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Teespice:
you have gotten my views on the subject on two separate posts already.

Where?

Teespice:
on the contrary, you are the one going round in circles.

why ask me a question you have gotten the answer to or are you asking again because you found out my answer was sarcastic?

Everyone knew you were being sarcastic but thats beside the point. The request was simple enough. Let us have your views.

She is never the victim. The man is. She never married him for love but for convenience and it sure looks like she kept throwing it in the mans face until the man has had enough and decided to fire back. The man didnt just start to drink he discovered something heinous about his wife that shattered him.
The woman is not being truth full about the true state of things.

She

These clowns are actually women who transitioned to men. They are transgendered men. Just look at the photos they have no dicks but the still have all the female reproductive organs like ovary, eggs and womb.

It is indeed clear that the disagreement between MASSOB and IPOB is based on battle for supremacy by the two groups and nothing else, when Biafra has not even seceded yet! Massob quickly dissociated themselves from the condemnation of Pastor Kumuyi coming to Aba for Crusade while the demented Nnamdi Kanu of Ipob is busy trying to whip up ethnic sentiments against the Man of God. Massob's answer to the brouhaha is way more matured and well thought out than the babaric,childish belittling approach by Ipob.
And in all honestly, this is a child play to the terribly chaos that will befall South Easterners if they eventually pull away as all manner of groups and individuals will be violently jostling for position.
Indeed the new state of Biafra will not survive the internal crisis and will never even be able to stand on its on feet.
It will be worse than in 1967 when fellow Biafran soldiers led by Emmanuel Ifeajuna and co attempted to topple Ojukwu inside Biafra!

cococandy:
Like I said, we all see ourselves as better than we are. Trouble makers don't admit they are troublesome. No be you dey tell me how others are attacking you first and how you're gentle. Yimu

So is this an indictment on ya self? All those sweet things you mentioned about yourself,all Na wash ba?

Teespice:
I gave you a definition of a real woman.

what more do you want?

You see ya life? Why the merry go round na?

damiso:
Gosh this NL will not kee me.

Seems like you are loving my definition of the concept?

Teespice:
that definition is relative.

a real woman to one person may be a fake woman to another.

why the obsession with women sef. other threads are about pussy.

what changed?

It is now an obsession with women abi? But na una dey always hurry to define 'a real man'. So what changed now that the table is turned?
Just give us your own definistion !
If you are missing threads about pvssy better start one so we all can contribute as long as the pvssy is clean and neat.

pickabeau1:
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2CatWoman:
This thread looks like its gone to the dogs but I shall comment anyway.

A real woman











Are you joking?

With all the useless 'wife material' threads everywhere?

No offence but please get your eyes tested

Just describe your own version of real woman leave all the dongo turenchi aside.

Tomfrench:
hahaaahaa!!! lawd!!! , the "odourless and disease free" got me rolling on the floor,

i mean, who the hell uses that as a yardstick!!

that's basic hygiene mehn

The odourless part is important oh! Hmnn no be every babe dey understand that one.

Naira land ladies are quick to shout slavery if you ask them to submit to the authority of their husband but they submit everyday to the authority of their bosses in the office! Many will go out of their way to please their bosses, a thing they can never do for their husbands. There is a growing satanic programme to derail the authority of men in the homes.
Submission has to be total or it is entirely useless.
Just like @ cougar said, do not marry any man you cannot bow to and submit to.

Ishilove:
You have seen different definitions of what a real woman is yet you are unsatisfied. Pray tell, what is your own definition?

A real woman is an odourless, disease free, loyal, intelligent, woman who worships the man in her life. She will never do anything to hurt her man, she is selfless, she kind, she is understanding and she is gainfully employed with her hands.
She truly has the fear of God, very submissive and finally she supports her man emotionally, financially, spiritually and physically.

Teespice:
tell me something I don't know. I was thinking that I gave a definition of a real woman..

Everybody ma know say Na sarcasm. But even at that you raised some good posers. Now sarcasm apart, who in your own definition is a real woman?

perry2020:
Taking care of a man is not until u bath him and feed him,thats why I put be accomodating,when ur accomodating you make him feel lively and welcome to be around you,u need a lot of patience also to live with a man,moral values to know what is good and what is not,how to cook,talk and respect ur man.knowing how to balance work and family also means u putting ur family first and not bringing work to home,or allow work affect ur family.being responsible and humble also means u should be submissive to ur man and atleast give him respect,being resourceful is supporting ur man,not leaving all the responsibilities to him alone.

U should look beyond words into their meanings rather than being quick to bash people who u conclude to be feminist. not all women are feminististically oriented.

Deep words. It is like you are describing yourself ?
Happy to know there are still good naira land babes that thinks like you.

Ishilove:
Me sef don dey suspect sey no be am. The guy is too fine and fresh to be dinachi

Walahi you wicked eh! So the dinachi that you have in mind should look like person wey life don tire ba?

cococandy:
You're asking me describe myself.
Well I'll humor you.

Sweet,smart, kind and generous. Patient and soft spoken but with a great aversion to BS (as you know.)
Very considerate of other people and very appreciative when they return the gesture.

What was the question again?
Yes a real woman. First her name has to be coco or she never start sef. Gerrit?

See as she come describe herself like one nice sweet holy Nweje somewhere. This Na person way dey fight with me wella everyday. You never talk true!

Ishilove:
You have seen different definitions of what a real woman is yet you are unsatisfied. Pray tell, what is your own definition?

I dey come.

cococandy:
My ribs

You try to run from trouble? That will be the day.

But you know I am saying the truth na.

teambuck2u:
Verily, verily, I say unto you. It would be a cold day in hell before you find an unattractive Family Section man

Words on marble! Heheheheheehehehe!

cococandy:
Maybe that's your brother the one that got the good genes.

It's not you. You're a certified trouble maker and that dude don't look like he likes trouble.

On the contrary I try as much as possible to run away from trouble here. I only attack in self defence.

firstEVA:
Dinachi, are you sure that your wife is not a feminist

How can?
My baby is an original African babe! No time for feminazi bullshit!

edwife:
dinachi is a fine man i must say and you have a lovely family.

@kimoni which of the gif you need?

Thanks my sis jare!

Kimoni:
Dinachi, is that you and ur cute family on your dp?

**faints**

Edwife, Coogar - pls come and teach me gifs now

I just can't reconcile the Dinachi on NL and the pic I saw. They can't be the same person ever. Pls explain.

I am a very blunt person. Looks can be deceptive. ( felas voice) I no be gentleman at all oh! I be African man original.

cococandy:
if that's Dinachi make I nekid for shower.

Chai this babe you wicked oh! Why you hate me like this Na?

Ishilove:
I know friendly banter when I see one, and what went down here was anything but friendly.

Some of those attacks are actually fun and makes the thread more lively. I don't want to feel I am descending into the holy of holies anytime I want to come to family section. Please don't kill the fun here.
Most of us are Africans and we are very resilient. I don't take any attack serious. It is just part of the online back and forth.

Ishilove:
Anyway, how can someone as handsome as you are be such a rabble rouser? (assuming that is you on your dp)

Na was for you oh why call me a rabble rouser? Now I have to ban you
Well looks can be deceitful. Apart from that I like saying it as it is. My approach is blunt. It always works for me. In Nigeria you have to be very aggressive. I prefer lions to lambs! Both have their use though. I like shocking first when in that state it is easier to pay attention.

cococandy:
Ishilove did you ban Dinachi?
He's not responding to the question he asked me.
Wonder what he's going to come back with
Dinachy?

So you want Ishilove to ban me e kwa? Dinachy is actually a nice substitute!

@ Ishilove. Wetin be this na? How you come carry ban cover the whole thread Na?
I suspect you are doing all this because your ladies are being magnificently whipped in this thread, no?

Please unban some so that this section does not begin to look like a concentration camp!
There is some king of excitement when we are slugging it out here quite happily. If you become too tight fisted some people may even become scared of throwing friendly banters here.

crackhaus:
A real woman is a feminist who believes patriarchy is evil and responsible for all that's wrong with the world, but still dreams endlessly of how an attractive stronger man would bend her over and fvck her deep in the azz.

cococandy:
Dinachi ask and you shall receive.

I have asked !

cococandy:
What's your definition of real woman? Once you know who your real woman is, you will be able to identify her and stick to her when you find her.

Okay. Every individual defines their own version of the concept? Does this also apply to the concept of who a real man is?

cococandy:
I could try to define a real woman and unconsciously follow characteristics that match my personality (or my perceived personality. Because humans tend to see themselves as better than they really are . Proven psychological fact. But I digress)

Wow! Making sense seriously....So women attempting to define a real man may actually be following characteristics that match their perceived personality.

cococandy:
can I tell you who a real man is, not really.

Feminists una don hear am? Stop trying to give us your universal view of who a real man is! There is no singular answer to that question.

cococandy:
The one answer you seek doesn't exist in general.

OK. Now give us your own cococandy view of who a real woman is. We are waiting!

Babygal4eva:
I'm saying a real woman cannot be defined using just one adjective, a real woman is a combination of different things put together to make an amazingly remarkably wonderful person.

Most of other ladies here believes that the concept is subjective(depends) on who is doing the asking. They said the meaning vary from person to person. That means each different person gets to define their own concept of who a real woman is. So we now get it down to the individual level.
What is your own personal definition of a real woman?