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I believe people should express themselves in dance before God. So long as the dance is neither indecent nor se.xually provocative. Makossa, azonto and skelewu are quite provocative. The winner of Davido's skelewu dance competition would be provocative particularly to a gay guy & even I, a female, was embarassed by the video.

Sometimes bankers when they are personally engaged in fraud do this; they'll remove it later. Sometimes too its used for money laundering-they "mistakenly" lodge huge sums of money into random almost inactive accounts, when the heat is off they withdraw it; if you use it the criminal will know you did but won't be able to protest. Do not touch it however-notify the bank so you will not partake in the consequences of evil.

I'm just seeing this...congrats gal! pretty glad 4 u-though I'd thought u were Idibia's wife...lol. Great news.

Awesome!

I agree! It is veiled racism used in a desperate bid to hide the inefficiency of the Indian Police and perhaps to call for more force...?

eGuerrilla: On what moral ground can we complain about police brutality in India, if we are prepared to accept the characterisation of ALL Nigerians as "huge and aggressive" without question? Is it not clear that, by accepting this thinly veiled racial descriptor, we are actually condoning the subjugation of our compatriots by all means necessary?

Heartbreaking. I only pray the welfare officers in charge of her will not seek their own... The poor girl is so vulnerable right now. Sadly nothing appeals to loads of sick men like a lonely, vulnerable girl; the same reason her sick dad exploited her. Where is her mum and why has she not being handed over to her? I pray her step dad is sane and will not seek his own share. Its a wicked world where victims are further exploited...

Linda Ikeji. Laila Ikeji. Linus Ikeji. What next? Lilian Ikeji

I love this girl, Yield!

Yield: A right time to have sex and cook for him before marriage? There's no right time to have sex and cook for a guy before marriage!

The right and only time to do those things is after marriage.

Sex? Again, should be after marriage, personally. No exceptions. But you have the right to make your own decision for yourself, which you have already done.

Cooking? I will make a lil' exception here: If you want to cook for him to show him you can cook ..which is what you've been aiming for or to maybe surprise him with his favourite meal, then do that only once or twice. But don't make it your duty to be cooking for him all the time. That ain't your duty! You're doing these things -having sex with him and cooking for him because of the benefits you think you will reap (he will have respect for you, love you more, not leave you and of course, give you money). Stop trying to sell yourself and prove your worth to this man. Your worth is not determined by your cooking and bedroom skills. The way your treat others, what you have going for yourself, the way you treat him and talk to him (and I'm not talking about sex or cooking for him here), how emotionally connected you are to one another are some things that will make a man stay. How in the world do you expect him to respect you when you're always giving him sex and giving in to what he wants? Where is your self-worth? You think turning yourself into a housewife for a man you've been dating for 4-months will make him stay? No. If a relationship is meant to be, it will be. You don't need to break your back for a man to prove your worth.

And saying because you're having sex with him and cooking for him, then you can ask him for rent money is silly. He is not forcing you to cook nor have sex with him, you're doing those things to meet your own selfish ends. And if you're asking a man to pay your rent just 4-months into dating him, you think he will be impressed? Make your own money and pay your own rent.

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Flytefalls: I said "Faux feminism"... you are certainly no feminist, I agree .

Also, I take opinions as they are, and yours is truly foolish.. and you just happen to be a woman. Good luck with your rent

I love this!

Efemena_xy: Thank You!

@OP, seeing as understanding the very private matter that transpires between a man and his wife causes you sleepless nights, why not start by asking your mother, or better still, your dad about how he is / was continuously aroused by his wife after years of marriage?

Having said that, you might want to pay more attention to your education - your title / headline spelling so far is atrocious.

Have you seen/tried it yourself or are you the husband in question?

Wisdom-Me:
As wide as RIVER NILE & as DEEP as de RED SEA

Sick!

pasqal09: He can always go anal with her.

Huh!?

havilaLAGOS: there are so many places in Nigeria esp Lagos that has zebra crossing too and the cars also wait for pedestrian to cross

Wahala reporters are now confusing themselves. Junk journalism can only thrive on unsubstantiated scandals.

You guys are not serious. ANY scandal in Nigeria must be investigated. It is obvious some people want Oduah out of office. Even if her office engineered the protest, are you sure it was her idea/was with her consent? Do you think all her PAs/SAs/SSAs, will want to lose their jobs? Couldn't desperate people in her office have organized this? The truth will eventually come out. I am NOT IGBO, I stand to gain nothing but I HATE UNFAIRNESS. Enemies frequently exploit an existing issue to compound problems

superstar1: How much was paid to the E-sycophants ooooo? If jobless youth can take 4k.

Our level of morality and responsibility to our creator has been beclouded by tribalism religious sentiments and love of money.

You guys are not serious. ANY scandal in Nigeria must be investigated. It is obvious some people want Oduah out of office. Even if her office engineered the protest, are you sure it was her idea/was with her consent? Do you think all her PAs/SAs/SSAs, will want to lose their jobs? Couldn't desperate people in her office have organized this? The truth will eventually come out. I am NOT IGBO, I stand to gain nothing but I HATE UNFAIRNESS. Enemies frequently exploit an existing issue to compound problems.

Adex097: Hehehe...you think so??
Nothing is free in naija...this E-defenders are paid ...
Don't be surprised if I start supporting this corrupt leaders in the nearest future

Fit & HEALTHY! Smart guy...some Nairalanders r so bush.

What are u insinuating?

phreakabit: Didn't know he had decided to go under the rainbow with Elton "John" and Luther Vandross?

Please visit the nearest MFM. Sometimes the frustration is as a result of your great destiny. Oftentimess the greater your destiny the more the battles/frustration you need to overcome...don't give up!

Nairaland is meant to discuss ideas not people and definitely NOT VENDETTA! I see your motive now; shame on YOU @ L.M. Aiyedun

This poster (L.M. Ayedun) was the same guy who posted the First Lady's CRY FOR HELP yesterday. I am now suspecting vendetta. I see a campaign to ensmear Chime's name. I regret responding to that post. OP go through the proper channel to address your "grief". Ruining another man's reputation to get even with him is pathetic. Even if he did ALL you are accusing him of, you are obviously NOT BETTER THAN HIM!

This poster was the same guy who posted the First Lady's CRY FOR HELP yesterday. I am now suspecting vendetta. I see a campaign to ensmear Chime's name. I regret responding to that post. OP go through the proper channel to address your "grief". Ruining another man's reputation to get even with him is pathetic. Even if he did ALL you are accusing him of, you are obviously NOT BETTER THAN HIM.

mekaboy: pls stop spreading lies. if you believe ur story go to the press and publish it. this sounds like a politically motivated post.

Hmmnnn might not be impossible...

Only fools judge a person based on hear say. The Governor was long divorced before he even met her.

rmho: Nemesis is hunting Clara Chime, simple.

Shut up, what did she do to YOU

rmho: Nemesis is hunting Clara Chime, simple.

I love this!!!

Your own children telling such a lie against you will make ANY man run mad. Lord have mercy!!!

How much does she need to bribe any of the household staff to deliver a mail Is this not Nigeria?

kross_01: you that have heard of the internet before should have utilised it well enough through google to know that the sole objective of a house arrest is to cut you off from the outside world. Everything about your life will be highly monitored, including visitors(that is if any is appproved for you), newspapers will be a thing of luxury. How then will you think that someone under 'house arrest' is allowed the super luxury of not just a phone/pc but an internet enabled one? Like seriously??

My dear, please withhold this your advice o! A man who can keep his wife isolated and sedated will also find it convenient to allow her die in a house fire. There are better ways for them to separate. If she dies through a "fire" do you know how many people will be paying the "poor" Governor condolence visits while he plans his next wedding with his favourite mistress?

dezemilov: She doesn't need human rights activist to save her. All she got to do is set part of the house on fire where she and her son will not be affected. When the fire service comes to quench the fire, isn't that a perfect time for her to butt out of that house? Even before Sullivan go shout "Catch am", she for don reach Onitsha going to Lagos.

No be me talk am o!

How do you know? Where you there? Did you witness her send another woman out Most ladies on here have responded based on envy and will rather destroy her image to justify their envy-engineered positions. THE BLACK CRAB SYNDROME has destroyed Africa.

Pulchire: It saddens my heart indid that a young woman that is dis pretty would decide to mortagage her life to a man who is old enough to bring her pregnancy into this world just because of fame and fortune,and to these so called politicians who uses their stolen funds to entice young vunerable women into their traps,may God almighty have mercy on ur souls!cos some how,someday,same fate ll befall ur dautas,my advice to the woman in questn is to first beg God for forgiveneSs,cause she destroyed the home anoda woman laboured to build,then look for to solve the problem herself coz she brot it upon herself cos wat goes arond,comes arond.