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Hey Guys, as I type this right now, I'm so depressed. I'm sad, I'm angry. I'm destabilize d.. God! I don't even know how to describe my present state right now. It's affecting me academically. I don't know if I should revenge and make this girl feel the same way I'm feeling right now. I hate to love. I swear down i'm never going to love again. I'm going to use girls like rag! .. please ignore my typo errors. I'm not myself right now.


Can you guys imagine my girl sent me a text without me offending her and said she needs space. I was like maybe she's not in her right mood so I just decided to let her be. Two days after I saw one of her friends in school and she was telling me sorry about what happened between me and my girl. I was like I don't understand.


She said my gf told her we have separated. That I should take heart and move on with my life. Immediately, I felt so weak. It was as if something left my body. But I just pretend and told her we are still dating but just a lil misunderstanding.


So I called her and told her why she told her friend that we are no more dating. She said she only told her that she sent me a text and not breakup. I was speechless.

The greatest shocker I received from her is that she traveled to my school and didn't even bother to inform me. One of my friends called me and told me he saw her and she traveled back to see her mom that same day. My dear, I was so flabbergasted..

I called her today, when I told her I miss her. She ended the call. I've been calling but she's not picking. She doesn't wanna tell me we have broken up but she's avoiding me. This life sha!


My dear readers! I'm so confused! I find it hard to move on. And it's affecting me emotionally, physically and acedemically.

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I want to really appreciate you all for your advise! Thanks a lot. You guys are the best. Though I'm really feeling bad this evening. Life goes on. Thanks all.‎

Diddyydiva:
Your lady has some spiritual problems she wants to solve



Give her some space , reduce the calls.

Sometimes we are not just strong enough to handle two or more situations at the same time.



Try to understand

Thanks a lot dear! What reply do u think I should give to her?

Smellymouth:

Hello sir, please this is not a joking matter. Thanks.

JeffreyJamez:
What do I think?...... she said she needs time out to settle some issues in her life.. ...doesn't mean she wants a break up na....so just give her space.... stop breathing down her neck....channel your thoughts and energy somewhere else.

Ok thanks a lot boss. Do you think I should reply her text? What should I tell her?

Goodmorning Romancelanders. I have never felt this way before! I feel so sad. I'm emotionally deranged right now.

My girlfriend has been acting weird for some weeks now. She doesn't chat with me online, She doesn't return my calls. So I called her on Wednesday night. She didn't pick. (I called her number 8 times). The next day(THURSDAY) I called her at about 9pm. She told me she was in her church for a vigil. For real she was right because I heard piano sounds at the background. Then I ended the call.

So yesterday evening I called her and she didn't pick. So this morning I got this text from her.

"Sorry I couldn't pick I was in church, pls I need some time out to settle some issues in my life, this is what I really want to do, pls try and understand"

I'm so flabbergasted. I don't know if I should reply I her or not. I don't even know how to reply because I never experience this before.

I really love this girl. I don't want to lose her. Painful this im always depressed when I don't hear from her. It's as if something left me. Pls ignore any typo error.

Please what do you think? Thanks as you reply.

mascot87:
I got it in less than 2 sec. God is my witness. It was so easy to spot

Same with me.

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Nice quest.

U right

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Haba

Saw this post on FB and decided to post it here....



So guys can be this wicked or was I a fool? After destroying the lives of different ladies, they settle down with almost the best. My boyfriend is contemplating ending our six-years-old relationship.

He hasn’t been able to come up with a reasonable excuse but quoted his pastor and I’m 100% certain it is due to the two pregnancies I or we aborted when we were undergraduates.

Of course, I had complications after the second abortion that almost took my life and since then we’ve been having protected sex. He has introduced me to his family and vice-versa but he hasn’t proposed to me.

He told me he can’t continue with the relationship because we are not meant for each other. He said his pastor told him I’m not his wife and our marriage won’t be fruitful but the pastor didn’t see it in his vision that I have once aborted twice for him.

We are still on the issue and I have let him realize he can’t walk out my life just like that! He said his mind is made up besides he has given his life to Christ and he wants a new beginning. A new beginning after destroying my future!

iceberylin:
Worry about your English

Okay. Thanks

Hello Romancelanders, Compliment of the season. Pls Dnt mynd my write up.. I'm not too good at typing. Tnx

Something is really bothering me which I want to share with y'all. My girlfriend doesn't want her friend to know that we have had sex.. We have been dating since 4months now. She told me her bestfriend asked her if we done anything and she said NO. I ask her why and she said she just don't feel Like telling her.. Lemme be honest, I was the one that disvirgin her. Tho the girl is very churchy. Lol.


Does it mean anything?? Is it something I should be worry about? Thank u.