₦airaland Forum

burp18:

Do you engage in handiwork?

Well done

Gerrard59:
NOTHING WILL HAPPEN.

If you don't like it, go and sue him in court. When she climbed on his head nko? What if he died? Are you saying he has no right to defend himself? See, this is the innate dishonesty I hate in Nigerians and the hypocrisy of so-called modern women. You are seeing A and calling it B. This is a Yoruba Muslim who says he wants a second wife and the first wife objected. He placated her, which she refused. Is he the first Yoruba Muslim man to seek another wife? When she was doing juju in his house nko?

Call me Fish Brain whatever, but NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO HIM. He is entitled to FOUR WIVES as a MUSLIM man. If you don't like it, go to hell! Who the fvck do you think you are to dictate to a RICH (yes, he's rich!) Yoruba Muslim man to marry? Huh?! Are you a Muslim? What do you know about Islam?

Look, if it pains you so much, book a ticket to MMIA. It is six hours from the UK where you reside. Go to the courts to challenge a Muslim man from marrying another wife. Do it! Make Islam proud!

Imagine the temerity! If nothing happened to Bebex, NOTHING WILL HAPPEN TO JARUS!

Period!

Gong gong gong.
Online warriors and supporters.
Whenever push come to shove, we always tear race or deny the person.
No be here again

Gerrard59:
Again, nothing will happen. Jarus is a rich Yoruba Muslim man. Maybe you have to read his history of supporting APC - the governing party in Lagos and Nigeria.

Nothing will happen. If Jarus was Igbo, yes, something will happen. It happened to Bebex, an illiterate but rich Igbo trader, who harassed a Yoruba woman in public. Initially, he used money to solve the matter. But Ronu advocates resurrected the matter because he is Igbo and tagged the DV division. He is free as I write. Why? Bebex is rich.

Most of you people need to understand how humans behave. This lovey-dovey approach to life is unrealistic.

Tell the Nigerian police that's already neck deep in the matter that one.
He use im mouth talk say im beat his wife.
Goodluck to him
Punch newspaper don carry the matter too.

Wonder how much he has in his account that you considered him rich.
And b3cuase he is rich according to you, he can beat his wife.
What a fish brain

cococandy:
I don’t blame you.

They drew the first blood. Nothing women can do or say to men will even slightly make up for all the things they did and keep doing to us. I feel like even they know it too. at least the ones who can be fair minded know it.

Women allow that. Wonder why. When you allow society to rule your life. When your man thi is that the only value you have is incubation,house manager and sex.
What the hell.

Women value yourselves.

I love our Women outside the shores of Nigeria. They are very selfish.
Any small thing, you will hear, "me time".
They are learning and adjusting well.
After carrying the family for head like gala, na second wife you go get or your things thrown out like they are garbage.
Some will build house on the husbands name and still get thrown out.

jaybee3:
Desire and compliance are two different things.

Absolutely no point in desiring something you won’t be fully compliant on. As a Muslim, i’m an advocate for Monogamy

Thank you.

When I say most of the elite class in Northern Nigeria practice monogamy, I mean it.
Unless the wife died or divorce happened, even with an only child. They are cool. These are those who are the northerners.

In Europe of old, it was concubines. Official mistresses. The same with south east Asia. Their wives fought them and won.
Nigerian poor Muslim wives believe that marriage is everything and for you to be alive and worthwhile, you must be married even if your husband married 3 more after you.

How selfish of Muhammed to come up with this.
Like Muhammed like Abraham.

If they lived at this age, I'm sure they will never think of this stupid tradition they follow. I think it was what's obtainable in their time and in 21st century, we are still practising such.

In igboland, it was male child. Female child was never recognised. Give birth to girls and see your husband's family get a second wife for him and you become their enemy. These women fought and fought. Took their case to court and won. In Anambra I know, female children have inheritance now and nobody chases a widow with girl child away anymore cos the law protects her and the child.

Let Muslim women fight.
I thought yoruba muslim women will champion this. Really disappointed.

Most of their skits sucks really bad.
I block straight away.

With skits alone you will see how intelligent a country is. Everybody is now a skit maker.

Nobody has come with the answer why a great Islamic nation Turkey made polygamy a crime?

You see intelligent quotient, that's what makes great men and women then a great nation. Intelligence is knowing when to let go of some old practices that were there for a reason and served its purpose which is no longer needed.


You know why I love uk despite their being our coloniser?
They keep on amending their constitutions when they know it does not serve its purpose anymore.

That is what development is all about.
An Islamic country Tajikistan recently banned jihad. That is reformation and curbing extremism.
Saudi Arabia recently did swim suit fashion show.


But my dear country with its men of extremely low intelligent quotient always think about themselves.
What benefits only them and how they are doing the world of favour to their children and women.
I have never seen men with so much little self worth. They need to validate their actions to show they are the men.
If our upbringing produced men like this day in day out, the family failed woefully.

U see all the beating,screaming and shouting by parents and who should not put mouth in children's upbringing, the effect is what we witness daily in Nigeria and why Nigeria is where it is.
Don't let me start with Christianity

cococandy:
If only we can ask them 🤭

Sapasenator:
Jarus can cater for a second wife and its permitted in Islam and not a crime in Nigeria.

Now tell me the whole purpose to your rants.

It's not about cater.
Turkish emperors, can't they cater for their wives?
World's most powerful emperors at that time.
So what happened?
Why did polygamy become a crime?
It's not the money.
Buhari, babangida, abacha,name them had one wives each, don't they have money?
Is there something they know you didn't know?
The poor man and his ways are like a comedy show to the rich.
They live to entertain them

TheSuperX:
Why are you concerned? He's a Muslim and has the right to marry more than one wife, what's wrong with that? he wasn't cheating on her with a side chic, he just want to marry.

Only 2% of the world's population practice polygamy and majority are in Africa.
Few in middle east, then 3 or 4 Asian countries.

Narrow it down and you see it's the poor who are into it. When the mind is very dull, it breeds culture like this. We name it religion but it's culture. In Turkey, it's actually a crime to marry a second wife.
That was a very powerful empire with numerous wives for the emperors but if you watch the rise and fall of turkish empire, you will see that polygamy destroyed that empire. Not surprised they banned polygamy.
Nigerian Muslims know better than them.
They are richer and smarter too.
Mtcheew

Sapasenator:
Coco, the Islamic religion is fully in support of polygamy which the wife is aware.
I am not a proponent of polygamy but methinks the wife's reaction is strange. That is never an excuse for abuse in any form.

Turkey is 100% Islamic country but polygamy is a crime there. Both foreigners and refugees.

You see this polygamy nonsense in third world countries. They will know Islam promotes 4 wives they cannot cater for. Very poor and wretched people that all they think about is sex and women subjugation.
Islamic right my foot.

cococandy:
I plead the fifth 😶

Hello, your majesty, I salute

I was a good gal too.
Didn't disturb my parents, I swear

Acidosis:
AH! People have been talking about twin girls' adolescence being challenging, but I'll take my chances and enjoy every moment. I be confam disciplinarian o. Their mom is a no-nonsense person too.

I'm surprised coco never shared that part of her upbringing. LOL. I will ask her about it. Stubborn woman!

She shared, you never paid attention
I just wan spoil biz for her small

Most of what these people wear are gifts from lobbyists, contractors, name them
Usually, they will inquire the brand the person loves most and get something for that person from that brand.
Those working for them are also gifted.

Acidosis:
Haha, I abandoned science a long time ago o.

We dey fine, my sister. Taking care of babies is no small task

You are still at the introduction stage. Worst is twin gals adolescence
You will get get greyhair overnight
Ask cococandy what she and her twin did to her parents

Acidosis:
Oh really? I'm so sorry to hear about the accident, but I'm glad you're recovering well. Good thing you enjoyed the rest of your time off before getting back to work.

We're all doing fine here. I've been away for about 4 days or so, busy with family and life generally.

I hope you've had a productive week so far?

Yep, yep. Life is back with full throttle
I was tempted to get another Dr's report
7days chilling but......,I am a good gal

If you feel down sometimes, hit the gym.
Exercise releases feel good hormones.
You understand what I mean sir.

Acidosis:
This!!!

Hugs.
I know where this is coming from.

It's not easy with pregnancies like this. So many complications.

A lot of things may have caused this.
Let's wait for post mortem.
A good case study.

May the family be strengthened.

armyofone:
Can be deadly! May the Lord help all

Watch your carbohydrates intake!

Be careful of that hefty mound of poundo/eba/semo/tuwo/amala and assortment of meaty soup , rice and assortment of meat, plateful plantain and beans ( I'm not calling Mariangeles oh )

Let's be mindful of over feeding aka enjoyment.

Be very hydrated! Drink plenty of water to flush germs out of your body.

I don't know if wiping well will help with yeast infections but they say wipe from front to back.

Shave down there. Keep it clean and airy.

If you are unable to shave yourself, get your guy to turn barber for you it is not like the armpit where you can easily use Nair.
Or go pay hefty amount for Brazilian vj wax.

Thank you darling.

We do not know the corelation between yeast infection and carbohydrate intake.
An average naija meal is more than 90% carbohydrate so do the math. Yeast day in day out and marriages, relationships have been broken cos of this.
Our people call it std, she or he is dirty down there, bla bla bla, yadayada etc.

Not knowing their gut labours microbes cos the flaura is not balanced. Too acidic. And when the gut is in that form, all the orifices are affected. Penis, vagina, butt hole,mouth and even ear. No matter what you apply,it will come back again cos the origin is not yet sorted out.
Continue another time....

So these boys that always shout fish smell and meat smell, both you and your partner are ignorant and you that carry the case for head like gala seller should be ashamed too cos you are swimming in ignorance. Even the most educated ones are guilty

HeatSeeker:
I heard it's cheaper than the normal oloyin beans. Anyway, I will confirm that tomorrow when I go to the market

OK,sweet

Nigerian govt of chop I chop.
What nonsense is this?
Does this even make sense. Which poor country operates welfarism?
Uk started this welferism cause of high economic boom but it was choking them so high tax system was introduced. Yet that's not enough, they are trying to drastically cut it down like the nhs, not to talk of one of the poorest countries in the world.

Oppositions always make use of innocent protests.
That's what is happening in Kenya right now.

So ladies, let's converse
Topic. Yeast infection.
How can we avoid it with what we eat

HeatSeeker:
Abeg who has ever tried making akara or moimoi with soybeans?

Hmm. That got me thinking.

Soya beans has the highest concentration of protein in beans family. It may not be a bad idea o.

Necessity is the mother of invention, you know

Very old news.
Should be more than 5 yrs or so. The same story here on nairaland.
They keep on recycling

greenermodels:
Sleeping with a man overnight in his home for 1-3k? Killing a fellow human being for 100k? All I see in this story is extreme poverty mixed with extreme wickedness and extreme stupidity/ignorance.

Poverty can make people do a lot of unthinkable things.
And when some see themselves out of poverty, they can do more unthinkable things not to be poor again in the next 20 generations.
This is the story of Nigeria and Nigerians

SisterRamota:
Can an American ex president be convicted in any other country?

Very hypo critical nation.
They have drug kingpins amongst them but will turn their eyes. The same way they turn their eyes on gun makers.

He is from soludo town.
He will be extremely careful with this case.

GenFunction:
because of meat taste many pple tink say meat na alpha protein.

It has protein yes,but meat protein has categories of which chicken breast and turkey comes first before beef.
Also meat is kinda addictive. And our body tend to crave what it lacks so in this case, we go for beef cos that's what we grow up with.
Permesan cheese is packed with protein, it's even higher than soya beans.
Fish like tuna is extremely rich in protein. We just need to get it right. As we don't have tuna, mackerel is so good that some people think it's meant for the poor.
Again, if you can get your hand on liver, you are good to go. Between liver and egg, I don't know which one to choose honestly. All these are protein powerhouse.
Problem is no electricity to freeze the cheese in.