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Family › Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by delishpot: 11:08pm On Aug 25, 2016*

Taryur3:
Bad adviser...you can't be a good wife I swear.if the boy had been from the lady's family,how will you advise her

If he was from her family, she would do with him as she pleases until he changes his attitude. She can cut allawee, sieze DVD or switch off tv, not dish his food if he doesn't wash his plates etc Just like you can deal with your younger siblings if they are behaving badly. She can send them back to mom and dad if they fail to obey her rules. Can she do same to that boy without people like you calling her a wicked woman?

As a man, how happy would you be if you fetch water while your wife's brother is there watching tv even when he sees you doing the fetching only for him to stand up and use the water? And this type of thing goes on for a year plus..... 365 days and counting. And when you complain people say.... what if he wasn't living with you, won't you fetch your water? Isn't that pure wickedness?
Now I know why most women kick against bringing in people. Cod of the mentality of many men towards their wives and women in general. Not saying all wives are angels, but we need to stop and listen to people and reason with them when they complain. As the man of the house, Set the rules in your home. Let those coming in know what is expected of them. That way, they do as agreed or they move out if they can't cope with your rules. So they do not see your wife as imposing on them. Make them know how important she is and they would not mess with her.

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Family › Re: How Do I Stop The Excesses Of This Guy Staying With Us? by delishpot: 10:50pm On Aug 25, 2016*

It is a shame how men are not helping the younger men grow up to be responsible. Why allow your wife to be treated like shit in her own house? Many of the twisted men talking down on this woman would be the first to cry blood if their wife's brother does this type of shit to them.
You think being a wife and mother is easy? Why not sit at home and do the easy chores and,let your wife go do that very difficult work outside the home?
Anyway, I blame the Op for seeking advice on Nl where most of the people are kids in their teenage years. Who are happy to be lazy and believe marriage is for women to do as they are told and not complain.
Op, go seek advice from some mature person who you trust abeg.

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Christianity Etc › Re: Prophecy! Prophecy!! Prophecy!!! by delishpot: 9:34pm On Aug 25, 2016

Rjasan:
hey how is this thing done sef.... we've all been waiting yet nothing.

Do you use any railway crossing? Do you ride a bike?

Politics › Re: We Will Sell Attack Aircraft To Nigeria, If They Can Afford It: John Kerry by delishpot: 1:33pm On Aug 24, 2016

Scavengers of human misery. They make their money from sponsoring chaos, anarchy and bloodshed. Why won't you sell to us? Isn't that how you survive?

Crime › Re: Man Jailed For 19 Years For Rape In Lagos by delishpot: 1:28pm On Aug 24, 2016

Joavid:
which village do you live?

and what's your level of education?

can you Imagine? Those are the kinds that help their husbands abort pregnancies when they rape their house maidS or little relations living with them. And then they blame the victim for not being careful enough knowing that the husband can be easily seduced.

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Crime › Re: Man Jailed For 19 Years For Rape In Lagos by delishpot: 1:17pm On Aug 24, 2016

haleeberry:
Nigeria is becoming India gradually with the rate of RAPE incidence. Although, some men are nt blame with d way some Women dress, walking around almost unclad, leaving nothing 4 d imagination hormonal Men. She has abused herself already by getting drunk to d point she couldn't protest when he was taking her 2 Hotel. She made herself volunrable and he took d chance. If he was forcing her 2 take more than her alcohol tolerance, she could politely refuse. I blame d girl more. Quite unfortunate 4 d guy though, just 4 10minutes pleasure highest

Christianity Etc › Re: Bishop Daniel Obinim Arrested (Video, Photos) by delishpot: 10:01pm On Aug 23, 2016

If it was naija, he would walk free.

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Politics › Re: Malaysian Rapper Is Arrested Forinsulting Islam by delishpot: 9:48pm On Aug 23, 2016

Na wa o.

Crime › Re: Toddlers Brutalized By Stepmother In Kaduna (photos) by delishpot: 6:34pm On Aug 23, 2016

Some men and women and their wahala. They allow the love for extra vagina or extra money overtake their sense of reasoning. In all these nonsense, the kids pay the price. The dad and step mom should be jaailed for 20years each. With hard labour o

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Crime › Re: Abuja Doctor Who Drugs And Rapes Patients Arrested by delishpot: 6:11pm On Aug 23, 2016

Orikinla:
But his victims will never reveal what happened to their boyfriends and husbands.
Nigerian girls keep a lot of secrets on their sex life.
Many have been raped and they will never tell, but will be behaving abnormally with mood swings in relationships.

May Almighty God JEHOVAH help us.

Because if they did, it's same Nigerians that would call them ashawo and say how can a doctor rape them in an office with nurses and other patients present? Why did they not shout? Dos the doctor just drug them like that? They may be crying out because their husband found out, or the doctor did not pay them the price they asked for. Nigerians like to kill the victims in favour of the abusers. Even if he is for d guilty, he may pay a small fine of 50k and that would be all.

Those San members if trully they exist, should be named and shamed too.

Christianity Etc › Re: Curse Or Spiritual Manipulation?? by delishpot: 2:27pm On Aug 23, 2016

Oocc:
I've gotten to the stage where life is no more interesting!
Even if wealth comes today, I doubt if it'll change my state of mind. Life to me is sooo meaningless.

I've reached the stage where all I pray for is good death....maybe sleep and don't wake up again!
Death interest me more than life!

I don't even need anyone to preach to me about Christ, cos I know the Bible more than you do and I don't miss church!!

You might want to know the cause. Well, I figured that since I graduated(about 6 years ago) nothing works in my life.
Failure, near success syndrome, job losses, relationship disaster, sadness, tears, brooding, betrayal by friends I've once helped, confusion, fear, hopelessness, scorn, etc are all I've encountered for years!

No prayer of any kind(from pastors, prayer warriors) have worked for me!
An ex once told me that I cannot fit into this world. The world is not for me and that I should go and die! Meanwhile, I was good to her! I only made a Lil mistake that made her turn against me.......a mistake I don't see as an offense

Every day I ask myself; who have I offended that has Cursed me or using diabolic means to manipulate me and turn my life up-side-down? I can't think of anyone cos I've been good to all that come my way. I give alms to the poor often. I help people with the little I had!

God does not want to answer prayers! He does not want to grant heart desires! He does not want to crown efforts with success! Now, can't he just kindly take the life, so that all sufferings and psychological torture will come to an end??!! I'm in my early 30's and I've already grown grey hairs on my head(so many!!)

If life has sincerely not been fair to someone, then that person is ME!

Do not be depressed. Depression is what causes a man to see only darkness instead of the light. It makes a man take many wrong turns. It makes you weak when you shoild be strong, it makes you ignore the soft voice of the divine when it calls upon you to act. Take time off see those who left as a sign that they do not belong in your life. Stop and pray in your heart. Stay in a quiet room and talk to God in your heart. Forgive the past. Forgive everyone who has offended you. Do you know that when a person is angry at himself, it hinders his progress in life? Forgive yourself. See the past as a learning time. Educate yourself on things you would have done differently. Reinvent your way and let the divine guide you through life.

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Christianity Etc › Re: My Experience With The Super Natural by delishpot: 2:00pm On Aug 23, 2016

Dharey55:
Mylordship pls come back to this thread,don't feel discourage by this doubting Thomases

Permit me to respond to you here. So far, you vibe like a successful young man. Some hitches and bumps along the way but you overcome them. You vibe success.