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iLegendd:
I didn't read with the intention to reply, but just to find out if I'll see lines like

1. I love her so much
2. We love each other
3. I can't live without her

You people never disappoint. Too many stupid weak men and nice guys all around the world. The moment most stupid Nigerian men have a beautiful light-skinned girl as a girlfriend, they worship her and never dump her despite her bad behaviors. You'll begin to hear things like I love her more than anything, I can't live without her, etc.

You stupid men without dating principles deserve to suffer in the hands of women. You can't even talk when I sneeze let alone insult our last born talk more of my parents. Dem no born that stupid woman well. The relationship will end instantly even though you have 7 billion kids in your belly. I'm angry after reading this.

Trust me bro, am not stupid alot of crazy feminist women are out there,she will beg and do all manners, kneel down cry that she will change but me i know it wont change,,i already told her to get in touch with a counsellor concerning her anger.. She wasnt like this during the start of the relationship so if i had seen red flags i would have leave the relationship a long time

I have plans of leaving her but the ish is the pregnancy is tieing me down now

funmisticqueen2:
you should have known that before you slept with her

you can't change somebody's character. Be ready for war. Because she will use that child against you

Yeah i was blind initially,, every man has made one or two mistakes in life

Thank you once again

funmisticqueen2:
so I take it that you will marry her

Marry wetin?? When am unemployed.. I just wish she could change cos she has apologized of changing and she would still go back on the same anger driven madness..

funmisticqueen2:
As you made your bed, you must lie on it. The way I see it, these are your options;

1. Abort it and go your separate ways

2. Carry it and marry her. Then you will learn to deal with her temper issues.

3.carry it and don't marry her, make her your baby mama, that way she will learn to resent the child and train it with hate, and the child will learn to hate you.

4. Let her birth the child and try to take it from her. Then she will unleash the fullness of her 'temper issues' on you and your family.

I prefer option one. It is cheaper and headache free

She doesn't want abortion atal.. And shes scared cos of the shane and embarrassment of carrying a baby while in final year and nursing a child while in nysc

Funny enough my mum loves her and shes aware shes pregnant,

Thanks for the contributions anyway

samguru:
Let me guess the tribe/state/region of this lady.......hmmmmm South South, Delta state?

Ok that was a joke ooo.

My Brother, If that big stone hit you on the head and you die instantly what do you think we happen to your unborn baby? another man will come and father your child as the faulty legal system in Nigeria may allow her go scot-free.

A lady that has no respect for your parent/family members and attempted to kill you with stone is neither your future wife nor your girlfriend at all, no matter how hot the conversation between both of you get.

Please, Let her do her wish and avoid her completely, because when she eventually birth the child she will torment you with that child, by taking him/her away from your radar.

MY ADVICE
Please relegate her to the status of baby mama and launch a search for a responsible and God-fearing lady.If you fail to heed to my advice, I will be happy to spit on your grave when the eventuality happen.

Thank you

Lol thanks
The lady is Kogi by the way

Coolcalmcollect:
you better do abortion and learn to use condom next time....she doesn't have a job, you don't have a job and you wanna add baby to the mix....una no just dey like get sense. how much be condom kiss kiss is 100bucks and you can use it for 3 rounds. when you dey knack you no remember all these her bad character abi and when you cum you come know bah. all these weak men sef....my friend go and do abortion.

Bros the cd burst she use postinol eno work

Though we do raw sometimes with withdrawal sha..

Well i got a small job for her she's managing as a student pending when she goes for nysc this October

Ardar:
Oga you've not told us what you did to that girl, nobody will just start screaming at you without been provoked.

We need to hear from the girl too.

Alright this is it,, we were having a discussion on how to break the news to her parents on the pregnancy cos we both have plans of keeping the pregnancy,her phone was with me, and during the discussion she got angry when i said if she cant bear the shame and pass through all dis when the baby bump hasnt show,,please how will she cope when we start facing tough tough issues later on and i immediately said and if she cant cope with it we cn go for abortion then and all this nags and insults will stop

Then she got angry immediately stood up and told me to give her back her phone i refused saying we need to really discuss this and she shouldn't be getting angered at everything and we shouldnt run away from this discussion as she has always been trying not to discuss the pregnancy thing

Before you know it she started shouting give me my phone and i refused infact the shouts was just too much but i refused cos i was having an important discussion with her and shes trying to walk away

Haba who does that

Ardar:
Oga you've not told us what you did to that girl, nobody will just start screaming at you without been provoked.

We need to hear from the girl too.

Alright this is it,, we were having a discussion on how to break the news to her parents on the pregnancy cos we both have plans of keeping the pregnancy,her phone was with me, and during the discussion she got angry when i said if she cant bear the shame and pass through all dis when the baby bump hasnt show,,please how will she cope when we start facing tough tough issues later on and i immediately said and if she cant cope with it we cn go for abortion then and all this nags and insults will stop

Then she got angry immediately stood up and told me to give her back her phone i refused saying we need to really discuss this and she shouldn't be getting angered at everything and we shouldnt run away from this discussion as she has always been trying not to discuss the pregnancy thing

Before you know it she started shouting give me my phone and i refused infact she shouts was just too much but i refused cos i was having an important discussion with her and shes trying to walk away

Haba who does that

MarianaTrench:
Do whatever you can to convince her to have an abortion then dump her!

She's very strong on not aborting o

That gurl get choco for head Sir,, if i tell her to abort she might go about telling people later on that i told her to abort the pregnancy,, shes scared and feeling ashamed and her parents opinion on d pregnancy... I only wish she could change her anger

IAmStrange:
You've made mistakes in life man. Fornication and getting her pregnant is among.

But I want you to know this. The fact that you got a girl pregnant doesn't mean you MUST marry her.

Please don't be coerced into doing so. You people can pick up different lives even with the baby in the picture if you manage the situation properly

And again, the fact that a girl loves you doesn't mean she's the right woman for marriage oo. It's not only love you'll live with oo rather you'll live it with her character too.

So you need to sit and think, weigh pros and cons and decide if she's the right woman to marry.

Don't coerce yourself because she's pregnant and don't put in for marriage just because she loves you.

Characters defines the kind of a woman. And what kind of a woman she'll be will define or influence what kind of a wife she'll make.

Be wise, son!

Thanks Daddy ☺
She loves me though never cheated on me infact shes caring, neat, she cooks well but her only problem in life in anger and her anger can do stupid things

Shes intelligent and smart too,, i fell in love for the intelligence and not really cos shes preety cos i have dated gurls preetier than her

Shes 21 though

Yinabim:
Person wey you never marry she don Dey throw stones , how sure are you she won’t throw knife one day .
I know you saw all these before you got her pregnant . Now wey belle don enter my dear take it to the Lord in prayers

I saw it ooo.
But people are always like she will change infact her mum likes me alot and she has even been d driving factor to me believing she will change

Shibaraba:
I'm done with people who come online to ask questions they know the answer to already.

My question is, how una Preeq dey strong when una broke. When I'm broke Ogbeni my Preeq no dey get life. My Preeq has the same feeling with shibaraba. I'm suspecting it has a brain sef. Once my account balance is pink if you like open the punna to my face, make your Yansh be like buffalo own, make your breasts be like oganigwe own, e no go strong.

But make account green. E dey strong even for sleep

Brother i get u,, e dey happen atimes.. But am in d poo already.. I shouldn't run away from my problems i should face it squarely

Olalan:
You knew about her toxic personality yet you went ahead to get her pregnant, for two years you tolerated shit all in the name of love or probably her beauty boosted your ego among friends.
Do well to inform her family about her toxic behaviour and maybe take her to see a psychologist

Thanks alot

Yes u are right shes preety and intelligent a 4pointer cgpa in school even at that

I have informed her family about this though
Her mum has always been d one advising me on how to treat her when shes angry that she knows her too

i shield some of her insults of my parents from my family so they won't hate her

Officialgarri:
Your girlfriend/potential killer only went to school buy she isn't educated.

Stay by her till she delivers of the baby, then tell her why you can no longer stay in such an abusive relationship.

However, I doubt if you will be alive by the time she gives birth in jail

Bro am just fedup,, her mum has even apologized her on her behalf and warned her to stop insulting my parents

Her mum complained several times about that she knows an coping and going through alot that i should be a man and be calm and understand her

Good morning Nairalanders, I will make this as short as possible and please don't mind my punctuation as I am typing this in a rush

I am a graduate, though unemployed but doing one or two menial jobs to keep mind and soul together

I have this girlfriend I have been dating for almost two years now. We both love each other but the issue at hand is she's a stubborn, anger driven person that insults my parents. In fact hit me sometimes and says all manner of words at me.

Of recent, I found out she's pregnant this February. Now the issue is she's a finalist in the University as she will be serving this year October, but we had plans of not doing abortion but she's so ashamed of everything and just irrational and saying all manners like what people will say this and that, and I have told her I will stay by her through everything. I informed my mum and my immediate siblings about the pregnancy, they were angry but they were like it's fine sha since she's loved in the family

Now the issue is
1 She's very stubborn
2 she insults my parents at every small argument
3 she's anger driven, yes am anger driven to an extent also but I have never used my anger to do stupid things like hitting her before compare to many times she has Slapped, locked my shirt and punched me.
4 we had an issue last night and it was in public and she was just shouting at me, passers by and onlookers were just amused that why would a lady be like this that she now had to take a big stone and throw at me, though I dodged the stone all because i was gearing her to let's leave the public scene and go home
5 A baby is on the line cos she's pregnant and even if you will advise me to leave the relationship as it's toxic, what about the unborn child.
6 I am currently unemployed and in fact am still at home not yet balanced up well enough, but she has used nags to kill me, saying all manners at me

All insults are welcomed. Please I am in die need of advise thank you.

Martinez39s:
The bimbo has started the cheap and common shaming insinuating that I am red pill because I have been unable to get women. I won't respond to her as promised instead I will laugh at her stupidity from a distance. I can't make unproductive and worthless bimbos relevant or waste my attention and time on them. I will prefer you cease replying her tho.

I swear u and ayoothniel dey f'up why una dey reply the bitch..i know ladies like her,,have dealt with many of them in time past,,they've got nothing to offer except spilling thrash and talking less of a man
Dont u know the more you guys reply the bitch or even talk about her,, the more she feel shes important.. In yoruba "wan ma n da won nu ni" you don't reply them.. Let her be mesmerizing in her stupidity and be feeling shes passing a point there are many ladies like her out there,, you dont give a hoot about them,, jjst nyash dem and throw dem for dustbin dassol

olatunle:
Some of the Candidates that wrote first session (7am) at my center (Ekiti Anglican Diocesan High School, Ile-Abiye Premises, Ado-Ekiti, Ekiti State) were left redfaced as many of them were logged out of the session without them attempting upto 15questions out of 100.
Exam was set to start by 9am and finish by 10am but 80% of the candidates due to no fault of theirs (the systems we not connecting to the network; so majority had to wait for some to finish and then use theirs) did not start until 5mins to 10; in some cases 10 o'clock. Then all of a sudden, the supervisor says 10mins more, after all complaints and begging they say OK only to start logging people out from the server at 20mins pass 10am leaving some of the candidates stranded and resigning to their fate...

Same here too very annoying
I did mine at Unilorin ETC center 2 session 1

An exam that was to start 7am started 9am, we were stranded system malfuctioning, errors,calculator was even hanging my system

Thank God i took my time to answer my questions properly before getting to question 89 and the system logged most of us out of no where. I was pained

Just hoping God crown my effort guys.. Some even ignored some questions all in the hope of coming back to answered the questions were dashed

God dey sha

Unilorin cbt centre anyone

Aolaniyi:
Hello house, P.S is there anyone in category [NCS/C08/xxxxx ]that received the link

Yes i did

Ubunja my main man,
Thanks for liberating weak men all over Nigeria

idiots plenty for this life i swear,, just look at who is giving people advise.

TBH people are struggling and working hard the money aint just coming, but at the same time age is not on any ones side.. if you have little that can sustain you extra mouth and a mini flat with a side business.. my brother just go ahead.. you will never regret that single step you took in 30 years from then.. people aint ready to make hard decision though tough but has a lot of benefits headon
Tough times dont last
i know people that have been like had i know i would have marry earlier cos they follow this idiots advice

hussle o make one mumu no come dey give you advice about what to do to get married when he himself cant fix hinself

post=80989223:
A man laying his hands on a woman is nothing but a beast.

A woman having concubines while still under her husband's roof is nothing but a dog.

They are both guilty as charged.
We Rise!

but what would you call a woman laying his hands on a man, squuezing his shirt and slapping him?? I shes not a beast right??

SBL28:
So sex as a topic is reserved for men right? Oga wake up, this is 2019 not 1920. Oshisco

I dont knw maybe i should reply u or not but u dont seem intelligent enuf to worth me dragging issues with u,cos i dont argue with dummies and kids

Like u guys havent been seeing whats going on on IG Twitter and everywhere(Ethinosa issue as a case study)....ladies now comeout boldly to talk alot about sex dis days which is not something u talk openly about those days..OP is slightly correct with sm of his ideology

If u are bashing d op as a lady den u are guilty of dis tooo...i have been looking at d dish and feud going on but i just kept quiet..chk every news dat make front page nowadays...u will see a lady saying stuffs about sex,,everytn sex ass boobs evrytn.....our ladies of nowadays no try atal

Yes there are decent ladies out there but at the long run dey have tendency to be whores too,,cos maybe they havent been dragged awt of there confort zones..

ruddyman500:
thanks so much bro i really appreciate your sincere opinions its as if u read my mind ..that is exactly what i planned to do and i have even started already this morning ...its not as if am a soft guy but she was the one that complained back in 2017 that i was too harsh that i should stop treating her as if she is my enemy...based on that i really worked on myself to change and i showed her love and gave her the best of all i could afford . She greeted me this morning and i answered and she went tp prepare food but i did not eat ..just told her am off to the office .I think i have ro revert back to my old self if that is what will work.....My peace of mind is paramount in all these bro....I have also called that her pastor brother this morning and he was just full of surprises, he said i have kept quite for too long that he cant take such arrant nonsense even as a pastor...He said he will get back to me as soon as he leaves office today

Exactly bro u are on the right path to getting her back to her senses,,trust me you,,shes missing u and shes thinking about it also and feeling guilty somehow,, sometimes some issues are best tackled with silence,,before this week runs out am sure u will see changes

Ignore all d post dat shes cheatin on u and stuffs d truth is shes not,,if she was she wudnt mention the exes in d ist place she wud rather lie to u dat she wanna go c a friend,,she said her ex to u cos she was thinking u would trust her the more and stuffs...but truth is shes immature to knw in marriage exes are exes,,u restrict ur communication with them to d bearest minimal,,

Since u said u were harsh at ist during 2017 and sshe complained about it theres no point being harsh just b quiet and b patient with her in a very hard way,,like not sleeping with her ignoring her food and all she will definitely cum back to her senses

15ssDRIVE:
Baba,Woman Na the only sword with multiple edges. As in Na Baba God Dey give person wife,no
Matter of I sabi choose.

At this stage,the 2 options is peace,peace,peace.

Just Dey watch like Mumu,senior people says. Suru lafi se Oko obirin.

She go begin fear,when she realize that no more,questioning or counter arguments.

When she says,I am going to Ibadan. Tell am safe trip,may God go with you.

If she want go kafancha.... Salam alaikum.

She want go New York,tell am make she greet Donald trump for you.

Try to engage yourself in some hobbies,that needs time and attention.

For me as Igbo smoker...... I just Dey watch you like Dele Giwa.Till the day way,Gods kingdom go come in our life.

Nice reply..just patience and quietness,,she will get afraid soonest,,i do dat for my gfs too dat i knw she loves me well,,i dont have time to be dragging or baby sitting women

kobosmart:
She no even fine sef

Let us see ur gf pictures ode

alleazardous:
follow me let's play "sulesh"

I just did bro

Life is like a game of chess,,u make mistakes and u cant undo it

Lets play on lichess..if u have d app,,there server is very ok

My username is TUNEDEY1

Come to unilorin..all dis ones are learning,, na money make dem fresh most are not fine

Product of unilorin..#werepresenting

We still representing