₦airaland Forum

Eniolohunda:
Nairalander will not know the right answer for you. Go see your doctor, get examined and get treated.

Do you know there are doctors here. Virtually all professions are here.That's what you enjoy being here.Free medical counsellings.

ZeemsPropeties:
What do you need those details for? Why do you think an official statement would be made up?

Tribal/ gender motivations is the reason.They want to know which tribe the offender come from so that they can attack his tribe or which gender man or woman so that they will attack him /her

Solsix:
What do we call this now

GBESE NLA!

Emdebby2:
Your problem might not be ordinary. Surrender to Jesus and accept Him as your personal Lord and Saviour. Pray and ask the Holy Spirit for guidance. Bring yourself closer to God for there is nothing God cannot do.

The best suggestion ever.Most of those women may be possessed and would be ready to hunt you for life. First get born again by attending a Bible believing church, seek for deliverance from the shackles of immorality, begin a new walk with your saviour and live a life free from sins so that iniquities will not be your ruin and you suddenly perish in the pit of hell.Many have passed thru this your route and today they have inherit sudden death.

OJUENDAN:
I don't wanna believe this narrative just like that.
Where are the tools or was he vandalizing with bare hands?
If no tools found there, it could be suicide please.

Whether tools or no tools or suicide, none is acceptable its hell straight.

Thunderfayamods:
In developed countries every where you go are industries or businesses not churches yet they brought this artificial religion to us. Despite that wickedness is everywhere in Nigeria
So I don't know what you are celebrating with this post.

You goofed.the proliferation of churches in Lagos indicate one thing,where evils abound,that's where grace abound much. Moreover, whether industries or businesses or not,what can man give in exchange for his soul?

eyesoflagos:
https://eyesoflagos.com/why-every-street-in-lagos-has-at-least-one-church/

Thanks so much for this write up. The Church is matching on the hate of hell will not prevails against it. The desires of believers in Christ is that at least every street should have at least five churches till the world know that Jesus is Lord.

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2025/08/16/appeal-court-upholds-retrieval-of-40-vehicles-from-mattawalles-residence

And these are not just junk vehicles but serious modern vehicles. Ladies and gentlemen,can we find out from him whether he want to become car dealer?

RollinTNDA:
The UK should learn from Tinubu and see that south westerners are not the type of people you give power. They will use nepotism and divide UK

UK Beware

Interesting, let them give it to sad east now. They are the guru that the Nigeria never had.

Goddyrichie:
I hate Islam with passion almost 70% of them are wicked they don’t forgive sometimes I wonder why people practice that religion they should have cancel that religion for so long

The world is amazed by their exploits, considering the turbulences here and there..

Sicklebear28:
Some even dey threaten her with rape. Can you imagine their canal mind. Can two wrongs make right?

Na soo l see am ooo,my brother! I tired ooo

Goddyrichie:
why can’t they just say Allah should forgive her instead of trying to Štøńę her but u people are happy when they put a banner of Jesus is not God in a mosque in lekki last year

Noo in Islam, no, no forgiveness. Its a religion of pics

Kobicove:
When did this become part of the job description of a prophet?

No doubt,before she came out and be this bold on this matter,elements of truth must be there.

Slytiger:
https://tribuneonlineng.com/smelling-lagos-why-we-withheld-rayes-discharge-certificate-nysc/

Thanks so o much for the explsns.This girl Raye is very problematic, l wonder the kind of trouble the man who would marry her would carry.She knows for sure that she was once made a headlines. Why involved your selves on absenteeism. The person they want to roast ejo is robbing itself with oil.Nonsense girl.

Starz825:
The baby na albino na


If na here ....na albino but cos say na abroad...Dem say na blonde

Even in abroad, oyinbo/whites has plenty history of abino.I know many albinos in abroad.

chiiraq802:
"and smashed bottles of beer the women had brought with them"

God don wash hand comot for 9ja matter tey tey!!

If women could so appreciate beer to this extent every month what would happen to their men? Even in the house of the Lord! May God have mercy.As a christian, beer and any form of alcoholic drinks is sacrilegious to candidate of heavenly citizens.

SisterAnn:
Deeper life? But the post read Lord chosen.

Could be fake news

It can never be deeper life.The writer is mischievous.How can you say deeper life as the headlines news and then ,the Lord chosen is the venue. May God deliver the ops.

FaAbData:
Abeg mo hear.
Those are very rear situations not the norm

You will understand later,"Igbehin lo maa ye oloku ada'

Franking:
I haven't spent a dime on my parents because they are both dead.

This thread is for people like you who don't think it's necessary to do so,even when their parents are suffering.

Offpoint1:
These thread ain't necessary. Your family business should remain private.

You're not connected with the ops.who knows you here? .we are learning from others. There are people who would never give a dim to their parents even when they have and their parents are suffering.This thread is an eye opener.

papyjaypaul:
This spending is black tax for those abroad but not all financial spending can make sense, some of them are emotional and you will keep paying for your absence. You never know when they will be gone so you will spend to take care of them. Forget what anyone there is saying about Dangote or Otedola, I don't think those people have responsibilities because even if your parents are doing well, there's this blessing that finance cannot explain that comes with taking care of your parents. No be everything de textbook. You just have to experience some things. Some religion consider it as charity

I know some people have a problem where parents are demanding or the parents are spending the money you send them helping other people, see I cannot explain everything in life and we cannot understand everything about life. You will get to a stage where you will be looking for loved ones to spend money on. Money, energy and time are not always the same. You will make more money and still have some energy to make more money but you don't have enough time to be with them.

Spend on your parents and indulge them a little. You need their prayers as you are growing old. I know say for oyinbo life, they cut the cord very early but Africans are rooted in community and we will continue to keep the connection. One love Africa ❤️

You're the son of the soil.l love you.life begets life.

CaptainFM1:
You should receive sense. Do we all earn the same amount that we must now compare how much we've spent on our parents?

Nobody owes you any information on how much they've spent on their parents. If you're thinking you haven't spent enough on your parents, then it's safe to say you need to spend more. No need to ask others on how much they've spent on their parents.

There's no benchmarking for spending on your parents and no need to ask what people spend on their parents. It's an individual decision.

Excuse maker.This is just to encourage others who don't. This is a faceless forum.Who knows you?

spiceadole:
It's the least I can do.
8 years ago,I sent him 200k after my mum pleaded and attempted to bridge the gap...The man returned the money to me with plenty abuses.Lol.

We haven't seen again since then.
Everybody is fine.

Oh,its a pity,something is wrong somewhere. Get reconcile with him at all cost, before he passes on..The Bible says follow peace with all men and holiness without which no man shall see the Lord.

Abee79:
I spent everything, but Dad still passed 💔

Never mind. The Lord will console you.you have done you best. You will certainly be rewarded and prosper.

spiceadole:
Well,that's my case.
I have never liked my dad and he doesn't like me too.
It's not my problem.
Even if I see him in my dream,I recognize him as my enemy.
Life goes on.

Are u a christian? Get reconcile with him,before he passed on.life begets life,mark you,what you do to him now, your son will do it to you too.This l have seen. At least lam 63 years now.

spiceadole:
Lolz.

Broken record.

If I can go this far without him,there is no limit to anything good concerning me.

There is no second chance for use.less fathers.

I have long moved on and I'm doing quite well, without him.

I surely believe you were not dropped from the sky.Nothing happened to you without your father's knowledge. He gave birth to u,tutored u,brought you up and sent you to high institutions and now you think you have gotten it all. What a pity.Have rethink bro.

Harddiskng:
Reconcile with your dad.

There is a limit to how far you can go in life without fatherly blessings (especially if he is alive).

Your reconciliation will remove some stumbling blocks you currently have in your life, this i have seen.

Wow! You're blessed.

Softmirror:
There are stages in life. The stage at which children mostly spend on their parents is when they become old and weak. It's a circle, but only responsible children who have mercy in their heart usually do this without excuse even if their parents are still very wealthy in their old age. It's one of the best of kindness to can ever practice.

On point sir

ibechris:
I have given my parents more than I can quantify and I can't stop given.

This year alone,I have bought them food items worth more than 500k just my dad and mum alone.

Money,I give them 100k feeding every month.
Gas 15k every month this is excluding food items.

In six months,I can respectfully say I have given them about 1.2m.

Fantastic! Tell me how God will not prosper you.You're a star, keep it up.l acknowledge u.

Onegai:
There's a book I'll recommend and please take reading it VERY seriously:

Stormie Omartian "Power Of A Praying Husband".

Read it, Pray every single prayer at the end of each chapter. Open your Bible and start studying Scripture on Forgiveness and Love. The Bible is a book about Love. Ask God to show you your wife's heart the way He sees it. She's shut down emotionally from you.

Then you need to work on your anger and need to resort to violence. Love means submission and Apostle Paul tells us to submit to each other. So you need to find out who you are in Christ Jesus (because change is very hard and we don't want you resorting to violence ever again).

I'm glad you regret it, next step is repentance.

When you get home, phone should be on silent or vibrate, you sit with your woman and do whatever she's doing. Gist with her. If she says she wants to eat grilled fish, don't buy it and bring home, tell her to go make herself pretty because you want to take her out.

Treat her like a fresh new bride, because your old marriage NEEDS to die. It wasn't a good one.

When you feel the anger and impatience rising (violence is the last resort of a weak man), you walk away and turn to prayer. Then come back calmly. She needs to give you Respect, not Fear. A lot of men think they're the same, they're not: Respect is rooted in Love, Fear thrives in Hate. And Fear means she will be waiting for the right time to strike you back, one day. So make her love and respect you, slapping her around breeds her fear.

Tell yourself "she is mine, my church and I will love her like Christ loved the church". That means when she's getting on your last nerve, you tell yourself and her "I love you, I'm not going to let the devil use me to destroy my blessing. You're my blessing!". Keep saying it till you believe it.

It will take time and patience, which is good training for you to learn how not to resort to quick anger and violence.

The intimacy will come back. Better than before sef, you won't have time for us on Nairaland

Brother, you're going to make your wife fall in love with you again. Doable and possible, the love will even be sweeter. Commit it to God and come back with your testimony.

PS: today, go and buy her lunch or dinner (fried rice and turkey, with salad and dodo ), get a scrap of paper and write "Songs of Solomon 1:15", put it on the food. Drop it beside her, don't say anything.

Another day,when she's done bathing and is dressing up, creaming her body, make sure you're in the room always. But act like you're not looking. Then send her Songs Of Solomon 7:1-9 after she's done dressing. So she knows you were admiring her nekkidness to the point that you needed to go and read Bible

You'll be messing with her small small, working on yourself, showing her you're a better man now, who's completely in love with her.

It'll work.

You're great! Are you a marriage counselor? Even me who is not directly affected, enjoyed your write up.Thanks so much.Where do we run from each other.Onlyheavenky citizens can get the message.

JASONjnr:
You can't possibly be afraid of their people.... Why not name them?

Exactly my thought. Why not mention them.? Peradventure, he is afraid.

labake1:
But why is this not everywhere?
If it's a lady that dumps a man that sponsored her education, here for full of misogynist

Asegbe kan ko sii.what a man sow,that's what he will reap.It has always be on both sides.