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Safiaa:
Youre too invested in someone else's life. Not good.

2kaybiel:
there is nothing to learn from them, i will of course enjoin you to learn from them cos ladies are usually the receiving end of every failed marriage.

waywardpikin:
Good writer no doubt but you're not saying anything we don't already know.

blazhykowskyi:
for what?

KennyID17:
Good morning from this side

paschal47:
OP time plenty for your hand oo







Another piece of trash

2kaybiel:
how her marriage take "konsign" me?

Nukilia:
What concerns us with all these marriage brouhaha? Their family issues is their business, let all analyst mind their own business and stop all this gossips and attention seeking charades.

blazhykowskyi:
so true.

check my signature for extra in

newguy1:
Good write up but op who ask U.. we are all selfish in ou own way the concept of love is an illusion created by hollywood the sooner we realise that finding someone u are compatible and ur interest or ambition align out weight finding love the better for our society





Who love don epp...romeo or abi naa ryan gosling from the notebook

Doctorfitz:
So u just sidon dey analyse another woman marriage? Bomb dey ur head.

QueenSuccubus:




Lemme spread my blanket here..

Oyind17:
For yourself

Oyind17:
I didn't read your write-ups

Oyind17:
Tiwa and her husband

Oyind17:
Let them enjoy their marriage, biko

Drew0:
Lol, me dispose line because of u.


Because of u small boy wen I go squash back to soil from the other side come psychical??


Oya no problem. We go see as be.

Drew0:
Lol, me dispose line because of u.


Because of u small boy wen I go squash back to soil from the other side come psychical??


Oya no problem. We go see as be.

Drew0:
Why na




Why you wan push me to do weiten I no wan do?

Guy listen and this is the final time I will reflect on this issue.

U hired me to do a job, I did it at first u liked it and decided to pay me for it, then suddenly u said u could do it better than me and that you want to hire a foreigner.

Oya how is it my fault u liked my work at first and played me on your own accord


Did I force u?

I said I will do a refund but I changed my mind because u were sounding as if its ur right


We didn't discuss refund wen u paid.

I wanted to do it at free will but I refuse


Haba

Haba

Drew0:
Hahahahaah





This is so funny






Now listen.




You can test me.

But don't provoke me. I try to be the most friendly and fair at all cost.


But if you pose as a threat to me.

U will leave me no choice.

After all u established a link between us and I can do as I want thru it. If u wanna be saying hello from the other side no problem.

Drew0:
Hahahahaah





This is so funny






Now listen.




You can test me.

But don't provoke me. I try to be the most friendly and fair at all cost.


But if you pose as a threat to me.

U will leave me no choice.

After all u established a link between us and I can do as I want thru it. If u wanna be saying hello from the other side no problem.

Drew0:
BTW riddle I saved your picture.


Test me

Drew0:
Hahaha.


Riddle.

Trying so hard.


I knew your profile was fake.

Drew0:
I'm not James.


You got the wrong person.

Drew0:
I'm not James.


You got the wrong person.

Drew0:
Replied.

Drew0:
What do you want to know.

Toks2008:
Can you love without a reason and unconditionally? What is the true definition of love?

I strongly believe that real and unconditional love only exist from God to man but anyone who believes in human love is a big dummy.

In my opinion i believe that ,human love is a charade, a facade and a chase after the wind which is based on a selfish condition and if the condition is no longer there, love fades and tolerance sets in with an eventual crash.

[b]But when this selfish condition is still present in that other person, we usually use the so called dumb words "I LOVE YOU", "PROMISE YOU WILL NEVER LEAVE ME", "I WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU", "WILL YOU MARRY ME", "YES I DO TILL DEATH..."

Let's cut the chase and face facts, human relationship is basically an exchange of obligation,a pure trade by barter. We will likely hear those vague words "I love you" from someone who actually desires you because of your sexual features,money,cuteness,fear of God, future prospect,moral standards, fame and so on and God help you that those reasons remain else you are a past tense or a mere partner that will be tolerated maybe because the other party is no longer at a vantage point to dump you and both of you will now become a good sample couple of real love while in actual fact you are only tolerating each other.

So when next you hear a man ask you "will you marry me or can we start dating?" or a lady agrees to be your date or wife,rather than assume that it is love in action, just find a nice moment to ask that person why he or she wants you as a date or spouse so that you can always keep that reason alive to avoid heart ache.[/b]

So my humble advice to people out there looking for true love or someone who will love them for real is to stop chasing shadows and be with someone who catches their fancy and keep the condition of the "attraction" alive or continue to wait for real love until Mongo park discovers them.

I have deep things to write concerning this but on a second thought i have decided to hold back and throw this open for discussion as the title is self explicit.

Call me a sadist, a pessimist or any name you desire but as I always reiterate, I am a realist but Maybe true love exist between a man and woman in a love affair in one out of a million chances but i would like to read from you if you believe in this 4 letter scam called L O V E,

Over to you all.