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LagosInter:
I NEED TRICKS or OT to BRING A GIRL HOME first without going on dates.


This is because at times, these girls are only interested in chopping your money without having any serious interest or dropping pusssy

And once they chop the money, sunk cost fallacy might set it, leading to more chasing and more spending and billings.

It can be frustrating.

Tell the babe you dont really love hangouts and dates, pretend like you're an introvert when it comes to public hangouts and make sure you find a common ground where you guys can just meet randomly say church or a place where you can have a quick chit chat with her and leave acting like you're busy

Just let her know she can trust you that if she sense any foul play then she can leave

But at the same time get your dress sense and your fragrances right

She will come

I do this alot and it works like magic

There are so many guys suffering from severe oneitis dunno if guys can share more light on this severe disease

Even the so called redpilled guys can suffer from this syndrome

[quote author=kobams post=116652305]Good morning guys, please I need your help with something, There is this close friend of mine that just got served breakfast

Its oneitis brother just tell him to give the ex space,hit the gym,focus more on himself and his finances and make more female friends

He will be alright,,though the ex thought will always creep in but he should stay focused with time he will start getting better and infact feel better and bolder which can even attract the ex back

Martinez39s:
He has severe onetitis. He was probably playing bad boy in relationship at the start only for him to soften up and undergo serious BETAfication. That's what I'm guessing, I might be wrong. Anyway, your friend will be alright.

Exactly what i went through months ago
Thanks to you brother for helping me out of that shiii

siofra:
I'm proud to say that while I was inactive on nairaland, I was hard at work on Twitter, reporting Shola's posts for hate speech against women.

I told you guys he would get it, you thought I was kidding.

Thegidredpiller, your own is coming, don't worry.

My hard work paid off.

Let me go and check if he has accounts on other sane social media platforms and report them too.

And you're happy about this Do you like it when men act and behave like a weakling around you

Cant you see how weak this generation men are compare to our fathers
Now there's movement to make men stronger and focus and achieve their goals rather than simping and acting like wimps about with women

But you're here reporting people who 75% of their advises is to make men more focused,aim high,achieve their goals and improve masculinity

Smh

A dance of shame in the market Square...
A trouncing in the full glare of the world..
A remarkable bashing, a significant fatal blow to a pretending title contender.
They came, loud and brash like a full barrel, alas, we opened the barrel, bisimilai, the Egyptian muttered, it was empty, scantily filled however with the chewed bones of a Portuguese goat.
May old Trafford remain a retirement home for those in search of a circus... It is the only right thing.

Biggest loss against Liverpool in 96years
What a shame��‍♂️

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Gate050:
Same here. I'm in ilorin too and was deployed to the same place with you. Kindly drop me your digit make me talk

Where did you pick as place of residence

kenddys:
So like with the whole population of Nigeria we cannot participate in 40 sports

Like look at some of the sports


Very simple to learn

All that is needed is just facilities, good coaching and constant practice

Just imagine how unemployment will reduce

actually we would need to qualify ist before participating,,olympics is for best of the best.

ogoloray:
I just tire for the guy... Very greedy

I did mine at ilorin for 500 too

Where in ilorin please?

NTeach 65%
But i havent enrol for the finger print
When is it closing

Kwara 65%

Thanks baby ..

Sysdatek:
Send a pm or quote with WhatsApp number

Iam very much interested
This is my whatsapp number

08142994264

Resurgent2016:
She is probably not just unhappy about being pregnant outside marriage but also concern about how the family will cope since you are still struggling financially. Mst young girl dreams of having a stable home where she is confident of having her needs met particularly now that she is pregnant.

All the best in securing a better surce of livelihood

Yes thats my best guess.. She will pull through.. But that doesn't stop me from dealing with her for that public outrage, cos have chosen to stay away from her for days if not weeks

Thanls for the contribution

Let me clear the air abit on people believing she has been hitting me always..

During the public incidence where she held my shirt tightly for me to give her back her phone,, i refused cos she was running away from the serious discussion we were having

I refused cos she has really been traumatized by the sad incidence of carrying a child outside wedlock it hasnt really been easy for her... Plus she only hit me once when i was trying so much to hold her down cos she loves running away from healthy discussion that infuriates her

Thanks everyone for your contribution any marriage is on hold for now between me and her and i want to give her a lot of space and time for things to sInk down in her brain that what she did in public was a very stupid act... She has never been like that for once all through the relationship

Well we can all blame a 20 soon to be 21 year old gurl by December.. But people should always weigh and ask reasons why she's doing somethings not just jumping to conclusions she has been caring and loving and infact this my parents she do insult is only to my face shes super scared of my parents and respect them when they are around


Thanks everyone for the contribution and as soon as her head is back i will be taking her to a therapist and a councillor for proper anger management control... No one is never perfect in life Iam not perfect either if you'll are pushing me to run away from her what about the next available victim to marry
She needs help!!! Not been castigated and rubbished

and not to forgrt she has pushed through alot of my bullshits also,alot i can begin to say on air


You'll should suggest ways she can be helped not castigating everyone

GreenDee:
Exactly, infact maybe because he is weak, d gal. might just tie down d pregnancy on him too

No one is tieing any pregnancy on anyone..am 100% sure of it..

She was provoked anyways thats why she threw the stone, she only hit me once,,squeezed my shirt once before the public incidence... She wasnt like that the first 6 months of the relationship.. So i know her to an extent dont jump to any conclusion

orunmila144:
What is her date of birth and what is yours. i want to do an astrology compatibility on the both of you
NB any other person who writes me for this test you must drop money into my zenith akant. i no get time

March 30th mine
December 15th hers

rawfact:
You're right. She won't really change by herself. You are the only one that can change her but that would make you a woman beater for sometime, and might end up quenching/draining the love, if there is real love between the both of you.

As hard as it is to say, some ladies need strong handling. This lady of yours is one of them. No two ways about it. Such a lady is not the type a man would pledge not to lay hands on. That pledge would be null and void in the face of stark reality except the relationship or marriage is dissolved. That is why such is better done by her dad, who can't be really be alleged for domestic violence or the relationship is ended if her dad can't do nothing.

But don't rush to conclusions because she is 21 (immature) and also pregnant (hormonal imbalance) but caution her with a very stern face and harsh tone never ever to repeat that shit (public disgrace/violence).

Meanwhile, stop being too caring for now so that above message can really sink in to her. Also be unavailable for weeks too. This is your way of slapping sense into her brain without lifting a finger. Whenever you come around, she will sheepishly be giving you more love, care and attention above the child in her womb.

Finally, in as much as your mum is obviously glad to receive a grandchild (maybe her first) and wouldn't mind being her spokesperson or influence over you, ensure you don't make yourself "mummy's boy". Be a man and ensure you accomplish each phase of what you are doing in your lady and never let her successfully manipulate you through your mum.

Very observative.. This plan is in motion already,,she once cried knowing fully well she needed help

I plan on staying away from her for days if not weeks.. And it will really take a strong man to deal with those kind of women and as soon as her head is cool,, she will go see a therapist or counsellor

Nooil:
You were the one who brought out the beast in her. What's her birth date let me see if I can give you the best solution to calm her.

December 15

Victoronah1:
young man go and make money. Look at how you confidently come online and post that you're unemployed and about to have a baby. You should be ashamed of yourself.

I am doing my best,iam not lazy, you just know the Nigeria we are now

Plus we all make mistakes in life no one is perfect

Ardar:
Stop aggravating her, sometimes you need to compromise knowing fully well that she's volatile.

Endure o, after all you saw the signs earlier.

I actually didn't she was peaceful and calm for almost 6 month nd people that knew her confirmed this ,, we do quarel tho but am always the one with the anger issues then

But u see that anger that will make u do stupid things thats where the problem is

Ardar:
I should not defend her but I should defend you? When they say use protection while fvcking, una no go hear. Abort now, no. Now you've been caged with pregnancy and looking for who will defend you.

I dont need your defense

I only need solution to her anger issues and how to go about dealing with an anger driven woman that is pregnant

Ardar:
Uncle you're the problem here, you don't tell a girl who is going through so much cuz of a pregnancy you're responsible for to just suck it up and bear the shame.

Like it or not people will talk and it won't be you they'll be pointing accusing fingers at.

Even before the pregnancy she has been ruthless and anger driven

I know anger of pregnancy from anger of stupidity don't defend her can u advise ur brother to marry a lady that insults ur parent and inflct bite wounds and slap u cos shes preggy

eni4real:
She loves you too much

Japa, Japa

Yes sir..
That's just her only bad side

Anger

Am running she did see a psychiatrist instead she a narcissist

Jim99:
She's behaving like that because she hasn't met her match. You have to be extremely violent to her

Sometimes violence is the answer

Absolutely
I have been calm all this while but when she saw rage and anger from me she ran she was very scared.. She knew that i am not some wimps


It takes a tough man to deal with a tough woman thanks for the head start

SweetCunt97:
So how will u guys manage? Money for pampers, cerelac, baby carrier, baby bed and net, baby medications etc? I pray u get a good job soon.

Amen bro iam doubling my hussle and shes doing something also shes not a lazy woman plus nysc is just in few months time so she can nurse d child more during her nysc

eni4real:
This guy, you are very funny!!
Counsellor for Wetin?? Na you born am??
Na you send am come Lagos??

You are too caring and that is your weak point!!!

This same women will not hesitate to pour hot water on you if you make any slight mistake!!

You are too considerate!!

Pregnancy is complicating this matter tho.. You can't dump her like that!!!

Take your decision after her delivery!!!!

From all indication, you will not dump her!!!

Let's bet!!!

Happy Married Life in advance

Yeah and shes very caring too she can go through hell and stress herself to make sure am fine

But bro she knows alot of ladies are into me and its keeping her on her toes.. Plus shes riding on the luck that my parents like her thereby using it to misbehave.. The anger started may last year and since then it has been getting worst...
What broke the carmels back was her stoning me out of anger,,

Maybe she needs a psychiatrist or a therapist

melexchi:
when both of u were dating u neva saw those faults? u got her pregnant now ure looking for means to make her a baby mama with ur shitty excuse

First 6 month she was an angel o

Infact am d one treating her like thrash get angry easily she will cry and beg and all... Few ppl who know her from the scratch said she doesnt really get angered so fast except if the thing is too much but what am scared of is her anger can make her do stupid things like insulting ppls parent, insulting me and all

SweetCunt97:
You guys should abort. Don't bring a kid into this world that will bear d brunt of her frustration and anger.

She's not buying the idea of abortion atal.. Habe stylishly bring it into discussion she said she can and will never abort.. And shes ready to carry d pregnancy but all shes scared of is her parents

Originalsly:
You need to start being a man..... reading signs and making decisions. The writing is on the wall..... stop being an illiterate. From all that you wrote.... I am also sure.... you are not responsible for the pregnancy.

Lol iam, shes not a wayward lady, infact i brought her out of her shell and she lost her virginity to me

Her mum has been very supportive and infact has been a second mum to me,,you wont understand bro but all i need is a solution that will curb the anger issh... Thats her only problem in life.. No human is perfect sir