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Exceed15:
New father in town . Congrats

Having a child with a lady I detest

Lamanii22:
Stop dating rubbish girls!

Exactly ma.
Thanks so much for this advice.
I appreciate 🙏

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AKWATGOLD1:
You should informed her that she should keep the pregnancy and you will given her upkeeps, because the foundation of your relationship is lies.

Okay sir

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kpankpangolo:
Why do you children always seek attention here? Is the real world that boring? Go and make yourself useful.

Ancestor, I greet you o

They are just sharing this country like Christmas chicken meat

I'm really confused right now.
I met a lady I thought we would build our lives together, but later on, I noticed she isn't worth it.
She's not someone to Trust. The relationship was built on lies. She lies a lot. And also acts suspicious. This is why I'm doubting if I'm responsible for her pregnancy.

The first day I asked her out, and the second time we were seeing ever, I got home, we began chatting, she began making demands on me that she was hungry and craving for Draw soup and Semo to eat. I ignored her. I didn't send anything.
A month after, I learnt she's a single mother.

Again, she did abortion and denied it. Of course I wasn't responsible for it, since I was yet to sleep with her. I saw that she used her phone to search about "Abortion pills" on Facebook A.I. she claimed a friend of hers used her own phone to search it. I requested for the friend's number & called. But the friend denied it. The friend said she has an Android phone, so if she wanted to type such, she would do so with her phone and not on someone else's phone. My babe was seriously sick at that point & couldn't go to work for a week. She was throwing saliva everywhere. It was later she claimed she was on a 6-Month family planning. Why would a single lady be on family planning?
Again, I can't touch her phone. Her phone is a privacy. But same lady came into my house, grabbed my torchlight phone and began reading my messages and going through my contacts. I caught her, I asked, and she said "Is it not just a torchlight phone. What's in there?
Whenever she's with me, she won't pick her calls and wouldn't allow me see who the caller's are. I complained. She moved from that to switching off her phone and claiming that her battery was low, but immediately we part ways, her phone miraculously gets ON without having to charge it first. I complained, she again moved to putting the phone on flight mode, I still caught her. The last one was Barring all incoming calls. I was always ahead of her, so I could always catch off guard. Her reason for all these, according to her, was because she doesn't want incoming calls to disrupt or disturb the moments we are together.
She will post pictures of clothes on her WhatsApp status and ask her contacts viewing same Status to buy same clothes for her. I saw this as an attempt to invite guys into her DM. All these are signs of a disloyal girlfriend. And each time I complain, she says I complain too much.
The last straw was when I accidentally saw her call log & noticed that a particular caller was always calling her, she even calls the caller most times. I confronted her and she said there is nothing going on between her and the caller and that the caller is a married man with kids. She went further to say that the man has being so helpful to her and that if she's in danger or need today, the man will always come through for her, even before me, her guy. I was so so shocked. That moment, I politely sent her outta my house. Her friend started calling and apologizing on her behalf. But I told her I wouldn't be able to continue with the relationship due to this act and several other acts which I consider inimical and detrimental to my mental health.
Before now, each time we had issues, she would message me saying " I'm praying I don't get pregnant".
I'm really sad that it has resulted in pregnancy and I'm not the one to suggest abortion. If in th end, I discover she's actually pregnant, she will have to keep it. But we can't cohabit. I'll take full responsibilities.
She hates to apologize whenever she's wrong. Since the moment she noticed I loved her and I had no other lady aside from her, she began to misbehave. Always making senseless financial demands on me. Rude and disrespectful.

If she misbehaves and I confront her, she'll get aggressive and defensive, she'll slam my door, take her bag and leave. There was a day she did this, I was running after her to give her transport fare, I was even without a shirt, I was trying to wear my shirt while running after her, I began calling her name to stop and wait for me, but she ignored me in fact, she never looked Back. I felt so embarrassed in the public.
There's no quality In her that suggests she's good. There are so many shortcomings of hers which I can't write here.

I intend inviting her over and conducting this test again, at least, twice. Then take her to the hospital and do it again to know the duration of the pregnancy. I only just started sleeping with her towards the end of November. I slept with her last, two weeks ago and we dated for five months.

Adelabu penkelense is a disaster.

What does he even know about Power?

dollypi:
Count what you have, instead of what you don't have.

Ok Sir 🙏

I don't know if anyone in my position feels same way.

It hurts real bad.

It's a lonely world, especially without financial muscle.
No parents. Scattered siblings. No friends. No wife and kids.

A lonely world indeed.
Family is everything!

Since that altercation with the young naval officer, Wike has been quiet

Blocking, How?

Track and crack them down!

Now!

CuteTj:
I live in Norway and I saw my life improve.

Come to Norway too.

Check pm Sir

VersatileVee:
what could be more precious than life itself my brother? You're Alive, breathe, walk around. To be able to experience life is the greatest achievement ever.

Hmmmmm

CharlotteFlair:
Please withdraw this statement. Nor let God vex for you oo. It will be great again! ❤️

You won't understand

NiRfreak:
Nairaland clown, I no say na wetin go come ur head be this.
Naso dem dey chew ur sister ba? Repent bro, and be good example to your younger ones

The guy is everywhere on nairaland.
He's either the first or second to comment on every Thread

CuteTj:
Change your location.

Should I relocate to your place?

HacheNoire:
If you lucky to cross the age of 40, just start living the best life you can!

Take those travel trips, buy that car you have been longing for for, marry a new wife if you desire and any other thing you think might be missing!

From that age, you could go off anytime without warning. Make sure you enjoy your moments onwards while living healthy and prioritizing frequent medical check ups.

I'm tired of life. Nothing seems to work for me

Sonnobax15:
Depletion of the ozone layer bro....

Wow...
That's correct.
Are you a Geographer?

PWANMaxGroup:
You are blessed brother

I pray so 🙏🙏🙏

iammolise:
Good assumption but i don't think so, the area i am currently in Edo state, there's high forestation, i thought by now one would find it hard to bath in the mornings but it's not even close to being the case, no dew, a few foggy formation in the morning but no cool dry breeze at all... The gods are angry people.

Bro , you've said it all. Sincerely, I can't fathom how and why this is happening. I'm someone that has an oily skin, I swear a lot even in cold seasons cos I drink lots of water. I finish a bag of purewater each day.
How can I be sweating in December?

As I'm typing, I'm sweating profusely .

Reasons :
First, no family or loved one
Second, poverty .

Lastly, Nature. I have never seen a December where there will be such heat. In yesteryears, cold from harmattan would have been dealing with us by now. It's really strange, bizzare and unusual.

Could it be as a result of human activities from deforestation/indiscriminate felling down of trees ?
Or Jesus is coming?

OgwuEgo:
I can't wait to be rich, people should be happy by Christmas courtesy of me.

Some of us, only God can help us this period, because there's absolutely nothing to cheer us up. The intimidation is too much.
God of the fatherless and motherless 🙏

PWANMaxGroup:
It's a time to show love to one another.
This is a great gesture for him, and everyone should model this by giving to neighbors, communities, and people in need.
I hope it reaches everyone.

God of the orphans should locate me and my younger ones. Hmmmm. I don't even know what to say

HgAkpobomeEr:
Good gesture by Akin Alabi.

Only the rich continue to get richer while some us the have-Nots continue to suffer. It's Christmas and nobody can call to ask about the orphans

ebukal67x:
Christmas is a time for sharing.

Some of us have nobody to share with us . It's unfortunate as orphans

ceejay80s:
Bokku sales reps will go and also petrol stations attendants,
It's not free for everyone

Are these people u mentioned, government workers?

Good for them.
But Just try to make Nigeria better that's all we need.
Christmas is just a few days from now, but nothing is happening at my end. My siblings. No parents

Does this need any announcements again?

Whether you like it or not, nobody is going to work on these said days

What a Christmas.

Nothing at all

Negroid001:
Ahhh😂

All these things wey you just mention.
If you still wan chop her you can still endure.
But don't wife her or get her pregnant.

Reminds me of one babe like that wey one egbon adugbo wey dey do gee snatch from my hand. She's nkw a single mom. Didn't feel it because she was not the only one i was dating.

Your reasoning go far pass this babe. You fit just dey gbensh am. Ignore her shortcomings.

Same tin my guy told me. That I should just be pipping her

Negroid001:
You no small inside life. Have options bro.
Ditch her.

Naso bro.

I'm well schooled, while she's not. My mates, elders and many other people, rate me so highly. But I still remain humble. Sometimes I even esteem myself so lowly.

I'm not rich, but I've got taste.

I was properly raised and taught morals while growing, but she wasn't.

I'm not a single father. But she is.


Above all, she's not decent. I can't imagine myself settling with such baggage, honestly.