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If you can not tell her mom, then tell your pastor or an elder in your church to help you tell her. I also advice you limit the time you spend with her before you get in trouble if and when the bubble of her abuse bursts and people start suspecting you.

She should go check out her grades at her department.
It happened to me too. My statement of result said 2:2 while I knew it was wrong. I headed straight to my HOD, he called the secretary. she check my result and she found where the mistake came from. She blamed the lady that compiled the list and the lady blamed her hand writting. My HOD was mad at her and asked her to rectify it fast. I had to pay for a new statement of result but I got the grade corrected. So, she should go to her HOD if she is sure of her grades. I mean, if she worked for it, then she deserves the reward for her hard work.

Some are already there, those with ckean hands should watch out for double crossing from amongst them

Damn!!! I wouldn't want to be in your shoes. Abeg, try use Google find out what you can do O. This one pass me.

recievesense:
Sauce?

I join rice to that ya kwesion

Nice after look.... But, person come marry her finish, she come born pikin, world people go dey wonder weda she cheat on her husband if the baby go resemble her past self.

No. Every Christian has same level of grace and anointing. pastor is only a position to keep the church organized. Anyone can becone a pastor if he has the qualities needed to carry the membrs in unity

Use google to find Hitlers religious views. He hated christians too. Hitler NEVER killed in the name of Christ. He never had any assumption that CHRIST. needed him to wipe out non christians. I dont see any reason to compare hitler to islamists who kill, rape and maim in the name of their religion. Those men on that list never yelled "Jesus is great" when destroying lives, they did not seperate christians from non christians when their men entered villages and towns. They did not fight his war for religious sake.

What those men did were terrible but they did not do it in the name of religion.

Flexherbal:
Glass bridge!
These guys have left us...
When are we going to get here?

Let us finish producing pencils and toothpicks first, next stop, we produce teleporting machines. Glass bridge is below our level Na!

Its a woman by birth.
She did what her body was designed to do

They should Comeback when a real man successfully carries pregnancy to term and gives birth to a healthy baby.

michael142:
Somebody should please tell me how I can create a new thread or topic here on Naira land. Please oh

Click on the section you wish to make a post, ie politics, romance religion etc, there you will see a link to create new topic. Click on it and kwontinue from dia

dauntless15:
have you ever heard of any jidenna grass to grace story?

Must a man start from grass? Anyone at any level can hit stardom. It is not the right of only those at the bottom Na.

The dressing no make sense sha, She should just wear native next time. Some women sha, going to immigration and dressing like she is going to sleep over at a friends house. Its well.
But O, I thought the dress code was for their staff only?

PaulIdu:
Something tells me you are also owing a lot of people

Hahahaha, as he is helping the guy to beg ba? Like it happens to people like that. Saying someone that stole my money should be left off the hook because I may need him tomorrow. If the guy was even postponing payment, I for try understand. But the guy clearly chopped the money and told his friend not to bother come looking for it ever again. Is that the kind of person one would look forward to expecting help from in future?

mrjojo:
i dey tell you bros, the guy in US might actually be the victim here

No be small thing O. I just hope for the sake of God that OP is better than all that sha.

solidhomes:
Hmmmm...Never thought of this o. I actually know his younger brother and can get how to see him. But from what I heard, he doesn't really care about this younger brother. I might just try that with the hope he won't prefer to lose his younger brother for money. Thanks plenty.

Do you have proof? That smuggler had a lot to lose if the case got to the police. Thus he quickly "crossed" the man but in your case, do you have any proof that he was owing you money? If you have none, his brother may Sue you and win you know? Abeg, think am well before you do something bad.

mrjojo:
Bros, What kind of job EXACTLY did you do for this "client" of yours? Cos something like this happened 3 weeks ago to a friend in US. A mutual friend of ours requested for his account details, which he gave without asking questions, unknown to him, the payment was coming from a "client"(oyinbo lover), he got the payment 0f 8,000$ and realized the source, he simply didn't send the money to the dude in Nigeria. The dude was no running up and down reporting him (us friend) to everybody reportable and guess what I didn't blame the guy, you directed funds gotten ilegally to him and you want him to send, when the authority over there trace and caught up with him, you will be here in Naija enjoying your money and forming boss. I will sure do the same if I was in his shoes, I wouldn't even give my account to a friend I don't trust his source of income 100%.
Am not saying this applies to you oo,

Busted?.?.?.?.?
Chaii, it better not be O.

As we if haven't seen broke men who still butcher their girlfriends. I wonder why people stigmatize the rich.
Many broke people also kill their partners for so called quick money so the problem is not the money but the person behind the money. Unless you mean that in naija 99% of rich people do jaz

Ladies and gentle men........I present to you.........Your future president

DropShot:
Mr. Counselor, I stand by my first statement that he is not a worthy manager.

I hate mediocrity and I can't pretend otherwise.

If you find my statement of fact rude for yourself and the OP, na your wahala.

As per the emboldened, it might interest you to know I've been a manager for the past seven years in my field.

My teenage son knows what to do in this OP's case and if he fails to act with common sense, na spank I go spank am.

Your cup of tea. Drink it hot or cold.

DropShot:
Perhaps you have a log of wood in your eyes not to see his reply to my first post.

This guy is an incompetent manager if he doesn't know he needs to approach the police with the evidence with him.

Even though I know there are many lazy kids on NL, it's disgusting to read that a "manager" doesn't know what to do in his situation.

Manager indeed!

You still have no right to speak to him the way you first did. You threw the first stone. Why does it pain you that he is a manager? He only said you spoke like a teenager. That isn't an insult that is fact. Your first post was rude. Even your response to mine was rude too. Its a shame you are not even fit to be an employee going by your attitude talk less of leading a team. Change for the better dear. At a certain age, people drop these childish insults and exchange of words. If you have passed your teen age years, then I suggest you do so.
You can make your point known in a more mature manner

To know the heart of a person, look closely at how he responds to situations around him. When you observe closely, you would know what he can and can not do.

OP, carry go tell police.

DropShot:
You must have gotten to that managerial post through the back door.

Your English is so poor.

Your thought process is so weak.

You don't even know how to quote a post properly; I had to work hard to be able to quote you somehow.

Yet, you say someone sounds like a "tenager". You can't even spell "teenager" correctly.

Na wa O. Abeg someone offend you before you click on OP's topic? You are being unnecessarily rude sir. This is not the place for one to display such childish tendencies.
He asked for help cos he feels threatened. He wants ideas to avoild this whole thing catapaulting out of his control. What is wrong in his asking for ideas and suggestions from neutral people as to how best to handle the situation? Are you the person who stole? Why are you bent on dragging him down?
Even if you are a teenager, wisdom sometimes doesn't have to come with age my dear brother. It is available for all to learn only If you so desire.

saintfellow:
Happy new month to my people in nairaland.
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Seun(still appreciate what u did 4 me)
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Drisklef
I wish you all the best in this ember months.

Happy new month to you too. May the ember months lead only to many very fulfilled and prosperous years to come.

Na wa O. Is it with this kind of eye people expect citizens to report suspected militants to the authorities?

Try make him send it in written form(text or e mail) or in a way you could record it for evidence and then take it to the police.If I we're you, I would sniff group d and find info about his family, even to where his ancestors were hurried so he knows he can run but he can't hide. Many people do crime because they believe no one can trace them.
Some Nigerians do not have shame sha, see how he is blaming someone else for the result of his evil actions? He stole, his ass got blown open and then he has the audacity to blame someone else for his greed. He doesn't want to reap what he has sown.

MONITZ:
I rest my case, there is actually no need flogging a dead horse ,nd wat makes u feel the Japanese do not believe its existence, it just that they re able to channel it's usage into better nd creative ventures.

Do u know anything abt "the great witches purge that happened in London some centuries ago"?and do u know there re still some parts of that city where it's still practised? I know If I mentioned the movie:Harry Porter",u would still say it's pure fiction.

Once again I rest my case.

Stop it please. Even those in London are embarrassed about what happened in their land then. It was a shameful and disgusting thing to have happened.
Yes people may practice witchcraft and dark magic but do they really poses powers like they claim to do? To physically transfer an unborn baby? Not it's spirit or soul O, the whole package? To carry someones legs physically, or to use wind and steal someone physically, I can understand if she claims she carried the spirit of the child, but to say she transfer pickin whole from one womb to another? Lol if it we're possible, barren women would go to witches to have pregnancies transferred to their own wombs

cococandy:
it is also traditon to care about and provide for your children.

Gbam.

OMAR12:
Mr.man weather he was there ooo or not, tradition is tradition, respect the tradition and ignore the personality, the man is not talking about weather he was there or not.

Well, you are right. Her people should have sent message to him to inform him about his sons death. Not much about tradition, (Bleep tradition if it did not support me when I need it but is being used to make me go out of my way to please someone) it's just he is the father, if he was abusive towards the child, if he was making the child's life miserable, then I may excuse her anger and action in her time of sorrow. Until we lose someone, we may not know how we would react when we see their abusers.
We may never know what transpired between the man and Stella, many things happen in naija homes, some naija men have this stupid believe that they can neglect their kids for years and in future the kids after being through thick and thing in life would trace them back. Thus they just ignore the mental and emotional well being of their kids. Until someone does it to you, you will never underatand the hurt and the pain.
But, if all was well and the man was not a bad father, and he always tried to see his kids but is prevented from doing so by his ex, then what she did was very very wrong.
Its her people I blame, they should know that Stella is in a very fragile state, they should have looked for a way to send someone to tell the father about his sons death. They should know better

Stupid by lies from bloggers. Na so dem go tanish peoples image only for us to hear an entirely different true story about the case.

Builders, mixing sand and spit to mould block in naija. This is a worrisome trend in naija o. Govt should start inspecting a new construction projects (I fear that bribery would make the inspectors shush de faulters cases)

Kollyman:
Controversial Stella Oduah!

Someone said "give a woman power and wealth and see how elders would be disgraced in the market".

After analysing the adage, I realised that its not all women but over 99% of them are culpable.

Yeah, men with money have never done anything like this before. Only women with money do it.

Ayoswit:
some gals sha

She try her luck Na. Did she do anything bad?

Nigeria oooo. What kind of backwardness is this some people display Na? Instead of seeking g help for her, they forced her to confess and then beat her up