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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Who Has Done An Interview Or Gotten A Job Since COVID-19 Started? by Diligentnigga(m): 12:36pm On Jun 20, 2020
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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 8:34am On Feb 19, 2020
Resurgent2016:


She is probably not just unhappy about being pregnant outside marriage but also concern about how the family will cope since you are still struggling financially. Mst young girl dreams of having a stable home where she is confident of having her needs met particularly now that she is pregnant.

All the best in securing a better surce of livelihood

Yes thats my best guess.. She will pull through.. But that doesn't stop me from dealing with her for that public outrage, cos have chosen to stay away from her for days if not weeks

Thanls for the contribution
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 1:20pm On Feb 18, 2020
Let me clear the air abit on people believing she has been hitting me always..

During the public incidence where she held my shirt tightly for me to give her back her phone,, i refused cos she was running away from the serious discussion we were having

I refused cos she has really been traumatized by the sad incidence of carrying a child outside wedlock it hasnt really been easy for her... Plus she only hit me once when i was trying so much to hold her down cos she loves running away from healthy discussion that infuriates her

Thanks everyone for your contribution any marriage is on hold for now between me and her and i want to give her a lot of space and time for things to sInk down in her brain that what she did in public was a very stupid act... She has never been like that for once all through the relationship

Well we can all blame a 20 soon to be 21 year old gurl by December.. But people should always weigh and ask reasons why she's doing somethings not just jumping to conclusions she has been caring and loving and infact this my parents she do insult is only to my face shes super scared of my parents and respect them when they are around


Thanks everyone for the contribution and as soon as her head is back i will be taking her to a therapist and a councillor for proper anger management control... No one is never perfect in life Iam not perfect either if you'll are pushing me to run away from her what about the next available victim to marry
She needs help!!! Not been castigated and rubbished

and not to forgrt she has pushed through alot of my bullshits also,alot i can begin to say on air


You'll should suggest ways she can be helped not castigating everyone undecided
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 1:12pm On Feb 18, 2020
GreenDee:
Exactly, infact maybe because he is weak, d gal. might just tie down d pregnancy on him too

No one is tieing any pregnancy on anyone..am 100% sure of it..

She was provoked anyways thats why she threw the stone, she only hit me once,,squeezed my shirt once before the public incidence... She wasnt like that the first 6 months of the relationship.. So i know her to an extent dont jump to any conclusion
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 8:16pm On Feb 17, 2020
orunmila144:
What is her date of birth and what is yours. i want to do an astrology compatibility on the both of you
NB any other person who writes me for this test you must drop money into my zenith akant. i no get time sad

March 30th mine
December 15th hers
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 7:59pm On Feb 17, 2020
rawfact:


You're right. She won't really change by herself. You are the only one that can change her but that would make you a woman beater for sometime, and might end up quenching/draining the love, if there is real love between the both of you.

As hard as it is to say, some ladies need strong handling. This lady of yours is one of them. No two ways about it. Such a lady is not the type a man would pledge not to lay hands on. That pledge would be null and void in the face of stark reality except the relationship or marriage is dissolved. That is why such is better done by her dad, who can't be really be alleged for domestic violence or the relationship is ended if her dad can't do nothing.

But don't rush to conclusions because she is 21 (immature) and also pregnant (hormonal imbalance) but caution her with a very stern face and harsh tone never ever to repeat that shit (public disgrace/violence).

Meanwhile, stop being too caring for now so that above message can really sink in to her. Also be unavailable for weeks too. This is your way of slapping sense into her brain without lifting a finger. Whenever you come around, she will sheepishly be giving you more love, care and attention above the child in her womb.

Finally, in as much as your mum is obviously glad to receive a grandchild (maybe her first) and wouldn't mind being her spokesperson or influence over you, ensure you don't make yourself "mummy's boy". Be a man and ensure you accomplish each phase of what you are doing in your lady and never let her successfully manipulate you through your mum.

Very observative.. This plan is in motion already,,she once cried knowing fully well she needed help

I plan on staying away from her for days if not weeks.. And it will really take a strong man to deal with those kind of women and as soon as her head is cool,, she will go see a therapist or counsellor
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 6:58pm On Feb 17, 2020
Nooil:


You were the one who brought out the beast in her. What's her birth date let me see if I can give you the best solution to calm her.

December 15
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:54pm On Feb 17, 2020
Victoronah1:
young man go and make money. Look at how you confidently come online and post that you're unemployed and about to have a baby. You should be ashamed of yourself.

I am doing my best,iam not lazy, you just know the Nigeria we are now

Plus we all make mistakes in life no one is perfect
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:52pm On Feb 17, 2020
Ardar:


Stop aggravating her, sometimes you need to compromise knowing fully well that she's volatile.

Endure o, after all you saw the signs earlier.

I actually didn't she was peaceful and calm for almost 6 month nd people that knew her confirmed this ,, we do quarel tho but am always the one with the anger issues then

But u see that anger that will make u do stupid things thats where the problem is
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:47pm On Feb 17, 2020
Ardar:


I should not defend her but I should defend you? When they say use protection while fvcking, una no go hear. Abort now, no. Now you've been caged with pregnancy and looking for who will defend you.

I dont need your defense

I only need solution to her anger issues and how to go about dealing with an anger driven woman that is pregnant
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:38pm On Feb 17, 2020
Ardar:


Uncle you're the problem here, you don't tell a girl who is going through so much cuz of a pregnancy you're responsible for to just suck it up and bear the shame.

Like it or not people will talk and it won't be you they'll be pointing accusing fingers at.


Even before the pregnancy she has been ruthless and anger driven

I know anger of pregnancy from anger of stupidity don't defend her can u advise ur brother to marry a lady that insults ur parent and inflct bite wounds and slap u cos shes preggy
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:21pm On Feb 17, 2020
eni4real:
She loves you too much grin

Japa, Japa undecided

Yes sir..
That's just her only bad side

Anger

Am running she did see a psychiatrist instead she a narcissist

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:19pm On Feb 17, 2020
Jim99:
She's behaving like that because she hasn't met her match. You have to be extremely violent to her

Sometimes violence is the answer

Absolutely
I have been calm all this while but when she saw rage and anger from me she ran she was very scared.. She knew that i am not some wimps


It takes a tough man to deal with a tough woman thanks for the head start
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:16pm On Feb 17, 2020
SweetCunt97:
So how will u guys manage? Money for pampers, cerelac, baby carrier, baby bed and net, baby medications etc? I pray u get a good job soon.

Amen bro iam doubling my hussle and shes doing something also shes not a lazy woman plus nysc is just in few months time so she can nurse d child more during her nysc
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:14pm On Feb 17, 2020
eni4real:
This guy, you are very funny!!
Counsellor for Wetin?? Na you born am??
Na you send am come Lagos??

You are too caring and that is your weak point!!!

This same women will not hesitate to pour hot water on you if you make any slight mistake!!

You are too considerate!!

Pregnancy is complicating this matter tho.. You can't dump her like that!!!

Take your decision after her delivery!!!!

From all indication, you will not dump her!!!

Let's bet!!!

Happy Married Life in advance grin

Yeah and shes very caring too she can go through hell and stress herself to make sure am fine

But bro she knows alot of ladies are into me and its keeping her on her toes.. Plus shes riding on the luck that my parents like her thereby using it to misbehave.. The anger started may last year and since then it has been getting worst...
What broke the carmels back was her stoning me out of anger,,

Maybe she needs a psychiatrist or a therapist
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:10pm On Feb 17, 2020
melexchi:
when both of u were dating u neva saw those faults? u got her pregnant now ure looking for means to make her a baby mama with ur shitty excuse

First 6 month she was an angel o

Infact am d one treating her like thrash get angry easily she will cry and beg and all... Few ppl who know her from the scratch said she doesnt really get angered so fast except if the thing is too much but what am scared of is her anger can make her do stupid things like insulting ppls parent, insulting me and all
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:08pm On Feb 17, 2020
SweetCunt97:
You guys should abort. Don't bring a kid into this world that will bear d brunt of her frustration and anger.

She's not buying the idea of abortion atal.. Habe stylishly bring it into discussion she said she can and will never abort.. And shes ready to carry d pregnancy but all shes scared of is her parents
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:04pm On Feb 17, 2020
Originalsly:


You need to start being a man..... reading signs and making decisions. The writing is on the wall..... stop being an illiterate. From all that you wrote.... I am also sure.... you are not responsible for the pregnancy.

Lol iam, shes not a wayward lady, infact i brought her out of her shell and she lost her virginity to me

Her mum has been very supportive and infact has been a second mum to me,,you wont understand bro but all i need is a solution that will curb the anger issh... Thats her only problem in life.. No human is perfect sir

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 3:01pm On Feb 17, 2020
iLegendd:
I didn't read with the intention to reply, but just to find out if I'll see lines like

1. I love her so much
2. We love each other
3. I can't live without her

You people never disappoint. Too many stupid weak men and nice guys all around the world. The moment most stupid Nigerian men have a beautiful light-skinned girl as a girlfriend, they worship her and never dump her despite her bad behaviors. You'll begin to hear things like I love her more than anything, I can't live without her, etc.

You stupid men without dating principles deserve to suffer in the hands of women. You can't even talk when I sneeze let alone insult our last born talk more of my parents. Dem no born that stupid woman well. The relationship will end instantly even though you have 7 billion kids in your belly. I'm angry after reading this.




Trust me bro, am not stupid alot of crazy feminist women are out there,she will beg and do all manners, kneel down cry that she will change but me i know it wont change,,i already told her to get in touch with a counsellor concerning her anger.. She wasnt like this during the start of the relationship so if i had seen red flags i would have leave the relationship a long time

I have plans of leaving her but the ish is the pregnancy is tieing me down now
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 12:56pm On Feb 17, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
you should have known that before you slept with her

you can't change somebody's character. Be ready for war. Because she will use that child against you

Yeah i was blind initially,, every man has made one or two mistakes in life

Thank you once again

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 12:49pm On Feb 17, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
so I take it that you will marry her

Marry wetin?? When am unemployed.. I just wish she could change cos she has apologized of changing and she would still go back on the same anger driven madness..
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 12:29pm On Feb 17, 2020
funmisticqueen2:
As you made your bed, you must lie on it. The way I see it, these are your options;

1. Abort it and go your separate ways

2. Carry it and marry her. Then you will learn to deal with her temper issues.

3.carry it and don't marry her, make her your baby mama, that way she will learn to resent the child and train it with hate, and the child will learn to hate you.

4. Let her birth the child and try to take it from her. Then she will unleash the fullness of her 'temper issues' on you and your family.

I prefer option one. It is cheaper and headache free

She doesn't want abortion atal.. And shes scared cos of the shane and embarrassment of carrying a baby while in final year and nursing a child while in nysc

Funny enough my mum loves her and shes aware shes pregnant,

Thanks for the contributions anyway
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 12:27pm On Feb 17, 2020
samguru:
Let me guess the tribe/state/region of this lady.......hmmmmm South South, Delta state?

Ok that was a joke ooo.

My Brother, If that big stone hit you on the head and you die instantly what do you think we happen to your unborn baby? another man will come and father your child as the faulty legal system in Nigeria may allow her go scot-free.

A lady that has no respect for your parent/family members and attempted to kill you with stone is neither your future wife nor your girlfriend at all, no matter how hot the conversation between both of you get.

Please, Let her do her wish and avoid her completely, because when she eventually birth the child she will torment you with that child, by taking him/her away from your radar.

MY ADVICE
Please relegate her to the status of baby mama and launch a search for a responsible and God-fearing lady.If you fail to heed to my advice, I will be happy to spit on your grave when the eventuality happen.

Thank you

Lol thanks
The lady is Kogi by the way

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 10:11am On Feb 17, 2020
Coolcalmcollect:
you better do abortion and learn to use condom next time....she doesn't have a job, you don't have a job and you wanna add baby to the mix....una no just dey like get sense. how much be condom kiss kiss is 100bucks and you can use it for 3 rounds. when you dey knack you no remember all these her bad character abi and when you cum you come know bah. all these weak men sef....my friend go and do abortion.

Bros the cd burst she use postinol eno work

Though we do raw sometimes with withdrawal sha..

Well i got a small job for her she's managing as a student pending when she goes for nysc this October

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 10:02am On Feb 17, 2020
Ardar:
Oga you've not told us what you did to that girl, nobody will just start screaming at you without been provoked.

We need to hear from the girl too.

Alright this is it,, we were having a discussion on how to break the news to her parents on the pregnancy cos we both have plans of keeping the pregnancy,her phone was with me, and during the discussion she got angry when i said if she cant bear the shame and pass through all dis when the baby bump hasnt show,,please how will she cope when we start facing tough tough issues later on and i immediately said and if she cant cope with it we cn go for abortion then and all this nags and insults will stop

Then she got angry immediately stood up and told me to give her back her phone i refused saying we need to really discuss this and she shouldn't be getting angered at everything and we shouldnt run away from this discussion as she has always been trying not to discuss the pregnancy thing

Before you know it she started shouting give me my phone and i refused infact the shouts was just too much but i refused cos i was having an important discussion with her and shes trying to walk away

Haba who does that
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 10:00am On Feb 17, 2020
Ardar:
Oga you've not told us what you did to that girl, nobody will just start screaming at you without been provoked.

We need to hear from the girl too.

Alright this is it,, we were having a discussion on how to break the news to her parents on the pregnancy cos we both have plans of keeping the pregnancy,her phone was with me, and during the discussion she got angry when i said if she cant bear the shame and pass through all dis when the baby bump hasnt show,,please how will she cope when we start facing tough tough issues later on and i immediately said and if she cant cope with it we cn go for abortion then and all this nags and insults will stop

Then she got angry immediately stood up and told me to give her back her phone i refused saying we need to really discuss this and she shouldn't be getting angered at everything and we shouldnt run away from this discussion as she has always been trying not to discuss the pregnancy thing

Before you know it she started shouting give me my phone and i refused infact she shouts was just too much but i refused cos i was having an important discussion with her and shes trying to walk away

Haba who does that

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 9:48am On Feb 17, 2020
MarianaTrench:


Do whatever you can to convince her to have an abortion then dump her!

She's very strong on not aborting o

That gurl get choco for head Sir,, if i tell her to abort she might go about telling people later on that i told her to abort the pregnancy,, shes scared and feeling ashamed and her parents opinion on d pregnancy... I only wish she could change her anger
Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 9:45am On Feb 17, 2020
IAmStrange:
You've made mistakes in life man. Fornication and getting her pregnant is among.

But I want you to know this. The fact that you got a girl pregnant doesn't mean you MUST marry her.

Please don't be coerced into doing so. You people can pick up different lives even with the baby in the picture if you manage the situation properly

And again, the fact that a girl loves you doesn't mean she's the right woman for marriage oo. It's not only love you'll live with oo rather you'll live it with her character too.

So you need to sit and think, weigh pros and cons and decide if she's the right woman to marry.

Don't coerce yourself because she's pregnant and don't put in for marriage just because she loves you.

Characters defines the kind of a woman. And what kind of a woman she'll be will define or influence what kind of a wife she'll make.

Be wise, son!

Thanks Daddy ☺
She loves me though never cheated on me infact shes caring, neat, she cooks well but her only problem in life in anger and her anger can do stupid things

Shes intelligent and smart too,, i fell in love for the intelligence and not really cos shes preety cos i have dated gurls preetier than her

Shes 21 though

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 9:29am On Feb 17, 2020
Yinabim:
Person wey you never marry she don Dey throw stones , how sure are you she won’t throw knife one day sad .
I know you saw all these before you got her pregnant . Now wey belle don enter my dear take it to the Lord in prayers

I saw it ooo.
But people are always like she will change infact her mum likes me alot and she has even been d driving factor to me believing she will change

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 9:27am On Feb 17, 2020
Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

Brother i get u,, e dey happen atimes.. But am in d poo already.. I shouldn't run away from my problems i should face it squarely

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 9:25am On Feb 17, 2020
Olalan:
You knew about her toxic personality yet you went ahead to get her pregnant, for two years you tolerated shit all in the name of love or probably her beauty boosted your ego among friends.
Do well to inform her family about her toxic behaviour and maybe take her to see a psychologist

Thanks alot

Yes u are right shes preety and intelligent a 4pointer cgpa in school even at that

I have informed her family about this though
Her mum has always been d one advising me on how to treat her when shes angry that she knows her too

i shield some of her insults of my parents from my family so they won't hate her

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Romance / Re: My Pregnant, Stubborn Girlfriend Slapped Me, Insults My Parents by Diligentnigga(m): 9:23am On Feb 17, 2020
Officialgarri:
Your girlfriend/potential killer only went to school buy she isn't educated.

Stay by her till she delivers of the baby, then tell her why you can no longer stay in such an abusive relationship.

However, I doubt if you will be alive by the time she gives birth in jail

Bro am just fedup,, her mum has even apologized her on her behalf and warned her to stop insulting my parents

Her mum complained several times about that she knows an coping and going through alot that i should be a man and be calm and understand her

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