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Canada2021:
Bro i was really annoyed when she insulted me and thing be say she dey point finger for my face.

Girl wey you and she no get fight called you a fool because you asked her why she dey do yamayama. Just let her know that you need to talk and she snubs... well no p. just let her go and promise ya self that she's never coming back again not even as an olosho.

The answer to this ya question is yes and no. Things on this earth have its good and bad sides. You can hardly see any thing bad that no good side of it. We preach against premarital sex at the time but we still practice it. Some are doomed because of this and some are blessed because of it too. Its very possible the act itself is not bad(its like doing the right thing at the wrong time) and its equally possible that the acts itself is prone to attacks from wicked realm.

This your story heavy o.
I think you have offended ya husband or he didn't like you good when he wanted to wife u. Given the fact that he was upgraded after he got married to u shows you deserve better. If he could part 160k for the education of ya four years old daughter and claims he has no money then he is not being sincere here and somehow he doesn't care. And I'm sure he feels justified somehow which I can say has no candour. This case is like our government feeding fat on our common wealth and saying there is no money and gullible Nigerians will believe it. Its very possible you and your husband are not connected practically in the real of it. Probably a good sex will do and in the heat of it, you ask him some of those things you mentioned here and if he however reacts somehow to ya questions even in his weakest point then this problem has left the physical realm. We should be able to identify physical problems and differentiate them from spiritual problems.

the 32megapixel selfie camera na fake jare. they just use am sell market.

you will learn to manage her bads and enjoy her goods. if however her bads outweigh her goods then you can think twice. I wish you the best bro

Sambaby7640:
[b]Dude if you will listen to me.According to your words she is lonely and you are all she has got,as a friend and lover.....Now that is where the problem lies.....She does not want to lose you as she does not have another..... Losing you will make are feel miserable trust me and that is why she is all that clingy and nagging thinking by doing so you will be forced to spill the beans



The solution right now is to call her and tell her how much she means to you....also tell her you are not cheating as she feels and pls if possible help her get a job it is very important...infact,super important as the advantages are numerous....she will have less time one her hands to be disturbing you and following up on every of your steps....it will also help you guys financially.

In conclusion,she loves you a lot and you are probably all she has got as she is such a reserve person(very few friends and all)...Also you should try to help her get that Job really important,it will help a lot or you can at least for now get her new friends,take to places and you guys should enjoy life pls.(don't ask me how)

This person is right.
I think that girl has invested much so to her , you are her property waiting to be claimed by marriage. she feels okay to nag. she go tell herself 'sebi its my property, nobody should chide me'. I doubt if that girl can leave u.

Given that a lady's greatest wish is to be desired and her body her destiny, how do u win in this game? you win when you become married to ya dream guy. if you play hard to get because of what ubunja talked about here in nairaland, chances are your younger ones won't play hard to get. they (the younger ones) don't have time to take this life too serious. they know men own this world or they have been told so they dont have time playing hard to get when they remember their body dictates their destiny since time matures them fast and retires them fast. Even God said you will be ruled over. No matter what we read about ubunja miseducation, we still love our ladies perfect. Ubunja's teachings are meant only for the females players. its a win win thing for us guys. Well if u insist you want to play hard to get and rubbish marriage, well you will one day start paying for sex.

She might be right, though it sounds ridiculous. this ridiculous assertion may carry too much sense. if there is something true about it, there might be protocols to follow to make it work like magic as she said. it is not every nonsense that lacks sense.

how does this affect the common man? buhari bought his car 1b naira or 5,000,000, wetin common man go do? I shake my head for that person that came here to tell us buhari's car is 61m and u feel like he's an integrity man compared to his comtemporaries in another parts of the world.

if this is true then we should bear it cos we caused it.