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I think your Dad deserve a second wife to complement his happiness what you have to do is to pray and hope that all things work out well. Your been worried will never yield any positive result to the situation. Even the christian faith will encourage a man who lost his wife to go for second wife, it is far more better than adultery

Trustluv:
this is my first time,i never wanted it bt he forced,althou m a virgin,my hymen is still intact.oh God!pls help me

God will help you since it seem u acted on ignorance but please you have to be very wise as you are welcome to the institution of fornication, never you try to displease yourself in order to please guys as far as pre-marital sex is concern guys can never be pleased. Trying to satisfy them will always land you to trouble and most of them will abandon you in times of the so called trouble

Trustluv:
m 18,his sperm didnt enter my virgina.what an scared of is his semen,d white liquid he secrete wen arouse.m soo scared

It does not need the whole sperm to form, a little drop can do a magic as far as the sperm is active and the two blood match each other. The best solution is obstinacy through out your dangerous period.
To clear your fear please you can go for test so that you will know your stand and the right advice one might offer to you.
Good luck

Ovulation start after the 14th day of your menstruation and last for 3days if you have a regular menstrual cycle like 28days or 30days. Like someone has said above since your period started on 19th of April, if you count from 19th April the 14th day will be on 2nd of May, and will run through 2nd, 3rd, 4th of May. So 4th May is the last day of your ovulation.
The question on whether you will become pregnant. Hmmm! It depends on how effective the fluid you received was, how fertile you are, on the temperature condition of your body when you received the fluid, and on the blood group of both of you. The last day of ovulation is not that active because the egg is fading away that day and would only form if all those factors I listed above are on the positive side.
My advice, if you don't use protection avoid sex 3days before your ovulation start and at least give one day gap when it stopped. Sperm last for 3 good days before it will die so if you had an unprotected sex may be 2days before your ovulation, the egg will meet the sperm and form immediately

You don't have be bothered please let a bye gone be bye gone telling your friend can only add negative effect to whole thing and beside your friend might misinterpret your story and believe that you went to the guy after she took you there. So keep off for it is a military zone

The mistake is done already, I will advice you to stay and carry your cross because you had all the signal you need to stay away yet you were blinded with love and wealth. The divorce you are considering now what will be your basis for it? What petition can you hold against the man?
According to your story the man is loving, faithful and caring even his wife self, so am wondering what will be your stand for the divorce. These are my advice;
Convert to muslim since the man is a muslim faith it will make you win the man's heart more and he will be happy to start introducing you to his friends as you lamented.
Secondly, try as much as possible to get a child for him since his initial intention is the child bearing. This will also make him love you more.
Then, love him more by beginning to focus on those qualities you found in him that made you fell in love with him. I assure you that you are going to enjoy your married life once again forget about what your friends will says please this life is very individual and does not have a general principle.
Say no to "Divorce" unless on the issue of infidelity, humiliation, and carelessness. The Devil you know is far more better than the Angel you do not know.
Good luck

No I will not allow her to serve us like that or even allow her to continue the cooking with such dressing. In a polite way I will encourage her to dress like she is to appear to strangers, she can only dress that way or even more sexier when with me alone and not to every other people, before she will put another person to temptation, Abeg!

The problem is that the OP is not even listening to ideas and suggestions, he just keep on threaten and advertising his succide mission but Op please listen to good people of nairaland and people around you because even if you die now is people that will still burial you I beg there are some other persons that value your life more than you do. No condition is permament

Ewuro4:
Oga, Just out of curiosity

Was she serious about it or jokingly?

I can say that it was jokingly, it was only that reminding part of it is what I don't like. Like I said before we have learnt a lot in this thread

babyosisi:
Can you be sincere to us,is this the only thing she nags shouts.
What other rules has she given you ?

Hahahahaha! Madam I assure u dt she is a vry nice woman and both of us are reading ds comments together so we have learnt a lot in ds thread

I have begining to enjoy this thread as I have started seeing matured contributions. That is one thing I like about nairaland it is very educative, have never spent one minute on nairaland without learning many things. I want to also use this opportunity to thank everybody that have make this thread so interesting and educative. Once again thanks and God bless you

Stillfire:
Well you have a point there though. I don't think I would be up in arms if someone I see day in day out doesn't say thank you.
However if it matters to her, just do it. I mean she's not telling you to rob a bank or do something immoral.
She also has to learn that you were not brought up like that and has to give you some leniency. Marriage is all about compromise.

I think this comment should be a guide line to anyone that will contribute on this topic again, it seems she is the one that understand me most. I neither go against the thank u aspect of it nor trying to justify myself for not doing it sometimes. Please o you people should reason with me a little

It is really painful after spending such amount for a girl and the marriage later hit the rock. Oh! God should please save us o

Goldenboy007:
It stems from our culture, we are not used to saying - sorry, please and thank you. However when you leave your community, those few words will determine your progress in life. She should not demand it but you too have to get used to saying it, not only to her but to everybody. In the business world, thank you goes a long way in determining your success, so learn it now !

Thank you I will try my best to get use of it though I alwys say it to people but I will try and extend it to my wife too for cooking for me because one bros have already said that it is not easy to cook

Stillfire:
By greeting, I guess you mean saying thank you?
So which culture tells you not to acknowledge someone when a favor is being done for you?
Name the culture here.
It's common courtesy to say thank you when someone serves you food.

Bros I hail o please I mean that I was not brought up with it o. I do say thank you to anyone that do a favour to me but remembering to say it each time I ate my wife's food sometimes skipped my mind, I mean we are too used to ourselves to be observing such protocols. Am not trying to justify my action but at least such things should not be mandatory for husband and wife

Goldenboy007:
It stems from our culture, we are not used to saying - sorry, please and thank you. However when you leave your community, those few words will determine your progress in life. She should not demand it but you too have to get used to saying it, not only to her but to everybody. In the business world, thank you goes a long way in determining your success, so learn it now !

Thanks a lot bt am not saying that it is not right bt making it mandatory is wht I dnt like. Remember in my passage I said I do greet sometimes just dt I dnt usually remember it

adanduka:
Does she pay the bills?

Not at all but pls we ar not talkn of who pays d bills here

My wife says I should be greeting her each time I finish eating, if not for anything but for the sake that she take her time prepare the food and serve me. She says that she deserves a greeting from me.

I said okay, just that it is not part of our culture and I don't think I will be keep up greeting her each time she gives me food.

It is not that greeting her will reduce anything from me but the issue is that I don't usually remember this greeting after eating because it is not part of me, although I do greet sometimes for peace to reign, but the way she reminds me of this greeting of a thing gets me angry, as if it is mandatory or something to the extent that sometimes we've had issues because of it.

So daddies and mummies in the house, do you greet your wife after she has given you food? Or do your husband greet you after eating? If yes is it a mandate or just for fun?

Please let me remind you that this is not the issue of been a breadwinner or not. I beg you to forgive my long story and wrong grammer for I am not a grammerian.

Thanks in advance.

Will d 1.5kva carry one flat wt different appliances like deep frezer, air condition, televisions, Dstv, etc. For how long wll it last before d b3 wll run down

Wow I hv not seen my greatest university of Benin on ds list since, and am considering doing M.sc on Educational planning or Educational management there. Pls can someone tell me about their programme too

danbrowndmf:
*Shez nt to beautiful facialy.
*but she hv gt a nyc body(Especially her boobs)which is my favourite part of her body.
*shez Very caren,i mean Very caren
* shez never a cheat
*but she gah me angry alot,cus she talks alot.

My broda she is heaven and earth to me but we quarrel a lot to the extent dt we hardly stay one week without misundastndn eachoda, and we hardly settle it easily

At 72 u stil hv d desire to hv new woman? Hmmm

Hmmm! Ds one big pass me o make I no go talk wetin go make Baba God vess for me

Okay but you could have also give their terms and conditions in terms of the requirements for employment and the salaries


Nice analyses Anyways kudos

Dioxidane:
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Hahahahahahahahahahahaha! Una no go use laugh tear my stomach in ds nairaland, see as u just present am as if u stammer pass d op sef! Very funny

First, by minimizing the way u talk, talk only when it is necessary. Secondly, u hv to be vry slow in ur speech; take time in ur talkn. Thirdly, b alwz bold dt u are a stammerer; pls bros it is ur nature dnt ever feel inferior or less important because of dt, it wll neva in any way devoid u frm wht u are or wht u wll become.
Remember dt Moses was d greatest prophect in d Bible for communicating wt God face to face yet he was a stammerer. Cheers d Lord is ur strength

[color=#770077][/color]See as d woman body structure make sense no wonder d husband is dt jelous, bt he for no beat am reach lik dt na

See as d woman body structure make sense no wonder d husband is dt jelous, bt he for no beat am reach lik dt na

okenwa:
Buy USD tomorrow and resell it the following day, u will have #55,000 extra.
Under GEJ people loose job and naira looses value.

Wht ar d processes of buyn ds USD? I too wll b interested. Thanks in advance

Business is not a bad idea wt dt moni u can set a vry standard business bt I wll advice to use lik 2m and start for now while leave d rest in d bank. Bt if u dnt lik buyn n selln dt much u can try transportation business, as in buy a sound bus and register it in anoda person's company on agreed percentage, wt less stress u wll b make a cool cash while searchn for anoda job

I love the analyses keep it rolling much things have been learnt already from this thread. How I wish I have any to contribute but never the less @op I pray that God will guide u through

I am a final year student of political science Education at uniben and am still desiring to further my study but the issue now is that I have two option in mind, one I'm considering of writing post direct entry exam this year that will usher me admission into law to do my second decree, or to do my M.SC on international relation. Please without considering the financial implications I will need advice on which to choose between these two option. Thanks in advance