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angie541:
Please I need help before I kill someone, my fiancé just canceled our wedding because his baby mama wants to come back.
We’ve dated for five years and he told me he had a child but there’s nothing between him and the mother anymore, I’ve been helping him to pay child support, I’m from a very wealthy family and very hardworking too , I’ve helped set this guy up in life that I’m sure even up to his third generation can never suffer, this guy had nothing when I met him but I never looked down on him and I built him and established him, I was also a virgin , he disvirgined me.
After setting him up, this guy proposed to me and the wedding is in four months time and this guy suddenly informed me his baby mama wants to come back, I had informed the whole world I’m getting married, my Facebook,Instagram,sent out invitation letter, please I want to die the shame and pain is too much .
The most painful part is that I recently found out it was all a set up , this guy dated me to dupe me, but why don’t you dupe me and leave me in peace, you went to the extent of proposing marriage and make me send out invitation letters, he’s the only man I’ve dated in my life! I confronted him to know why he decided to ruin my life like this and his response shocked me , he said “what had he done that nobody has ever done before” , I couldn’t believe my ears, so this guy never loved me, even if he had lied on the devil that it’s the devils work I would’ve forgiven him , the boldness to tell me you hurt me intentionally!
No he can’t go just like that! He’s in the house I bought with another woman! I can’t do anything cause he’s name is on the documents! Please help me before I kill someone cause I’ve gone to the ghetto to get some hired killers and I’ve paid them already, but I called them yesterday to hold on because I’m scared I’ve never killed anyone In my life, what If his ghost haunts me? If I’m in my room will his ghost appear to me?
But he can’t just go scot free please what other thing can I do to this evil guy because he must also feel the same pain I’m feeling, this pain is everlasting and it will there until I die, he must also feel the same! Please anyone who know this guy should tell him to lie on the devil that it’s the devils work because I swear with my life he must pay!

ZIINI:
You guys are clowns

Iamagoodgirll:
no problem

Iamagoodgirll:
alright

DeltaBachelor:
Thanks hun. I am not a tribalistic person though. I believe in unity even in diversity. However, due to some reasons, I wanted to toe that path at the time. I am open to anybody irrespective of tribe, race, educational qualification and all. What I would like to hold above other qualities however in my significant other is a good character, fear of God and an ability to grow ( whether at work or business). Financial stability ( from both parties) is also very important for every family.


Thanks and God bless you. Cheers !!!!

Iamagoodgirll:
lol yes, and you did mentioned deltan only. don't worry you will find your wife

Iamagoodgirll:
there's one guy from delta that has been looking for wife on NL where's he

good luck

Dotar:
Please help!I need a boyfriend, someone who will love and care for me geniunely.

Age:26
City:Enugu state but originally from the North
Height:5ft
Dislikes: pride,lies
Occupation:

Julianah21:
Am a yoruba babe,an undergraduate..need a serious, friendly and funny male dude..

cyndylove64:
can I send u a mail?

cyndylove64:
no Ute ogbeje but we are still brother and sister.Orima

cyndylove64:
Awwwn.am deltan(Ute) based in lag.ogene everyone

beleza:
Hi guys,

Happy New Year. Been a while and thanks for the love on my 2015 post.

So here is a little update.I am officially hitting my mid 30s this year and still single to stupor.I went to do my masters certificate clearance this week and when I was asked for my marriage certificate, I said I was single the man said I will marry this year and I just said Amen with one side of my mouth because where is the man?�

I met a guy in 2017 who I really liked but the same thing happened again.I fell in love with him although he saw me as just a friend. his tribe was different from mine but i was willing to take a chance, thought he was going to be different from the rest, he is smart, cool and hardworking but alas, I was wrong.If I start to talk about all I went through, I won't finish this post today.

He just wanted to sleep with me like the others, even though he stayed not to far from my house I was the one always making the effort to go and see him.I was really attracted to him and was almost submitting to his sexual advances but something always held me back.he messed up with my mind many times making me feel bad and yet when I get angry, he will call me dramatic.I will get tired of the drama and noncommitment then delete and block him but he will find ways to reach out again.Because i liked him, I will let him into my head again before you know it, I want to see and talk with him everytime.

Note that this 'situationship' continued for years.Even when I moved, it continued.Not meeting other guys also didn't help matters.Been working from home since 2018 and only attend events once in a while.Last year before covid, we reconnected again because I kinda missed him & I wanted to see if he could help me with a job.I wanted to stay over but he insisted on wanting sex.I got angry and decided to leave(we hadnt gotten to his place) but he didn't act bothered.He didn't even buss me when I got home.This is someone I hadn't seen in over a year.I just made up my mind there and there that I couldn't continue allowing him to get into my head as it wasn't helping me.He called some weeks later and that was it, no apologies, no acting like he did anything.This guy never calls that he wants to visit me or that he wants to see me grow career wise or that he misses me,he just wants to monitor me by calling me when he feels like.He also never for once said he liked me even when he knew I was head over heels on love with me or bought anything memorable for me.He would even hurt my feelings by telling me he is not sure I really love him.

I vowed never to reach out again or pick his calls again as it was affecting my mental health and self worth.He finally reached out some days ago, I know his number by heart even though I deleted it, I missed his call as I wasn't with my phone and he hasn't called since then and I don't plan to return it.I want it to stay that way, i don't want no drama this year.It took me a lot to write this cos I know some people are going to judge me.If you have not walked in my shoes, please take it easy with the comments.
I am not a slay mama, I am not a woman who dresses in a bad way, i don't double date, my stature is not attractive, I just don't know why I get attracted to wrong men or they get attracted to me.Its either unavailable men or married men that keep coming my way.I am fed up, who did I offend? I am not talking to any one at the moment not even as a friend.Is my case spiritual?People are wondering whats wrong as I am one of the sweetest ladies you will ever meet, not perfect though.all my friends are married, why is my case different? '(

crazymom:
I am Interested in an healthy relationship with a matured guy in his late 30's, no married men pls. Kindly text or call 0808 395 4680. Thanks

bixton:
Okay.
Please never allow her take the moringa seed more than 2 seeds and not an every day thing. It is not for everybody. This 2 seeds should take care of the problem at least even 2 weeks or more. Ensure she has eaten not more than 2 hours pre or post before taking it. Just a caution.

Moringa seed has a flip side. Moringa seed is not and never for any one who has a low BP.

Please adhere to the instructions. Thanks and God bless.

bixton:
Good day.....
Are you certain you have it and how high is it?

I will recommend moringa seed. Max intake is 4 seeds but I recommend only 2 seeds and you observe yourself. You cannot take moringa seed if you have a low BP it is harmful at that point.


Another alternative is get the leaves of shawashop fruit plant, boil it and drink the water like tea.

You can do a combination of water melon fruit and lemon fruit. Eating the white part of the lemon helps too and not just the juice alone.



Any option you choose is okay but you are not expected to do a combination of the 3 methods stated at the same time.

Pick one method and follow. Let me also know which method you choose and how you are responding. Ensure you take sufficient rest and limit salt intakes.
Read your Bible more.
Thanks and God bless.

bixton:
I'll advice you look for person(s) who are into massaging, the native method.
It's the best method to solve your issue if only you can get in touch with someone who knows it.

I don't know where you are resident but I believe you can get a good one within your location.

What's your most likely sleeping position?
Do you use a pillow while sleeping?

Hope you don't have high blood/low blood issues?
But if you do have high blood pressure, I'll recommend simple herbs/fruits you can take for such.
If its low blood pressure, I'll recommend certain fruits to be prepared by you to take.
All available at your reach.

Enge23:
I sent you a message on your signature chat me up let me give you a solution for your HBP

aurecia:
December 10th.happy new year

FILEBE:
Exactly!!! Helicopter enter school that year. Armored tanks. Tear gas left and right . I think they almost threw the vc's wife off the stairs or something .
High rise hear am that year. Unilag of those years .

FILEBE:
Remember the 2005 riot ? Where his residence was burnt? One of the student union leaders died after allegedly receiving a call from him . The story was that The VC called at night and the next day the leader died. Unilag was hot then. Armoured tanks , Helicopters. Students were chased out of their hostels without allowing them pack belongings. It was after some few weeks , they were asked to come back for their stuff and then school was shut down for a while. Yeah, 2005,

bizzibodi:
If she has contacted me,I would hav mix her a concoction that would made her purge her fat out.

Federalcase:
i don't have a paypal account let alone connecting a bank card to it

I need someone that have paypal account that receive money and they can transfer it to their Bank account

FanOfMyself:
It's my birthday today and I wish to give out some free courses to a number of nlanders.
Hala me

Lovethaa:
Christmas is by the corner , and alot of Nigerians cannot afford a Good Christmas meal..so many are walking around broke and jobless
Oh if only people love each other , the world will be a better place .
I have decided to bless just 4 people with 20k ... To show love . pls only comment if you truly need the assistance... And also my fellow nairalnders that are rich and doing well..
Put a smile on someone face this festive period,it doesn't have to be 20k even 1k can go a long way ...
.. let's put a smile on someone face ...


Don't drop account number or phone number.... Just pick a number from 1-10....I'll quote whoever the spirit leads me to bless.... Happy Christmas in advance

nanauju:
Igbo

nanauju:
I’m a lady please. Y’all should stop automatically assuming everyone on Nairaland using female monikers are male.

It creates a bad impression on the person that is assuming

virginprincess:
Happy married life,though don't like the wedding gown.