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Nma27:
I bring out the talk in them. I can't date someone who doesn't light that spark in me o... Which one is 'k'

lol u ladies should know better about the k word na

A man should be willing to hear the bitter truth . I guess he couldn't handle it

marisdgreat:
I am more reserved than him just d relationship s kinda boring cos of non effective communication n d frequent quarrels due to d same temparament that we have I.e quick annoyance

so tell me. What would u advise him to do to make you more opened up to him and what he should stop doing


@ marisdgreat

sekxy:
so what is your advice to her..thanks

she should quit taking him for granted. She lacks respect for the relationship.. I advise if she really loves him then she should apologize for her behaviours

pocohantas:
#Be a partner they can talk to... a non communicative partner tends to open up if they feel at home with you. If they trust you, they'll talk to you without the fear of sounding stupid, or you using it against them. Some of these people are very introverted, low self esteemed due to how they were raised or just not on the same page with you.

#One problem I have with some guys is, once a lady doesn't talk science, politics, football...they conclude she is dull. We forget interest differs, if she isn't responding when you talk about the Confederation Cup...make her interested in it or find another topic. There has to be something that would make her type beyond "K".

#Explain to her that you're not one supernatural being capable of reading minds. You need her to talk, for you to know what's botheing her and how you both can be better.

#When she gets to talk, show interest. Don't make them look clueless. It might not be what you love talking about, but just try.

#Make out talk time. Set the right atmosphere, no distractions, be ready to listen, keep your gavel, robes and wig away...just listen, let them bare it all. When you eventually talk...be careful with your words, so you don't push them back into their hole.

thanks for this detailed explanation..

flamee:
@ dingbang hmm i will have to make him talk.



The way you reply to my comment, pls how do you do it?

lol.. Ok just click on quote...

And type your reply in the box provided and send

He will be sacked in 2019

sekxy:
I just need a solution to the post

he feels he is dating a liar and girl filled with deceit

flamee:
I can't date such guys, if you're wooing me and i later found out that you're the introvert type, I'm sorry it's a no no!

even if you really like him?

Benita27:
Lack of communication is one thing that kills relationships. In my opinion, if someone is as much inlove with you as you're with them he/she would always want to initiate a conversation either through call or chat.

The worst set of people to be in a relationship with are those who never call or initiate chat.

so you saying that irrespective of their quiet introverted nature, if the person really likes you, he or she will always communicate right?

I just don't understand... Your girlfriend? Are you lesbian?

marisdgreat:
Same with me but we will always end up annoying each other, calls is even d worst except when he s coming to see me cos we r not in d same state

who between you both is more reserved?

How do you revive someone (who is your partner and doesn't talk to much) in getting to be expressive about his/her thoughts and feelings.


I don't know if any of us have had that partner who is always mute, anytime you chat them up, their replies are just singular, you get to type lengthy texts and all they can ever come up with is K....

i don't know if you get me?

So this evening I want to ask my friends out here for their constructive comments on this matter.



As someone who doesn't talk too much, how do you advise your partner to get the best from you? What can u advise he or she to do to make you be more expressive?

Aderola15:
Cohabiting is quite different from dating.

To the topic: it's a total waste of time

seems you have had quite a lot of experience cohabiting

From kiss e go enter pregnancy

Tahrah:
Funny how broke guys will also comment on this topic.

how much do you have in your account?

Righteous people call it ferk...





Literate people call it fork

Nice upgrade.. I wonder why Nigerians don't appreciate good things

Then you two should brush at night ..

All these boiz sef...

He is not a Nigerian..

free2ryhme:
i have a feeling he is visit your household for the next kidnapping operations

be careful of ur statements bro.. Or you might end up in SARS prison. You will tell me why you want to kidnap me..

Boole3:
dunno sha..... I have interest in I.t but don't even have a lappy... love researching online... love reading Robert Greene's and sun tzu books... but everyone at home wants me to get a good degree... I've let them down and its eating me up

please dump ur school now and go into IT.. Once I get myself a new laptop I will dash u my current lappy I am using so u can use it to begin to learn programming.


I have been in ur shoes before.. I don't want u to make same mistakes I did

I just have a feeling Evans will be granted bail

No sane lady can walk up to a man who is a stranger saying she wants to follow him to his house to kiss him...

You might be inviting a spirit into your house...

Boole3:
without a degree?

yes na.. There are jobs dat you can apply with ur waec..

Boole3:
thought of that... but no capital to start

my dear apply for a job...

Change your boyfriend

Looking so ugly

My dear school is not for u. Opt out from it and start doing business.. You will have more money than first class graduate

A house divided against itself cannot stand....

Pride.