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Tenrack:
bro reach me here. I don lose that email. justingeagles@gmail.com. Let me know it's you.

Ok bro

Tenrack:
if you don't discharge this foolish entity, I promise you, she'll pin fake pregnancy on you. And you'll spend a lot. My brilliant ex single mom did that to me. I was just wasting my limited resources on her lies and fake sickness. Better run

Hmmmmm... Omorr.. these single mothers are all the same. They have many similar traits everywhere.
Their babies fathers are always being portrayed in bad light.
They will tell u, u must also love their babies. They bill you to fend for themselves and their babies, say all manner of bad things against the father of their babies then go behind and be sleeping with same guy they are insulting

kiddaz:
I don't understand some of you guys sha. I couldn't read past #6 cos it was all irritating that a guy man will still be in doubt as to what he should do with such a lady.

Baba marry her ooh... She's 100 yards wife material and make sure you invite me please. I will come

No Na guy

Palmercole:
My Bro honestly I want to know why you keep on feigning blind eyes to her bad behaviors and immoral ways even when we both know the truth of who she really is.
I don't wanna say much but one thing I want you to know is that ladies like this can't be saved and can never change for good. Trying to change her will definitely put you at the loosing end which I guarantee you will regret and embarrassed at the level of foolishness you've portrayed towards the girl.
Be a man, know your worth and leave what's meant for the street, to the street .

Exactly. I wonder why some a particular commenter here keeps scolding and blaming me for my inability to fix her. The fact that I was patient from the onset till now shows that I had wanted to fix her if she was willing and ready.
No guy can be patient enough to keep a lady that made financial demands on you the first day u asked her out. Any guy would have backed out immediately. How about me discovering that she was on family planning?
How about the abortion tin I saw on her phone?
Did abortion for her ex and lied to me it was Malaria she had, reason for her sickness at the time. She was also trying to extort money from me in order to buy drugs during same period. Yet I remained with her

Negroid001:
You be Obonte. Search the word up.

You too

SixSeven:
Leave her alone if you cannot fix her. Stop the excuses. You don't have respect for yourself. Your story tells me more about you than her if you don't know. Your earlier response proves that to me too.

Who cares about your opinion Mr fix.
Why not go and fix her?
Rubbish?

bestman09:
Try to sit her down and hear her story very well. Do all you can within your power to let her heal. She may not be terrible as you assume. Who knows, you are with her for such a time like this.

Alright brother.
I'm trying to see how she can come over to my place today so I can talk with her.
So we can interact.
If I didn't love her, I would have walked away the moment she did abortion and lied to me that it was family planning that backfired.
She's actually doing family planning and I'm not sure that was what caused her fever and malaria for some weeks that she couldn't go to work. She obvious had an abortion

Saturnalia:
He’s a small boy that has been s.ex starved for a decade. That is how they behave when they jam any woman wey open leg for them, no matter how bad or dilapidated the woman is.

Ancient of days, thank you. I hope your old age is giving u credit alerts now. Uncouth boy

SixSeven:
Fear God and leave the woman alone. You just want to be piping her... You can see that she has foundational issues but you are not acting like a man that you should. You are telling us about her faults. What about yours? Read my comments here, I no de support women and their manipulative struggles but on this one, I blame you. This girl looks like someone who has father issues. You can look up to the mom. You either want redemption or you will be part of her bad decisions. Who is the father of her child? What's he doing about his child?

What I see here is a girl that was not properly groomed and now instead of you to be a bridegroom, you are taking pride in her ruin. You either want to be someone who influences her in the right direction or you want to participate in her wrong decisions. I see a girl who is looking for every means to survive, she is not guided, mended or mentored well. As a man, will you be happy your child is used for GoFundMe updates? She needs redemption and no one has sat her down to rewire her brain. You are just a player in the games unfortunately. It is easier to build strong children than broken men/women.

I wish to help because of that child but what you will not eat, don't put near your nose. When you are done and if you want to help her, let me connect her with people that will repair her life and make her take responsible decisions and stop repeating the broken pattern from her family. No be everything be fork fork forj.

That's your business oga.

bestman09:
The babe really needs help psychologically. Her life is really messed up and she's battling on how to cover all the mess.
You are only interested in piping her like you said but she truly needs some psychological help.

Let me tell you, yes I agree she needs urgent psychological help. I've even told her this but she doesn't even know or understand what that means in the first place. Again, she is someone who can't be taught. She's not Teachable. Doesn't admit errors and she's not accountable.
Initially, I didn't have such mindset of just pipping and swipping her. I had wanted to build life with her. But believe me, the girl is stressing and draining Me. I'm an introvert. I even hate to talk too much, but this lady keeps doing so many strange things that are unbecoming of her Age. She claims to love me and says it all the time, but her actions betray her words. From the outset, I was so serious with her that she even had to confess to her female best friend about the love and seriousness I was showing towards her. But as I began to realise how terrible she is, I began to change how I relate with her

weslay:
If I say my mind now, moderators go block me. Roddi Pipper continue

Say it in a mild way to avoid being banned.

duduade:
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

And you are still calling her my babe


You are meant to be one of her maga o

😂 If you know what's good for you and your generations

Desist from this relationship

But then you thinking that you just want to be doing free chopping won't allow you desist

A true Man with high self esteem will have left

You both fit each other

Ok. Thank you

Tenrack:
I met mine. A pathological liar, a thief, and also a gaslighter. She no dey gree lemme touch her phone as well. Very manipulative. This one even picks calls in my presence just to show me that she's genuine. But she is deadly af. Single mom of 25years now. My regret is I didn't cut her off on time. I'm still bearing the financial pain. No keep am for anything. Delete the animal from your life. Find a single girl without a child if you can't do without females. I don warn you o bro. You can't achieve anything with a single mom. Life go tire you.

I'm so so sorry about your ordeal in the hands of that Lucifer. Omorr... You really see things.its seems all of these singu mothers are the same everywhere. It's same story always

henrybomb:
Just want to be piping her pele o plumber
All this complaints is for what exactly?

Nobody forced you to read what I posted. Nobody forced you to comment too.
Try to be civil and decorous for a second

Tenrack:
you still dey call her your babe? Lmao. Better delete that Shediat number from your phone and cut the dirt from your life. If you like no hear. Single moms are bad news. I'm a case study. Oboy remove yourself from unnecessary headache and financial mess.

That's the surest thing to do now bro.

I've never met such a lady before now

Pupanchie:
Bro l will advice you run for your dear life, run and never look back, that woman u r calling your babe is the shortest way to your early grave, don't say we didn't tell you and again avoid single woman at all cost, if u like still dey call am ur babe, it's your own personal problem

Alright Sir..

Ocbooking:
How many times u wan bring this your P here with diff moniker

Who be dis one again?
Nawaooo

Imagine if this lady was your girlfriend:

1. She's aged 28
2 A single mother whose baby is 6yrs of age
3. Her parents are divorced and have moved on with their lives afterwards. The man is remarried and same with the woman.
4. She wears legchain, Nose ring and waist beads.
5. Partially beautiful, but not educated enough. She first lied she had an ND until I began to probe into her claim and noticed she didn't go beyond secondary education. Her attitude and behaviour made me doubt her claim in the first place. You're chatting in proper English and she's replying with Pidgin all through.
6. Lies a lot. Even about the simplest things. Needless lies. She fell sick at some point, lied to me it was Malaria and Fever after doing a test. Same moment, while she held her phone and was on Facebook, she had initially asked A.I about ABORTION pills. This got me worried. I confronted her, she said it was her friend who used her phone to type that shit on Facebook A.I. I requested for her friend's number, inquired about same and her friend denied it. Before this discovery, she was sick and throwing saliva everywhere and I jokingly asked if she was pregnant( I hadn't slept with her at this point in the relationship since we were just a month or two into it). Same friend of hers had even asked her same question about if she was pregnant. She lied against her friend. Left with no other alternative, she came up with another story, claiming that she did family planning. And she was suffering from the impact of same family planning, reason for her health situation at the time. How can a single lady be doing family planning?
I asked if she was a hookup girl. She denied. She did the family planning because of her ex boyfriend since they were knackiing raw. I then asked, is your ex aware of this family planning? She said No. Is he aware that you're sick as a result of the family planning u did because of him? She said No. So now, how do you date a guy, you did family planning just because of him, yet he isn't aware?. You're even sick as a result, and he is not aware. What if you die?
In my mind, I believe she did an Abortion too.

7. I can't touch this lady's phone. She wouldn't even drop it for a second as long as we are together. She won't also take her calls. At some point I got worried and I asked her to pick those calls right in my presence, but she refused. After her refusal to pick, I wanted to see who the caller was as the phone was ringing, but she didn't allow me. I didn't want to drag with her, so I kept my cool.
8. The first day I asked her out, I got home, we began chatting, and she started telling me that she was Hungry. Ah!
I wanted to cut her off immediately, but I decided not to. Since then, it's being one complain or the other. I do all I can for her, not because of anything, but for humanity sakes. However, I must meet the needs of my loved ones and close male friends before I can meet hers. I've only had sex with her once(Three rounds) and since then, I've just being indifferent towards her.
9. She doesn't take corrections at all.
10. One more thing she does that breaks me is her constant plea for help on her WhatsApp status. For instance, she will post a picture of a gown on her status and say "Babe pls buy this for me"

Again, she will write, "Christmas dey come and my babe never ask me wetin I want for Christmas. Babe Naso" ?

So many of such. But I wouldn't reply to her status after viewing. She will then msg me directly and ask for those things.

11. Her mum remarried and she's in another State with the husband. Yesterday, she called me asking me for some money to send to her mum to buy drugs. I was shocked. Where is her husband?
I didn't have and I told her straight up. Before she Made this request, earlier same day, she had told me she would be going to the market to buy a few things for herself. I said ok. Later she came up with the request of 10k to send to her mum for drugs. Sincerely I didn't have to give her, if I had, I would gladly help. After all, I do more than that for her and even her friend. I then asked that she takes out of that money she intended using to buy things from the market and send to her mum for drugs since her health was more important. But she came up with another story. She said she does contribution of 5k monthly and that it was her turn to get hers. But she hasn't being given yet. She will be given the next day. So it's not like she has the money available yet. But u sounded so sure of going to the market as if u already had the money In your possession.

12. Why is she living in her friend's house?
Her friend is married with two kids and living in a two bedroom apartment with some other relatives. What is my babe doing there for God's sakes? She has her own apartment according to her. I've not being to her house before. So why can't she stay in her own place and give this couple some privacy?.
She will close from work and go there. Stats there for weeks and not check her own house. It's really strange to me.
I'm tired of the whole thing honestly. Though, my mind don commot from her matter. Just want to be piping her . We don't have a future together.
If you take this girl out and you guys are talking, she's always carried away by the loud Music there, she will start singing and dancing while we are talking. She'll tell u she's listening..

Lastly, I asked about her baby's father and she got really very aggressive with me. She said I should never ask her about the guy.
That the guy absconded when he learnt about the pregnancy. In fact he denied the pregnancy. And the family of the guy do not care about the child. I asked if she knows the location(State, town or Local government area) of the guy, and she said NO. But how is it possible for her not to have heard anything about the location of the guy? Is that possible?
Mind you, they were mates in secondary sch and started knackiing until they both graduated. So how is it possible that none of their ex school mates can tell where he is?
His family members too ?
She claimed to have deleted the guys number from her phone.
She lies a lot so I don't even believe this part of her story. I suspect the guy is even around and still pipping her.
I asked again, do you mean that since you have birth to your daughter, the father hasn't seen her? She hasn't answered me yet.

This is just too much for me to take.
Her parents failed in parenting. She doesn't even have a blood sibling. She only has step siblings.

Nlfpmod

Sonnobax15:

That Christiantus Macaulay,that dude was a baller.....We thought he'd be the next Jay Jay Okocha,but unfortunately,his preek couldn't exceed the lintel level of his career

Dem suppose give u award for nairaland this year.
Every post, you're either the first or second, to comment. Hmmmmm
It's well o

mightiersa:
When I had mine. I spent a lot of on wine and juice; I was surprised when I didn't see wine on the tables. The mug and T shirt souvenir; I only saw few shared to my guests... Only for me to visit one of my friends that was in charge of the drinks and gifts; I saw more than 12 mugs in his house. They didn't share to the guests but stole everything amongst themselves.

Never will I spend anything on any event


again. I named my child by myself, no nothing.

People are really heartless in this world. Later same people will be blaming the Govt for stealing our common patrimony

Why are people always fond of doing this ?
Haba!

And most times, it's the bride's family members that do this nonsense .

You'll see the bride's family hoarding food or policing the caterers and instructing them to hoard food.
Again, some caterers are evil. After collecting exorbitant prices, they will still steal food and meet and smuggle these two out.
It's so sad. Such criminals need to be arrested

Whenever a girl child gets missing, don't panic. She's chilling on a Dick

OKOATA:
Oga sharap, are you gay or what? What do you mean by I kept my virginity. You are so wack man.

Don't mind the guy.
So wack indeed. Reading his comment got me really very irritated

Sonnobax15:

Relationship isn't a do or die affair..

If you feel like both of you aren't fit to be together, just quit it already...

Now,a young boy who should have been thinking of how to go to school,plus all his dreams has been cut short simply because of a relationship that wouldn't have headed nowhere in the first place

When I tell people I got out of secondary school with my virginity intact, longing to finish my school, people don't believe me . Funniest part is when I tell them that I went to poly and came back as a virgin despite the availability of enormous pussies being thrown at me willingly . They call me a joker . I ventured into my first relationship three years ago with my current banny and we've been together despite the countless ups and downs.....

Nevertheless,in reality, I'm a very disciplined young man and that's one fact people who know me can't dispute

Stop blowing your trumpet oga. How do we know if what you're saying is even true?
Let's assume it's true, it doesn't still make you any better than others. You might have even done worse things

ednut1:
But who goes to shiloh and jerry eze life to pray for husband? Women

If u ask me,.Na who I go ask Na my brother.

Tins hard. Depression wan kpai me right now.

Kpomo lips don drop Quote. 😆😆😆

This news may sound good to many of us, but in the end, we already know how everything will turn out.

He will be Freeed

Bittersweetnig:
why the main hisbah in the first place, has federal government approved State Police? All these North, are the problem of Nigeria, Nigeria should go it's separate ways simple

I agree with you brother.

michlins:
This is how you breed terrorists. When people feel that they should be holier than others

I'm telling you. Those guys are a bunch of hypocrites

That's how Boko haram started.
Before u know it, the new hisbaah guys will begin to get agitated and rebellious to the main Hisbah

obonujoker:
Oh my God..

I hope she repented and accepted Jesus Christ before she passed away

I can't imagine someone going to meet the father of plastic surgery in his abode in the afterlife knowing that the body drop but the spirit and soul that cannot be medically altered lives forever

May God help humanity

I've lost hope in humanity