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GraGra247:
This girl wey resemble man

And always "targetting" young handsome men from rich backgrounds. Calling them bestie yet fvcking them. Hmm.

Why are Ike and Mike sweating like pigs? Dem dey on heat.

He be like mumu.Dudes outfit wack as fvck.

Nice one. Na this kind things i dey like.

Psoul:
My dear, you can still make your point without bn rude. I don't understand hw ppl are bn brought up. Make ur point. Don't insult ppl.

Well, back to the topic.
If the boy is my child, I will not reject him nor refuse my wife bringing him back cos he is my full responsibility.
There is no law binding on me to take into my family a child that is not mine. I can only do dat out of compassion or bind to do dat by good morality.

What is my point. I never supported the man not to accept taking the boy in, if you have bn following my comments.
I only said that the woman need to convince the man on why it will be nice to allow the boy live wt them. She need to assure the man that she will be able to transform the boy and make him a better person. She need to douse the man's fear about what he has heard about the boy.

Secondly, I was also of the opinion that the woman should not even be presenting the issue of her taking care of the boys school fees at this point cos, the issue of paying the boy's school fees was not the basis the man was standing to say no to the woman's request. The woman also made a mistake of bn angry and refusing to talk to the man.

I am still wondering why ppl are having problem with this opinion.
The man mentioned why he said no. He talked about that boy coming in to corrupt the other kids including the daughter the woman had in her previous marriage.
I did not see the man as a heartless man as ppl have bn insinuating. The man was just afraid of the recent stories he heard about the boy.
The wife needs to clear the man of that story and I see the man accepting her request.

You would however not expect your wife to reject your son from another woman because you have two heads.

Its people like you that will do DNA for a bastard that you always thought was your son and then go and commit suicide after finding out you have been calling another mans child yours for 20 years.

.Of course her husband will "cook up" stories about the boy just to get rid of him. If this lady in question was my sister i will ask her to leave that man because he is only in that marriage because she is financially stable which gives him some measure of financial security.He does not love her at all.

Purifiedsoul:
Does that make sense to you?
She don't know where his relatives are ahbi?

Even if she does, are they ready to take up any responsibility towards the child? Will she force them? How many of your relatives' kids have you personally taken responsibility for? Una no just dey get sense until Karma comes knocking.

martowskin1:
Relax, what is ur issue with baby mamas, are u one?

Tell karma to visit the idiot, who ran away for green passport.

U guys are just making noise, u can't force the man to accept the boy, he has the right and choice to reject. All u guys should be talking about is the lady in question should look for his soft spot and get to him, use people he respect to plead with him to accept the boy in, not acting like he is under obligation to raise the boy up, the boy is not his responsibility.

In western world, the man will adopt him legally, then he will know he is his son. Not Nigeria after the man do all the hard job of raising the boy, 15yrs later the boy start saying am going to look for my father... Yes we have seen it happen over and over again.

The greatest mistake the man made is knowing she have kids and still jump in, smart men this days avoid them because the baggage is too much to handle.

Monkey dey work bamboo dey chop... Who does that

Shut up. Do i have to be one to be reasonable? Beg him for what? Did he not know she had kids with her ex husband before he married her? If it were the other way round, would he not expect t her to accept his own kids?

I hope Karma visits you so you stop talking like you own the world. You talking trash because your words are tantamount to blaming a corpse for his own death. Did he plan to die? Go and bury your dead brain in the soil. Its useless obviously.

Mercy Eke would be better off wearing rags.

Belafonte:
If the boy’s biological father can abandon him, I think anybody else can as well.

That's not right. When your own daughter becomes a baby mama either through rape or by some irresponsible pretentious devil, I hope you come back here to repeat this trash.

CeterisXVII:
Please check my moniker again. I am not Psoul. You quoted me wrongly.

I am sorry. I mentioned Psoul though. I just wanted you to see what I wrote to Psoul.

martowskin1:
Fortunately for the man, he didn't... So wait till he did...

U don't expect people to accept ur every baggage because of ur life wrong choices in life.

So wait till he does and then throw his bastard child to dogs to feed on.

STFU. anyone can change at any time, even you. What fvcking wrong choices are you talking about? It's like blaming a cancer patient for having cancer.

She got married to her ex fully unaware that he was going to dump her because of green card.

So because he did that she should not move on with her life? How is someone else's greed and wickedness her mistake?

Did he not know she had baggage when he married her? Why's for better for worse being preached at marriage alters? It's people like you that get destroyed by Karma and come here wailing when your daughters end baby mamas.

Omashola own was made by a carpenter.

Really sad. RIP to the dead.

If na Naija. Suya don shele be that o.

martowskin1:
Is not compulsory to stand in the kitchen after all he is no the one that started the fire

It's your type that will go and give one olosho belle and bring the bastard home to your wife to nurture as her own child. You will then blame her for "starting the fire" by nagging too much over your cheating sexcapades which made you go and get olosho pregnant. You will also expect her to forgive you without blinking an eyelid or uttering a word God punish all of una.

Ubunja replicas.

martowskin1:
From the initial story, they were living in a small apartment, which can't contain all of them... So she asked her brother to take care of the boy for him why she and her husband and her little girl manage the little apartment.

Now things got better and they moved to a bigger apartment, with the issue the boy is having with her brother, she now wanted the boy to return since apartment is now big.

But the husband refuse base on the fact that the boy is now a baggage with different character he could harm their girls with.

But this woman didn't tell us the option the man gave her since he can't accept the son into his home.

A man who could accept one of her kids and base on the fact he agreed initially b4 condition changed won't reject the boy without giving other option to explore.

She just gave us a one sided story... All to gain pity and paint the man evil.

Is obvious she is getting all that, but people like us are standing for the husband even though he is not here to tell his own story

You better stop standing for the man before one useless mo. ron turns your unfortunate daughter into a baby mama. It's called Karma.

Op, you are financially stable. Dump him, take his kids away from him and let him also feel the pain of not having his kids under his roof. Then he will reset his dead brain. Nonsense.

martowskin1:
Funny how u all attack the man, but not the father who ran away from his responsibilities. The man hold that child nothing. He have father and his father have families.

The boy won't answer his name, what are u guys saying

He tried enough to even accept one of the kids.

The solution is, send the boy to boarding school, during holidays he can come home spend few weeks and go back to school.

But if na the man born ten pickin outside marriage you will say the wife should treat the children as her own. Heartless people.

Davash222:
Coco, he doesn't have any babymama, he's a responsible man.

Unlike Ubunja lol

Davash222:
He's already treating the girl as his own flesh and blood. He's only being careful to protect the girls.
The father of the boy is alive, isn't it wise for the woman to take the boy to his father??

It's paedos that usually reason the way you do.

[quote author=Oriyomin25 post=87386935][/quote]Even if she does, is she going to force the child on them? So you think it's right for her to leave her child to those he sees as strangers and not allow him under her own roof? Your daughter go soon turn baby mama.

Belafonte:
This is really difficult to believe. Even his family refused to have anything to do with you with two children/grandchildren? Wonderful.

Sh*t happens.

There's one Ubunja moniker on this forum. He gets women pregnant, dupes them of their hard earned money and takes a walk because senseless idiots will always think it's the woman's fault. Good thing is Karma is teaching him a lesson. Worse thing is this animal was brought up by a single mother, hates his father like hell yet his past time is the raw wickedness of turning innocent women into single mothers.

movement2020:
From this, it is understandable why your husband is not accepting the boy. He might have learnt some attitude which may affect your litltle daughter putting into consideration the present incest and all sorts all around.

However, I would advise two options.

Try and get the contact of your ex or any of their siblings to hand over the boy to them.

Use your woman power to plead and assure your husband to accept the boy. You can also use his friends, relatives and parents to drive home your plea.

If the boy was the man's son would he throw him away?