LittleBigDick: My worst fear came true. My ex came crawling back after I started getting serious with another girl. We broke up 7 months ago. We'd been together since uni. I'm 25, she's 23. She said she needed some space and wasn't sure we would work out long term. I tried to fight her on it for two weeks but eventually gave her the breakup and went ghost mode
First couple of months were rough but I applied myself at the gym and other things and when I was feeling better about my physique made a Bumble account just to gain some self-esteem back and also take my mind off her. Met this girl about 2 months ago and we've been fwb since then. We Bleep every week and recently we've been talking about making things serious. I confess I'm starting to become infatuated with this girl, and she's already head over heels for me.
The problem is that I still love my ex, way more than this new girl. She reached out today saying she regrets breaking up with me, she was depressed and got some therapy and realized I'm all she wants. She says she went on a few dates but "didn't have sex or even kiss any of them."
She said I could check her phone if I want to. Obviously she could have just deleted any proof but I'm inclined to believe her considering she was very prudish when we were together and also I was the one that disvirgined her
The problem is I don't know whether I stick to this new babe or accept my ex back
I would advise you accept your girl back. Reason being that the only attraction you have with your current girl is sex related. Fwb shouldn't be considered for lifetime relationship.
destiny4luv: Good day Nairalanders.l; let me go straight to the point. I work off-shore so most of the times I am not always around, some times I can be at work for three months and be given one or two weeks time- off that's just the nature of my job.
But they is something troubling me seriously, when I give my wife instructions regarding anything at all she will first of all ask my Mom before she carries out the instruction I give her, that's if my Mom is in support of the instruction. Recently I gave her an instruction regarding a particular matter while I was on time-off, only for my wife to call me fee weeks later that she has carried out the instruction when the time I told her to carry out that instruction is not yet. I was so mad at her I asked her why can't she wait till the time I told her to do it; she said my Mom came over to the house and told her to do it so she did it. At that point I cut the call.
Later that day my Mom called me and was asking why I cut the call on my wife and refused to pick her call even why she was calling back, I told her she was the course, and she said how, and I told her why will I give my wife instruction and u will come to counter that instruction without the both of u letting me know not after the did has been done. My Mom was angry that can't she have say in my home, I told her to an extent not to the point of countering my instructions. She was very angry we both had some argument on the phone before I told her am late for work I want to cut and she hang up, she knows I was seriously angry with her. Since that day she hasn't called me and I haven't called her too.
My wife called me and apologized that it won't happen again. I forgive her and we both made amend. Now my Mom is not talking to me and my wife at the moment. Please what I did was it wrong or did I over reacted?
I love and respect my Mom likewise my wife, but I won't want her to control my home for me. Should I call her and apologize to her or just let her be till her mind comes down?
No need to apologise. Every man should man up to run his home. Apologizing means you are encouraging the action but you should not stop carrying out your duties towards your mum.
Lifeinbits: Myself and my girlfriend have been dating for almost three years that she sometimes stays in my house too. I have always had the intention of traveling abroad but i don't know how, so last year my girlfriend brought the idea of traveling and how she wants to try US study route and I encouraged her to do so. I also supported her so much with my money by helping her to pay her application fee and TOEFL exam.
While doing all these, we had a conversation and she told me that if she is able to get a fully funded offer that we will be going together and I will be going with her as dependent. Now my girlfriend has gotten admission but she is yet to apply for visa and she has changed plans. She does not want me to go with her rather she is advising that I should also use the study route ifi want to travel.
Note : we had the intentions of getting married but right now she doesn't want us to get marry.
E shock you? Buahaha. Person wey no get naija girlfriend get peace of mind.
adler777: It's actually important for you to contact them. Under normal circumstances, they could be delaying you from getting another potential offer, so remind the HR in a humble way that you need to hear from them so as to know when you would likely resume or if you can consider other offers...
Just be humble about it and mind your choice of words. Good luck bro.
Choice of words and you're telling them you are considering other offers?
jeromestarks: This POS boy charged me N800 to give me 20k (totalling 20,800).
All is even old notes o. Nigerians are the problem of Nigeria. Government is doing their best. Buhari is trying his best but the citizens are the major problem of this country. Haba!
I couldn't return it because I needed cash (transfer no dey work well well - network problem). Don't even get me started on the number of people waiting at ATM. It's not easy.
How is it in your side?
To be honest with you, it's cheap.
They charged me #400 on #5000 withdrawal and that's the best charge in my area because most would charge 10% meaning you should have paid #2000 for your #20 000 withdrawal.
Blame the government for creating such avenue for cheating and bank managers too. In a sane country, there should be heavy sanctions. Infact all bank and operation managers should have been thrown into jail to eat sour beans.
Mirose: Beloved, can any kind hearted person please assist me with little money to get drugs. Am seriously down with malaria and typhoid, and I don't have a dime on me to eat or buy medicine am running temperature please.cant die in silence please help me in any little way. My name is Faith God bless you richly
Look for something to do even if it's pure water selling.
I am not in support of her actions but I hate selective justice. According to the constitution, all citizens are equal before the law. Then why is it that during Buhari daughter's wedding, people were spraying and stepping on the same naira but nothing was done to them.
It's unfortunate but it's job hazard. The bullet proof vehicle is very expensive and man being who he is, selfish would consider himself and family first.
It's for security agencies to consider their men's safety and work out modalities to reduce casualties.