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Family / Re: Husband Wants Wife To Refund N1.4m Marriage Expenses by Dera25(m): 5:25pm On Apr 30, 2015
It is really painful after spending such amount for a girl and the marriage later hit the rock. Oh! God should please save us o
Family / Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Dera25(m): 5:14pm On Apr 30, 2015
Goldenboy007:
It stems from our culture, we are not used to saying - sorry, please and thank you. However when you leave your community, those few words will determine your progress in life. She should not demand it but you too have to get used to saying it, not only to her but to everybody. In the business world, thank you goes a long way in determining your success, so learn it now !
Thank you I will try my best to get use of it though I alwys say it to people but I will try and extend it to my wife too for cooking for me because one bros have already said that it is not easy to cook

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Family / Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Dera25(m): 5:04pm On Apr 30, 2015
Stillfire:
By greeting, I guess you mean saying thank you? undecided
So which culture tells you not to acknowledge someone when a favor is being done for you?
Name the culture here.
It's common courtesy to say thank you when someone serves you food.
Bros I hail o please I mean that I was not brought up with it o. I do say thank you to anyone that do a favour to me but remembering to say it each time I ate my wife's food sometimes skipped my mind, I mean we are too used to ourselves to be observing such protocols. Am not trying to justify my action but at least such things should not be mandatory for husband and wife

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Family / Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Dera25(m): 4:57pm On Apr 30, 2015
Goldenboy007:
It stems from our culture, we are not used to saying - sorry, please and thank you. However when you leave your community, those few words will determine your progress in life. She should not demand it but you too have to get used to saying it, not only to her but to everybody. In the business world, thank you goes a long way in determining your success, so learn it now !
Thanks a lot bt am not saying that it is not right bt making it mandatory is wht I dnt like. Remember in my passage I said I do greet sometimes just dt I dnt usually remember it

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Family / Re: Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Dera25(m): 4:53pm On Apr 30, 2015
adanduka:
Does she pay the bills?
Not at all but pls we ar not talkn of who pays d bills here

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Family / Wife Insisted I Greet Her After She Have Given Me Food by Dera25(m): 4:36pm On Apr 30, 2015
My wife says I should be greeting her each time I finish eating, if not for anything but for the sake that she take her time prepare the food and serve me. She says that she deserves a greeting from me.

I said okay, just that it is not part of our culture and I don't think I will be keep up greeting her each time she gives me food.

It is not that greeting her will reduce anything from me but the issue is that I don't usually remember this greeting after eating because it is not part of me, although I do greet sometimes for peace to reign, but the way she reminds me of this greeting of a thing gets me angry, as if it is mandatory or something to the extent that sometimes we've had issues because of it.

So daddies and mummies in the house, do you greet your wife after she has given you food? Or do your husband greet you after eating? If yes is it a mandate or just for fun?

Please let me remind you that this is not the issue of been a breadwinner or not. I beg you to forgive my long story and wrong grammer for I am not a grammerian.

Thanks in advance.

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Family / Re: Stop Buying Fuel For Your Generator Every Night, Use Solar Power And Inverter by Dera25(m): 5:16pm On Apr 28, 2015
Will d 1.5kva carry one flat wt different appliances like deep frezer, air condition, televisions, Dstv, etc. For how long wll it last before d b3 wll run down
Education / Re: Nigerian Universities With The Fastest Masters Degree Programmes by Dera25(m): 11:38pm On Apr 23, 2015
Wow I hv not seen my greatest university of Benin on ds list since, and am considering doing M.sc on Educational planning or Educational management there. Pls can someone tell me about their programme too
Romance / Re: Describe Your EX by Dera25(m): 4:47pm On Apr 05, 2015
danbrowndmf:
*Shez nt to beautiful facialy.
*but she hv gt a nyc body(Especially her boobs)which is my favourite part of her body.cheesy
*shez Very caren,i mean Very caren
* shez never a cheat
*but she gah me angry alot,cus she talks alot.sad
My broda she is heaven and earth to me but we quarrel a lot to the extent dt we hardly stay one week without misundastndn eachoda, and we hardly settle it easily
Family / Re: 72 Years Old Man Seeks Dissolution Of His 44 Years Old Marriage by Dera25(m): 11:11pm On Mar 22, 2015
At 72 u stil hv d desire to hv new woman? Hmmm

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Family / Re: Sex is not a Sin by Dera25(m): 5:25pm On Mar 21, 2015
Hmmm! Ds one big pass me o make I no go talk wetin go make Baba God vess for me
Career / Re: Top 100 Best Companies/firms To Work For In Nigeria by Dera25(m): 1:46pm On Mar 21, 2015
Okay but you could have also give their terms and conditions in terms of the requirements for employment and the salaries


Nice analyses Anyways kudos
Family / Re: , by Dera25(m): 9:43pm On Mar 19, 2015
Dioxidane:
Teeetetetell teteteheheethe pepepepepeerson totototototo be diiidididirinking hohohohot water aaand oooriririrgin... Wewewewehen you dododo thaaat one you vivivivisit this sisisisite (m.wikihow.com/Stop-Stuttering)
Hahahahahahahahahahahaha! Una no go use laugh tear my stomach in ds nairaland, see as u just present am as if u stammer pass d op sef! Very funny
Family / Re: , by Dera25(m): 9:39pm On Mar 19, 2015
First, by minimizing the way u talk, talk only when it is necessary. Secondly, u hv to be vry slow in ur speech; take time in ur talkn. Thirdly, b alwz bold dt u are a stammerer; pls bros it is ur nature dnt ever feel inferior or less important because of dt, it wll neva in any way devoid u frm wht u are or wht u wll become.
Remember dt Moses was d greatest prophect in d Bible for communicating wt God face to face yet he was a stammerer. Cheers d Lord is ur strength

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Family / Re: Neighbours Stand And Watch As Husband Beats His Wife Almost To Death For Cheatin by Dera25(m): 6:16pm On Mar 15, 2015
[color=#770077][/color]See as d woman body structure make sense no wonder d husband is dt jelous, bt he for no beat am reach lik dt na
Family / Re: Neighbours Stand And Watch As Husband Beats His Wife Almost To Death For Cheatin by Dera25(m): 6:11pm On Mar 15, 2015
See as d woman body structure make sense no wonder d husband is dt jelous, bt he for no beat am reach lik dt na
Family / Re: I Have Just Lost My Job - What Can I Do Now? by Dera25(m): 5:16pm On Mar 15, 2015
okenwa:
Buy USD tomorrow and resell it the following day, u will have #55,000 extra.
Under GEJ people loose job and naira looses value.
Wht ar d processes of buyn ds USD? I too wll b interested. Thanks in advance
Family / Re: I Have Just Lost My Job - What Can I Do Now? by Dera25(m): 5:13pm On Mar 15, 2015
Business is not a bad idea wt dt moni u can set a vry standard business bt I wll advice to use lik 2m and start for now while leave d rest in d bank. Bt if u dnt lik buyn n selln dt much u can try transportation business, as in buy a sound bus and register it in anoda person's company on agreed percentage, wt less stress u wll b make a cool cash while searchn for anoda job
Career / Re: I Need A Career Adviser Please by Dera25(m): 6:50am On Mar 12, 2015
I love the analyses keep it rolling much things have been learnt already from this thread. How I wish I have any to contribute but never the less @op I pray that God will guide u through

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Career / M.SC or Second Degree Which One Is more Preferable by Dera25(m): 6:16am On Mar 12, 2015
I am a final year student of political science Education at uniben and am still desiring to further my study but the issue now is that I have two option in mind, one I'm considering of writing post direct entry exam this year that will usher me admission into law to do my second decree, or to do my M.SC on international relation. Please without considering the financial implications I will need advice on which to choose between these two option. Thanks in advance
Business / Re: How Do I Run A Dollar Business Using Domicillian Acc. by Dera25(m): 3:47pm On Mar 09, 2015
bedfordng:
you have to buy cheap and sell high.the question is how will you get it cheap for it to be paid directly to your dom account because most people make use of black market.also, you need to be trusted by customers because some people would want to see you in person to transact business immediately.trust is needed in this case.getting customer is also another thing you will have to work on.
Thanks a lot I appreciate bt bros can we talk one on one please my no is 08035546863
Business / Re: Thread For Dollar To Naira Daily by Dera25(m): 12:47pm On Mar 09, 2015
mavinc4u:

https://www.nairaland.com/1971299/how-get-dollar-pounds-euro
Thanks for the information bt I dnt knw if someone wll b gracious enough to give me the priviledge to meet him/her one on one so that I wll still hv more light abt ds business. My no is 08035546863 I dnt mind coming to any part of d country
Business / How Do I Run A Dollar Business Using Domicillian Acc. by Dera25(m): 11:40pm On Mar 08, 2015
Please anyone with the idea of running dollar, Euro or pounds business through a domicillian account. What are the risks and the capital for a start up as well as how viable is the business. One guy around my area was doing this business sometimes last year according to him the business was very lucrative but he refused to teach me for reasons best known to him. So please for the sake of nairaland one family I will be very delight if I can know about the business here on nairaland. Am very much okay if you choose it to be privately or secretly u can alert me on whatsapp 08035546863. Thanks in advance
Business / Re: Thread For Dollar To Naira Daily by Dera25(m): 10:44pm On Mar 08, 2015
Pls I wll need assistance on ds dollar business as in purchasing dollar online. My friend was doing it before bt he refuse to teach me so I wll b vry hppy if I achieve it in nairaland family
Family / Re: What Is Your Age Gap In Your Marriage? by Dera25(m): 1:30pm On Mar 08, 2015
Not yet bt proposing to have d same age

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Crime / Re: ‘I Killed Our 3-day-old Baby To Cover Up Pre-marital Sex’ by Dera25(m): 3:10pm On Mar 07, 2015
And am sure that as soon as they were release now they will start having a marital sex to have a marital child. This act is more sinful than abortion I mean this girl must have had the heart of murder without having a guilty conscience. RIP to the soul of the innocent child

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Education / Re: LASU Law Accreditations Denied (help) by Dera25(m): 8:54pm On Mar 03, 2015
But what was the reasons for the denial? And what is the stand of the school authrity/management over the new development?
Family / Re: "My Wife Wears Sexy Dresses..but Wouldn't Let Me Touch Her" A Husband by Dera25(m): 3:41pm On Feb 18, 2015
D husband should sit her down to speak senses into her brain abt d so called job because it seems she value d job more dan d husband. Lets I forget, who is d bread winner of d family? because if she is d one, dt means d woman must hv some reasons to justify her action

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Health / Re: Doctors Putting Hands On Private Parts During Antenatal by Dera25(m): 4:31pm On Feb 17, 2015
babyme1:
Marry her first before worrying about ante-natals. Next
Sister I know that I will marry her but that is not the issue please I want to know if it is true, then if yes, how do u ladies cope with the male doctors?

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Health / Doctors Putting Hands On Private Parts During Antenatal by Dera25(m): 4:23pm On Feb 17, 2015
Please I need a matured advice, I have been having this argument with my fiancee and I want to confirm from the house especially ladies. She said that during antenatal there is a stage the doctor will start putingt his hand on the private part to examine the condition of the baby. But my problem with this is not only to confirm the authenticity of this story but I am feeling so disgusted on how a male doctor will be putting hands on someone's darling wife because of antenatal not even during child birth. No insult please

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