'.
So,what is the appropriate word to be used for having love?

Its just a musing. You get the drift?

Its better you have one on one rapport with her first,assess if she's changed. Have the same rapport with your brother especially how he came up with the choice. Then from there decide what next.

So, the embattled Senate President came to CC court at last? He en!

Concisely detailed.