I want to know if it's right to hide one's achievements like educational, monetary etc because one wants to find true love.
Does it make any sense?
Would a woman be considered bad for rejecting you, if you said you squat with your brother whereas you own a house?
Or that you didn't attend a university whereas you did?
Or that you you didn't have a job whereas you did?
Note that all these are in a bid to test if she is a wife material.
Is it wrong for women to insist on certain things like wealth, educational background, etc?
That's a good one there. I guess Nollywood championed this narrative and took it to a ridiculous level where a prince or son of a rich man will pretend to be poor or a gate man to find " true love."
The effect of this narrative is that it demonises it when people get attracted to you because of your wealth, achievements etc. But then like you said, these things form part of your personality as a person and will influence how a partner nay a woman views you.
The daughter of a professor could resolve to marry only a graduate or a rich man. That would make her proud among her family and friends.
Would you blame her if she rejects you because you denied or hid being a graduate or claim poor?
Is it wrong for her to insist on these things? Does it make her a gold digger?
Just be modest and avoid over demanding and entitled women. You don't have to hide your qualifications but you don't have to talk about it when no one asked you.
Dgnaijagist08: SHOCKING!!! I Got Pregnant At 18 After Having Sex For The First Time – BBNaija Jackie B Opens up
Big Brother Naija’s Jackie B has revealed that she got pregnant at the age of 18. The BBNaija housemate disclosed this on Sunday night while discussing with fellow housemates in the garden.
According to her, she was impregnated after having her first sex with her first lover in 2018 GUYS SEE WHAT JACKIE B SAID HOW SHE GOT HER SON.
TheGidRedpiller: I guess this thread will answer the question; Why Today's Women Suddenly Grow Attraction For Millitary Men. Its not because he is bound to be a better husband or a protective one. Its because she can live wildly and still be entangled to him for every support! Instead of looking for simps, why not look for a man who has to simp by default and ultimately has no other choice but to simp A.K.A Millitary Men
If you are a millitary man in the Nigerian Army, Navy, or Airforce, pls i beg you, do not even think of having anything serious with any woman. Those sluuts will actually come running to you because they already have it all mapped out! Do not fall for it, its for your own good! Be Wise. I'll consider this a personal message to every millitary men out there, because as for this post, they should be lucky to know Nairaland.
TRP S GOLDEN!!
With the crop of security men we have now, I hope you've written your will before you consider cheating with their wife?
Why complain about the salary which you accepted beforehand?
I hate when employees drag their employers on the mud.
If you think employing someone and paying them over poor performance oya go and open your own business and see if it will last a year before it crumbles.
Enough of this nonsense. At least they have paid all entitlements.
Weyrehmod: Forget, those teams will win at least 25 matches of their 38 games this season
All of them will win atleast 10 matches same week of thier matchday
You don't carry name. You carry current form. What if they fumble this season, remember Alaba has left Bayern for Real Madrid and I think Mbappe has left or will soon leave PSG for Real Madrid too. So their strength might reduce.
Remember Liverpool at a time was losing back to back at home.
deltateam: I am impressed with this forecast. Please remind me never to carry any Australian team again. They are useless.
Group C has casted with 1 game while group A and B are still running. 2 games are remaining for today.
The 2 games came through. So far 12 games have played out of 18. 11 games have entered while 1 game casted Group C which still has 2 games but it doesn't matter again.
Group A is remaining 1 game to chop 8 odds while group B is remaining 3 games.
It pleases me to announce to you that EPL starts on 13 August 2021.
May this season bring more winnings than last season where coro spoilt things.
Why was last season bad? Simply because key players tested positive to Coro and were banned from playing making top teams to be playing nonsense as they used team B and sometimes C to fill up the gap.
praz001: Good day guys.... I really need your advice on this...
I lease a land I'm currently using for a basic school. The landlord approached me last year that he will be selling off the land because he urgently need some money....
We actually agreed on 10million naira for the piece. (a 2 plot of land) Our initial agreement was that I will be paying him anually till all payments is made then he will hand over the land document to me. Out of which I gave him 500k as first part.
Towards the end of last month he called me he wont want to collect the money again in part payment that he needed the money in full or in two part payment within 2 year (5m per year) I've sourced around and offered to pay him 1m for now but he rejected.
Guy I really am in a big mess what do I do? My life savings is on this place....
Did you see any documents with him concerning the agreement?
If not, it's a lost case because he will deny you.
izzou: [color=royalblue]If everybody starts to type the cons of their partners, nobody go marry.
My point is: Can you carry this cross, or would you love her despite her selfishness?
If no, please end it and move on.
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Some flaws can be managed but not this one as it can cause death. Someone that can't sacrifice money, will never sacrifice her blood nor even give you a treat on your birthday nor even send you shishi or lend a helping hand when you are stranded or in a dilemma.
Marriage without companionship is that one marriage?
Someone I know is suffering it from his wife and it's not funny.
Ekomatrix1: I have this girl I have been dating for 4 years and we are planning to get married to this year. But I notice she does not like to sacrifice. I mean, she is kind of selfish.
she is studying and i send her money aside the one the parent gives to her but if i request for a video call, she would ask me to send her data, if she comes to my house and i don't give her TP not minding that i gave her money some weeks/days back she would be angry.
Yesterday i booked a ticket for her to come to lagos from anambra, after booking she asked me to also send her some feeding money for the journey. I refused and asked her to take from the 20k I sent to her last 2 weeks, she then said " WHO PAYS FOR TP AND NOT GIVES FEEDING MONEY?
Long story short, I had to cancel the ticket. I have constantly complained about her selfishness but no improvement .
what should i do?
You know what to do but are you man enough to do it.
Unless you want to create a longer thread when you marry her.
Seriously Teni has flows as seen in her music "Hustle".
That song dey scatter my dada. I can't seem to get enough of it. I played it, replayed it, rereplayed it again over and over again and yet I still vibe to it. The beating, lyrics, flows, rhythm in that song should get her a nomination to any award.
Thank you Teni. Stay strong. It's all love. I know, it's love, from me to you.