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fittty: Nigerian ladies wouldn't care one bit. As long as he's fucking a guy not a lady.
#SickHumans

Thank you Cyrus!!!

Cyrus Levi: Gay topics really making the rounds on the forum

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Ladies should really take note of this cover-up relationships,it seems to be the order of the day for same-sex loving people.

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How do you know they are into the same-gender?
Advice:Love with your head and not your heart alone.stop falling for the looks,charms or prospects.

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Demand the availability of presence,time and love unconditionally.

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Try to know who their so called friends."he's Chidibere,my collegue from office,he's spending the night"-Ladies be sensitive,at night monitor them when they stay up at night.

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"I'm passing the night with anthony",-who's anthony,where does he live,be curious.

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Always going on business trips,try to find out what for,where he stays".

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Don't settle for less,rather remain single than marry or date in pity.

I have been thinking of putting this up for a while, I did hesitate but the practice is reaching an alarming rate...gay men are dating/getting married to straight females to cover their act. The whole gay thing is getting out of hand; don't be surprised-your ex-boyfriend might now be gay. Some guys who consider themselves "open-minded" try the act and get hooked. Sadly, many girls, ESPECIALLY THOSE WHO ARE DESPERATE TO TRAVEL ABROAD date these guys and get married to them. Long distance dating is the perfect situation for the gay guy, he cleans his act while you visit and continues his lifestyle once you are gone.
If a guy comes from "abroad" to date/marry you, verify (carefully) why no Nigerian girl abroad was good enough for him (they use the "I want a Nigerian girl excuse" ) Trust me, there are Nigerian girls all over the world and a new set comes in each school season-find out why he didn't connect with any of them among other things...also who and when last he dated a girl...
If you never knew this "abroad guy", if you don't know those who know him where he lives PRESENTLY & HIS LIFESTYLE, my sister, you would be best to run or just PRAY hard-I see these girls falling over themselves to travel and falling victim to the down-low guy who marries them just to satisfy his family.
Some will come on here to attack me but to be forewarned is to be forearmed.

More like SICK Drama Queen. What a terrible personality!

nitlad: Drama Queen. . .

Tpia is officially not normal. She came up on my thread and has been ranting like a rabid dog. I hope her family seeks help for her. ASAP. Am not kidding.

KingMEXX: Tpia is d female version of d kid, Polio...Two frustrated users

And I must say, dis thread is just another publicity stunt

Immature troublemaker. You are already known-forgive me for not knowing you; I have a life outside nairaland... I looked you up https://www.nairaland.com/1520317/following-thread-nlers-admire#19599107 [quote author=tpia@]you should be thanking all the posters for helping you bump the thread.

sebi na front page you dey find before?

attention seeking.

you've been noticed, happy now?[/quote]

You. You have the most time for this thread as you keep following it and exposing your idleness and idiocy.[quote author=tpia@]Why is she fighting everybody at this late hour?

The time she could have defended lola was years ago when they were still dating, what exactly is her issue now they've married after being in a relationship since like forever?

If the psquare guy wants to let people break up his marriage ( ostensibly), thats entirely his decision and he should not blame it on anybody else.

Not sure how or why an ex girlfriend is suddenly the focal point of the op.

Who has time for all this idleness, seriously?[/quote]

I did not expect the same people criticizing Lola to support my post. Keep the comments coming, My message has been delivered; its up to you to use it or discard it but just remember karma is a bi.tch!

Grow up already![quote author=tpia@]So, you assume anybody really cares about the fact that you went to school with psquare (allegedly).

Unless someone lives on an island with population 1, i think everybody knows you will meet people wherever you are, why should the fact that they had schoolmates and class mates generate so much fear, anxiety and apprehension unless there is something amiss in the relationship?

What exactly are your reasons for dating the person? Because you love her or because there's something else you're looking for?

Like they say, discretion is the better part of valour and silence can be golden depending on the context.

Stop trying so hard to make it appear somebody is an alien.

Stop acting suspicious if there is indeed nothing to suspect.[/quote]

Lol! Abi?

ifyalways: PDP

Corruption

Illiteracy and religious dogmas.

It would be hard to disintegrate that much...but those who want to go should be allowed to do so...

noblezone: Number one is the major culprit.
Two is a as result of number one.

three came out of number two.

To solve our problem, let us go back to our respective nations

People subconsciously have a type; either by way of appearance or personality.

Chillisauce: My dear, you are wrong. If I date someone like my ex, it will only remind me of my ex. I means I'm genuinely attracted to him because of my ex... So your point is not obvious.

From personal observation, I have come to the conclusion that amongst others, these three are the greatest threat to Nigeria's existence;

1. Forced amalgamation/unity

2. Tribalism

3. Corruption

These are my thoughts and in this order too, do you agree?

Lol, I understand that there are also children on nairaland so I am neither surprised nor upset.

homesteady: OP, tpia don settle for your case today

If his ex and his present love have a striking resemblance it only means that he is GENUINELY attracted to her and didn't marry her out of pity or a sense of responsibility towards his children. I thought my point was obvious?

Chillisauce: OP, for you to mention Ada, are you insinuating that Peter married Lola because she looked like his past lover Ada?
You just did what the other posters are doing.

Btw, your post is not well structured. Dating Ada has no business in the point you are trying to pass across.

ROFL!!!

What information is it you want that requires such facts? What happened to "Ada", how am I to know? Maybe I even have the name wrong? It's been many years. If you choose not to believe that Peter ever dated a girl he loved before Lola or that I went to school with them, you are free to believe what you like.

homesteady: You have to provide facts for people to believe you!

Lol, this is supposed to be an anonymous thread...

homesteady: No! Explain more!
What happened to Ada?
BTW, which school was that?

This is experience speaking...

otipoju: When I was much younger, I wanted a an outgoing,funloving,smart,young,beautiful lady,that will make my friends green with envy!!!

After being to hell and back with all of the above ,the only criteria that I seek in my woman is one that will give me peace of mind,thereby creating an atmosphere of harmony wher we can build together.

If my wife is older than me, I do not mind and I stated this clearly to my mother !!! Na only one life I come and I deserve to live it as happily as possible.

Huh Twisted thinking like yours is the reason I put up this post.[quote author=tpia@]Did she say she is bothered by the talk?


E be like say una dey find money abi.

If anything at all, the husband is more bothered than her about what he reads on social media.[/quote]

To each his own my dear. It is easy to ruin a person's image and walk away-obviously from your attitude...

ammyluv2002: Una really get time, honestly

Each time I read the nasty comments on nairaland about Lola Omotayo Okoye my heart gets heavy. I do not know her in person-just like most of you. She has been called "old", "shameless" even a "gold digger"! Some "kind" people even empathize with her and "understand" that Peter married her because of her kids. Let's get a few things straight;

1. Nobody has the right to choose another person's spouse
2. I was in school with Psquare, Peter had a girlfriend-Ada-whom he was crazy about. Ada is a splitting image of Lola...does that imply anything?
3. Age is not the determinant of a good marriage; either party could be older
4. Prince Charles married "much younger" Diana, how did that go? How old is his present wife-whom he loved all along?
5. Prince Williams forsook all the "younger girls" in England and married an older bride
6. Sullivan Chime married a "much younger" Clara; again, how did that go
7. For those who went as far as calling Lola a runs girl, who sleeps with her "uncles", do you know this lady? Do you know this for a fact or is it just hear say? Why defame an innocent lady who is minding her own business? Do you think Peter is a fool?
8. For those who justify these rumours with the story of her living in a "mansion" in Ikoyi-shebi you people say she is old? Do you know she has a career, did you expect that at her "old age" she wouldn't have risen through the ranks?
9. For those of you who see only young brides as a wise choice, it is because you haven't gotten married yet. There are some childish attributes the young wife will have that will make you almost regret the marriage-that is if you don't do that eventually
10. Peter knew very well what he was doing. He wants peace, companionship and joy. A mature and experienced mother for his kids. He saw all the "young girls" world over before he made his beautiful choice.

(MODS FRONT PAGE PLS!)

Why will you want to use the youthful indiscretions of a NOW happily married woman to embarrass her Are you female at all? If you are, SHAME ON YOU!

Mrswagg: Its been along time since we saw her on the TV, but here is a photo taken of her and someone, i dont know who the other one is, but from the look of the picture. they were both young, meaning its not a recent picture i learnt this picture was snapped in her college days and now here it is click here to view photos http://www..com/2013/11/popular-nollywood-actress-uche-iwujis.html

Someone killed the poor girl...today's world!!!

"Roommate" in North America means flatmate, housemate etc. They don't share the same bedroom-there are many such arrangements.

free2ryhme: my kwesion

what is a 26 year old doing with a 36 year old roommate ?

naija girls sha

is it a parasitic or symbiotic relationship ?

WRONG!!![quote author=Erelu_Y]EVEN THE JUDEO-CHRISTIAN GOD IS AN ENVIOUS ENTITY,[/quote]

VERY IMMATURE!

Airforce1: Paul's wife is beautiful..
Young and got good manners.
Unlike that mannerless old cargo his twin brother married as wife.

May god bless your union @ paul and anita.

Psychopath and Sociopath![quote author=god_of_music]I just did a flashback on my secondary school days when i was a senior with an official post. I was the 'Cultural and Game prefect' then. . .
It was fun being a senior mheen!
And i was a really cunny and controversial one.

My punishments at times were irrelevant but the juniors couldn't do anything about it

These are some of them:
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I flogged a junior because he looked at me two times: The kid was just passing by and 'naturally' he just looked at the direction i was sitting, and then looked again. I called him and asked him why he was looking at me with bad eyes? And he was like: No o! Senior i'm not looking at you like that oo
I asked him to go buy a cain in the school shop for me. . He came back with the cain and i asked him to put his hands on the wall, he did...then i trashed him 7 times
The guy cried to the class

I punished a student because he was taller than me: I entered into the JSS3 class and i noticed this boy who was way taller than me, i thought it was an insult so i asked him to come out of the class. He came out, and i slapped him before i trashed him mercileslly

I punished a student because he was wearing the same shoes like mine: This one pissed me off! The guy was just in JSS1 and he wore the same shoe with me! I ceased the shoes and asked him to pick all the stones in a particular area under the hot sun

I punished a female student cause her voice was finer than mine: In the school choir, i was the director and she was just a member. She was in SS1 tho. . . She was given the solo in a song we were to present in the state capital, and i was actually given that role but her voice was just so fine
Since that day i ask her to stand ontop her locker whenever i'm in the class.

More coming. . . .

Say yours!!



#TeamGOM[/quote]

Please no HIV for the poor girl, o Lord! What a traumatic experience! I hope it won't affect her relationship with men and all later.

This makes a lot of sense. Oftentimes we judge people based on hear-say and appearances without actually knowing them...seek to understand. Shun assumptions...

So what is your conclusion?[quote author=emmy-richie]From the cation, I thought Genevieve was claiming to be a virgin. mtcheeeww...
Nice write up though.[/quote]