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olanajim:
@poster,
How did you end on his bed when you know he is 46?

Good question!

Keep the innocent baby madam banker.

Once an abuser, always an abuser!

You can't place high hopes on a lady you've never met.
There's more to relationships than just the "phone-talk-enjoyment"

I suggest you meet her first, spend time with her, study her the more. . . from there u can draw your conclusion.

As per the second lady
Do u love her?
Does she meet the specs of your ideal woman?
Do you think that her cheating habit is as good as gone?

Meet the internet lady first, and compare both.

Every rational being gotta put lot of things into thought before u agree to a relationship.
You don't just jump into it like a hired cab.

I won't play hard to get if i like you, but i gotta think deep first.
some of my male friends think am a bouncer, but heck my no will always be no if the clique isn't there.

How did u get four girls on your hands? are they all aware?

To boast (praise) or condemn (whine about their bad sides). .  for gisting sake and laugh, nothing more.
Like someone said, there's more to discuss than man-talk.

Let your actions speak for you.

Funny!

You're funny.

Kelly anyday!! breast implant or outplant. . . u still my beiby!

debosky:
My dear don't confuse yourself. If you wanted answers and this led you to snooping, then you don't TRUST him. SIMPLE!

If you don't trust, don't get back into a relationship. There is no equivocating on the matter. You're either in or OUT. If I don't trust my girlfriend, then there is no point!

Why did you rush back into the relationship without getting your answers? Why be devious and go round his back?

Your story is also suspect. Unless you created a profile with his name and somehow sent a link to her or something, how would she INSTANTLY find you and start romancing? How would she know it wasn't you who created the profile?  

Very typical of guys.

olanajim:
@Diva1,
To begin with, you are wrong, absolutely wrong to put his picture on fb without his permission.

You kidding me?

olanajim:
you didnt tell us why you posted the picture in the first place and what kind of up and down you had before the incidence. The information will be helpful.

Is this necessary in the issue at hand?

@Diva1, time to move on . . . the more u whine about him, the more u get hurt.
Take a walk outta the relationship if a guy tries to shift his guilt when he KNOWS well that he's at fault.

Whao!

Manners man, manners.

What has my posts got to do with the quest?

Experience is the best teacher, go Whitney!

Better put **osisi

Am new, anybody to show me around this Section?

@debosky
Am new and still trying to know who is classic, delusional, friendly et all.

@debosky
Well noted.

I don't say it when i don't mean it, nope.

The thread will be closed by the time am ready to post.

Question: Should we always report to moderators concerning offensive posts before they take action?
Does it mean they(moderators) stand to take no action unless it's reported?

Spike

spikedcylinder:
I could hug you for this. Valid, valid points!

A cyber hug is accepted, thanks.

Pussy whipped indeed!
A real Norbit and Rasputia case.

I see no reason to blame the lady.
The question is; is the guy good? is he treating her well as well? isn't he doing anything to provoke her anger? he saw red light before the marriage and yet tied it, what kept him?

To me, he gotta find a way of solving the problem,  divorce isn't always the solution.  If the lady is not a confirmed lunatic, and they are both adults and matured, let them solve it maturely.

Since he has a problem of observing before entering, what makes him think he will meet a "better" person after this one?

Besides, wouldn't be a bad idea if we hear of the lady's side of the story.

@Kx, stop playing lawyer for ur friend. . . defending him in all spheres.  you know his good sides only and the lady's bad side ONLY. . . he told u the bad story so u may take sides with him. . . not fair.

crazykid:
I don't smoke, so why should I approach someone that smokes. To be honest, I don't really fancy girls that smoke.

When did u become a male?

And most of them are all sneezing with their heads on pillow?

@sillyboy. . . feeling lazy?

chamotex:
You again?
Long time

Pls am lost.

silly boy indeed

grumping

@topic
feeling cold?

The level of absurdity in some of them topics here are mind boggling.

So poster, do u think that any girl in her right senses, even though might be a ho. . . will proudly tell u that she isn't a wife material?