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But good girls are wise na..

almarthins:
Don't let what you re seeing brainwash you to think that being good is not good enough. Many of those bad girls, you see out there have inherited invisible problems. Only to surface when they less think.

Be good out of season, in season. It does not mean you have to be stupid. Be wise too

Even bad girls won't recommend a fellow bad girl for marriage to their brothers.

Don't allow anyone deceive you.No one goes to the market to buy a rotten mango when there are good ones.
Even bad guys prefer good girls for marriage... The bad girls are for experiment for bad guys.

Stargurl20:
I'm not saying been bad to people in general but u know the good gurl of a thing, right? Is there really any gain in that? Coz to the best of my knowledge, the so called bad gurls are excelling far better in all ramifications than good gurls. Even guys will choose the over the gurls any time.

That Deeper life boy..Not sure he is still a deeperlifer sha.
The elder sister too is very intelligent.

Terrence99:
Ike Anisiobi an Igbo boy who was he first winner when Bola Tinubu was Lagos Governor wore that same Tinubu logo cap. Today, he's an international oil and gas engineer who started his career at Oando.

You that you didn't wear it, what have you achieved with your life?

Na those kain "come and join me" invitation whereas na only one spoon dey the rice.

vibre:
You invite us but you no come put venue, this invitation come from your heart like this ? Congrats sha, enjoy

I think it signifies authority amongst title holders in igboland.it seems he wants to be seen as a culture man and not the suit wearing governor.
But wait o...e be like say na only Sanwo-olu dey wear suit amongst the governors now

twilliamx:
Lmao..no be juju be that?

I pray some envious politicians in the state won't "arrange"him o.Because if he demystifies governance, people would start asking questions
I know the external enemies aren't sleeping too.

Staff of office...

twilliamx:
Whats with the elephant tusk?

I already alluded to the bolded.Some men love intelligent ladies and would love to hear their wife's input.
However, when he senses constant impolite disagreement, he's likely to stop anything that encourages it.

You keep mentioning insecurity, but do you know most ladies standing up to their husbands have complex and are the insecure ones? There are easy ways to make your husband respect you. Attitude is everything.
Except for transformed individuals, Women seem to love the "bad" guys more. Those that act like, "if you like you can go", "I'm only obligated to do these because you're now with me"...

I have seen men who won't praise their wives in their presence but praise them to the high heavens when with friends.You can't blame them,I personal believe most women allow praises get to their head unlike men.

Blunttruth:
How does she show how stupid the man is? Sometimes it's the men's insecurities that makes him imagine things and read meaning to the most harmless statements. Even when it's matters that are just general topics once the woman's opinion differs ,it's a problem. Submission doesn't mean a woman should not air her opinion on matters. You air your opinion with politely, if the man does not accept it then you go along with him, but it will be on record that you objected. Next time he will ask you or such your opinion of he is wise.

Forget the noise, na 35% affirmative action dem dey fight for.Many women don't take nonsense o.And they know themselves too.
Maybe that's why God didn't give them dominion over men.

JosephXavier:
Please I would like to hear the opinion of Nairaland feminists

Yes, so many things happen and people easily conclude erroneously.
Submission is a deep topic I struggle with.I must confess,it's not easy.
Do you know sometimes, the man may not be serious with his demand but when the woman starts showing how stupid the man is and standing up to him, the devil in the man would surface. Do you think any man loves a woman without her own mind? The way you go about it is what makes the man appreciate you.
Even Jesus at Gethsemane said "not my will but Your will be done". Submission to man is how he understands Love/Value/Trust.Telling a man I love you is skindeep.

True Submission attracts power...

It's not just for women but spiritually too.

Blunttruth:
You are right,but to the bolded part, i have seen such happen several times. Some men can't stand women who have a voice,who can think who can question wrong decisions. They see it as not being submissive and that the woman is challenging their authority.

IQ stands for intelligence quotient and, in short, it is a measure of a person's reasoning ability. In other words, an IQ test is supposed to gauge how well someone can use information and logic to answer questions or make predictions
This is why a lady can be good at work but unable to win her husband's heart.
Marriage is not academic and is different from academics...
Emotions, illogicalities, and other things crop up.

The greatest charm that would break any man down is submission. No man loves a stubborn woman as a wife. Forget, those weird relationships where you find confused people.

You don't need to be intelligent to be submissive to your spouse. But you need to be wise and strong to be a submissive wife.

The man doesn't need to demand it, just as your wife doesn't need to demand Love. It should be freely given.

The way you talk sometimes makes one ask whether you consult widely or you just want to argue.
So when God wants us to submit to Him, He doesn't love us?
I know you don't understand what it means to submit in marriage. For you, it is slavishness or subjugation.

Kobojunkie:
submission equates to ceding control over one's existence to another. No intelligent human out there would want that for any other being he or she loves and respects.

Not necessarily bro.
A person can have a high IQ but not submissive.

Zonefree:
It takes a lady with Great IQ to be submissive.

Have you seen a feminist with an IQ above 2 before?

Being submissive doesn't mean being dumb. It's a product of discipline and prudence.

Intelligence or high I.Q isn't the same as Wisdom.

It takes wisdom and effort to be submissive..
Wise employers would ALWAYS go for loyal and teachable employees over intelligent and mannerless ones.
The later would ultimately become better and more productive over time.

Marriage is not something you can easily change like a job.
If your aim is long-term and peace, A submissive spouse is definitely the way to go.

Ebele Obiano might have high I.Q but her show of shame shows she's corky and disrespectful.

Blunttruth:
Great IQ, is a no brainer. But people who are insecure and can't stand being around someone like that will opt for the submissive dumb one. Think about the kids you will have, don't let your ego make you have a 50/50 chance of having a dumb child.

Na wa for you o.So the bolded is the new definition for Ashawo abi?

MadamVanessa:



Very stupid wife that have zero regards for her husband, her position and her children. A tout she is.

She's even lucky, if it was to be some men, that marriage will end immediately that yesterday.

There are things you don't do as a public figure no matter the level of provocation.

What right have she to called Bianca Ashewo?? Was she not Ashawo too? Inasmuch as she married Obiano and she opens her legs for him,she's ashawo regardless of if she's married or not
Let me not even talk of her sexual escapede when she was single woman. Stupid woman, having the gut to called a fellow woman ashawo in public with no iota of shame, forgetting that she's ashawo pro too.

Ebelechukwu Obiano Is a big disgrace to us women

There's a Yoruba axiom that says "Eefin ni'wa". Meaning Character is like smoke It's difficult to conceal.
There's a roommate,back in school I can't forget his surname too.His surname is Asoobowa- Clothes can't hide Character.

Truth be told, most women will misbehave like this if given power. People think men are chauvinistic when they say women should concentrate on their God-given roles.

That's why whenever I see the way some ladies talk just because they've gotten some education, I pity those clapping for them. Education shouldn't make you proud or arrogant.

The Ebele of a woman must have chided the Husband as a fool or weakling who doesn't know what to do with power.

"Who is she? Watch me put her in her place...this is my time...." blablabla

Now she'd understand the need for wisdom.

Mummyfour:
And we are still in the mood of international women's Day celebration o.

Chai!! This woman fall hand no be small

I pray she doesn't commit suicide with all these backlashes.

What a way to exit government House.
What a shame..
She disrespected her husband, Left him where he was sitting to go and collect a wig and face bone resetting slap

I just dey pity obiano.

What a wife.
If she is like a wounded lioness in public how would she be like in private.?
Shame just dey catche for her.

When will people, especially women understand that everything no be gra grab.

Now she will be turning the hands of the clock in her mind, wishing it didn't happen.

I keep wondering what would have made this woman to loose her self control and poise in a public place for God sake?.

At a big gathering o!!!

One of the boys resemble victor moses

But which kain title dem give igbokwe so?
Instead of them to just say an APC chieftain also from Anambra state...

Which one be Drainage matters?

You sure say ex-governors no go join so.

Kajaard:
Lol

All Nigerian first ladies must receive farewell slaps from now on while leaving office

I don't think so.Remember he has print and electronic media houses.
And don't forget, na where dem dey wash hand we go know who go rush food o.

Tinubu means business but Man will continue to be man and God will remain God who rules in the affairs of men

Ogbuefi2020:
Tinubu started making noise too early, watch how his noise will be dwarfed in coming months

Nah , those ones would only be investors. I don't think Soludo would honor those ones. I suspect he'll use intellectuals and invite the moneybags to invest.

ImoleNaija:
Let's hope Obi Cubana would be honoured with an appointment.

Some of those intellectuals are worse.Some of them lose their thinking caps immediately they join the baba isales of the party, who make them swear oath of secrecy.This is part of the ways they keep them in check.Some of these intellectuals were even occultists before joining sef. As much as it's important to have cerebral people in the helm of affairs, it is more important to have humane people that would push for people centered policies.
I believe an educated devil is more dangerous than an illiterate devil.

johnjay4u2u:
Good
Not just awarding "noncerebral" party members just for political reasons.

Brain over friendship.

Good to point out that intellectual people need to register as party members. We shouldn't leave politics to touts, dropouts and illiterates.

The tone of the letter is unnecessary.

PrinceOfLagos:
https://dailypost.ng/2022/03/17/2023-presidency-stop-planting-seed-of-discord-among-ndigbo-yorubas-ohanaeze-youths-to-tinubu/

Who told you?Irunmole don dey collect bribe pass Kyari o.People dey enter shrine carry idol go sell sef. Do you know how many kings they set ablaze nowadays?
Forget all those story that our politicians fear sango...many of dem dey get power from India .

GODPUNISHALABI:
or ogun or amadioha ...u know say nigerians fear traditional dieties pass Christian God or Allah

Won ja nile keji, kilo kan e? E je ama sogba wa.

Well maybe some were praising her but most were making a joke out of the whole issue.

By your token, if sanwoolu's wife walks up to HID Awolowo's widow to disrespect her (even as a first lady) do you think the comment would be different?
Intact, it will be worse because many will deny her as true Yoruba girl.

Alexis11:
Lol...

I see the way Igbos are praising Bianca for slapping a fellow woman and I'm trying to imagine their reactions and comments if it is Remi Tinubu that slap a governor's wife in the West...

Hypocrites

I Trust politicians...dem go useless this woman so much so she'd say she doesn't want to go the Senate again.From this communiqué, it suggests that they despise Ebele.Kai

Arysexy:
My attention has been drawn to the shameful conduct of the wife of the ex-governor and former first lady of Anambra State, Mrs Ebelechukwu Obiano, who threw decorum away and attacked Her Excellency, Ambassador Bianca Ojukwu at today's inauguration ceremony and I hereby condemn in very strong terms, this unwarranted attack against H.E Mrs. Bianca Odumegwu Ojukwu, the wife of an illustrious son and our very our own Ikemba.

I wish to add that the act exhibited by the former first lady was indecorous and unbecoming of a woman who had acted as a mother of the state and even desirous of serving in other capacities.

More condemnable is even the gutter and vulgar language used by Mrs Obiano to describe her fellow woman, who is even a widow. I have always held the view that it is only weak minds that label hardworking women like Bianca with nasty names such as "ashawo" and it is more unfortunate when a woman, especially one that has been around the corridors of power, is the one hurling such baseless and regretful invectives against a fellow woman.

What the world witnessed today at the swearing in ceremony is utterly disgraceful, unfortunate, crude and should never be emulated by the millions of our young girls and women who often look up to public figures with respect to how they conduct themselves.

Only a few days ago, an innocent woman was publicly paraded naked in the same community our former first lady hails from and one would have thought that rather than showcase this brute nature of fighting and engaging in public fisticuffs with her guest, she should have exerted same energy and fighting spirit in ensuring that Justice is done for that widow.

It saddens me a great deal to see the wife of an illustrious Anambra son, the pride of Ndigbo and an achiever that was once an ambassador of the Federal Republic, being attacked unprovoked and I join all right thinking persons in praying that we never ever record this type of travesty again in our history as a state.

*Senator Stella Adaeze Oduah*

This life ehn...what a sad and shameful way to leave the stage.Imagine the joy when they were sworn in.
This definitely would affect her chance of going to the Senate.
Some men can even send their wives packing the day they hear that you fought publicly.

Na wa for you o...which kain yeye current be dat? You wan make Bianca finish Obiano's wife?You think say na only one slap gift dey her handbag? Plenty slap-gifts still dey her handbag o.Ebele Suppose go thank God.Maybe she for naked am sef.... As woman fight no dey pass draw hair and naked demsef

toujurs:
That is how she keeps her face at most times, all these jobless twitter people ehn, she isn't that petty.

That man that used that opportunity to tap current, walaihi that man is mad, and should be arrested is that how his village people taught him to separate a fight, the werey never touch fine woman for him life ,

Ever heard of affray? Wetin you think say e go happen if na poor pipu go fight during such occasion?

Blackdisciple:
For what na, pesin no fit slap or fight again??