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All these people commenting, where did you get your stories from? I watched the clip and I didn't hear one single word in English language. Does everyone on NL now understand Igbo language? It's shameful for some jaundiced fellows here to speak about what they don't understand.

I'm curious to know, why is the man dressed up? Why is the woman not protesting atleast? Would a community just turn against her because her husband died having sex with his wife? There's something the Op isn't telling us.

So what would you say about Rafiu Abbas from Oyo? Is Oyo in the Southeast too?
Tribalism no dey help anybody.

Totilopussylick:
Pastor Ekwem Ugochukwu e is it not one of the descendants people of south east


Osinbanjo here is one of the models .

Of course some up to 3days.Just reminding you that not all women go into labor for long.

Simran94:
Just say you haven’t heard of or seen women go into labor for an hour or more

Insecurities? Thanks for giving a new shade to the word

Hanks0000:
My comments not yours..
Toouch insecurities.

Pretty long?Wetin 2005 go come talk?

Hanks0000:
Been pretty long.
2014/15 but I wasn't a meme untill 2017.

Jennyclay:
There is this joy that a woman derives when nursing a baby even though it is kind of stressful. But you see pregnancy, it is more challenging oo!

Pregnancy will make you feel so uncomfortable, you will be falling sick most times and many other pregnancy complications. Abeg.. Pregnancy is challenging.

Some women have easy pregnancy while some don't. But to be quite honest, dealing with postpartum hormones would be the hardest.

Let talk about labor: you're gonna keep Pushing!! Infact you will keep pushing for an hour. It is the most frustrating experience.

Take am easy na....some don't even push for more than 5mins.That doesn't detract from the pain of labour.But God has also given women that special hormone to endure the pain.So when some women come and say do you think it's easy to menstruate, carry pregnancy and birth babies; I find it misplaced.

Cucuta:
E go just arrest all of Una, lock Una up.

How you sure say no be Putin dey use style dey speak through dem? Program wey no be live show...you know the amount of censoring wey the recorded program don undergo?
If this tori true, it's a case of the hand of the oligarchs and the voice of Putin

Rogozin again?

As much as I don't support Putin's actions, I feel for Abramovich
Anyways, I'm just thinking what Track would have been sung by the racist choir of NL if Abramovich was a blackman. Another testament to the fact that it's not about color.

@the bolded
That'd confirm that they are not professional....
I think that position by the interviewee should move the police/governor to restore public confidence.

Kingpele:
How did u know, this family should not be granting interviews in this mourning period because they could say things that can damage the case ,if the government and police got to read where this guy said they have lost confidence in the system, the morale of those handling the case will go down .they might as well throw the case away and damn the consequences..our media people are heartless, they can't even give this family sometime to mourn their loved one in peace..may your soul rest in peace pretty girl

And who decides those?
Some things are constant even in mathematical equations there is a Constant with all the variables.

You just dey make me laff..
We ain't talking about academics bro we are talking reality.
It's the role of a woman in procreation to carry the foetus in her womb and not to provide the sperm.

irunoko:
and I'm saying gender roles are things of the past.nobody cares if you are a man or woman.the issue is can you do this work effectively? Are you a problem solver? Challenges is not a respecter of gender roles.if its the woman that is paying the bills,fine,if it's both of them,super excellent but the point is when it comes to work or family responsibilities,there are no gender roles and there should be no gender roles.just fix the issue,that's all

In simple terms bro,

A man can't be a woman and a woman can't be a man.
Every work isn't office based too.
Even as a man who value your marriage and family you can't take every job because of marriage.

Stop defending these set of women who are looking for excuses to get undue advantage abeg.

The Okonjo iwealas and Ibukun Awosikas no be women? And dem no get children?

irunoko:
women. Aren't working Because of the inadequacies of their men,they are working BECAUSE THEY HAVE TO.Anybody wey no work,Na hunger go kill them.meanwhile you're referring to male soildiers fighting bokoharam.as if bokoharam aren't already killing them like flies

In the days of old women too also went to war,they protested for what they want and they had it so his comment is very misogynistic

Oga it's not a matter of hands and legs.
Just saying don't call someone misogynist simply because he voiced an opinion that clearly states gender roles that women are better adapted to. By the way, he is looking at it from an angle that many ignore which i believe is important. Would you prefer a home that is broken because the wife is overambitious?

It's unfortunate that people don't know some married men sacrifice and endure all sorts in their carrier because of marriage too.

A good marriage increases us howbeit not without sacrifices. It's an illusion to think you'll continue living your life like it was before marriage. Those who cherish their career above marriage are free NOT to marry. And who says you can't have more in marriage? After all, two are better than one.

Summary,
Marriage comes with it's own responsibilities.None of them was forced to marry.If marriage isn't important to them, they shouldn't disturb us with their new way of thinking that is creating confusion everywhere.Na choice

irunoko:
if God didn't want women to work and be successful,he won't create then with hands.he Will only provide hands and legs for the men but statements like his irritates me.meanwhile if a girl is lazy and entitled,una go still tag am say she no wan work.now to see a woman working and becoming a success out of it is giving people like him sleepless nights

Imagine using marriage as an alibi.Those supreme court judges are they not married abi? You forgot to tell us that some of these women's promotion are also influenced by marriage.

Una go just they cherrypick wetin go dabaru the lives of these new generation girls.
They'd never tell you about successful women who are married. Na those ones wey see cooking simple meal for children and husband as bondage dem go dey show us. Always looking for someone to blame for their choices.

Na wa for you o.. That statement has bagged him misogynist sharp sharp.Una go just they use strong words like say na una invent am.
Your type would not hesitate to accuse him of misandry if a female says a man can't birth and breastfeed a baby.

What is wrong in trying to make him see why the bench isn't an exclusive preserve of men.That way everyone will learn.

irunoko:
misogynist
I'm sure it drives you crazy to see women doing well at work

You can as well tell your daughter not to work because she's a female as if working is gender specific

Don't worry ma'am. There are still about 7000 men who haven't bowed to the baal of stupidity masquerading as Western civilization.
There are also Obadiahs who have hidden these men from Ahab and his Jezebel. We don't care their empty girama here or elsewhere. Righteousness is our goal.

To boot, there'll always be a remnant of good boys and decent girls.

sweetmelanin:
This break up is paining a lot of Nigerian women who idolize the fantasy that you can be a whoore, have no self- respect, reveal your body anyhow, exhibit jezebel-like behaviour under the guise of "liberation" and still have a supportive simp by your side (in the case of Korra, a white man)

I'm glad more men are waking up sha ...gives me hope while raising my young king in this wicked generation.

I don't justify what she did.But as a normal human being without an inner transformation, it's not easy to move on after 4kids? You don't know what she went through for him, she may have lost everything(including family) because of him..all of a sudden, after 4kids, the guy decides to leave her E no go easy my broda for ladies... Forget all these NL girls wey just dey make mouth.Did you notice she killed herself too?

TheWolfen:
@The-Bolded
That is pure witchcraft.
No be juju be that? Lol.

I knew it is true for most women because I have had some toxic ex in the past. But that is a dark trait and things aren't done that way. She ought heal and move on if not for the sake of anything but for her kids with him.
So you see too much emotions cloud her judgement. There is no justification for her dumb and rash decision. . .
Not even heaven will support such action on the father of her kids

But you funny o...So if he says amen, that proves he is Yoruba? Iyen o n'itumo

Praying or cursing a person sounds like a joke especially if a person considers you spiritually insignificant..
He may a political agenda and looking at your monicker, you have no apologies being a bigot, what I expected you to do is counter Deji's view.
And never thing all igbos or Yorubas think alike.

Nyanmiridunce:
For us to believe you're truly a Yoruba as you've been claiming, do us a favour by saying a loud AMEN to this simple and short prayer.

"You will always know peace both in mind and soul if you're truly a Yoruba guy as you've claim but if you've been disguising to be a Yoruba just for some political agenda, may you not know peace in your life."

Say AMEN

You funny o.. Russia never enter this war but generals don dey die anyhow?Na so generals easy to delete?

Fight never start but nose don dey bleed

StaffofOrayan:
Russia has not entered this war yet!
These are mostly militias from satellite countries,

Her passion for him was misdirected. She wouldn't mind to end it all. Life don tire Sarah.

Don't be quick to judge.We don't know what happened but you can be sure the woman can't stand to see him go.
She prolly wouldn't have done this if the guy remained without a girlfriend.
I'll like to know what actually happened. Why are 3kids staying with the man, where's the 4th one?

TheWolfen:
Nahhh they can take every bullshit but they won't take this particular one u mentioned. Lol

I pray the man survive and as for his ex wife, she proves why her husband divorced her in the first place. She is hotheaded, toxic and stubborn individual

How so?
Christians are to love everyone but won't join the multitude to do evil.Christians follow Christ NOT Pastors.

OBALOLA55:
THAT’S CHRISTIANITY FOR YOU

Kperooghi is trying to be clever by half.
Waiting to see him tell us what Muslims are doing now.

buckeyemedia:
Amaechi? It seems you no nothing about Nigeria, [s]South South can never rule Nigeria again, [/s]Jonathan was a mistake President, chosen solely by Obasanjo to be VP because he knew the deputy governor was a weak man to a dying Yaradua.

Yoruba is a majority tribe, they will defeat the whole South South combined 7 times over, from your words I can tell you are from the South East?

It's like you can see tomorrow and add breath to the nostrils of anyone you wish.
Even the Jonathan that ruled, ask yourself, was it because you wanted it? Stop allowing this your unwholesome passion becloud you.
Someone just told you his desire, the next thing is, he must be from the Southeast to support Southsouth?
Kai

This is not the best way to advertise the site. Get a good digital marketer.It's not that hard bro.If you continue this way, you'll be sending the wrong message. My two kobo

NwaScore442222:
I just registed on the forum . Nice features. I was hoping Nairaland would add those features. Up Ghana.com (I also removed the space between Up and Ghana)

I see them trying to deflect the issue of ritual and his possible collaborators. This is an attempt to make it look like a serial rapist and that bamise could have died in the process of rape.

How are we not sure this lady is one of those he had transactions with in the past? Somebody raped you like that and you know he works with a well known organization, he has sent you money, you can identify him even with the lights switched off..

She could even be one of those people aboard the bus that bamise spoke about.

In a way most criticism here on NL is tribal based.Did you notice how many people here on NL started praising Sadiq Umar after he scored against E.Guinea?I can tell you that the people you claim are loved aren't loved but only praised when they do well.

Many who don't know much about Garuba Lawal also thought he was there because of quota system.

On the surface, it seems Nigerians don't care about your tribe once we are winning but beneath that veneer is that these players are still viewed as Igbo, Yoruba or Hausa.

johnfarida2011:
That was how one person here on Nairaland was saying that the criticism on Maduka is because he is Igbo. Is Carl Ikeme not Igbo? And is he not very much loved and adored here in Nigeria? Don't we love Iheanacho? Don't we still adore Okocha, Kanu, and many of our other legends who are Igbos?

They want to destroy our biggest unifying factor.

It is our duty as Nigerians to ensure that tribalism is never brought near our Super Eagles.

Wia una dey get all these funny ideas wey una dey use muscle talk for NL?
So you think she started going to night clubs after she married Dbanj?

Stevenson1:
No matter how introverted you are... Once you meet that one crazy person whom you love without limit, you go begin mad as it goes.
Introverts are for people wey no get love life.
See dbanj wife wey no gree snap for camera then, is now twerking on camera. E be things.
Banger! Osinanwata buru ogaranya.

I like the flux of your post but I find it hard to reconcile the bolded.
That aside, it wasn't as if the criticism is unprovoked. She wanted to be seen and known.She may be able to influence those without a mind of their own but there's a sizeable lot who won't fall for those things she does online. Many will ignore her, some would respond out of genuine concern But these self-styled influencers are too arrogant to know where to apply the brakes.

othermen:
Korra is a very enterprising individual, she’s beautiful and she’s a star. You may not have or share her values, but it’s in being different, that we are distinguishable.

We should respect people’s choices even if such doesn’t align with ours She dances, she generates interest, she is an influencer, she makes money; she has used her platform to promote her husband, she has used her platform to promote up and coming local musicians, she has inspired women, that it’s possible that after childbirth, you can be attractive. And she has done most of these, along side- her husband…but above all, listen to her perspective, she educates. Her joy and that of her family whether together or not is what matters. That’s what matters, not our opinions.

Personally, I have always admired the family from a distance; the happiness and bonding that is projected is what every family should aspire towards.

but whatever it’s that is now happening; they know what’s best for them. It will seem that beneath all of those shared joys, all those projections; they had a cost, that they also had their own issues and that perhaps their is a toil their choices might have had on them. Is it a time to mock or beat Korra further down or justify her situation ? I don’t think so and I don’t think it projects anyone well to do so.

As I know that what is best for their fans may not be best for them. I can only wish them what they wish for themselves. If reconciliation is feasible, I’ll be glad. If it’s not, I believe they would still share their joy which would alleviate our heartbreak for their situation.

Is that the only thing they can copy from those countries?

Murio001:
Npf is not the first police force in the world to approve the use of hijab, you can do your research on other advanced countries that approve such too e.g New Zealand, Scotland etc

So reiterating your "analysis" is now a problem?
Every Mallam to his kettle simply means everyone is entitled to his opinion.

Gamesmart:
Did you see him kick a player aimlessly in that clip?

Abi you confuse am with Kaita, hence your Mallam reference?

Well, every mallam to his kettle. Like you said
"Iwobi's leg rolled-over the ball while trying to shield the ball and dangerously stamped on the player"
And there was NOTHING in the game against Tunisia that exposed us.
Great Analysis!!
And we also Dominated the game with 10 men.

Gamesmart:
I have seen what Ejuke does and can do with SE and I like it.

I would definitely be playing him ahead of Chukwueze.

We should not bring a good guy like Amoo for Ghana, instead we should bring Moses?

Why? Because we want him to come for a reunion with Andre Ayew and all the other expired players Ghana is currently using?

There was nothing in the game against Tunisia that exposed us.

They took a shot, keeper error, they scored and they defended.

NO ONE kicked any player aimlessly. Iwobi's leg rolled-over the ball while trying to shield the ball and dangerously stamped on the player.

With 10 men we still dominated them!

NOTHING was exposed!

This is weak football analysis!!!


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FU238toVbTs