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Timbuktou:
How come your definition of a real woman doesn't include knowing how to take care of a man?

Good question!

This is totally unexpected and shocking to say the least that no woman can give a coherent answer of who a real woman is apart from a few wobbly halfhearted attempts from some ladies here

I am afraid it is becoming glaring that a real woman may not exist at all! Those who are quick to climb the rooftops and bleat from there about the qualities of a real man (feminists)are finding it extremely difficult to come up with the vaguest idea of the real woman concept.

bukatyne:
And you the 'adult' obviously is also seeking attention

@OP:

Depends on who is asking.

Why would it depend on who is asking?
Do you agree with victoriabee assertion that it depends on the man in the woman's life? I was shocked with that response. I expected a' robust' feminist point of view

Teespice:
I have no idea.

I only gave you what you wanted to hear.

But you actually raised some good points there like her being selfless and dedicated to her family and being a ho and pro in the bedroom,then again her maintaining a good shape. Those are excellent points and I assure you a lot of men would not object to those qualities at all!

Teespice:
Google did not give me a good answer.
that's why I asked for yours.

to your definition of a real woman.

for starters, she has to recognise that the world we live in is a patriarchal one

she should be seen and not heard

in fact when her husband cheats, instead of quitting her marriage she should work things out.

she has to cook, care for her household and not have a life of her own

when she gets her salary, she should doable for the hubby and give everything to him

after giving birth to the required number of children, she should still be sexy. if she does not, hubby will look outside and say she refused to take care na, she's not the woman I married.

she should be able too cook both international and local dishes since the road to a man's heart is through food.

in the bedroom, she should be a ho and a pro.

last but not the least, she should live her life pleasing a man.


I guess that's what you want to hear.

You actually raised some good points there! So by your own definition do you do all these things you enumerated? In other words by your own definition are you a real woman?

Babygal4eva:
a real woman cannot be defined nor put into one category

So are you saying that a real woman is subjective to her mans opinion of her worth or as you simply saying that a real woman cannot be described because they don't exist? Which one?

Teespice:
ermmm

what is the meaning of submissive?

because I have seen it countless times.

Google is your friend.

Babygal4eva:
A real woman is someone who knows her worth and doesn't seek validation from anyone, a real woman is a compliation of different characteristics, a real woman cannot be defined nor put into one category why? Because women are awesome and strong and annoying and proud and smart and talented and tiresome and stubborn and so many other things.

When you meet a real womanand you treat her right she will protect and love you to her last breath. My Mum is the realest woman I know. peace out

Wow! What of your Dad was he a 'real man'?

dangotesmummy:
Op meet the real woman you are looking for

That's not a real woman, that's a very dangerous woman over there. Date her at your peril!

Ishilove:
A real woman is... Mama Ishilove

Selfless

Intelligent

Hardworking

Loving

Determined

Prayerful




My mummy is a real woman!!!!!

I didn't see submissive in your list! What of you,are you not a real woman?

VictoriaBee:
What a feminist God that know who's a feminist or not.
Your spouse determines if you are a real woman and it's subjective not online asslickers.

So it is a man that determines who a real woman is?

VictoriaBee:
A real woman is subjective.

Waiting for bigoted anti-feminists to turn here into a women-hating thread.

Get cured from this your victim mentality! You know all you ladies pretending to be feminists are just plain jokers.

It is very simple.Who is a real woman? Give us an answer or keep sucking your thumb!

Timbuktou:
How come your definition of a real woman doesn't include knowing how to take care of a man?

Na the wahala be that. The qualities of a real man must include taking care of a lady but for a real woman taking care of her man is not so important abi?

Madamkilljoy:
In Cococandy's words:
You're so hung up on women's pu55ies.
You hardly type 3 posts without the third
referring to someone's puccie.
Today it's my puccie you're after.
Every other time, it is some nairaland ladies
puccie you're insulting or stylishly longing for
We know it feels good to get back in there but
man chill. Guy's so pained.
This is getting out of hand.

I guess you have a penchant for girls with stench. When you're done opening that mouth of yours which suffers from halitosis, endeavour to go back to the hole you came out from.

This is plain wickedness! You know you stink, yet you are determined make life difficult for all of us by being here with your odoriferous self. See as I dey dodge your mouth odour here as I type.
Simple question. Why do you stink so much? No convulsions please

Madamkilljoy:
without getting to know me first,.

Getting to know you? No way we are allowing that guy near you until after your visit to that Dr and Julius Berger!

perry2020:
A real woman is a strong,supportive,accommodating,humble,resourceful,intelligent lady,who knows how to balance all and multi task.

Hmnnn..making sense. So no reference to the man in her life?

firstEVA:
Since you've all said it's a man's world, what do you expect? You need to meet up to expectation and be a real man since y'all claim to run the world.

O boy see dodging!

osaslord500:
Dey are still yet to come.

How long are we to wait sir?
Every day this feminist chichidodos no go let person hear word. Real man this, real man that but when you ask for real woman everybody turns away and start scratching their heads!
Please who has seen a real woman? How can she be described?

I have to ask this question because everywhere you turn to, you see people huffing and puffing to describe who a real man is! But in all honesty I have not heard any body even make an attempt to describe a real woman. Abi Dem no dey?

A beg lalasticlala, Ishilove pls I think we need to park this keke at front page, make all man put mouth for this matter.
Cc Lalasticlala, Ishilove

Dahlia22:
You are a fool for this statement... it is worthless guys like u that goes around toying with people's emotions.

If ur heart isn't in a relationship, y go into it?

If u r already into it n u know in about few months it won't work out, y not back out amicably?

Y engage the lady n do introduction when u know deep down u r going to walk out on it?

Use ur simple sense before u vomit words from ur mouth.

The guy did very bad and he's going to experience a thousand fold of what he did to her.

Karma awaits him.

Which karma will that be? The karma that attended the wedding and even gave gifts to the couple! My friend stop living in a fools paradise. Your friend was not wife material and the guy did the needful and dumped the trash. BROKEN ENGAGEMENT IS BETTER THAN BROKEN MARRIAGE. Nothing will happen to the guy in question who am sure is enjoying his honeymoon somewhere with his beautiful wife while you are here trembling with hate and sharing your evil smell on this forum. Pls get off here, see as I am holding a handkerchief to my nose to be able to talk with you.

cococandy:
Yea I'd rather have two husbands than be another lady's wife.

The day polygamy becomes balanced and not detrimental or one party in the marriage, wake me up to chose.

US topmost homosexual promoter this coming from you is a little bit disappointing. I was expecting a very long and 'insightful' explanation on why we silly black Africans need to change our view and back homosexual marriage.
Bunch of retards!

Madamkilljoy:
You worthless piece of Poo! A total waste of s.p.e.r.m! You have the effrontery to purr this gibberish. Ediots like you who are suffering from low self esteem would look for gullible girls to attack. Your insults won't make me tremble or frightened. You think I'm as dirty as you, you f.i.l.t.h.y pig?! I won't waste words on you, your heinous stench won't make me drag myself into the mud with F.O.O.Ls like you. B.ig.o.t! Continue quoting me and ranting like a p.ig. C.o.ward!

The baboons who had the effrontery of excreting you out through their anus did the world a terrible evil.
A simple question I innocently asked. How can you be alive and you are carrying a rotten graveyard between your legs? Why are you trembling and shaking like someone suffering from aggravated convulsion because of that simple question? Guilty conscience no doubt!
Do your self and the world a favor go to a well known doctor warn him before hand to wear gloves and protective suit before treating your atrocious toilet infection that stinks to high heavens!
After that visit Julius Berger Company to fumigate the rainforest mangrove swamp between your legs.
Stop wasting your time on nairaland we all hand handkerchief s on our noses to be able to talk with you . You have caused enough harm, now go and do the need full!

FrancisTony:
Homosexual Marriage?
Dig out my post where I supported it.
Thanks
I believe in live and let live and it doesn't equate marriage.

If you believe in live and let live for homosexual marriage how is that different from what I just said.

masonkz:
Lol. Dude, I'm gay.. just for clarification. I'm actually happy with US's stance.

The US stance doesn't make it right still! In many countries and the Bible it is still wrong.

Logicalmind1:
Have you seen pro-gays or gays marching in support of gayism?

They can't because it is banned just like corruption is! That is why nobody marches for corruption.

FrancisTony:
I love marriage as ordained by God devoid of adulterous husband or wife - any other trash/form, is BULLSH1T and not marriage to me.

Last time I checked you were one of the most vocal supporters of homosexual marriage. I suppose that is also marriage ordained by God? Quit clowning!

Madamkilljoy:
You're the one in need of help, not me. Careful now, this girl isn't the 'I'll Always Beg You For Forgiveness For Sins You Committed' type. Besides, I think my Yansh is too big for your little tongue. I don't befriend a.s.s. lickers.

Sharrap there
I knew the foolish ones will come out here to show themselves! I can guarantee that you stink terrible under that supposed skirt. Go and treat your toilet infections before coming out here to show your trashy self. How can a grown woman allow the wedge between her legs to turn to a rotten graveyard. Are you addicted to evil stench?

masonkz:
Actually the woman knew he was gay before marrying him. He didn't want to marry her cos of this but then the woman thought he'd "change" after they get married. You can read up his story. They sure battled in court during their divorce.

Gay people can of course have sex with women, as any man can have an erection in the morning. But then there is just no emotional attachment nor attraction to the woman, and that's where the problem is.

This is why many gay men in Nigeria can get away with marrying women and having kids, but still have their boyfriends by the side. Can't blame them.

Bunkum! Why would his dick rise at the sight of a woman since he claims he is innately homosexual? You guys are a bunch of clowns!